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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Public Comments
May 15th, 2018
T C. from Indianapolis, IN writes:
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We are dealing with legalized child abduction from a verified Abuser, Felon & DUI, yet his Criminal Lawyer abuses my rights to fair & equitable trial.... This is what my son(6) & I have suffered under since 2013 : false allegations of Mental Illness -we have no protection! We are post Divorce & I was shanked ! no share of the estate & no parenting rights. My ex should go to jail & I regain my rights!!!
May 8th, 2018
Dont C. from Winchester, MA writes:
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This is becoming an epidemic. We just launched a site and blog for victims of false abuse allegations to share their stories to help bring exposure to this growing issue. Visit dontcrywolf.org to share your own stories and contribute and help spread the word. For many victims there is not due process - especially in the communities where the falsely accused live and are trying to raise children. We would like domestic violence victims to share their thoughts on the dontcrywolf.org blog on this topic to get their perspective. I hope this petition gets some traction! I will share this on the dontcrywolf.org site right now.
Apr 22nd, 2018
Mark K. from Apple Valley, CA writes:
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I wrongfully accused and then poorly (HELD UP for more money) at my arraingment. Grieving over a death in the family same week of my arraignment, scared of the "unknown" and "why" this was happening, I changed my plea simply to deny my counselor/attorney for misleading me. If your attorney deny's you an upfront play-by-play and total cost up front, FIND a NEW LAWYER. THIS GUY RUINED My life. I have never hit a woman, but she HIT me and Sheriff's didn't care.
Apr 22nd, 2018
Ronald T. from Punta Gorda, FL writes:
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Due process under law when charged not in existence. Just handcuffs and the hell thereafter.
Apr 15th, 2018
Someone from Champlin, MN writes:
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In state of Minnesota, the supreme court made a change in a good way. Usally an domestic or past OFP/HARASSMENT Order you can go way back. So now it os relevent to show a person can use that.
Apr 14th, 2018
Someone from Mill Valley, CA writes:
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The nature of this problem being what it is I understand that a lot of the commentary is necessarily personally biographical in nature. And this is not intended to take anything away from that, I know and share your pain, but what I would like to see is more hard statistical data on this problem. Do states track the number of DVRO's they issue? And how long they last, and what percentage of the men are arrested, and or prosecuted as a result? I read once that 100's of men commit suicide annually after having DVRO's filed against them. We can all tell our stories, and they will to a man be sad but until hard data is collected that will irrefutably show the trends of related to this issue sadly I don't see much being done here. Does anyone know a reporter who works at a high profile publication like the Times, or Vanity Fair? They have research departments that are professionals at sourcing data. You get a named reporter to do an expose with hard facts, from there you take a run at T.V. shows like PBS, Frontline, 60 Minutes, THEN with public sentiment at your back you go to elected officials. I'm sorry to say this but what this movement doesn't need are anymore sad stories, what we need is a marketing plan, and a PR firm. There have to be a lot of people impacted by this, and within that group there must be second, and third people removed who know people. This group needs to leverage those connections to tell the story. A story which I'm sorry to say is too little in the public consciousness at the present time. There is a time and a place for personal accounts, and I will suggest that a therapists office is great for that. If you haven't been you should go, now. But from those ranks we need warriors who want to fight this, people who can put their personal pain aside and say "Yes, I hurt, but I'm able and willing to fight" and then to stay in the fight once it's begun. That's a petition I'd sign, and it's a battle I'm ready to fight.
Apr 4th, 2018
Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington, DC (202) 224-5225 Ask for Senator Chuck Grassley or Evelyn Fortier. Tell them to STOP the "ex-parte", non-constitutional orders. They are causing an epidemic of false accusations, and the accused is assumed GUILTY, with NOTHING but an accusation. This problem is HUGE, but has largely been "hidden", because the accused is LITERALLY assumed guilty, and once the order is served, its pretty much over and done with. They give you a court date that is made to "look" like a trial, but you were ALREADY ASSUMED guilty, that's why you're ALREADY out of the HOUSE! So see? Its already done! Why would a judge say "no, I think its better if he goes back"? It is LITERALLY GUILTY, unless you can somehow disprove a negative, when usually the Judge won't even allow you to speak! Its what some would call a "rubber stamping process". These orders are in DIRECT violation of the US Constitution in many ways... the right to a trial (the "trial" is not a trial at all, you're not even allowed to speak). The right to due process? The accused is LITERALLY kicked out of their OWN house, immediately, without even being able to speak... simply because he was accused. If it is later found out, that the accuser lied, the accuser is GUARANTEED, to not be prosecuted. That's why they falsely accuse so often... because they know there is no risk. Even if they get caught lying under oath, they are NEVER prosecuted... yes, never. We live in a very adversarial society (unfortunately ), and our government keeps giving us "tools" to manipulate, black mail, and extort money from each other, with false accusations. Its the go to tactic in divorce situations, and every lawyer knows it. Men living with women can be controlled and manipulated, with just the THREAT of a false accusation and Protective Order / Restraining Order. There is NO defense for it. Give Americans their due process back, and stop violating people's most basic rights. Call them. Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington) 202-224-5225 Or keep getting falsely accused... Trust me, EVERY female KNOWS she can do this.... all she needs is a reason. Yes, its THAT easy for them! Its because of our LAWS! They NEED to CHANGE.
Apr 4th, 2018
Someone from Cambridge, MA writes:
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i was a career firefighter/paramedic and a FEMA rescue specialest prior to be falsely accused of domestic violence by my mental ill ex girlfriend who is diagnosed with boarder line personally disorder. She was violent and i would never strike a women, its not in me, I always walked away even to the point where i would leave my own home to stop the assault on myself. I finally broke it off with her and walked away and she thrented to ruin my life if i left her, she called the police and made the accusation with no injuries or signs of struggle, My fire department terminated me due to accusation and based there destine solely on a police report and i have lost the love my life and that is the fire service. im broken and now i have lost it all cause i decided to get of a toxic and abusive relationship
Mar 30th, 2018
Someone from Gilbert, PA writes:
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My former fiancé was arrested for assaulting me when she called the cops herself. I refused to testify, wrote a letter to the DA all the while she was setting me up and she tried to say in court it was my fault. She got her charges dropped. 6 months later she attacks me for I think the 6th time. I grab her and hold her down, not gently mind you but o sure as hell didn’t assault her, I didn’t hit her, I just didn’t want to be hit again. I get out of the house, next morning arrested for felony charges for domestic violence. She called me 250 times since then. Testified in court at preliminary where I wasn’t allowed to speak. Ended up pleading guilty to misdemeanors. Law enforcement career ruined, almost lost my daughter from a previous relationship. Total nightmare. The system is rigged against males in this case and the laws certainly need to be changed. If your being hit, leave. Don’t defend yourself ever. She hits you once end the relationship or end up like me. Life ruined and a year later still trying to pick up the pieces.
Mar 28th, 2018
Someone from West Hartford, CT writes:
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In CT I am guilty until proven innocent. The problem is no one is interested in my story. Wife is a drug addict who came to steal the children and claimed domestic abuse with no physical evidence. I have been fighting this for 6 months now. I regained my children because she landed in jail for child endangerment and identity theft but I'm still guilty. I have the kids but no job because I could not find affordable child care. Today they offered me a suspended sentence and probation. I'm not guilty. I have petitioned the judge for a family violence program so my sentence (of my "guilt") will be removed after I complete the program. Thank goodness for my military service because I don't know how we would survive.
Mar 4th, 2018
Chase R. from Hendersonville, TN writes:
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This happened to me! I am a professional musician and I came home from playing a show. My wife Bailey was intoxicated under the care of my child. She also had her sister’s boyfriend, who was not allowed in my house per my rule, as he is a convicted felon, over at the house drinking, with my 7-month-old daughter present. I came home and locked Bailey out of our bedroom as she was out of control and highly intoxicated. She was not touched whatsoever. She was out of control and I did the right thing to separate her from the incident with out any physical violence taking place. She stole my phone and called 911 from outside, on herself. I answered the door, politely answered the police officers questions, she came back into the house, I went upstairs to go to bed. The next morning, December 22nd, I woke up and Bailey left and I didn’t know where she went, and she took my daughter, Renley. I quickly found out that they were over at my in laws. I was upset because I had a show at 6 pm and hadn’t seen my daughter; I was absolutely fine with not seeing Bailey. So I went to work, played my show and went home to find Bailey present. I was extremely angry and told her not to come out of the room, as I wanted to sit alone with my daughter. My motive for telling her to stay separate is due in part to her erratic behavior the previous night. Per the AFFIDAVIT, Bailey (Wife) claims that I said I would smash her head in. This is a false statement. I said, ‘Do NOT come out here, I am going to sit alone with her, DO NOT come out of this bedroom.’ Again, I said this because of the incident, which took place the night before. I said NOTHING to the sort of smashing her head in. She did not listen and she came out of the bedroom, I specifically told her not to call the police. I said if she called the police, ‘that that would be the end of it, you f&*king*****.’ My intentions in saying that were to say I am not going to continue on in this marriage if your going to act like a psycho and call the cops, just like she did the previous night. In no way could those comments be stretched to imply that I was going to kill her or hurt ANYONE. On January the 8th during the Circuit Circuit Court hearing with judge Thompson, I learned that they went on to go upstairs to find my airsoft guns, which existed entirely independent of any events that took place. There was never a shotgun in the house. Per the avadavat, she claims that I had, what appeared to be a shotgun, and that I was loading it. So if she saw me loading it, did she see any ammo? Was there any ammo recovered? The police never found the shotgun that she ‘allegedly’ claimed that I had. All I remember taking upstairs were extra sheets and toiletries, I have no idea what she could have ‘allegedly’ thought was a gun. So after the verbal fight between the both of us, I then separated myself from her and went to the upstairs bedroom and went to sleep. I take prescribed Ambien and had alcohol in my system, but I was not overly intoxicated. I received a call from a blocked telephone number and I answered it. I remember being agitated at the call because I didn’t feel as though it was a cop. The police initiated contact with me through a blocked number, which set the course for my behavior. It was not a professional nor was it common practice of police being introduced to a situation. The officer could not clearly articulate himself at all and I remember asking him to have his supervisor call me if he was indeed a police officer. I was insulting and I was rude, I regret that. The supervisor did call me and I remember adamantly denying any allegations of assault in any form or fashion. I was again very rude, however, I did feel as though they were harassing me. I had separated myself from the situation and rather than any form of defusing, the police escalated the incident. It wasn’t until January 8th, in Circuit Court, that I learned that they tried to call me at least 12 additional times. The subpoenaed officer testified to this on January 8th. He also made several speculations, one of which included him claiming that I could see him through my doorbell security camera, which unfortunately was not set at the time. I never knew the police were outside. They claim to have made several attempts to knock on the door, and I am 110 percent certain they never tried to initiate contact through knocking on my door. My toy poodle would have absolutely lost his******and it would have been impossible for me to sleep through that, under any influence. He WAS however snarling, which he does when someone is lurking. I heard this, and in conjunction with the calls I was irritated and went downstairs to see what was going on. As I went down the stairs, I fell and injured my ankle bad. I was even more agitated at this point and called the police department back to complain. I didn’t know whether they were rummaging around or not, but I wanted to know if they were about my property and that the badgering felt like harassment. The officer then told me he was outside, I said, ‘ok, well I’m coming out there so you can look at my ankle.’ I opened the door and 6-8 police officers had me at gunpoint with NO WEAPONS or threat of physical attack. On January 8th, the officer testified that I walked out with no warning that is completely and utterly false. I learned that the cops were staked out at my residence for what I was told was at least 2 hours. I felt like it was a drama fest and each and every one of them was acting a drama king. None of what took place was necessary. What I mentioned above was important because In Circuit Court, the pivotal point was my acts of being ‘belligerent’, on the account that the police tried to reason with me for 11 minutes exactly, on two separate calls, and was unable to do so. Even in a medicated state, doesn’t it seem reasonable to be slightly irritated at the police badgering the situation. They claimed to have been doing their jobs, but I denied any sort of domestic abuse allegation verbally on the phone. They used my ‘belligerence’ as a reason of probable cause to convict me. There was no real proof of any wrong doing on my part. I was in an agitated state where I had done the right thing and walked away, it was a petty verbal dispute that turned into me making life-threatening statements to my wife. I never threatened anyone and I never implied there was going to be a shootout. In Circuit Court, she worded the events entirely different, she said I said, ‘I am going to kill you.’ So, it went from me saying I was going to smash her head in, to I was going to end her, to ‘I am going to kill you’. Her statements lack consistency entirely. Now a PO is on me and I can’t talk to my wife about VERY important business matters, I couldn’t go back to my house to get a thing, and most importantly, I can’t see my baby girl of 8 months whatsoever. I filed an appeal on the PO so I could take care of simple matters and see my daughter in ANY capacity at all, and it was denied because I wouldn’t call myself an alcoholic to the court. The judge believes our domestic dispute inside the home was fueled by alcohol, it was not. I told him in the first hearing of the PO that I would address the issue professionally and simply take drinking out of the equation. I did entirely, and didn’t touch a drink for 45 days. Spending time in AA groups ASSURED me that I was not an alcoholic, but the law is making me say ‘I’m an alcoholic’. When I clearly am not. The initial arrest didn’t have anything to do with alcohol, but my WOFES ATTORNEY is using this as STRATEGY. I must my daughter! She is growing up month to month without me and it’s breaking my heart. For the record, I have never hurt a FLY, my record is clean with the exception of this allegation. I do not resort to violence of any kind. I would NEVER harm a woman under any circumstance whatsoever! I would appreciate the help and pray for the success of this petition!
Feb 20th, 2018
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington, D.C.) (202) 224-5225 Call them!!! Tell them to restore DUE PROCESS, PRESUMPTION of INNOCENCE, and start PROSECUTING the known proven LIARS, who get caught perjuring themselves. The WAR on men, has got to stop! Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington, D.C.) (202) 224-5225
Feb 15th, 2018
Andrew Y. from Morrow, OH writes:
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Most people would never believe this until they had to live it. I knew it happened, still yet... ended up in the same position. As a former police officer and former corrections officer I knew all too well how things can happen. I just didn't realize how ridiculous Ohio is with this. I have lived this hell for the past 8 months. Unlike some others on here, mine just got done and I pray my life returns to normal soon. Here is where the misconceptions come into play- most everyone thinks that the local government has the safety and concern for domestic violence victims at heart, and to an extent they do. But when there is proof that the person accused and/or arrested didn't do it, or no evidence to prove without a reasonable doubt that they did commit the crime... they still won't drop it. Domestic Violence is not as much a crime as it is a money maker for the city/county etc... you were charged in. The city or county is able to show their conviction rate is high, pushing that they have made the community safer. This brings in grants by itself. The biggest benefit for them though, is all of the state and federal grant money that is available for both arrests and then again for prosecutions of domestic violence. Look up your state. See how much grant money and to who they give the grant money, for the arrest and also the prosecution of DV. Then search federal grants to see how much is available. With mine, I faced 2 charges of DV. Between the local police dept, and the county prosecutors office- they stood to lose almost $40,000 -yes, almost $40k!!!! Talk about criminal activity! Now think about why you, I or the next man (or woman) are arrested. It's not about politics, it's not about the crime that much itself. But once 911 has been called, you just invited them in. The cops arrested me after being at my house around 15-20 min. I was the one with marks all over. I had to beg them to take pics of my injuries. I didn't do anything besides participate in arguing...They didn't care. I was outside waiting for them.... calm, cool and collected. But what they saw was a guy wearing a cutoff shirt with big arms and tattoos. Then wrote in the criminal complaint that I was wearing a "wife beater"... cliche right?! That was the deciding factor to me being the latest moneymaker!
Feb 13th, 2018
Daniel A. from Granite Bay, CA writes:
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Avoid DV all together! Keep from losing your parental rights! Keep Custody of your beloved children. Protect yourself from the manic, bipolar, schizophrenic ex. Men need to read the book "House of Straw" a book for men on separation and divorce. www.kennedybell.net
Feb 13th, 2018
Kennedy B. from Truckee, CA writes:
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excellent article. Time for reform
Feb 13th, 2018
james p. from Waterford, ME writes:
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My life destroyed ,homeless, jobless and unemployable for a misdemeanor charge. Unable to see daughter since 12 years and daughter now 26 working as a prostitute and adult dancer. her daughter now effected and living in foster care. This was all due to a lie from the ex-wife's mother. lawyer said take the plea, SO I took the plea and now my life is hopeless. case is 20 years old denied a pardon 2017. check out movie "MEN DON"T TELL" that's close to my story. good luck to those know that your not alone. one year 1/2 prison for a plea deal that I was innocent for. born USA , please wish someone would deport me. I might find peace and happiness. god bless and don't give up!
Feb 12th, 2018
Someone from Austin, TX writes:
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In Texas we have prisons full of those falsely accused and then automatically convicted to pay to keep the prisons open...
Feb 6th, 2018
Someone from Rancho Cucamonga, CA writes:
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It’s not just men who are victimized by a false DV charge. It happens to women as well. This injustice occurred June 21, 2011. I thank God the Judge said, no evidence of DV, but I still order you out of your home. Your petition needs to be gender neutral so both men and women can sign it. Believe me...I am sorry that you have been falsely accused. God in His mercy removed the DV for me. But I still lost my child and home.
Feb 2nd, 2018
Someone from Montgomery, WV writes:
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These allegations have ruined my life, it has been a means to control me, control the time I can spend with my children and manipulate the courts to lean her way in divorce hearings. On top of the dvp she has filed 2 petitions and has had me arrested for driving past me on the road, when we are living less than 1/2 miles apart. She has used it to demonize me to her friends and family. Please do something about this, I understand the importance of protection of the abused, but there has to be something to stop the filing of all the false dvp’s
Jan 26th, 2018
Todd L. from Carnesville, GA writes:
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It destroys lives everyday. Money should be no object to gain justice. I should have every right a mother should. Thank you
Jan 13th, 2018
Chris E. from Land O Lakes, FL signed.
Jan 12th, 2018
Michelle H. from Woolwich, ME signed.
Jan 12th, 2018
Victor M. from La Puente, CA writes:
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Is there any way of beating a false charge and why doesn't the system press charges on any women I worked I San Francisco all night I work 10 hours after I got off I drove back to Los Angeles I go home started to make my bed and not even 20 minutes my daughter say moms calling the police they took my out of my house for domestic violence charge they couldn't do that and charged me with being under the influence how does that happen I don't under stand how they can lie bout I go to jail lost my job .....REALLY SUCKS FOR MEN I ENDWD UP GETTING 52 WEEKS SVC AND SPENT 9 MONTH S IN JAIL FOR WHAT WORKING MY ADS OFF COME ON ...and totopiroff it was a women judgewhat an ******* she was she wouldn't listen to nothing and now I'm getting a devorice thanks to the system that protects our rights guess I'm no an American citizen looks like we have no rights..huh
Jan 12th, 2018
Someone from Roswell, NM writes:
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Anyone who makes a false allegation, should receive the consequences for the crime she's accusing someone of. i.e. if you falsely accuse someone of rape, you should the prison sentence for rape. And BRING BACK Presumption of Innocence!
Jan 11th, 2018
Jason M. from New London, NC writes:
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Here in Stanly county NC our justice system is overrun by filth and ignorance. Combine this with the current domestic violence laws and what we have here is nothing short of criminal activity by our own state each and every day. Our courts are overrun by cases where people are taking complete advantage of a law that basically puts a badge on a angered citizen and an innocent person ‘s future ends up the hands of a Stanly county born and raised redneck magistrate. I can’t possibly begin to tell you my story and the lack of respect our police and magistrates have for themselves, God, and the public they are sworn to protect. Please make it possible for a man or woman, accused of domestic violence, to rightfully defend themselves before putting them in jail. It is unconstitutional!
Jan 8th, 2018
Geraldo A. from Modesto, CA writes:
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I marry with my wife for 14 years. I met her. In California on Silicon Valley, On August 21 2017 I was put in jail . due to my wife false accused me for domestic violence and force having sex. He's is illegal I try to legalize her, but there is a prison time. Do it because she was deported 3 times back to Mexico. We have 3 children, 2 girls and one boy. The house that she is living in now I pay for it.. I was put in jail. She is trying to get American visa. Keep my house and keep my children. I am American citizen and I want justice.
Jan 8th, 2018
Geraldo A. from Modesto, CA writes:
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I marry with my wife for 14 years. I met her. In California on Silicon Valley, On August 21 2017 I was put in jail . due to my wife false accused me for domestic violence and force having sex. He's is illegal I try to legalize her, but there is a prison time. Do it because she was deported 3 times back to Mexico. We have 3 children, 2 girls and one boy. The house that she is living in now I pay for it.. I was put in jail. She is trying to get American visa. Keep my house and keep my children. I am American citizen and I want justice.
Jan 6th, 2018
Corey R J. from Indianapolis, IN writes:
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Thank you for your movement I'm a victim in Indianapolis Indiana. The courts have absolutely created another victim in my situation and daily basis. Highly interested in joining the movement.
Jan 4th, 2018
Steven G. from Charlotte, NC signed.
Jan 4th, 2018
Steven G. from Charlotte, NC signed.
Jan 3rd, 2018
Someone from Pearl River, NY writes:
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After consulting with 4/5 divorce attorneys my ex spouse had the police come to my house and remove me from my home. I later discovered that my ex had filed a false Family Offense Petition against me alleging domestic violence. I was to appear in court within 4 or 5 days following the false accusation apparently to have a hearing on this. The IDV court judge adjourned this hearing for 10 months to coincide with family court and matrimonial proceedings. When it was time for me to answer the false accusations the judge criticized me and asked what I was talking about. When I advised that I wished to address the false accusations alleged against me, the judge stated in Court that my ex had not provided one ounce of evidence and so the issue was moot. However, in this 10 months I was removed from my home and taken away from my 6 month old child with only very restrictive visitation. My house went into foreclosure and my credit was ruined. I even produced evidence that it was, in fact, I who had been domestically abused by my ex in the form of pictures and an admission from my ex, but the judge ignored the evidence. She then found primary custody for my ex wife even though she has had drug and other felony convictions and also had arrests for battery in her prior relationships.
Jan 1st, 2018
Sally V. from Irvine, CA writes:
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This is not only about men, my husband was arrested on mother's day of 2017 and i didn't press charges against him inreturn he has filed a demstic violence restraining order against me and took my children away from me and file divorce papers I was served on September 6th 2017. I didn't know anything was this going on until I was served domestic violence restraining order against took my kids from me i was the stay home mom for 13 years all these years up to September 6th 2017 he had no prove just the latter from the DA dropping charges against him saying not enough edvince and the child welfare case plan because I had 1 mental break down he try to used that against me when I did everything to keep my children in my care and I completed it. I had no criminal background until now I broke the restraining order by texting my daughter and my husband then I turn myself in because I was sick of his accusations he keeps on accused me. This law need to change it mess up the victims life and the children's life in CA if a person does a DV restraining order and devorce papers they dont have to pay alimony and child support. Someone should done procalled to contacting child welfare to make sure everything he was saying was truthful no one did it destroys the real victim and the children involved this law is a nightmare
Jan 1st, 2018
Sally V. from Irvine, CA writes:
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This is not only about men, my husband was arrested on mother's day of 2017 and i didn't press charges against him inreturn he has filed a demstic violence restraining order against me and took my children away from me and file divorce papers I was served on September 6th 2017. I didn't know anything was this going on until I was served domestic violence restraining order against took my kids from me i was the stay home mom for 13 years all these years up to September 6th 2017 he had no prove just the latter from the DA dropping charges against him saying not enough edvince and the child welfare case plan because I had 1 mental break down he try to used that against me when I did everything to keep my children in my care and I completed it. I had no criminal background until now I broke the restraining order by texting my daughter and my husband then I turn myself in because I was sick of his accusations he keeps on accused me. This law need to change it mess up the victims life and the children's life in CA if a person does a DV restraining order and devorce papers they dont have to pay alimony and child support. Someone should done procalled to contacting child welfare to make sure everything he was saying was truthful no one did it destroys the real victim and the children involved this law is a nightmare
Jan 1st, 2018
Brandon C. from Westbrook, ME writes:
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Please help those of us set apart from our families because of lies.
Dec 31st, 2017
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Male = criminal Female = victim Its literally written into our LAWS!! Government sponsored extortion. Congress and feminism did this.
Dec 31st, 2017
William cameron K. from Portland, OR writes:
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This is Oregon way of removing dedicated Fathers from a child's life. My son and I were raped of our close and meaningful relationship of 6.5 years.
Dec 31st, 2017
William cameron K. from Portland, OR writes:
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This is Oregon way of removing dedicated Fathers from a child's life. My son and I were raped of our close and meaningful relationship of 6.5 years.
Dec 30th, 2017
Susan T. from Elkridge, MD signed.
Dec 30th, 2017
Matthew W. from Los Angeles, CA signed.
Dec 27th, 2017
Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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My mentally ill wife under the influence/abetting from my mother-in-law falsely alleged me raping her to the police, when I called 911 after my emotionally out-of controlled mother-in-law punched my face, trying to stop my moving car on the street. My mother-in-law is an illegal immigrant. She is doing this for her own immigration benefit ( I heard of U-visa)

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