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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Public Comments
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
I’m S. from Bonner Springs, KS writes:
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I cannot reveal my true name. I’m scared my abuser will try to accuse me again.
Oct 8th, 2017
Someone from Palmer, MA writes:
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I think if a woman is on the floor, clearly having been beaten that she shouldn't be arrested or held for care and protection while the batterer remains free and uncharged by law enforcement. Police misconduct and brutality get really disturbing when the police officers arrest for care and protection then release the physically battered and bruised woman with a list of false charged such as assault and battery of w police officers and disorderly conduct. Creating a criminal record where none existed before dcf and guardian kidnapped the mothers children.
Oct 8th, 2017
Someone from Saint Albans, VT writes:
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I was accused because my wife got trapped by her lies. She couldn't get her story straight and working it out was not an option for her....I lost my kids forevermore,my reputation,my 4th amendment rights that I need as a law enforcement career..and I had a crappy lawyer not That it mattered she ruined my life with these lies. Noone believes that a woman would like about domestic violence. That a man may actually be set up. This was revenge pure and simple, even with court ordered visitation noone will accept my case..I lost everything in the divorce,got nothing but debt and she still wants more..
Oct 7th, 2017
Brian K. from Newton Falls, OH writes:
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I was accused of verbal domestic violence! The Newton Falls police were helping her too! I spent 3 days in jail and my step son even told the police officers that I didn't threaten her or touch her. While I was in jail she emptied out the house of our marital assets and cleaned out the checking account. She took all the kids stuff and showed up at court looking for a temporary protection order. She was denied because of lack of proof and she told judge, under oath, this time that I didn't threaten her.. damages were done because I spent time in jail and the police gave her the opportunity to clear out the house
Oct 5th, 2017
BRIAN E. from Erie, PA writes:
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IF YOU DID THE DOMESTIC CRIME TWO THINGS TO REMEMBER 1). DONT LIE. 2). BE RIGHT OF WHAT YOU ARE SAYING , EITHER IT WAS A BETTING BECAUSE SHE STOLE FROM YOU BEST FREIND AND SHE LIED AND YOU KNOW IT. WHEN THE POLICE GOT THERE AND SEEN YOU ALL BLEEDING ALL OVER EACH OTHER.MAN HAS TO RESTAIN THEM SELFS MORE THAN WOMEN WOULD. 2)1. IF YOU ARE WRITING ALOT ABOUT THE LAW AND NOT ENUFF OF THE PROBLEMS YOU ARE HAVE IN YOU MIXED UP. 1)2. MIXED UP BECAUSE MOST OF YOU PUBLIC HAVE TO HAVE A LAWYER TO READ INTERPRET AND DISCUSE THE USES AND USAGE OF LAW WHEN AND IF ANY OF YOU STAND IN A COURT. . . . MOST THAT CALLANGE THE FEMALES KNOW HER WELL AND HAVE INCOMES AND WORK AND KNOW IF SHE THE DIRTY PART, AND THAT OTHERS HEARD THE OTHER SAYING THE OTHER SAID.... EX:, WHO HAS WHOMS ID...IDENTITY THEFTS AR POPULAR EVEN WHEN PEOPLE ARE KNOWN 20 OR 30 YEARS.
Oct 5th, 2017
Paul S. from Lake Charles, LA writes:
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My ex was diagnosed with a cluster B personality disorder and bi polar. But when a marriage counselor said we needed a trial separation and I said no and filed a divorce. She filed a bogus restraining order against me and had my new truck removed from my possession and me kicked out my house. In a state I am not from that I moved too, to reconcile with her when she disappeared from the state we were living in. Long story short 8 days after being kicked out my house she moved her boyfriend in and he was a pedophile. And I haven’t seen my kids in 1 yr and 2 months. Stuck paying for a allocation that I was never proven guilty of to the court. Can’t file my kids on my taxes but have to pay 100 support for them. And she’s filing taxes having babies but don’t have a job!!!!!
Oct 1st, 2017
Jim S. from Macomb, IL writes:
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My wife put out a protective order against me that includes no facts and no charges that could be substantiated. She is bipolar concurrent with schizophrenic episodes. Bipolar is filled with times of hallucinations and delusion and suicidal threats. She has attempted or threatened suicide numerous times. She has been hospitalized 4 times for bipolar treatment and had two round of Shock therapy. My own lawyer refuses to pursue these realities so as to get the protective order removed. But my wife has added to the insult by telling many people that I have abused her. How far can these lies ago until they are stopped.
Oct 1st, 2017
Jim S. from Macomb, IL writes:
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My wife put out a protective order against me that includes no facts and no charges that could be substantiated. She is bipolar concurrent with schizophrenic episodes. Bipolar is filled with times of hallucinations and delusion and suicidal threats. She has attempted or threatened suicide numerous times. She has been hospitalized 4 times for bipolar treatment and had two round of Shock therapy. My own lawyer refuses to pursue these realities so as to get the protective order removed. But my wife has added to the insult by telling many people that I have abused her. How far can these lies ago until they are stopped.
Oct 1st, 2017
Kevin K. from Hoboken, NJ writes:
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Girl calls cops over arguement, realizes made mistake presses no charges or restraining order so the police so it instead and blow the case out of proportion. Guilty until proven innocent.
Oct 1st, 2017
Terrence M. from Longwood, FL writes:
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My wife sabotaged my career with false claims of domestic violence then robbed the government of thousands of dollars in Victim Benefits after kidnapping my son. When I found her by chance in the States, she immediately filed another false claim of domestic violence to keep me from my son.
Sep 30th, 2017
Shanice D. from Boston, MA signed.
Sep 27th, 2017
UNITED P. from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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Sep 26th, 2017
Someone from Colorado Springs, CO writes:
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Living this nightmare. She makes crazy allegations and plays the victim. She attacked my daughter, she locked me out of the house multiple times, she even used extra set of car keys to strand me - 4 TIMES. Claimed she felt fear and attained a restraining order, which I allegedly violated by texting her daughter? She did the same thing to her ex husband. Fact Liars Lie
Sep 26th, 2017
Someone from Colorado Springs, CO writes:
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Living this nightmare. She makes crazy allegations and plays the victim. She attacked my daughter, she locked me out of the house multiple times, she even used extra set of car keys to strand me - 4 TIMES. Claimed she felt fear and attained a restraining order, which I allegedly violated by texting her daughter? She did the same thing to her ex husband. Fact Liars Lie
Sep 24th, 2017
Someone from Alamogordo, NM signed.
Sep 23rd, 2017
Someone from Parker, CO writes:
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Happened to me.
Sep 23rd, 2017
Lynn R. from Amarillo, TX writes:
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I support father's rights and will do all I can to support the best interest of my minor children.
Sep 22nd, 2017
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Audio and Video record (Magistrates and Judges should have body-cams), ALL testimony, when seeking a Protective Order / Restraining Order, so, if, the accuser's story changes, and the accuser's story is PROVEN to be a false accusation, the Prosecutors can FINALLY PROSECUTE them for perjury! Currently, the Prosecutors can't prosecute them, because they can simply LIE again, and there is no record of testimony. START PROSECUTING the PROVEN false accusers... its ALREADY against the law... its FELONY perjury.... but NEVER prosecuted with respect to Protective Orders / Restraining Orders, and misdemeanor crimes. Currently, they ONLY prosecute the WORST of the WORST false accusations, while the MAJORITY of them continue to go un-noticed, send innocent people to jail, destroy our society, AND destroy any faith that people may have in the "justice system". Currently, the accuser can flat-out LIE under oath, with NO RISK whatsoever, of being prosecuted... and EVERYONE KNOWS it (the Magistrates, the Judges, the officers that SERVE these orders, EVERYONE knows there is NO RISK!! That's WHY it happens SOOO much! The false accusers KNOW they can get away with it. STOP giving them a free pass.. it is DESTROYING INNOCENT CITIZENS' lives.
Sep 21st, 2017
Vanessa o. from San Jose, CA writes:
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Please someone help me. In going through this right now. I can't afford a lawyer and the public defender won't call or even take the evidence I have. I have priors due to self defense but because I didn't stick around and get shot waiting for the police to show up I went to jail for being the abuser .
Sep 21st, 2017
Michael A. from Longville, LA writes:
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I was falsely accused
Sep 21st, 2017
Jackie D. from Longville, LA writes:
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I have worked in the court systems and see this false accusations all the time!
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