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Unfair child support laws

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  • Oct 17th, 2017
    Someone from Monmouth, OR writes:
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    Here is a website which has form for parents who have been treated wrongly by the courts: https://www.facebook.com/groups/jam2016/permalink/1531579060240528/?pnref=story. It's a Citizen's Complaint to the Department of Justice Civil Rights Complaint Division. The more people who fill this out and send it in, the better. There is power in numbers.
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  • Oct 16th, 2017
    Someone from Lynden, WA writes:
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    I am going thru a divorse because we fight to much and it's not good for anyone. The fight today blew my mind. The first thing she says is "wait till I take the kids from you and screw you over with child support". First off I would never leave my kids. I have and always will make sure they have everything they need. But I know am screwed. She knows am screwed. We both work and both kids are in school. How the hell is it fair I pay 1/3 of my money so she can live better? It's a power that woman know they have. I hear it all the time. Woman always joking about it like it's some game. I've busted my butt my hole life and always done the right thing. I find it irresponsible and downright sickening they think the man should always be at fault. Always the one to blame. Not fair for the honest working man. How can I survive? Am I not allowed to live a happy life after divorse? Is the man always the kopout? It's wrong, and shouldn't be able to be a weapon against you for living a normal life. It's hard enough thanks.
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  • Oct 12th, 2017
    Patrick L. from Las Vegas, NV writes:
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    Most women have bought into the Title IV D and have no responsibility for the "debt" incurred, only the father. Now, many fathers are having their Social Security garnished, to the tune of 50%. 66% of that money goes to courts and politicians to run a system that is clearly Unconstitutional. It is debt slavery, indentured servitude, cruel and unusual punishment and fraud!! It is time to abolish Title IV D and the Bradley Amendment!! How is a man supposed to live on half of a Social Security check? Where is the "Due Process of Law"? We men were never given any choice, only outright theft of our livelihood, even though many of us have been low wage earners for a lifetime. It is long overdue to ABOLISH this draconian system!!
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  • Oct 12th, 2017
    Jacob G. from Kansas City, MO signed.
  • Oct 10th, 2017
    Someone from Covington, GA writes:
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    The court awarded me visitation rights on my daughter to see her every other weekend. Which I consider nothing to do with us having a relationship together. The mother always caused problems, when asked to exchange the child at the police building the judge said no. a lot of the time when I got her the clothes her mother sent her looked as if they hadn't been washed in quite some time. I would have to purchase clothes for her and leave them at my house. Which caused a problem with the mother because I wouldn't send them home with her and this is on top of paying her child support. Today I've paid over 33,000 dollars for child support, to a mother who has done nothing financially equal to what is needed for raising a child. Indiana state welfare system has done more for our child, than what her mother has. On March 29, 2016 the mother sent her to live with me with intentions to continue collecting child support. That same year I put in a change of custody order and was awarded custody of her on October 12, 2016. There was no complaint from the mother of her being here until the judge awarded me not to pay child support, but I still have a 5800 arrears balance. For years I have put in the proper documents pushing to modify the 2007 order made by the court. A lot of the modification I wanted change had to do with the loss of income, another child, or layoffs, but mostly because of her not doing her part as a mother. The outcome from the court was always the same; no response. The problem I have with child support is the court and how they allow a handwritten complaint from her and not any legal document I turn in. the documents were signed correctly. I turned in the same modification document 4 times without making any changes until they were finally accepted and asking for 25 dollars. There has always been an unfair advantage in the courtroom. Yes, the law may say one thing but it isn't being carried out as such. Especially for an individual trying to be a responsible father I have felt I reached my debt obligation, now that my daughter has been living with me. Me paying arrears to a women who has done little for her own child. I have felt any payment to her is irrelevant to the child care because it isn't being used for the child if the child is here with me and as far as what is owed. The court judgment was made when she was working and because they ignored letters made in response to the issue. I believe anything owed should be met. My daughter need things and money paid out to her mother should stop because it would be more beneficial here than sending it to the mother who say she use it to go out drinking with her so-called friends.....
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  • Oct 7th, 2017
    Someone from Ames, IA writes:
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    My son has to pay $1000 a month for 2 children. That is roughly 50% of his income. He has the children approximately 150 days per year. Was never given the reduction of credit due to the number of days he has his children. Unable to try to have it adjusted for 2 years unless there is a greater than 50% reduction in income. How is a dad to afford to pay his rent, utilities, car payment (it is used), vehicle insurance, gas (he drives 45 minutes each way to work) and still afford to get the children outfits if they need clothes for his home, and still provide food to feed them with??? They had an amount worked out between them but the courts would not allow them to set their own amount. Disgusting!
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  • Oct 6th, 2017
    Someone from Henderson, NV writes:
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    How is a father supposed to.make a living paying $1,152 amonth and on top of that she gets $1,400 for my son's SSI incomes and I only keep $1,400 a month for my living from both jobs this is outrageous and un fair for fathers that truly want to see their kids but can't from working to jobs
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  • Oct 2nd, 2017
    Andrew G. from Aurora, CO writes:
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    Please look reform child support! It can be crippling! I work long hours and sacrifice time with my children that live with me in order to keep my children fed and bills paid. There has to be a better way to equalize and bring fairness to this system. I'm currently paying 900.00 for one child while I have two other kids to support! I believe the system now encourages families t o split up leaving fathers with unrealistic expectations! Please do somethong!
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  • Sep 30th, 2017
    DIA R. from Minneapolis, MN signed.
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    DD R. from NORTH ST PAUL, MN signed.
  • Sep 30th, 2017
    b b. from Shreveport, LA writes:
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    I feel that child support is a way for the women to be cripple a lot of men are on because of the mother petty ways an selfish acts, just be cause the man move on ,are either doesn't want the mother no more. some of us man cant even see the child an don't even know where the child an mother is at, but they lock us up are take our cdl .how can it be justice when they don't invesitagate the matter before just saying that the dad is a dead beat dad. we deserve a fair hearing to our case . its hurt to have a child an cant see her are him an they just want the money .the mother is not letting us see the child are speak to the child .some of us would like to see and get to know our child .arrears in back pay for a child that we cant see are know but all a long they not taking care of the child as they should but want us to support the law.
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  • Sep 26th, 2017
    Chad W. from De Ruyter, NY writes:
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    Why does it take 30 days for a termination letter to be sent to employer and mere days for it to be initiated. This whole system is ridiculous and unfair. I am not opposed to paying child support but only as long as it is fair. I have not seen my son in almost 5 years(his choice). This whole thing is just revenue generating for States and federal governments. Please fix this!
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  • Sep 25th, 2017
    Sharron W. from Grand Rapids, MI writes:
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    My husband mother of his child make more money then him..they still want him to pay over 300 a month..I don't count my money because I don't even have a say so in the matter..I can't even sit in on FOC hearing...My husband is great father..when he was working he paid for day care he got clothes..but to court that don't matter...when child support came into action it was for mothers who couldn't work or back in early 70's 80's they didn't work so they ask father's to help ....but time has changed..I feel it should be 50/50 if both parents are working..they still just give mother's physical custody,.. no the father has the right....it's not courts decision to decide if the child living in two homes fit...it has to if the parents are separated.... It had to just work out unless proven that one of the parents are not fit... Lastly I been asking my state Rep and their taking all day to answer questions..they should have a answer it's public known that it's over 60 million dollars in back child support that father's hasn't paid ..that should of been new flash and request for review..but no not a person that sit in chair that has more money then most of these father's don't care...it's not them...they need to stop taking the time and fix the solution..but if they did that the workers at FOC wouldn't have job because they wouldn't be in other people business.
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  • Sep 24th, 2017
    Bradley F. from Pinellas Park, FL signed.
  • Sep 21st, 2017
    Someone from Chireno, TX writes:
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    Our Son has been paying child support for 7 years. Our granddaughter is 7 years. The mother and father never married. However dated at a young age for 3 years as teenagers. The Mother left the country with 1 year old without notifying Father. The Mother married, moved to Maryland with her new husband in the Navy . (child 6 years). Our Son got orders to locate child and fly to see her once a month. Every trip Mother would hide the child. Start chaos. And refused to tell our granddaughter" this is her Daddy". She has told the child her husband is her Daddy. Wanting our Son to be referred as a friend. She has left the country again, without notifying him again. There are orders for her not to leave without consent, etc. She has contempt of court to many to count. Our Son was laid off from the oil field this year. Money did not come directly for several months from pay check. She had the nerve to e-mail him and ask him who is employer . She wants money. She doesn't work and now has another baby. Our granddaughter is not to know us. We are a loving family that never thought a person could kidnap your child and brainwash her to not know her own family. According to our Texas child support laws, they send monthly statements to our Son for child support, still wanting money. We are totally against child support laws, My Son and family are victims of a organization, only for money. The Mother does what she wants, because she knows she can. My Son is on a legal budget to support , Who ? The Mother and all the many people that are employed in this system. It is not designed to help people but to hurt people. our Son is being robbed more ways than one. As we are as well. As long as this kind of man made- up laws of no good, exist. The evilness will continue. No one will Win. Our Son grieves every birthday that he misses, and every Christmas. And it is Not OK, to say Oh Well. To know this goes on and nothing is being done grieves our spirit. Make America Great Again.
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  • Sep 20th, 2017
    Someone from Salina, KS writes:
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    The child custody and child support laws in this country are a disgrace! The custodial parent gets their bills paid and gets to spend time with child while the noncustodial works there life away and never gets time with there son. This is insane! What happened to equality! We fight for equality of race, equality of sex (when it comes to jobs and treatment) except when it comes to child care. This is a huge injustice!
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  • Sep 20th, 2017
    Levi K. from Salina, KS writes:
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    The child custody and child support laws in this country are a disgrace! The custodial parent gets their bills paid and gets to spend time with child while the noncustodial works there life away and never gets time with there son. This is insane! What happened to equality! We fight for equality of race, equality of sex (when it comes to jobs and treatment) except when it comes to child care. This is a huge injustice!
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  • Sep 20th, 2017
    Levi K. from Salina, KS writes:
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    The child custody and child support laws in this country are a disgrace! The custodial parent gets their bills paid and gets to spend time with child while the noncustodial works there life away and never gets time with there son. This is insane! What happened to equality! We fight for equality of race, equality of sex (when it comes to jobs and treatment) except when it comes to child care. This is a huge injustice!
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  • Sep 19th, 2017
    SHERRI A. from Elmore, AL writes:
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    I have joint custody and stay across the street from the father of my kids who's 8 and 11 and court order me to pay 500 a month in child support and the kids are at my house more than his
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  • Sep 18th, 2017
    Gabriel C. from Quemado, NM writes:
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    I am a good father that child support is not being fair I coul lose my hous for my kid to come visit me and have a place to live in I could lose my car that I us to go pick up my kids for them to come visit I could lose my job because I won't hav a car to go to work please help
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  • Sep 13th, 2017
    Someone from Bemidji, MN signed.
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    Nelson C. from Bemidji, MN signed.
  • Sep 7th, 2017
    Someone from Sheridan, AR writes:
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    If the father pays child support, or more (as is usually the case), then he has a dependent whether the child lives with him full time or not. The mother should split the tax benefit with the father, at the least. Also, there should be a cap on child support. There is a reasonable expectation of support for the father's half of what it takes to raise a child in a particular state. As it is currently in my state, she gets 15% of my income with no cap. This is not for the benefit of the child. This is for the benefit of the mother, and the tax law is just outrageous. It seems punitive against the father, especially since the mother does not pay tax on the support as income.
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  • Sep 6th, 2017
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  • Sep 5th, 2017
    Someone from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    So true, shame, shame on these women who have baby after baby, some women have 4 or 5 different fathers who they get with, to collect a check, oh man, I really feel for these men who struggle to pay child support, these are hard working men, I have many men friends at work that share what they are going through, I feel for them and some of these women want To stay home and collect welfare too, on top of child support, and food stamps, to be home all day doing nothing!!!! REALLY! I myself am proud of myself and pat myself on the back and I thank God I am not one of those ugly worthless, heartless woman!! I worked part time until my little son went into full time 1st grade, my 11 year old son would pick up my youngest one and go home, call me at work to just let me know they were home saved, I didn't get a dime from their dad to help me pay a baby sitter or day care! These hurgry heartless women also get WIC and here I was counting how much I can spend and these women are at the cashier with WIC stamps, there man, kids basket fill with food and getting into a nice car, really!!! It really get me upset because they tax me for these kind of women, get a job, I know some that have section 8 too
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  • Sep 4th, 2017
    Someone from North Las Vegas, NV signed.
  • Sep 3rd, 2017
    James H. from Westminster, CA writes:
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    Your laws have ruined my life. I lost everything because of her lies and your lack of investigation. My son has suffered most. Unacceptable court systems need to be fixed! Yours is beyond unacceptable.
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  • Sep 3rd, 2017
    Someone from Westminster, CA writes:
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    Your laws have ruined my life. I lost everything because of her lies and your lack of investigation. My son has suffered most. Unacceptable court systems need to be fixed! Yours is beyond unacceptable.
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  • Sep 3rd, 2017
    James H. from Westminster, CA writes:
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    Your laws have ruined my life. I lost everything because of her lies and your lack of investigation. My son has suffered most. Unacceptable court systems need to be fixed! Yours is beyond unacceptable.
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  • Sep 2nd, 2017
    Someone from Syracuse, NY writes:
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    The call to action here is to aggressively fix this broken CSSA standards for individuals with Joint physical/legal custody && to deny any increase in child support if the father can prove he is providing $ directly to the children. I'd also ask that we implement an audit requirement so individuals who provide significant support can have insight into expense management. I have Joint Physical & legal Custody of my 2 teenage kids for more than 12 years. The kids mother submitted a support petition (last one is 3 years old) and the judge has only considered me as a $ amount. He placed a temporary order which is 4x+ my child support payment & has me paying 73% of my max child support obligation without hearing any feedback from the mother about what increase in costs justify additional monetary support. This increase has raised the mother's income by 50% monthly, tax free. To make matters worse, my teenage daughter is getting minimum $ for school clothes from her mother, she was given 200. Seriously, I've payed more than 2100 more in support over the last 6 weeks and my daughter got 200 from her mother for school clothes. My obligations are to provide for my 2 children, I am not to responsible to provide for the needs of the mother's other children in the household, I am not responsible for providing $ to a lady I've never married, I am not responsible for providing $ for her constant mistakes and bad judgement. She gets no child support for the other kids and has 2 other deadbeat fathers - WHY am I being treated like the piece of******father? I am making 96K year, w/ 85% of my income utilized in bills. Now I am struggling to pay for a home that I have had for 10+ years & predict I will need to sell it within 8-12 months. I have 2 additional children (twins). I coach 2 sports, purchase things that the kids ask for (both needs & wants) and I've been providing child support payments via garnishment for 10+ years. I work 60-70 hours a week often 6 days a week, the kids mother stated she works 36-45, yet the kids state she works 4 days a week. My children's mother over the years has had 3 additional children, obtained numerous criminal charges, not worked full-time until recently (last 2 years) -- all while I've been focusing on improving my professional value. increasing my income, and providing for my family. Yes I've even petitioned the court for full-custody & appealed it when the decision was not in my favor. When will folks understand that this system is BROKE & CSSA standards, which does not address JOINT physical/legal are causing GOOD/GREAT fathers be unfairly treated. The system is being used to "transfer wealth" without justifying an increased by the kids or their mother.
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  • Aug 28th, 2017
    Someone from Mount Joy, PA writes:
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    I make 70k a year working 60 to 70 hours a week, ony have high school education and I was homeless for a while while my ex has bachelor degree and she doesn't want to work a day since you married me,3 kids are in school all day ,no money left for me to have fun with my kids while she can afford everything without a job.
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  • Aug 27th, 2017
    Someone from Wilton, AR writes:
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    Ive been through it all been to jail lost my liciense its a constant back and forth from jail ,attorneys office ,dmv office,lose your job lose your licence ,thrown back in jail another attorney same old circle and i took care of my son threw all this ,its an injustice i cant tell u how mad u are when u pay 21 years as much as u can only to be called a sorry parent wasted thousands of dollars on attorneys fees,baliff fees,fines,fees,fees,fees,fees,i cant stress enough Fees!! do they really care about your kid if they take 65 dollars out of 300 u send its a joke a circle u can never get out of im just numb to the consequences of their b.s my son even says its its unfair even my sons mother that put me on cs says its crazy unfair there is people stealing cs all over this country and the fathers are so poor they cant even fight it i still owe 9400 back cs over 21 years ive paid the state over 95000 dollars they have paid my sons mother 68000 look at how much theyve took out and this is arkansas ive read some states are worse than this im still on probation for non payment of cs felony probation theyve closed the front my sons mothers even signed and notorized that i owe nothing to her but they are still trying to put me in jail now for revocation of probation because of the 9400 left on the back its a crazy world an allai tried to do was have a child people????? But its never gonna change because the people have no money to fight back therefore u get a public defender that works for the prosecutors lmao ridiculous im just waiting for the women that put the kids fathers thru this gets fed up with how they treat people an know that its really not right cause ive gave up on the government doing anything for us but keep taking our money least they cant take no more after we die its and injustice people wake up wake up wake up
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  • Aug 27th, 2017
    Someone from West Islip, NY writes:
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    The tax laws changed the withholding. On single 0 giving less to take home and you can't claim the children because the ex wife does. The laws need to change so the one who pays gets to claim. Unless they make other arrangements
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  • Aug 27th, 2017
    Someone from West Islip, NY writes:
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    The tax laws changed the withholding. On single 0 giving less to take home and you can't claim the children because the ex wife does. The laws need to change so the one who pays gets to claim. Unless they make other arrangements
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  • Aug 24th, 2017
    Someone from Port Orchard, WA writes:
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    I personally am tired child support, I have been paying for many years and these kids are grown and have were adopted in 2000 and they still have me paying for children that are not mine! I was denied visitation rights by the parents, But yet the state of New York still wants my money no one will even accept my paperwork. and I am on disability. and they keep adding to the bill saying I owe more! when I don't and by the way these kids are grown up. they should arrest every judge and democratic politician in the state of NY. shame on them for allowing this type of abuse to happen! and there are laws in the state of new York that arrears can be dismissed for custodial interference not allowing a parent to see the children that they are paying for! But the way the state gets around this if you cannot afford an attorney they just keep refusing ones petition for justice. So in plain English the state of New York is violating my constitutional rights, 1 the right to travel, number two the right to due process under the law and the child support division of the state of new York will not do what is legal and but instead they choose to be corrupt and not hear a case. don't have kids in the state of new York! and don't move there you will be sorry! child support is not the only reason earthier!
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  • Aug 20th, 2017
    Someone from Urbana, IL signed.
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  • Aug 10th, 2017
    Someone from Baxter, TN writes:
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    I think it's ridiculous to put men in jail because they can not afford to pay the weekly amount given by the courts! My son is liable to pay 160.00 a week! For both his kids. When he loses his job he's in jail for back arrears. Then what's worse is taking these men's license's away! How the hell can they get work without a license! Most of the women who get child support are getting their hair done, nails done, or going out to party on this money! I'm not saying all but, most do! I'm also not saying the men should not pay something but, they should not be having to go to jail over this! I think it should be between the man and the woman and out of the courts! My son has been through hell and back over this. I would like to see the laws change. We live in Tennessee but laws should change in all states! Put an end to men being punished for having kids. Really? What a waste of our jail system and taxes over this. Lord...someone do something!
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  • Aug 10th, 2017
    Someone from Baxter, TN writes:
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    I think it's ridiculous to put men in jail because they can not afford to pay the weekly amount given by the courts! My son is liable to pay 160.00 a week! For both his kids. When he loses his job he's in jail for back arrears. Then what's worse is taking these men's license's away! How the hell can they get work without a license! Most of the women who get child support are getting their hair done, nails done, or going out to party on this money! I'm not saying all but, most do! I'm also not saying the men should not pay something but, they should not be having to go to jail over this! I think it should be between the man and the woman and out of the courts! My son has been through hell and back over this. I would like to see the laws change. We live in Tennessee but laws should change in all states! Put an end to men being punished for having kids. Really? What a waste of our jail system and taxes over this. Lord...someone do something!
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