STOP COURT ORDERED CHILD ABUSE
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Apr 12th, 2016Someone from Paradise, CA writes:
I am currently going through a custody case for my 3 month old son. I have a TRO, medical records proving the abuse, and still cannot believe what is happening. The abuser is getting 2 1/2 hour visitations 5 days a week. I am being accused of false allegations and have to go back to court in 3 months. I do not understand any of this!!! My infant son had inadequate weight gain while we were with the abuser. I filed for the TRO before I left. Two days later the abuser filed for emergency parental rights. This is insane how victims are being treated. -
Apr 12th, 2016Someone from Mount Vernon, NY writes:
My son came to me when I was visiting with him at his mother's house one week before Christmas and told me "He made me bleed". I'm still legally married but don't live with my wife. She has a boyfriend who abuses her. He choked her and almost killed her. From the police report to restraining order that still didn't keep him away. By my wife's choice she still let him around. After everything that happen she still let him come back around which allowed him continuously to abuse her. Eventually the abuse led to my four sons. My third son came to me and said "He made me bleed" I ask her why is he saying this what happen? She told me that she went to work and he was watching the kids. She said that my third son did something and so he told him to go in his room he didn't listen and kept coming out so her boyfriend threw my son in his room and cause him to hit his head on the corner of the bed. He left him to bleed on from his noes and mouth on my son's bed sheet. Then my second son told me his mother told him to stop crying and he wouldn't so she threw her phone at him striking him in his eye. I seen the mark it left and it was the same mark she told me he got from when she fail off his bed when he was jumping on it. I've been speaking to cps but nothing happened they're on her side. Her boyfriend abused her just a few weeks ago and her boyfriend mother abuse my son as well. How I know is because she put it in her own words on facebook. I never hurt my son's. When I left from her house I brought my fourth son with me. I put in a petition because I'm tried of my son's being abused by there mother and even worse, by the her boyfriend. She allows it. No matter what I say my voice isn't being heard. She lies and cps the court system all believe everything she says. I'm not doing anything wrong I just want my son's to be safe. They been in harms way for too long and me being there father I have to speak up for them because no one else will.REPORT COMMENTS
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Apr 11th, 2016Someone from Fargo, ND signed.
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Apr 9th, 2016Someone from Warwick, NY writes:
This is happening here in Orange County New York too! My heart goes out to all of you and the innocent children left in the wake. I stand with you in solidarity.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 8th, 2016Someone from Tijeras, NM writes:
This is happening in Bernallio County New Mexico. Please Do not punish a child or the Abused for standing in their truth! More questions were asked of the victims than the "aledged" abuser. CPS had teachers speak out as witness's, pictures of bruises, the childs statement, yet they dropped the case due to not having sufficient evidence. Come on! I understand wanting to prevent false allegations, but by dismissing the children, you ultimately reinforce the abusers mindset of being above the law and untouchable, and you teach the children that there isn't anything that anyone can do to protect them. Heart Breaking! You tell the abused to leave the abuser, so they do and is the. punished, and the children are punished. Don't ask the victim what took them so long to leave, ask the abuser what made them think it was even remotely ok to treat another human being the way they have!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 8th, 2016Someone from Sallisaw, OK writes:
This is happening in Bernallio County New Mexico. Please Do not punish a child or the Abused for standing in their truth! More questions were asked of the victims than the "aledged" abuser. CPS had teachers speak out as witness's, pictures of bruises, the childs statement, yet they dropped the case due to not having sufficient evidence. Come on! I understand wanting to prevent false allegations, but by dismissing the children, you ultimately reinforce the abusers mindset of being above the law and untouchable, and you teach the children that there isn't anything that anyone can do to protect them. Heart Breaking! You tell the abused to leave the abuser, so they do and is the. punished, and the children are punished. Don't ask the victim what took them so long to leave, ask the abuser what made them think it was even remotely ok to treat another human being the way they have!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 7th, 2016Someone from Bakersfield, CA writes:
Happening right now to my niece in kern county caREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 5th, 2016Someone from Menifee, CA signed.
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Apr 2nd, 2016Someone from Annandale, VA writes:
The CPS & Family court systems are horribly inadequate at protecting children and their protective parents. Who are we supposed to go to for help saving our children? Why are protective parents punished for doing what the law requires of them? Why are the child victims punished for bravely speaking out? This experience is one of every loving parent's worst nightmares... Imagine how horrifying & detrimental this is to the child victims. And we wonder why society is so sick? SAVE OUR BABIES STOP COURT ORDERED ABUSEREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 2nd, 2016Someone from Key West, FL writes:
The same thing is happening here in Key West, Florida!! Sadly, it looks as if this petition should be edited to cover all 50 states.... My son has been abused by his father (who is also a Dr which apparently makes him untouchable) since he was one year old, if not younger. We have 50/50 "timeshare" (worst thing I ever agreed to do in my life but was lied to and agreed to it). When my son was a toddler he would constantly come back to me with bruises and marks. I called DCF many times to no avail. He couldn't say where they were coming from so they didn't help. When he was a little older (3 & 4) and he could say where the marks were coming from they then said he was too young for his "allegations" to be credible. I even had one DCF worker tell me "unless he's getting burned by cigarettes there isn't much we can do and even then we would have to see it happen to go after someone". Soon enough the bruises weren't so often but I could tell he was still being abused, but he stopped saying where they came from and no longer said they came from his father. At 5 years old he had enough and actually spoke up. He was in Pre-K 4 at the time and the teacher was telling me that she could see something was going on. It was bittersweet to finally have someone besides myself see that my son was being abused. When he spoke up suddenly the teacher played stupid. Said "I don't want to get involved" and from there it just fell apart. I did everything I was supposed to do to protect my son. Restraining order, took him to the police department to make a report, talked to a detective, cooperated with DCF. When I was pulling up to the police department my son was so afraid. I told him that it was ok. They were going to help him so this didn't happen anymore. Not to be scared and to talk to them like he's telling a story and tell them what he told me. Long story short, DCF told me to not give him to his father until the investigation was completed. The abuser filed an emergency motion & the detective said that I coached my son. Based that on my son using the word "story" and lied in court as to what he (the detective) said the day I brought him in as far as the "story" thing went which totally changed into something else when on the stand. I was forced to give my son back to the very person who warned him to never tell. Fast forward to now. My son is 7 years old. Said for quite some time his father "doesn't hit me anymore" and then the nightmares started again (he had them right before the first time he told on the freak). I could tell things were happening by my sons behavior and the nightmares spoke for themselves. This past Monday he FINALLY spoke again. The bastard has been touching him and hitting him. Pushes him down and shoves him. Of course the scumbag rarely leaves any marks because he knows better. Here we are 6 years later and 2 years after my son told the first time. He's saying the same damn things he's always said which means I am saying the same things IREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 30th, 2016Someone from Cedar City, UT writes:
The same stories here apply to my life but my questions is what can we do to stop the freedom and power that the abusers are given and the on going victimization the victims go through to protect their children just to have the very children we are trying to save taken away from us and given to the abuser. These stories are endless and it is time to protect the victims and the children from these preditors.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 25th, 2016Someone from Chelmsford, MA writes:
I left my extremely abusive husband whom I have one son with. Our son was four at the time. My ex husband is not a US citizen and is from a country without a Hauge Convention. My son was listed on the list for abduction alert and not allowed to leave the country with his father. It came to pass that my ex lied to his family and told them that I agreed to allow my son to be a citizen of that country. He threatened me he was going to leave our son there to be raised by his own mother. He petitioned the court to demand I give him our son's passport and let him take him to that country. My son was only four at the time. I begged the court to wait until our son was old enough to understand and to be able to use a phone. The judge actually told the court "how wonderful a trip like that would be and how he would love to visit that country". The judge ignored everything else and the welfare and risk of the child. I was forced to take him off the abduction risk list and let him go to that country without any notice of where he was or when he was back in the US. Fortunately he did come back (although getting him back to me was a battle). My son was having bouts of self harming behavior, outbursts (found alone screaming in the pre-school bathroom), and night terrors. He continues now, at age 8, to have them plus can verbalize his feelings. He begs not to go with his father, has run away from him screaming to leave him alone at visit pick up, gets physically sick and is diagnosed with anxiety. The last attempt at any help with the court before I dropped all attempts for help was when my son's pediatrician, principle, and teachers wrote letters regarding the issues with our son. The judge did not read them at all. He allowed my ex to speak (who lied) and didn't allow me nor my lawyer to speak. The end result is the court gave my ex more empowerment to now harass, verbally abuse, threaten (from one to three times a week...for years and no end in sight), show up when it's not his time, keep me financially burdened (my ex gave my identity to a woman with a record of theft and drug abuse) , block attempts to get our son regular therapy, met with my parishes father to try to degrade me, yet does not show up for anything important that has to do with our son. The court has given him the right to abuse our son. He has literally belittled and gas lit our son in front of me at pick up. He just literally held my son by his jacket after my son was crying he didn't want to go with him and pointed to me and told my son never to be like me. This is not new. I've followed the advice that you don't bad mouth your ex to your child, yet my ex can do that? My ex knows he can get away with just about anything at this point and he is destroying our son. He has control over me and I can't get out. Why does the system encourage women to get out of abusive relationships and if they don't, they are bad mothers yet then tell them after they leaveREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 24th, 2016Someone from Kingsport, TN writes:
My 14yr old son came to me one day about 3 months ago and told me he didnt want to live or see his mom again. He proceded to tell me about the constant daily emtional and mental abuse. As he became increasingly aware of here games he became more defiant. My sons moms credibility had deteriorated to a point she started to turn physical in order to make him submit to her. The last night he was there she jumped on his back and started to choke him, in which he almost lost Conciousness. He broke the choke hold and ran to another room to call for help... With all this being said, my Lawyer continues to urge my son to go back over there!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 24th, 2016Someone from Kingsport, TN writes:
My 14yr old son came to me one day about 3 months ago and told me he didnt want to live or see his mom again. He proceded to tell me about the constant daily emtional and mental abuse. As he became increasingly aware of here games he became more defiant. My sons moms credibility had deteriorated to a point she started to turn physical in order to make him submit to her. The last night he was there she jumped on his back and started to choke him, in which he almost lost Conciousness. He broke the choke hold and ran to another room to call for help... With all this being said, my Lawyer continues to urge my son to go back over there!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 23rd, 2016Someone from Alabaster, AL writes:
My daughter finally ended an 10 yr abusive marriage when her ex began abusing their oldest son. Her attorney did nothing to protect the 3 children and was planning on agreeing to joint custody so she reconciled with her ex only to endure further abuse. After hiring another attorney and 2 yrs later we are still fighting in court for supervised visitation to stay in place. This man is a habitual drug and alcohol abuser of 12 yrs. he have physically and emotionally abused my daughter in front of the kids. He filed for and received disability from the military citing black out anger where he blacks out.. Commits violent acts then has to rely on other to tell him what he did. He also admitted in va records that he has dreams of taking out his wife and kids. YET, the court appointed guardian is suggesting unsupervised visits. Kids are 8,6 and 4. What is wrong with this system. Why are our kids so invaluable. I was told that I need them to be injured and admitted to the ER before the children's court appointed guardian would consider continued supervision. Oh did I mention the father also planned to trade the kids sexually for drugs in 2013! Yes this man needs to have unsupervised access to his kids. God help this nation if people don't wake up and stand up for what is right. No kids should have to suffer broken bones or sexual assault before we act. What has happened to human decency? Less than 50 yrs ago, a few local "good men" would have handled this situation. But now everyone is so afraid of offending somebody that no one reacts. Everyone looks the other way until it is too late. It is sickening!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 21st, 2016Someone from Magalia, CA writes:
If anyone reads this, my son needs help, he is being accused of alienation tho mom abused kids, now childrens attorney threatenng custody change and he has had them since they were babies,ages 10&17, been at it for 5 years!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 21st, 2016Someone from Magalia, CA writes:
If anyone reads this, my son needs help, he is being accused of alienation tho mom abused kids, now childrens attorney threatenng custody change and he has had them since they were babies,ages 10&17, been at it for 5 years!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 21st, 2016Someone from Magalia, CA writes:
If anyone reads this, my son needs help, he is being accused of alienation tho mom abused kids, now childrens attorney threatenng custody change and he has had them since they were babies,ages 10&17, been at it for 5 years!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 21st, 2016Someone from Magalia, CA writes:
If anyone reads this, my son needs help, he is being accused of alienation tho mom abused kids, now childrens attorney threatenng custody change and he has had them since they were babies,ages 10&17, been at it for 5 years!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 20th, 2016Someone from Nashua, NH writes:
Over 4000 comments and no one is willing to stop this judicial abuse, fraud, extortion? They are criminals. Judge Introcaso Nashua NH and her side kick retired Marital Master Love need to be indicted, prosecuted and sent to jail for stealing children from their loving protective mother who finally left her abuser. They placed my youngest son with a known pedophile and a man with founded dcyf abuse for breaking my older sons jaw. They allowed him to steal close to a million dollars over the twenty year marriage and commit irs tax fraud. My story is so horrific and heartbreaking. Listen to us parents. Please take our concerns to Obama for immediate action and an order to indict every judge who have violated a parents right to love their children Make these judges pay back every bit of money stolen from us . Make them return our children! How many of these do you need to receive before you act and take seriously what's happening in family courts in every state. This must stop and now Our children are suffering and are forever damaged They are not safe with these abusers Don't turn away and pretend you don't know... You do know bc all of us parents have told you This is the United States? We allow this???REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 20th, 2016Someone from Hartland, WI writes:
I am currently back in a legal custody battle after being divorced for 5 years. My daughter and son had many signs of sexual abuse which is why I got them in therapy before my daughter even came to me about what happened to her. She told me, after her teacher at school was concerned and she showed me what her father did to her. She was 5 then... we have been in court now for 2 years. My son then also says it happened to him but wouldn't give details. Their father was charged after all the madness and interviews, jail for 3 days and then out. There wasn't enough evidence to prosecute fully so he entered into a deferred prosecution agreement for 1 full year, no contact at all with the kids or myself. Which was great. Through that time, his own cousin came forth saying that he molested her as well when she was younger and he was a legal minor. Since it was "out of statue of limitations" no charges were pressed otherwise he would be in prison. So after a year of him behaving and not having any contact with us, he got dismissed of all charges fully, then onto family court we went to modify custody and placement to protect these kids. Now his entire family is loaded with money and there have been some very concerning twists and turns, which leads me to believe that the GAL has most definitely been handed a pretty penny to suddenly turn the tables to the abusers favor, because all of a sudden after seeing much correspondence with his family he decided to even tell me that he believes "as a father himself, that those kids deserve to be with him even after all of this". giving my kids supervised visits which I am thankful that they are still safe but my daughter especially wants nothing to do with him, yet they forced us into family reunification therapy, forcing her to see him. To force a victim onto their abuser is just plain wrong, and as a mother, I have to just allow this to happen. This is what these kids have to live with the rest of their lives. I have done nothing but try to support them through this and preserve and restore whatever is left of their psyche. The meltdowns, panic attacks, sleepless nights, and separation anxiety these kids have in on another level yet they still force this. Now they are allowing my son to have unsupervised visits which is absurd. I do not care if he was not convicted, that does not disregard that my daughter and most likely my son have been sexually abused as well as my ex husbands own cousin. He was sexually abusive to me but God forbid that has any weight here as he and his family say I coached my daughter to say all these things, yet she came out and told more details to the forensics psychologist who worked with her than she even told me. And how does protecting your kid after they show and tell you what happened to them scream parental alienation? Who in their right mind would want someone like that to be part of innocent children's lives? Pure insanity. If a parent doesn't care they are neglectfREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 20th, 2016Someone from Biddeford, ME writes:
When will the public be able get to these judges who take bribes and make our kids suffer if anyone took the time to watch Divorce Corp on netflix it would open some eyes for people who have to go through the family law system.. its time we wake up and stop the judges from getting their kickbacks while out kids get abuse HOW DARE these judges get away with what they do..They should be more then just one judge in a family trial.. So At least one judge could possibly be honest i think if more watched netflix or just one or two clips from youtube or the entire show on netflix you can see how corrupt these judges and lawyers are we need to stop treating our kids like pieces of meat that are just Pawns when they are our future.. Take the time and watch the show if you can't watch the show watch a few of these clips ..GET THESE CROOKED JUDGES OUT OF OUR COURTROOMSREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 20th, 2016Someone from Biddeford, ME writes:
I was married to this women who i met who i think just saw a big paycheck and a new car and thought she better work on me before some one with a heart grabbed me..She even chased me down asked me to marry her all kinds of warning signs nor i feel like and idiot we were married in 1988 i was 25 she was 21 in 1989 we had a daughter that we even talked about come to find out she told me her mother put her and her teenage sisters sisters on birth control just because there was a rapist at town ..So come to find out when my x wife was about 14 she was already on birth control pills ..So come to find out after a year that we were married ..Instead of asking me she decided to get pregnant..I wasn't to thrilled at the time i wasn't ready for kids..I wanted to wait until we had at least our own home..but when my daughter was born it did change my whole life all the parties and drinking stopped right on a dime and i was a very proud father or a beautiful baby girl But it somewhat changed my life plains because of the job i had i started to have major spine problems in my back but after a child and wife i felt there was not much i could really do i was making about 17 dollars an hr with full good benefits something that was as rare now as it was in the late 80s i wanted a home of my own..But even with the checks i made then all my friends had new cars and really decent homes ..I had a 1978 pick up and the same car i had when i met my x wife ..And the most we could afford was a 1972 trailer..But after my back and neck had gotten so bad from multiple injuries from working in a 30 below freezer i did it for about 15 years go and work q few month have an injury that would lay me up for at least 2-3 weeks to lift my head some one would have to lift my neck or painfully roll off the couch just to go to the bathroom plus i couldn't even walk in a store but my x never realized the pain i was in as much i dont think she really knew what i went through i'm now 53 with med if im lucky if i have 1-2 good months a year where i feel normal enough to do things that normal people do..But after my surgery in 1998 i tried. to work but had to leave.. i couldn't stand to even walk on the cement it really affected me both physically and mentally..At the time i was on workers comp my ex and me had finally started to get along a little better i guess like all marriages do we all have ups and downs and just have to get used to each other.?But my ex worked real hard because of my injuries she knew i would get a good size settlement..I ended up settling out of court for 150.0000 And like her i wanted to put it into a house and school for my daughter who was then turning 10 years old..we looked at a few house but at the time we were in the boom so you couldn't then get much of a home for 150K But when we stopped at a yard sale we found a house that was rotting out and was 74.0000 dollars as soon as the check arrived she was running to the banks some how got it cashed with out payingREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 18th, 2016Someone from Montgomery, TX writes:
My niece, Rylee Ferguson, was ripped from her mother's arms, and taken back to her sexual, emotional, physical, and psychological abuser, her father, by law enforcement. My sister and mother were taken to jail. Then, my niece was forced to live the next year with no contact from her mother, whom she loves more than life, because the untrained, heartless, biased players in family court and the local DA's office pretended to believe my sister was coaching my niece. Now, after being denied a hearing on a protective order and forced into a mediated settlement agreement through threats of reopening her criminal case of child interference, and termination of her parental rights, my sister will "step up" to around 10 nights per month with my niece, in a few months. What more does a child want than the love and closeness of their mother? What more does a child need? Nothing less. I can't say my sister didn't fight, and isn't still- but only a fool would claim it has mattered. My niece's pain is blatantly obvious to everyone that loves her, yet she is surrounded by those choosing to celebrate her loss as they protect her father from exposure. My niece is living in hell here in the good ole U.S.A.! Children's rights don't exist and a mother be dammed if you try to get your abused child the protection they have literally begged you to provide. The abusive parent, who was absent until obtaining total control, becomes the hero and the child is left to ruin in confusion and fear. Attorneys abound that profit off of protective mother's, telling you lies that you know don't make sense but that you are forced to believe out of fear of making the hell your child is living "worse." If I knew then what I know now- I would not know what else to do or do differently. I pray my niece gets the protection she deserves before she suffers any longer. I can't imagine her pain. The "child's best interest" is a slap in the face of the child's best advocate- the child's mother- in Texas- and a miserable failure for a child doomed to their jurisdiction.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 17th, 2016Someone from Clearlake, CA writes:
There is NO SUCH THING as BEST interest in the children in the state of California!!! My ex husband is and still continues to abuse me and our two kids with the court system!! Not to mention he stole a baby he shared from another woman from florida but because of stupid laws he was able to run and hide with that child then granted jurisdiction for her!!! That poor mother in florida... Now he is after our two kids AGAIN!! I have exhausted every avenue trying to protect us!! Restraining order.. You name it!! We moved out of California and he went and filed for sole custody and was GRANTED IT!! Im so tired of fighting the system in that county!! He wont stop! Nobody cares.. Im more than likely going to jail trying to protect my kids from his madness!!REPORT COMMENTS
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Mar 12th, 2016Someone from Salinas, CA writes:
My daughter has been taking care of our beautiful grandson with our help. The father is a psychopath and a pathological liar. She went in to set a date for mediation and the court ordered 3 one hour visits and the next week, 2 hour visits where my daughter has to sit on a porch and is not allowed to attend to my grandson's needs or else it is labeled "interference." No information was examined, and a Commissioner listened to the unethical lawyer who stated she had "interfered" with visits. My grandson is only 5i/2 months old. He nurses on demand and the judge/commissioner said he did not have to eat in the 2 hour visitation time. Keep in mind, the court date went from setting a mediation date to claiming the dead beat dad was being denied visitation which was untrue. The father lives across the street and is dangerous. Any ideas? Lynne H.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 11th, 2016Someone from Culver City, CA writes:
My kids are Victims of sexual abuse by my husband. My then 3 year old was the one that came to me after a weekend at dads house. He told me that daddy was playing games and was scared (not normal three year old games. This was nothing a 3 year old has knowledge of). This game was a crime it was full on sexual molestation by his father. I then went to my daughter (13 years old) I asked her if her step father had ever made her feel uncomfortable or touched her in any way? I did let her know what her brother was saying. She ended up telling me what She had gone through for years of her childhood. She confessed to years of rape, sodamy, and a list of horrible sexual acts her step father made her do over the course of about 5 years. This was unimaginable I was in shock! I had no idea! We went to the police right away. We had Detectives on the case. Once the perpetrator/ my husband gained knowledge the detectives where looking for him for sexual acts on a minor, he ran for days. The DA rejected the case pending further evidence. Seeing as my son was too young. And the last sexual act My daughter went through was 2 years prior to the disclosure. Their was "lack of evidence". He did three days in jail. During the year they have been evaluated by a therapist weekly who specializes in sexual abuse. She has made numerous reports and believes both my children have been sexually abused by this man. My kids have been consistent, I have been told numerous times by everyone that interviews them. I am also told by professionals how is he not in jail? Numerous reports have been made by mandated reporters such as the children's therapist, a Doctor, a registered nurse, a hospital social worker, All mandated reporters reported to Dcfs. My son is the one in danger of falling into the hands of a pedophile father (Who was also sexually abused as a child by a male and female family member). Is this what we want? Pedophiles walking Around hurting our children? Leaving a child with a father that molested him at the age of three? Continue a cycle of incest and create more pedophiles? Do we just let our already hurt children back into the hands of a sexual perpetrator? Is this in a child's best interest?! My fight has been long and taken so much out of me, however those are my kids and I HAVE HOPE THAT THE LAW WILL DO THEM RIGHT EVENTUALLY! I cannot get the DA to listen to me and see the new findings that has taken a year to collect. The DA rejected the case two weeks after my kids had came forward. It was stated pending further evidence! How can I show this years findings to a DA who will not listen? I'm now accused of parent alienation and making this up. It's been a nightmare! It is to say the least extremely difficult, scary, devastating, and unfair situation. THIS MAN HAS COMMITTED SERIOUS SEXUAL CRIMES ON CHILDREN, AND HE DOES NOT GET A JURY TRIAL?! HE WALKS FREE AND THE CRIMINAL CASE IS IGREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 11th, 2016Someone from Hart, MI writes:
My daughter was 3 years old when she started showing signs of sexual abuse. She verbalized to me things her father had done to her in the tub. My daughter is now 4 years old, she has PTSD and has been forced to see her father through supervised visitations through the court order. She goes to a psychotherapist weekly. There has been 6 CPS reports against him. He refused to cooperate with the State Police and take a polygraph test. He was very abuse to me as well. There is so much injustice in the court systems across America. We live in Michigan. If it wasn't for me fighting for her then she would be back over there. They say she is safe because she is supervised; physically yes, emotionally no she is not. I wish they could see what they are doing to these children. I have court coming up yet again, unfortunately they say she is too young to testify and go after prosecution. He has verbally, physically, and sexually abuse her. She HAS told authorities during forensic interviews, counselors, teachers, daycare providers, but most of all me her Mother. It is the worst feeling in the world to know your daughter is suffering and there is not a thing you can do about it. I wish there was. As soon as this is over I want to bring this to the news.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMar 9th, 2016Someone from Pewaukee, WI writes:
my father was verbally, mentally and physically abusive to me, my two younger sisters and my mother. Now after the divorce things are getting better for us but my younger sister has a court order to see him. Once an abuser always an abuser.REPORT COMMENTS
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