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UNFAIR CHILDSUPPORT LAWS FOR FATHERS

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  • Sep 1st, 2016
    Someone from Stedman, NC writes:
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    Child support is crazy I am paying 900 a month for 2 kids and that is fair guys go into court paying 300 a month for 2 and 3 kids I can't afford that
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  • Aug 30th, 2016
    Someone from Radcliff, KY writes:
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    My ex has made up lies that i have to prove I'm innocent yet in the middle of all her lies i have to fight an 800 a month child support case and atill can't see my daughter, she continues to lie and the courts eat it up. Two vacations a year while i struggle to eat. They talk about deadbeat dad what about these lying women.
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  • Aug 28th, 2016
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  • Aug 24th, 2016
    Someone from Corning, CA writes:
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    I am a mother and I am outraged at the amount the Courts and judge awarded me in child support from my ex! Why would anyone think that a child doesn't needs that much money to survive my support to my child $200 a month for child who lives with me. My ex's amount to pay to me 1,000 ridiculous! I'm not asking for him to pay my Bill's and support my future children.
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  • Aug 23rd, 2016
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  • Aug 22nd, 2016
    Someone from New Orleans, LA writes:
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    My son's mother is playing the government HARD! She was getting non-court ordered child support from me, on top of getting social security checks for my son, and working for an accountant while getting paid under the table. And I'm the unfit parent.
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  • Aug 21st, 2016
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  • Aug 20th, 2016
    Someone from Glen Rose, TX writes:
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    Tired of seeing my son sink further down because of his ex wife wanting all that she can get out of him! He lost 50 pounds and lost his car! Laid off in oilfield but she doesn't care ! Her dad is a millionaire and she makes a good income but my son is financially struggling and I am too from helping him! Very unfair! Things need to change!
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  • Aug 18th, 2016
    Someone from Spring Valley, CA writes:
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    In cases where the woman knows the alleged fathers stance on having a child with her or not, she should be solely responsible for all future debts incurred or not so long as it is within a specific time frame. If a man is to be forced to pay for something that he absolutely communicated that he did not want any part of, at the very least show him where his money is going. Child support should be very limited in scope as far as what is covered and if the woman can't provide for the child, then she should be forced to give the man full custody. There are fathers that will raise their children and require nothing of the woman, so why the unfair treatment when it comes to men and child support?
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  • Aug 17th, 2016
    Someone from Apopka, FL writes:
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    Drop my child support cases! I should not have to pay when I am denied visitation for no reason! The mothers of my two daughters denied me visitation by simply telling the courts that they did not want to allow visitation and they had no reason to deny me visitation, other than they were afraid my daughters would have left them to be with me and they didn't want to lose that child support money to buy things for themselves, like getting their nails done, etc! Being that the courts treat the mothers like they are queens and agreed to deny visitation for no reason whatsoever, then I don\'t want to pay! I am also only a student right now until I can obtain a career, because of a worthless economy and $386 a month is too much to pay in child support while getting very little money in school loans that I should not be paying you with at all! I also think that if men do not have a job or are not allowed visitation for no reason, that they should not have to pay at all! Not everyone has rich families to bum off of to pay child support and your stupid programs to help fathers find a job while they are jailed don't do anything being that the economy is corrupt and poor! I became sick and tired of not ever seeing my daughters long ago and now I am telling myself that I do not have daughters, because I have not seen them since they were babies, they are now in their teens, I missed out on being a father and all I ever do is pay to spend time with the air! I am also sick and tired of being stuck in an RV at a shitty concentration camp style inland campground all of the time, because I can not afford to go places and have fun and also can not afford to move to a better RV place on the beach until I have my career and can buy a house because of child support! I am not one of your livestock to keep pinned up for you to use to allow women to live the lifestyles of the rich and famous just because they gave birth! I also have been going through changes since a few years ago and I am now a mtf transgender and don't need this annoying stress in my life anymore and the mothers have plenty of money, because their family members have plenty of money and the mothers even have new boyfriends that are being the father! I have been having to have a friend help me with child support off and on also, because the amount you charge me is too much and I cant even afford to support myself like other students at my university can and it is embarrassing! Drop my child support cases, or I will use my Space Studies knowledge to have them dropped and I will sue you on top of it! I don't want to pay these high school dropout loser women child support anymore! I will never have kids again and thank god I am no longer a man, for men indeed are used and disrespected extremely by women and our government!
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  • Aug 17th, 2016
    Someone from Apopka, FL writes:
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    Drop my child support cases! I should not have to pay when I am denied visitation for no reason! The mothers of my two daughters denied me visitation by simply telling the courts that they did not want to allow visitation and they had no reason to deny me visitation, other than they were afraid my daughters would have left them to be with me and they didn't want to lose that child support money to buy things for themselves, like getting their nails done, etc! Being that the courts treat the mothers like they are queens and agreed to deny visitation for no reason whatsoever, then I don\'t want to pay! I am also only a student right now until I can obtain a career, because of a worthless economy and $386 a month is too much to pay in child support while getting very little money in school loans that I should not be paying you with at all! I also think that if men do not have a job or are not allowed visitation for no reason, that they should not have to pay at all! Not everyone has rich families to bum off of to pay child support and your stupid programs to help fathers find a job while they are jailed don't do anything being that the economy is corrupt and poor! I became sick and tired of not ever seeing my daughters long ago and now I am telling myself that I do not have daughters, because I have not seen them since they were babies, they are now in their teens, I missed out on being a father and all I ever do is pay to spend time with the air! I am also sick and tired of being stuck in an RV at a shitty concentration camp style inland campground all of the time, because I can not afford to go places and have fun and also can not afford to move to a better RV place on the beach until I have my career and can buy a house because of child support! I am not one of your livestock to keep pinned up for you to use to allow women to live the lifestyles of the rich and famous just because they gave birth! I also have been going through changes since a few years ago and I am now a mtf transgender and don't need this annoying stress in my life anymore and the mothers have plenty of money, because their family members have plenty of money and the mothers even have new boyfriends that are being the father! I have been having to have a friend help me with child support off and on also, because the amount you charge me is too much and I cant even afford to support myself like other students at my university can and it is embarrassing! Drop my child support cases, or I will use my Space Studies knowledge to have them dropped and I will sue you on top of it! I don't want to pay these high school dropout loser women child support anymore! I will never have kids again and thank god I am no longer a man, for men indeed are used and disrespected extremely by women and our government!
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  • Aug 17th, 2016
    Someone from Apopka, FL writes:
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    Please drop my child support cases! I should not have to pay when I am denied visitation for no reason! The mothers of my two daughters denied me visitation by simply telling the courts that they did not want to allow visitation and they had no reason to deny me visitation, other than they were afraid my daughters would have left them to be with me and they didn't want to lose that child support money to buy things for themselves, like getting their nails done, etc! Being that the courts treat the mothers like they are queens and agreed to deny visitation for no reason whatsoever, then I don't want to pay! I am also only a student right now until I can obtain a career, because of a worthless economy and $386 a month is too much to pay in child support while getting very little money in school loans that I should not be paying you with at all! I also think that if men do not have a job or are not allowed visitation for no reason, that they should not have to pay at all! Not everyone has rich families to bum off of to pay child support and your stupid programs to help fathers find a job while they are jailed don't do anything being that the economy is corrupt and poor! I became sick and tired of not ever seeing my daughters long ago and now I am telling myself that I do not have daughters, because I have not seen them since they were babies, they are now in their teens, I missed out on being a father and all I ever do is pay to spend time with the air! I am also sick and tired of being stuck in an RV at a shitty concentration camp style inland campground all of the time, because I can not afford to go places and have fun and also can not afford to move to a better RV place on the beach until I have my career and can buy a house because of child support! I am not one of your livestock to keep pinned up for you to use to allow women to live the lifestyles of the rich and famous just because they gave birth! I also have been going through changes since a few years ago and I am now a mtf transgender and don't need this annoying stress in my life anymore and the mothers have plenty of money, because their family members have plenty of money and the mothers even have new boyfriends that are being the father! I have been having to have a friend help me with child support off and on also, because the amount you charge me is too much and I cant even afford to support myself like other students at my university can and it is embarrassing! Drop my child support cases, or I will use my Space Studies knowledge to have them dropped and I will sue you on top of it! I don't want to pay these high school dropout loser women child support anymore! I will never have kids again and thank god I am no longer a man, for men indeed are used and******on extremely by women and our government!
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  • Aug 17th, 2016
    Someone from Apopka, FL writes:
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    Please close out my child support cases! I should not have to pay when I am denied visitation for no reason! The mothers of my two daughters denied me visitation by simply telling the courts that they did not want to allow visitation and they have no reason to deny me visitation other than they are afraid my daughters will leave them to be with me and they don't want to lose that child support money to buy things for themselves, like getting their nails done, etc! Being that the courts treat the mothers like they are a queens and agreed to deny visitation for no reason whatsoever, then I don't want to pay! I am also only a student right now until I can obtain a career because of a worthless economy and $386 a month is too much to pay in child support while getting very little money in school loans that I should not be paying you with at all! I also think that if men do not have a job, they should not have to pay at all! Not everyone has rich families to bum off of to pay child support and your stupid programs to help fathers find a job while they are jailed don't do******being that the economy is ****ed in the*****and poor! I'm sick and tired of not ever seeing my daughters and now I am going to tell myself that I do not have daughters, because I have not seen them since they were babies, they are now in their teens, I missed out on being a father and all I ever do is pay to spend time with the air! I am also sick and tired of being stuck in an RV at a shitty concentration camp style inland campground all of the time because I can not afford to go places and have fun and also move to a better RV place on the beach until I have my career and can buy a house! I am not one of your livestock to keep pinned up for you to use to allow women to life the lifestyles of the rich and famous just because they gave birth! I also have been going through changes since a few years ago and I am now a mtf transgender and don't need this ******** stress in my life anymore and the mothers have plenty of money because their family members have more money and the mothers even have new boyfriends that are begin the father! ! I have been having to have a friend help me with child support off and on also, because the amount you charge me is too much and I cant even afford to support myself like other students at my university that can and it is embarrassing! Close my child support cases or I will use my Space Studies knowledge to have them dropped an I will sue you on top of it! I don't want to pay these high school dropout loser women child support anymore and I am not the father anymore either! You happy now congress? Give yourself a pat on the back for juicy karma that is now coming your way for the inhumane things you are doing to fathers! Now drop my child support cases or face my wrath!
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  • Aug 16th, 2016
    Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
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    The ny child support law give women a reason to sit home and not work.i have joint physical and joint legal custody of my son so we both have him like 3 and a half days per week so to me we should both have to support him however in ny that don't matter when it comes to support since I have a job and work my*****off to support my house I have to support her home as well while she sits home and lives off me ny needs to do something in this area it's totally unfair m
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  • Aug 16th, 2016
    Someone from West Point, MS writes:
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    I feel it straight robbery how child support have the non-custodial parent paying 65% in up out of their earnings and I still have two of my kids that I pay child support for and they still have me on 65% they need to start investigating the females just as well as the males total kids of -6 I have to in college and everyone else is in school I have two in my possession at all times but I still pay 65% not from one job you pull from two jobs so if that's not robbery then you give me your definition
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  • Aug 16th, 2016
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  • Aug 15th, 2016
    Someone from Boca Raton, FL writes:
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    I have a question to my Non Custodial parents. Do you think their should be a child support debit card that your payments go on and it's use for the child or children and you get to see all transactions?
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  • Aug 15th, 2016
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  • Aug 15th, 2016
    Someone from Kokomo, IN writes:
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    Mother dictates visitation as she sees fit.
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  • Aug 14th, 2016
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  • Aug 11th, 2016
    Someone from Grand Rapids, MI writes:
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    Tired of seeing women get child support, sit on their backsides, use the money only on themselves, and their children get little benefit from it. There must be changes to the CS system that forces accountability to the person "who is supposed to be using that money to support the needs of the children"---rarely happens that the CP uses the money for their child(ren) and everybody knows it.
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  • Aug 11th, 2016
    Someone from Grand Rapids, MI writes:
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    Tired of seeing women get child support, sit on their backsides, use the money only on themselves, and their children get little benefit from it. There must be changes to the CS system that forces accountability to the person "who is supposed to be using that money to support the needs of the children"---rarely happens that the CP uses the money for their child(ren) and everybody knows it.
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  • Aug 11th, 2016
    Someone from Covington, GA writes:
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    Child support laws have to change. I support my child financial, mentally, and physically. I think it's unfair for child support can force you to sign a paper stating they can put your license up for suspension without notice for not making your monthly payment in full. Then you get a letter from Department of Driver services stating your license about to be suspended. You contact the child support office and they want you to pay a minimum of 3 months of payments which is $1500 for me. Mind you that I drive for a living so I need my Drivers license. Within the past year my license has been suspended 5 times. And the way the Economy has been it's been rough, everything this happens it's a setback for me.
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  • Aug 10th, 2016
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  • Aug 6th, 2016
    Someone from Brick, NJ writes:
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    I don't think that it is fair that I wasn't allowed to represent myself in a court room. My wages have been garnished without even a letter of explanation or breakdown. I tried calling the government offices but I keep getting the run around. They are taking 1/3 of my net pay and forcing me to pay for all the extras. The only thing they are doing is destroying the relationship I could possibly have with my kid.
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  • Aug 6th, 2016
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  • Aug 5th, 2016
    Someone from Eufaula, OK writes:
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    Child support laws as well as child custody law's have to change, I've seen and read hundreds of heart felt stories how the father is court ordered to pay and see his child less only on the fact of divorce or separation, not that he's a criminal but treated as such. In our case, my husband has faithfully paid his ex wife a large amount of child support for year's, however, he lost his job and took a lower paying job so he could work closer to home. Shortly after, he had a heart attack. Lost his job and now applying for disability. His ex wife, however, can care less. She's determine to get more money and has kept him in court for 2 year's attempting to re set child support. She can say and do anything, some things are proven false, however she gets away with ALL she does, my husband is forced to walk a line. It's incredibly unfair.
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  • Aug 5th, 2016
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  • Aug 2nd, 2016
    Someone from East Liverpool, OH writes:
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    I am a mother that receives child support and I believe that it unfair how any parent that pays is left with nothing. I myself believe if the other parent does not pay due to unemployment reasons they should not get there driving privileges taken.... If you can't drive how are you suppose to be a provider.... I think that a parent should have the right to be a provider by buying the needs of the child and having proof, and or the parent receiving the support show proof of how the income was used and if it is not being used towards the children, the amount being paid slowly is lowered. I see so many people in the town I live in using the money to party and be a junky parent and children going without. I think of they are going to be so stricked with child support that the other parent as well should be punished in the courts if the income is not being used towards children needs.
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  • Aug 2nd, 2016
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