Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

Help us stop false allegations of domestic violence. Keep our children from hurting because of lies

We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.


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Public Comments (14,523)
1 day ago
Someone from Williamston, NC writes:
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I am a victim of this very thing. The evidence I have is overwhelming, yet because she is a woman an accusation false or not I am automatically treated as guilty. The fallout is damaging in so many areas of my life there are not words. How one person can do this to another is beyond my understanding. This is not just unconstitutional, wrong, and unjust. It is just plain wrong cruel and unusual. False allegations are real and they ruin the lives of good men!
Oct 19th, 2018
Someone from Tallahassee, FL writes:
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Forget about it. Play the hand you were dealt. fight back to the top like a King.
Oct 7th, 2018
Joye B. from Gordon, GA writes:
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This happens in same sex couples also, there are women and men who need protection but there are entirely to many people sitting behind bars being kept from their children because of false unfounded aligations. Laws were changed because of fear from truly abused individuals being so afraid of comforting their abusers in most states the accused is deemed guilty from the start and their side of the story is totally ignored. Guilty no matter what evidence you have showing your accusers past history of prior false reports. It's easy for them to have restraining orders... Because your rights are gone based on their word only.
Oct 3rd, 2018
Someone from Caldwell, ID writes:
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I discovered my wife whom I had been married to and tried very hard to take care of was cheating on me, after which I gently touched her face to wake her up, and tapped her knee cap to get her attention, the rest was talk of how could she do this to me, as well as some harsh names I called her, but I never threatened her, she turned the story into I was out of control, and squeezed her face until her cheeks bled, then I slapped her leg. A sympathetic officer interviewed her and she added that I had destroyed property and had become increasingly violent. Which everyone I know and meet will tell you they can't see me doing that, and that's not like me at all, i'm the easiest, mellowest guy you'll ever meet. She then talked about how afraid she was of me ( Two weeks after the incident she yelled at me in our car when I was picking her up for an appointment she asked me to take her to, I did not retaliate in any way I HAVE EVIDENCE) in custody hearing she tried to use it against me, it was denied. Then 6 months went by then a warrant was issued for my arrest before Christmas, She had custody of my son, and at this point it was clear what she wanted, I went to the police to have them do a welfare check on my son whom I hadn't seen for 4 months because she was ignoring my texts and giving me excuses of why I couldn't have him. I went to jail peacefully. Thankfully I had family who bailed me out, but I was told there was a no contact order (which later on about a month or two I discovered there hadn't been one) at this point I was engaged to my current wife. When I was arrested the court day was set, and thus changed my life. I had NEVER BEEN PROSECUTED, NEVER ACCUSED, NEVER DONE ANYTHING WRONG IN MY ENTIRE LIFE BECAUSE I AM A GOOD PERSON. But now because a cop called and accused me of punching her, which I denied, he said it was fishy that I didn't say I touched her at first, because the first thing he said was I punched her LIE #1, then he proceeded to ask me you slapped her and made her face bleed from grabbing her so hard, would you be surprised if she had injuries? LIE #2 he wrote on his report there were no obvious injuries or marks. I said yeah, because I didn't hurt her. Then he asked me what about threatening to punch her, she said you said if you weren't laying down then i'd punch you. I said NO, what I said was you're lucky I don't because i'm not that kind of a guy. WHICH HE ASKED ME TO REPEAT, IT'S ON RECORDING WHICH PLAYED IN COURT. His report stated that I said that I would punch her if she wasn't laying down. LIE #3 FOLKS FROM AN OFFICER WHO LIED IN COURT AND HIS REPORT! Among saying many other bad things about me AND ADMITTING PROPER PROCEDURES WEREN'T TAKEN, I was still convicted of Domestic Battery In the Presence of a child. (BECAUSE MY CHILD WAS IN THE SAME HOUSE). All advancements my public defender took were shut down to prove motive, to explain my innocence and prove her lies, because ladies and gentleman, she couldn't remember 90% of what my public defender asked her, A REAL VICTIM WOULD NEVER FORGET! The court would not allow any extra evidence I had like 2 occasions after the alleged event that she was the one who was showing signs of abuse and control. For example! A: Accusing me of sexually molesting my son!? That's sick, that was thrown out the window a week after I finally got court custody. B: Adding to the story, now I was also making her have sexual relations with me on top of all the other things. C: She went for a no contact order- which was denied, because there was no evidence to support I needed one. Lady's and Gentleman I share my story because I want Men to stand up, and Women to support us who have fallen because of the ABUSE that some women have decided to manipulate the system to their favor. I had a clean record, and never did anything unlawful because I wanted to make myself a great person, but now, it's hard to find work, I may not be able to witness the birth of my daughter from my new wife who is now living in another state because we wanted to move there together, but I can't, they denied me because of these charges, also, my current 3 year old son, may not be able to be with me at all because of these charges, I may be the one in jail for 1 year because of her lies and deceit. I am the one living in fear of my ex-wife, but she knows how to play the game, so does her mother who might I add, has had many charges, and crimes, and her children have many crimes and juvenile problems.
Oct 3rd, 2018
Cheryl B. from Layton, UT writes:
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My son is currently going through this situation in Fairbanks, Alaska. It is destroying his life. He has not seen his 3 and 4 year old children since May, 2018. ALL because of lies, she is the abuser!
Oct 1st, 2018
Someone from Hampstead, NC writes:
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My spouse of nine years recently committed perjury by falsifying domestic violence while stationed in Japan and received a DVPO and ex-parte to return to NC. I went back to NC to fight these erroneous allegations and provided a police report, from an incident that had occurred, that my wife was the perpetrator. The NC judge still granted my wife temporary primary custody. I now live in Japan alone without my children. Where is the justice?
Oct 1st, 2018
Justin M. from Hampstead, NC writes:
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My spouse of nine years recently committed perjury by falsifying domestic violence while stationed in Japan and received a DVPO and ex-parte to return to NC. I went back to NC to fight these erroneous allegations and provided a police report, from an incident that had occurred, that my wife was the perpetrator. The NC judge still granted my wife temporary primary custody. I now live in Japan alone without my children. Where is the justice?
Sep 29th, 2018
Someone from Las Vegas, NV writes:
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I am accused of domestic violence, she perjured herself all over the place and still I haven't seen my children in almost 3 weeks to date. She and her sister called the police, the police came and said this is not abuse it is a family law case. She turned around and filed a protective order saying I pulled her hair and was punching her, that I previously pulled a gun on her. The police don't investigate or prosecute people for lies, they call it perjury but it means do what you want and nobody will do anything to you for lying. Our justice system is a joke. The self help centers are biased and the woman organizations tell them what to put to lie. The DOJ and FBI need to prosecute the district attorneys and judges that don't do anything about all the lies.
Sep 28th, 2018
Someone from Altamonte Springs, FL writes:
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I can definately relate to this and was suprised yesterday as I watched the hearing with Brett Kavanaugh and him being accused jsut because someone said so without any corroborating evidence I never would have thought this would happen to someone with a high stature such as Brett Kavanaugh, I have had accusations made against me some 38 or 39 timesfrom someone who learned how to use the legal system to bully me I once was accused of violating and injuction that never excisted and sat in jail for 40 days before my attorney presented this information at my court hearing in which all the charges were dropped and the case dismissed, I was also arrested 3 or 4 times for missing court dates I knew nothing about in which in all the cases they were all dismissed with exception of the last one in 2016 which the Judge granted a 7 year injuction in which in my personal opinion this Judge has no common sense or integrity to even see that these same accusations had been made over 35 times and had been dismissed over 35 times, I wanted to sue the courts and all the agencies involved but found out in the state of Florida the Legislature passed a statues that the courts have a right to violate your rights and there is nothing you can do about it what a screwed up legal system we have that you can be accused of something without any evidence other than hear say, the courts did discover the accuser was bi-polar after a court ordered mental investigation of my accuser which was ordered to get on medication for being bi-polar
Sep 3rd, 2018
Stephen G. from Huntington park, CA writes:
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We should all be treated and valued equal . Thats the true nature of business our America stands for .

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