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UNFAIR CHILDSUPPORT LAWS FOR FATHERS

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  • Mar 17th, 2016
    Someone from Fairfield, PA signed.
  • Mar 16th, 2016
    Someone from Fort Wayne, IN writes:
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    I am a nurse that works in a trauma center where I take care of dying people everyday. I take the same pride and energy in caring for my children. After 80 hours in 2 weeks, I bring home around 850.00. I am required to pay medical insurance which amounts to about 400.00 a month. No problem so far right? Now consider every 2 weeks I pay 674.00 in support. I pay more in insurance and support than I bring home. Right now my ex wife is in Florida soaking up the sun for spring break. I'm working over so I don't lose my vehicle. Sound familiar anyone?
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  • Mar 15th, 2016
    Someone from Sanger, TX writes:
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    My daughter has cancer and i pay child support and my daughter dont get any Money from her mom or does she go to see her and im ****ed she dont care so i send her some out of my own pocket
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  • Mar 15th, 2016
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  • Mar 14th, 2016
    Someone from Port Saint Lucie, FL writes:
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    In Florida, I'm about to be homeless and I'm going to loose my job if they suspend my license. How can they legally take over 55% of my pay? I can't live like this. I am involved in my daughter's life and I of course want to support her. This is unfair and an injustice. My child support is more than my rent. It's almost $700 a month. I pay weekly at $187. I only take home $320! What about rent, food, gas, insurance for me? Not to mention clothes diapers and food for my daughter. Her mother doesn't work this is not right something needs to be done.
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  • Mar 14th, 2016
    Someone from Rainsville, AL writes:
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    It's not fair to have to pay child support when I have custody and when the State can charge whatever they won't
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  • Mar 14th, 2016
    Someone from Evansville, IN writes:
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    I am a father of a 2 1/2 year old little beautiful girl. My wife left me because she was unhappy. I am being forced to pay child support for my child even though I'm trying to be apart of my daughters life. Why must I be forced to pay my ex-wife money when she is the one that left me and took my daughter away from me? I see it as more beneficial to my daughter to be in her life than it is to be forced out of her life and forced to pay a fee to a woman that lied for years saying she was happy. Please, understand I have no problem paying bills or helping out on bills that occur for my child, but to be forced to pay a certain amount of money every week out of my hard earned money to give to my ex-wife for her to spend however she wants, is not fair or just. I love my daughter and want to be there for her, but this government is not equal when it comes to the truth of the matter that without me, this child would not be here in this world. Thank you for hearing my voice and concern on this growing problem in the USA.
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  • Mar 12th, 2016
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  • Mar 12th, 2016
    Someone from Elmwood, TN writes:
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    I would like to start out by saying I'm at my breaking point over child support I cant even afford gas to get to work cant afford a place to live lost my vehicle some weeks I would even make 20 dollars or have money to get gas or food I am to the point I'm fixing to take my only life because I cant live like this anymore I have degenerative disc disease and 2 herniated disk in my back and now they took my licenses which doesn't matter they done cost me everything else how can they expect anyone to pay this******they dont consider taxes or how far u drive to work I'm tired of being homeless and having to live like this so when the cops come looking for me I'm going to put an end to my life I cant do this anymore
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  • Mar 12th, 2016
    Someone from Elmwood, TN writes:
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    I would like to start out by saying I'm at my breaking point over child support I cant even afford gas to get to work cant afford a place to live lost my vehicle some weeks I would even make 20 dollars or have money to get gas or food I am to the point I'm fixing to take my only life because I cant live like this anymore I have degenerative disc disease and 2 herniated disk in my back and now they took my licenses which doesn't matter they done cost me everything else how can they expect anyone to pay this******they dont consider taxes or how far u drive to work I'm tired of being homeless and having to live like this so when the cops come looking for me I'm going to put an end to my life I cant do this anymore
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  • Mar 10th, 2016
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  • Mar 8th, 2016
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  • Mar 7th, 2016
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  • Mar 6th, 2016
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  • Mar 4th, 2016
    Someone from New Port Richey, FL writes:
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    it's time to get rid of the corrupt system in the child support whoever voted this in should be firedthe state and government should have no control of our families lies
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  • Mar 4th, 2016
    Someone from New Port Richey, FL writes:
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    what good is it to take away my driver's license and my CDL so now I cannot workso no sense they did this in massachusetts I cannot earn a living probably will put me on the welfare systemdoes anybody have any idea how to stop the corruption corruption in our system
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  • Mar 4th, 2016
    Someone from New Port Richey, FL writes:
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    what good is it to take away my driver's license and my CDL so now I cannot workso no sense they did this in massachusetts I cannot earn a living probably will put me on the welfare systemdoes anybody have any idea how to stop the corruption corruption in our system
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  • Feb 28th, 2016
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  • Feb 27th, 2016
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  • Feb 26th, 2016
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  • Feb 25th, 2016
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  • Feb 25th, 2016
    Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
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    This child support system is broken something needs to be done.
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  • Feb 24th, 2016
    Someone from Mesquite, TX writes:
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    Someone needs to do something about the bias and unfair child support laws in the the state of Texas. We as fathers should be more than just a check in the mail. I give my ex more than half my income. Why should she get to go on and enjoy life, while I'm Brock and barely making my bills. Someone needs to put a stop to all this unfair child support BS.
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  • Feb 24th, 2016
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  • Feb 23rd, 2016
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  • Feb 22nd, 2016
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  • Feb 22nd, 2016
    Someone from Jamaica, NY writes:
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    The system has been built years ago and revisions need to be made for one the child support rate needs to be lowered in addition the custodial parent should have to pay a percent along with the non custodial parent towards the child's future. Some of the money should be set aside for college, trade school enhancement and growth of the child. Lastly the non custodial parent should receive a monthly expenditure sheet on what the money is being spend on.
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  • Feb 19th, 2016
    Someone from Scranton, PA writes:
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    I am a father of a 20yr old and a 7yr old. The oldest being my girl and youngest my son. For the past 13yrs I haven't seen a tax refund and funds have been applied to my child support regularly for my daughter and I gave cash for my son. I've had employment for the past 12yrs and make decent money ~$58,000 per year. At the age 18 you are basically an adult. So when I recieved documents for her emancipation I agreed. Well needless to say my daughter and her mother didn't see it the way I did. I had finally not only paid my court ordered child support but paid off arrearages that took me 9-10yrs to finally square away. I was told I have to continue paying support while my daughter attends college...which I can understand somewhat. But to move the "goal post" when I felt I would be done with the "courts" finally...They not only order me to continue to pay. They also didn't honor my having had paid my arrearages off for 2yrs prior. Not to mention the "COLA" increase that now puts me in arrears AGAIN! I've recently taken custody of my son though not through court, but through his "mom" having had her apartment raided and her arrested. So this "dead beat dad" stepped up responsibly. Yet these are the things that these dated and recently arguably "unjust" laws fail to see, and deal with in a "just" manner. The child support issue should be up for discussion instead dictated to the point it is. Stop lumping all fathers together under a negative label!! Exercise some restraint, use less emotion when your in the pockets of dads doing all they can to honor the courts orders. We love our children, but the job market isn't producing millionaires. We "all" have to live.
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  • Feb 19th, 2016
    Someone from Scranton, PA writes:
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    I am a father of a 20yr old and a 7yr old. The oldest being my girl and youngest my son. For the past 13yrs I haven't seen a tax refund and funds have been applied to my child support regularly for my daughter and I gave cash for my son. I've had employment for the past 12yrs and make decent money ~$58,000 per year. At the age 18 you are basically an adult. So when I recieved documents for her emancipation I agreed. Well needless to say my daughter and her mother didn't see it the way I did. I had finally not only paid my court ordered child support but paid off arrearages that took me 9-10yrs to finally square away. I was told I have to continue paying support while my daughter attends college...which I can understand somewhat. But to move the "goal post" when I felt I would be done with the "courts" finally...They not only order me to continue to pay. They also didn't honor my having had paid my arrearages off for 2yrs prior. Not to mention the "COLA" increase that now puts me in arrears AGAIN! I've recently taken custody of my son though not through court, but through his "mom" having had her apartment raided and her arrested. So this "dead beat dad" stepped up responsibly. Yet these are the things that these dated and recently arguably "unjust" laws fail to see, and deal with in a "just" manner. The child support issue should be up for discussion instead dictated to the point it is. Stop lumping all fathers together under a negative label!! Exercise some restraint, use less emotion when your in the pockets of dads doing all they can to honor the courts orders. We love our children, but the job market isn't producing millionaires. We "all" have to live.
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  • Feb 17th, 2016
    Someone from Saint Albans, NY writes:
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    Ive been denied many of times due to cant afford the amount that was put apond me had to sell my vhical got driver license suppend charge to pay 300 a week thats ridiculous thats out ragious female judge female bailuf n baby momma im the only male i have more stories about child support n its unfair practices
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  • Feb 17th, 2016
    Someone from Kissimmee, FL writes:
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    There needs to be a list of required items for every child, and that should be financially split into two. Sports, vacations, and Jordan shoes are not a necessity.
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  • Feb 15th, 2016
    Someone from Independence, MO signed.
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