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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Public Comments
1 hour ago
Someone from Duvall, WA writes:
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I'm very sorry to hear of so many men who have gone through similar things. Last summer my wife stopped the car on a busy street with our 3 kids inside to argue her point about being wreckless with the children's lives. After 6 minutes I opened her car door and took control of the vehicle to move them out of the road. She called the police out of pure anger and I'm charged with assault 4 for touching her arm. Its cost me $6500 in legal fees and 9 months pending trial. Our legal system is broken. Its a sham. They want to remove as many good working men from our labor force so the elites can reign. Our 3 children (all under 6 years) are paying the biggest price!
Mar 16th, 2019
Someone from Sierra City, CA writes:
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This also extends to grandparents. I have been accused of domestic violence and the mother of my grandchildren has coached her kids to lie about the time they spent with me. Being falsely accused has taken a toll. The tragedy in all of this is that some people who are violated are not being helped while others are using fake domestic violence claims as a fundraiser. My ex-daughter law refuses to get a job and made fake domestic violence claims to get free housing, food and cash aid.
Mar 14th, 2019
Someone from Juneau, AK writes:
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I need direction ... I'm dealing with a wife who has relapsed after 8 years of sobriety . As of yesterday my rights were taken from me due to a false report and a restraining order in place . For the last eight months I've been their only moral support with what they are going through during their mother's week on ... now zilch not even a phone call , what ever happened to innocent till proven guilty ? Looking for some direction ASAP
Mar 7th, 2019
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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America's feminist centric laws, are absolutely destroying the relationships between men and women. Yes, it is that simple.
Mar 6th, 2019
Someone from Salem, OR writes:
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Happened to me. No priors. Tax paying 6-figure model citizen. Had some proof of innocence but was forced to take the plea deal to avoid grand jury felony charges. Wife did it to her previous husband and I believed that she was his victim until she did it to me. It's hard to believe until it happens to you. Lost all faith in the justice system. I had no idea. I look at people with convictions completely different now. I see them as possible victims of the system. Lost a lot of faith in our society and in overall human decency. You don't always get your way in life, but you shouldn't have the power to completely destroy a model citizen with an accusation when you don't get your way. If this power wasn't available for her to use in a moment of emotional anger we would still be a family. I partially blame myself for being so stupid as to think that if you tell the truth and do the right thing things will be ok. We could have worked through it with professional help, but the system completely destroyed our relationship. I'm getting on with my life but if the system wasn't so flawed our family would have made it and my short life on this planet would be completely different--better.
Mar 6th, 2019
Someone from Madison Heights, MI writes:
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First time I was accused of this was when I called the police on my spouse at the time to get her out of my apartment because she was breaking things but she had not a single mark on her so it was done at that even the cops could not believe the crap she was saying, the 2nd time we split she ran to the police and accused me this time I was convicted with no proof just because she said so, I had a written statement from the neighbor stating the truth that went against her story of what happened which she wrote down 3 different storys on different pieces of paper and could not keep the same story in court so my proof with a witness to back up was trumped by a sob story and to top it all off I am physically handicap from a motorcycle accident I was run over by someone texting and driving and she is trained in muay thai kickboxing but as well all these things over looked there should be more needed than just the word of someone to convict a person and mess up their life, this had made me to believe our system is broken when an innocent person is convicted of crimes they did not commit
Feb 18th, 2019
Someone from Romulus, MI writes:
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I’ve been falsely accused? And even after winning a Jury Trial corrupt Judges place me under abuser dynamics. This makes the constitution worthless & facts irrelevant. Why would that be ok ? Impeach Patrick Conlin Jr of Washtenaw County
Feb 18th, 2019
Someone from Romulus, MI writes:
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I’ve been falsely accused? And even after winning a Jury Trial corrupt Judges place me under abuser dynamics. This makes the constitution worthless & facts irrelevant. Why would that be ok ? Impeach Patrick Conlin Jr of Washtenaw County
Feb 18th, 2019
Someone from Romulus, MI writes:
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I’ve been falsely accused? And even after winning a Jury Trial corrupt Judges place me under abuser dynamics. This makes the constitution worthless & facts irrelevant. Why would that be ok ? Impeach Patrick Conlin Jr of Washtenaw County
Feb 18th, 2019
Someone from Romulus, MI writes:
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I’ve been falsely accused? And even after winning a Jury Trial corrupt Judges place me under abuser dynamics. This makes the constitution worthless & facts irrelevant. Why would that be ok ? Impeach Patrick Conlin Jr of Washtenaw County
Feb 18th, 2019
Someone from Romulus, MI writes:
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I’ve been falsely accused? And even after winning a Jury Trial corrupt Judges place me under abuser dynamics. This makes the constitution worthless & facts irrelevant. Why would that be ok ? Impeach Patrick Conlin Jr of Washtenaw County
Jan 31st, 2019
Someone from Waterford, ME writes:
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I had some hope for this petition but, I have only received stamped letters from local government agencies talking like they will do something. this is Y, So many children are victims to the system. collecting welfare & food stamps has become the new norm. when we could work and pay taxes. SO I sit home 20 years now and collect government $. once had high paying job. now cuz of misdemeanor DV my life and career done. my 27 year old daughter still suffers @ the hands of the court " BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD"
Jan 22nd, 2019
Rufus M. from Arvada, CO writes:
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She was galivanting around in 1998 had filed divorce & had a restraining order as part. I quit work, came home, started a rental house business. After 13 yrs, had 3 houses. She left us for this destitute metro taxi driver w/hiv. I was forced to file. He then is witness to her false accusation on her lawyers request. He wanted the life I built. In order to keep my boy I had to roll it into the divorce and use time to show my boy should live here. That was granted after a CFI. Still my lifes work was given to her. I have this lifetime Domestic Violence Order hanging over me. My life has been distroyed. Its been 5 yrs since. The divorce rewarded her but put me & my boy on medicaid. What is wrong with this country.
Jan 22nd, 2019
Rufus M. from Arvada, CO writes:
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She was galivanting around in 1998 had filed divorce & had a restraining order as part. I quit work, came home, started a rental house business. After 13 yrs, had 3 houses. She left us for this destitute metro taxi driver w/hiv. I was forced to file. He then is witness to her false accusation on her lawyers request. He wanted the life I built. In order to keep my boy I had to roll it into the divorce and use time to show my boy should live here. That was granted after a CFI. Still my lifes work was given to her. I have this lifetime Domestic Violence Order hanging over me. My life has been distroyed. Its been 5 yrs since. The divorce rewarded her but put me & my boy on medicaid. What is wrong with this country.
Jan 16th, 2019
Timothy W. from New Bern, NC signed.
Jan 14th, 2019
Alicia D. from Concord, CA writes:
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When the hell is a false allegation restraining order based on perjury statement going to be equal to an actual Act of domestic violence against somebody when the perpetrator masquerades as the victim. Most do it to gain the upper hand in a custody battle or to keep control over the family most people that do this have serious issues and they have mental health issues that need to be checked usually they say that the other person has mental health issues and then make up a bunch of s***. In the stuff my husband made up about me didn't even make sense. Especially when he tells three different stories to three different County entities in the same day he lied so many times it's like I can't even keep track. He deserves to go to prison and be held accountable for his actions. I have been in literally in the deepest darkest hell this year I had nothing I was thrown out of my house removed when I was doing music therapy with my two beautiful autistic children traumatically removed from the house in front of them by the sheriff when I have done nothing.
Jan 9th, 2019
Someone from Keene, NH signed.
Jan 9th, 2019
Someone from Keene, NH writes:
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there needs to be strict penalties for false allegations of domestic violence since it has frequently been used as a tool for vindictiveness particularly towards men. also i would like to add that these laws are also a back door gun confiscation scheme. i understand why these laws are in place as no one should have to endure abuse of any kind, but vindictiveness should not be enabled by these laws, as men are targets of these false allegations.
Jan 9th, 2019
Someone from Keene, NH writes:
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there needs to be strict penalties for false allegations of domestic violence since it has frequently been used as a tool for vindictiveness particularly towards men. also i would like to add that these laws are also a back door gun confiscation scheme. i understand why these laws are in place as no one should have to endure abuse of any kind, but vindictiveness should not be enabled by these laws, as men are targets of these false allegations.
Jan 9th, 2019
Someone from Keene, NH signed.
Jan 8th, 2019
Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Christine Blassey Fraud, Julie Swetnick, and the other liar were never held accountable. They are free to lie and falsely accuse more innocent men... and our government HAS to listen to them, and give them the benefit of the doubt. Meanwhile, millions of females saw what played out on worldwide TV, right in the middle of Congress... and they realize.... they can do it too!! If they can't take out their target, they are free to try again and again, until someone believes them, and they are successful. Thanks Congress, for giving females the benefit of the doubt.... that's ALL they need to completely destroy any innocent man. You threw "innocent, until proven guilty" out the window, and since then, MILLIONS of completely innocent men AND women have had their lives destroyed. There's a REASON why we have due process.... please give it BACK, CONGRESS!!!
Jan 3rd, 2019
Someone from El Cajon, CA writes:
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I never cared about this problem until my husbands ex-girl friend from years ago accused him of it. We have proof otherwise for the stories she is making up so it will never escalate beyond our circle, at least we think so.. you think she’d know better. Whatever can be done to eliminate the loop holes, needs to be done. I can’t imagine how hard it would be to try and fight it otherwise and I’m sorry for anyone that has to go through it.
Dec 25th, 2018
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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If a woman says you abused her, you did.. at least, that's how the police and the courts will see it. Yes, it IS that simple. They are LITERALLY taking women at their word, with no evidence whatsoever! To them, the accusation IS the evidence. This has been going on for years, if not decades... and it doesn't appear to be changing anytime soon. It may seem drastic, but any intelligent man wouldn't dare get into a relationship with a woman, unless and until, the LAWS CHANGE!!! I've seen it with my own eyes. I literally watched it happen, and couldn't do anything to stop it. I cannot overstate this.... if a woman says you "abused" her in any way, and she sticks to her story, you WILL be found guilty. End of story. I won't go anywhere near females, now. (too bad, I'm not gay) MGTOW or suicide. I WILL NOT allow false accusers and corrupt courts to dictate my life. Of course, its lonely... but, better than jail or prison.
Dec 24th, 2018
Someone from Acton, MA writes:
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Very long story short. I was looking for places to move out of my gf’s house the morning it happened 10 months to the day. Brought home pizza for dinner after going to the gym, food shopping and caught a little redsox spring training game. Last text message pizza is done on my way home love yea, her reply was love yea. I get home my suit case is out and I was like what’s going on? She says I want you out and I said I knew you would do something like this. She slammed my suit case down opens it up and starts throwing all my stuff on it! I let her do her thing while she is crying, screaming and swearing at me. Once done I pick my stuff up and put it on the bed so I can fold it and take off the hangars so everything would fit. She calling me names, and screaming i’m Still calm just wanting to get out. I saw the ring box and asked for the ring back I gave her, she says f... no it’s mine this and that. Still calm I say nice I come home to this and you can keep this nice ring I just have you. She ends up putting it in the box and throwing it on my case. She then walks to the back room screaming she’s gonna call her brother and her mother. I had enough walked over to her grabbed her phone. I then yelled for the first time that she can after I leave and to leave me alone and told her I would call the cops! Then walked back to the bed room and tossed the phone on the bed. She ran out the back door after I took the phone. I then called the cops, even answered her phone when her brother called all of it’s on the recording. She ran across the street after I told her I would call the cops and called herself saying I was beating her up. Long story short she was never touched. Not a mark on her. I go and great the police they said what’s going on I said nothing i’m Trying to leave, they tell me what she said I did and I said nothing happened and shook my head and they arrested me. She has her police report that night and her affidavit the next morning and not one thing matches! Clear lies but here I am still waiting. We worked at the same place I lost my job 80k a year. Have not been able to find employment because of this! I have had my life put on hold for 11 months exactly next month when the final hearing is and I have spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer, lost my job and my security clearance is in the line. I am 40 years old, former marine and because she wanted to do it the system has given her everything and I have not been able to say one word in my defense!!! I really hope the system fixes this issue because it is not fair, people take their own lives over the stress this brings. I can’t even join the military right now cause of this. It’s my last plan for any type of retitrment if my name is cleared from this. I have 7 years in and can retire in 13 years to have any chance of regaining financial stability again from this awful thing our system allows to happen.
Dec 17th, 2018
Someone from Guilderland, NY writes:
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New York State has a grievance committee and a District Attorney committee and still has not pursued the steps to reform it's legal system. New York state senate however openly admits that sculiptory evidence is hidden by DA's to secure prosecution, but creating a committee is not the answer. Damages are created and therefore must be redressed monetarily and with regard to time. Children are involved and ignoring this and many other components of criminal justice and family law reform will and has already corrupted our society from the inside out. The March 2016 reforms in the Dear Colleague Letter DOJ Civil Rights division, 5 pages worth were replaced by POTUS in 2017. This move alone left America speechless. Stop playing possum with America's justice, domestic Tranquility, liberties & freedoms defined in the US Constitution. Family Civil Rights & Alienation Coalition/Equal Parenting National Network
Dec 16th, 2018
Someone from Anaheim, CA writes:
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This happened too my first son..lost everything now a felon..no proof...Found s great criminal attorney.. year later all charges dropped clean record a fresh start..Now my youngest son lost his great job. Now s felon hasn't got to see his son that he had since day 1..now violations he has no idea about..but the ex has a cousin a cop..he told my son I get you..now my son has a beautiful kind woman a baby girl coming in March they have spent 10,000. Just in bail alone .now is out on bail and facing 5 years..he has never been in trouble never had a record. A good man a great dad..he was already broken when his son was ripped from his life now 5 years for what...because this ex girlfriend is out for blood and her mom is the same.Liars so dad has her a attorney...they put violations on my son if a motorcycle goes by..and they are getting away with it..now we need money for the retainer fee..My son needs help .He cant go time for loving his son and having a sick spiteful woman who won't stop..So where is the help. Who is going help..I won't let this family do this to my son..Please we need a criminal defense attorney asap..that covers Los Angeles county..I'm on all these sites signing petitions but nothing is happening no money then your screwed..Its wrong ,my grandson lives with them none of us have seen him for over a year..My son lived for this little boy now they want to put his father away..thus is insane..Where is the help Where...I'm losing my mind ..my son is beyond scared his life ...wtf why is this being allowed ..it happened to my first son 2015..nothing has changed and this evil ***** was friend with my first sons evil *****..same mentality..HELP ME Please..I cant lose my son to this madness..he hasn't done anything but love his son ..please help me help my son..Please
Dec 16th, 2018
Trevor R. from Broadalbin, NY writes:
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This is the biggest lie that puts good men in a position he shouldn't be
Dec 16th, 2018
Nicholas W. from Bethlehem, PA writes:
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It's humiliating to have to defend yourself from allegations that are false
Dec 15th, 2018
D M. from Clearwater, FL writes:
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She did it 5 times never once being granted to gain custody. No accountability for perjury
Dec 15th, 2018
D M. from Clearwater, FL writes:
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She did it 5 times never once being granted to gain custody. No accountability for perjury
Dec 11th, 2018
Someone from Auburn, WA writes:
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Happened to me. Just finishing two years of probation after doing jail time and losing everything. The accuser actually had closed fisted me in the head on five occasions, stole from me and cheated before I finally asked her to get her things and leave my home as I was letting her stay after her apartment was taken to be sold as condominiums. Telling her it was over sent her into a rage where she threw my laptop at me and it shattered on the floor. Once she was outside my home I saw her on the phone. I assumed she was calling someone to pick her up. She wasn't. She had called the police. Gave them an amazingly detailed and well crafted report riddled with lies about me assaulting her. Later I learned she had done this before. She knew how easy it was and how it was the perfect way to show me who has the power and who doesn't. Ruined my life. Could not afford an attorney and public defense was utterly useless. Nothing I could do. Wiser now. It's a shame because this is going to lead to a lot of good men staying away from relationships. In the end, everyone loses out. MGTOW for life.
Dec 8th, 2018
Someone from Longboat Key, FL writes:
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My rapist put a false Injunction against me to keep me quiet about my Rape. The injunction Specifically stated Refrain Defendant from POSTING ANYYYYY photos or negative commits about my Rapist Dr. David B. Moats. Even after showing her evidence of his false allegations. One piece of evidence is him smiling while hold a letter that he wrote (the letter stated specifically that the made up the story because he was mad about my allegations.))) Can someone Please Help Me. He is Still Threatening with lawsuits and everything else if I don't once again shut up. He specifically said "Who do you think the cops will believe a Well Known Doctor, or you, a woman that had a kid at seventeen.
Dec 7th, 2018
Howard C. from Ashland, MS writes:
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Well i have been advised of domestic battery and was put in jail for something i didn't do!! When i went to court the first time, the judge had said and entered into record that this was a total waste of the courts time, and the charge that she used to keep our daughter away from me was lifter!! But then afterwards, she ran with our daughter for a yes before we could get into court... Well i hoped a lawyer for three domestic situation and also hired him for preparing the divorce!! Well needless to say my lawyer sided and have into her demands without talking with me first, so i fired him in the court room and hired another lawyer!! Well the second lawyer went to the court everything was entered into record and of all things my lawyer went and seen another one of his clients in jail, where of all things my lawyer had Contraband on him!!! Wow!!! Well he didn't finish the papers, and now once again she has ran with our daughter for a year!! i haven't seen or been able to talk to our daughter in a very long time!!! But i can't understand why the judge won't do anything about this???? She falsely accused me of a serious crime, ran with our daughter twice now for a year at a time, and she has nothing done to her!!! i go to jail, don't know where my daughter is, or even if she is safe, lose my house my job, retirement from hiring lawyers who won't fight for me, and now don't have money for a lawyer, can't get legal aid bc my ex wife has a legal aid lawyer!!!! What CAN i do about it??? I've done everything i know to do to be in our daughters life and she has ran with her and kept our daughter from seeing and speaking with me!!I mean that's parental alienating! That's against the law! And why is it i can't get anything done about it?? This has been going on for almost 3 yrs now.... This has got to stop!!!!!!!
Nov 24th, 2018
Aly M. from Henrico, VA writes:
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It's not just against men. I have been forced to take an anger management/domestic violence course even though there is no evidence of violence or anger from me. It's because the court makes money off of these false charges and meanwhile my reputation is affected simply because the opposing counsel wants to create an illusion that I'm an unfit mother only so she seek assurance that her client will be awarded attorney fees. It's all about the money and I have yet to be proved wrong.
Nov 19th, 2018
Brent O. from Santa Clara, CA writes:
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I would like to start a campaign called 'Not One Dime!'. Most false domestic violence allegations are financially motivated, and the attorneys expect to be able to 'negotiate' them away in settlement return for money and property. The unjustly accused should stop this practice by not giving in to blackmail, and should give 'Not One Dime' towards bargaining away false allegations. If someone has valid DV allegations, let them take their allegations through due process, and keep their orders if they actually earn them and require them, but let's remove the financial incentive for falsifying DV allegations.
Nov 12th, 2018
Nancy T. from Plainville, IL writes:
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Obtained protection order to steal everything including my deceased brothers property! He knew relationship was nearing the end and got o.p. to keep me off property where all my wordly posessions including my brothers who had just past. He was selling property and giving property away on facebook. Police said it was civil. Jointly owned car gave to his exwife. Police said its civil! Burnt my stuff and mail and is still getting away with this crap a year later. Even had tracker put on my phone! Lost everything and cant afford attorney!
Nov 7th, 2018
Someone from Arlington, TN writes:
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It happens to women as well! His new way of getting me not to leave him is Trumping up a charge, waiting a month or so, bonding me out after having filed for divorce and make it impossible for me to go on with a normal life. Have a job, have friends ect., iou get it. It’s been going on for three years and now I’m fighting a felony for the time frame in which his episodes of fear occur! Will it ever end!?
Nov 3rd, 2018
Someone from Whittier, CA writes:
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I am a victim going threw this right now. My wife is using this as atoll in are divorce. I missed my hearing by 10 min do to the local sheriff pulling me over before court witch resulted in me showing up late and the judge issuing a 3 year Dvro. Witch I violated for driving by my house where my wife has not lived since a month before she got the dvro. But was outside with cops cause a neighbor called and said there was noise coming from my property. She spotted me they pulled me over and arrested me for coming whithin a hundred yards. Now I'm facing criminal charges. All cause she wanted me in jail so I could default on the divorce so she can walk away with all the proceeds. And just like the story mentioned about the kid from Florida she called the police and family members the day I bailed out and falsely accusaed me of being at our house the night I bailed out in attempts to get me arrested again. She has taken everything and now wants my freedom and my life.
Oct 31st, 2018
Someone from Post Falls, ID writes:
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My son is going through same thing .this has to stop.
Oct 29th, 2018
Someone from Wadsworth, IL writes:
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My family is dealing with this very issue. So sad that someone has no remorse for the lies to ruin ones life and keep him away from his daughter!

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