Unfair child support laws
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Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Inglewood, CA writes:
My wife gets childsupport for her son from her X. The welfare used that towards my income therefore making my monthly income higher. This is Discusting ! A lot of so called women Keep having Kids to get paid. Trash trash This amount of money being generated is enormous '. Taking our tax returns ,make arrears , charging interest on arrears , man most of us can't even afford to pay the welfare We don't even bring that much money in ! Pigs !!!!! Sit home n collect someone else's hard earned money n still have no conscience !! Pigs. Haha I'm going to duh club gurlfrand ! My childsupport check came in. Pigs ! -
Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Springfield, MO writes:
I Agree I Have An 8 Year Old Daughter And Her Mother My Ex-Wife Has Never Worked Yet I Have To Provide 50% Of My Childs Costs Of Living & I Guess The State Takes Care Of The Other 50% Why Is She Allowed To Just Sit On Her Butt I Do Not Care I Make The Payments Happily But I Was Told By The Judge That Day If I Did Not Pay My 50% + Insurance Fees I Could Go To Jail But She Gets To Sit At Home Collecting My Support Payments , TANF , Foodstamps & Housing Assistance How Is It That She Gets Off Scot Free And The Goverment Takes Care Of It This Is Why Our Economy Is So Bad & Why The Government Is So Broke Paying All These Payments To People Who Have No Medical Reasoning For Not Working !!! NEW FLASH WASHINGTON LAST TIME I CHECKED A SINGLE MOTHER IS NOT A DISABILITY THAT WARRANTS A DISABILITY CHECK IS IT THEN WHY THIS CHANGE THE LAW NOWREPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Springfield, MO writes:
I Agree I Have An 8 Year Old Daughter And Her Mother My Ex-Wife Has Never Worked Yet I Have To Provide 50% Of My Childs Costs Of Living & I Guess The State Takes Care Of The Other 50% Why Is She Allowed To Just Sit On Her Butt I Do Not Care I Make The Payments Happily But I Was Told By The Judge That Day If I Did Not Pay My 50% + Insurance Fees I Could Go To Jail But She Gets To Sit At Home Collecting My Support Payments , TANF , Foodstamps & Housing Assistance How Is It That She Gets Off Scot Free And The Goverment Takes Care Of It This Is Why Our Economy Is So Bad & Why The Government Is So Broke Paying All These Payments To People Who Have No Medical Reasoning For Not Working !!! NEW FLASH WASHINGTON LAST TIME I CHECKED A SINGLE MOTHER IS NOT A DISABILITY THAT WARRANTS A DISABILITY CHECK IS IT THEN WHY THIS CHANGE THE LAW NOWREPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Inglewood, CA writes:
Get surgery to not have any more kids don't go out with or even talk to foodstamp hookers or any so called woman. No job no man! No education no man if she can't stand on her own feet she can kick rocks. We need to Stop being Captain sava hoez. For real. Women are destroying us we need to be smarter n start leaving these broke down hoez aloneREPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Orlando, FL writes:
The system is out of date and no longer works... I wonder how many murders and suicides has happened because of it. . . .REPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 8th, 2013Someone from Ariel, WA signed.
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Nov 7th, 2013Someone from Maize, KS writes:
This is happening to my brother it is so sad the girls are all in either jr high or high school, there is 3 of them an hes paying his ex 1600.00 a month an she gets to sit at home with no job, he also is paying all insurance for the 3 girls an pays 80 percent of doctor bills when they come in. This is so unfair there is no reason she cant work, he has to work double time or even sometimes work a night job to just make it.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 7th, 2013Someone from Wichita, KS writes:
It's sad when you have to pay child support and the other half sets at home and does nothing. If I tried that I would be in jail.REPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 7th, 2013Someone from Rocky Mount, NC writes:
As a father that shares 50/50 custody of my child, how could child support say that due to my sons mother being pregnant with another man's child that if she decides to take leave that my child support would go up because now its my responsibility to take care of my son full time. Or order me to pay an extra 50 dollars a month to pay off my arrears and actually take 150. Now I find I can't hardly afford to take my son to do activities that cost money due to the fact that I'm paying out all of my money to his lazy mother that has 3 kids by 3 different men all under the age of 4. Or why is that due to her having 2 more kids in her household that I have to pay more, those aren't my kids!!!! I didn't get her pregnant. I go to work every day just to still have to struggle, I joined the Army Reserves to help my situation and make extra money just for child support to take most of that check also. I say who ever designed this system has done the male in the society very wrong. I'm actually someone that wants to be around his child and I'm being punished because his mother is nothing but a burden to society collecting all the free subsidies she can.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 7th, 2013Someone from Lusby, MD signed.
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Nov 7th, 2013Someone from Lusby, MD writes:
I am a mother of 3 girls and I have recently learned about the child custody/support system and frankly it is appalling. I think it is absurd that the court can order a father to pay more financial support to the mother than what her total monthly income is, and then on top of it limit his visitation to 6 days a month. We are allowing these women to stay home for 18 years and not help support their children, and then punishing men by not allowing them equal time with the children they are supporting. Why do the court systems immediately look down upon a father and assume he isn't fit to enough to share equal visitation with his own children, but then punish him by making him pay astronomical child support figures. These figures are so high; it makes it difficult for the father to provide an equally happy environment when the kids do get to visit those 6 days a month. How can a father afford to provide for his children on those 6 days a month when he is responsible to pay 50 percent of his usable income to the mother, who is likely (not always) not able to support herself let alone the children. Why do when get rewarded in a separation? They get full custody of the children and financial support for the next 18 years. Lastly, and most importantly, why is child support nontaxable income? The women that use the child support should have to claim that money as income. I know when you go to buy a house they ask if you are receiving child support so that they can use it as income. When you try to get assistance they ask if you receive child support so they can include it as income. So why shouldn't that parent have to claim those dollars as income? Not only does the father (non-custodial parent) have to support the children with 50% of their usable income, but they don't even have the right to claim that child as a deduction. Something needs to change, if we won't our children grow up happy and healthy and with good Morales. They need to see that no one gets a free hand out and if you decide to have a child you both will have to support the child emotionally and financially. This country is pushing fathers away from their children by only giving father's limited visitation with their children.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 7th, 2013Someone from Lusby, MD signed.
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Nov 7th, 2013Someone from Lusby, MD writes:
Everyone wants equal rights, well men should have just as much rights on visitation and women should be required to help supprot their children as well.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 7th, 2013Someone from Lake Wales, FL signed.
Nov 7th, 2013Someone from Albuquerque, NM writes:
Try paying alimony on top of child support. Not having a lawyer let her jackal of an attorney get away with setting cs above presumptive maximums and gave spousal support to a woman with a higher earning potential.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 6th, 2013Someone from Minocqua, WI signed.
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Nov 6th, 2013Someone from El Paso, TX writes:
These bastards would rather talk about Obamacare, immigration issues, etc instead of fixing the real issues here in the U.S. Abolish the CS system because it destroys lives and is illegal! It's been 4 months since I got laid off and it has been hard for me finding another job . Yet I am extremely struggling to pay my bills and CS. I have filed a motion for reduction a month before I got laid off and it's been 6 months without no court date or any type of notice. This is just genocide! Not that I would side on this, however, I know and heard of people deciding to take their own life because this destructive system allowes them to be separated from their child(ren) and puts more of a burden to makes ends meet. Their blood is in your hands Baboons (Congress)!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 6th, 2013Someone from El Paso, TX signed.
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Nov 5th, 2013Someone from Utica, NY writes:
Im my opinion mothers should supply a itemized summery of what the child support went to per month!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 5th, 2013Someone from Austin, TX writes:
Its like the system is design to intentionally destroy relationships of fathers with the kids... No questions asked, the just come in and go after men regardless of what the real situation is with the family. My sons mother told me she filed one day when she was mad at me...(nothing to do with our son). after just sending sending him back to her after having him for the whole summer like we've always done. now I have a sherrif hunting me down and harassing my love ones like Im a criminal. I have a job that sucks but I dont complain because I have one and it allows me to afford my son the support he needs. But now I have to deal with THIS...and no good lawyer because I could never afford a lawyer. All because her life sucks and the thought of me being happy with out her just doesnt sit well with her.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 5th, 2013Someone from Austin, TX writes:
Its like the system is design to intentionally destroy relationships of fathers with the kids... No questions asked, the just come in and go after men regardless of what the real situation is with the family. My sons mother told me she filed one day when she was mad at me...(nothing to do with our son). after just sending sending him back to her after having him for the whole summer like we've always done. now I have a sherrif hunting me down and harassing my love ones like Im a criminal. I have a job that sucks but I dont complain because I have one and it allows me to afford my son the support he needs. But now I have to deal with THIS...and no good lawyer because I could never afford a lawyer. All because her life sucks and the thought of me being happy with out her just doesnt sit well with her.REPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 4th, 2013Someone from Albany, NY writes:
I'm just going to say what everyone else is saying. I have 2 small children and run my own business but still have my children 40% of the time. I am being coerced by New York State to provide my wife with her weekly welfare check or be held in contempt of court or go to jail for up to six months. This is so absurd they don't even take into account the amount of time I spend with my children. And now since my work schedule has changed I am trying to get joint custody and my wife won't allow because then her welfare checks might end! These laws should only apply to dead beat parents who have no interest in their children.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 4th, 2013Someone from Hickory, NC writes:
Fit parent laws should be more defined for both parents. The parent who fits that critiria should be named custodial. It should not be based on mother vs father.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 4th, 2013Someone from Inglewood, CA writes:
Donald Miller you are my hero. The only man alive to beat the childsupport system. The welfare said he was a deadbeat becuase he owed 25,000$ in childsupport. Well that don't mean anything! The welfare says as of last year that I owed close to 35,000$ in arrears It's been at the 32,000/34,000???? For that past umpteen years but also a wage garnishment since 1995 they took over 215,000$ from me so far. Yes! I took this to court n it was schedualed for trial. No luck. Now I'm at 24,000$ on my arrears. I'm stuck having to pay it Almost 10,000 in interest IV been a slave all my 20s 30s and now into my 40s At 225$ per week This welfare ain't no joke no matter what proof you got If they say you owe. Then you owe. Ain't nothing gonna change ladies n gentlemen. Best thing I ever heard is about the living Hero Donald Miller.REPORT COMMENTS
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