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DCF is Massachusetts is ruining families

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  • May 26th, 2016
    Someone from Fitchburg, MA writes:
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    DCF doesn't do much to help considering they HAVE BEEN piling up a list of anonymous harassing phone reports compiling a list of numerous harassing calls against a good single mother without just cause. durress My daughter has had to drop out of COLLEGE because DCF wont let anyone babysit her daughter, due to the almost 200 anonymous tips from neighbors who have had a PERSONAL disagreement REGARDING A SEPARATE MATTER. This harassment has been noted by all departments, including but not limited to DCF, State and Government Agencies as well. None of the above will provide proper care for my grandchild, NO safe housing for them to reside or the proper assistance to handle this harassment issue which has been an issue numerous times before with the same individuals causing the problems. now this has gone violent, my daughter is about to lose her daughter, DCF wont help, housing wont provide proper residence, case workers are randomly dropping by the house, drug testing her (she does not use drugs!) she has dropped out of college and is stuck within the four walls housing has left her in. NO HELP FROM THE STATE OR GOVERNMENT! QUESTION: WHOM IS BEING NEGLECTED IN THIS CASE? HOW FAR DOES THIS HAVE TO GO? IF MY FAMILY IS BEING ABUSED BY DCF WHO DO WE TURN TO FOR PROTECTION? SHOULD PEOPLE BE PROTECTED FROM THE SAME SYSTEM THAT IS IN PLACE TO SAVE THEM?
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  • May 25th, 2016
    Someone from Berkley, MA writes:
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    hi my name is Jacquelyn and i was taken by DCF from my loving mother and supporting family when i was 9 its been almost 6 years sense i was taken and its sickening. My family has fought so hard to get me home and DCF wont let me because one time my nana let me see my mom... ONCE!! and i was taken from my mom because shes sick with a heart and brain desease and thats why i cant be with her... im so tried of fighting and am almost ready to give up please help kids like me get home!!!
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  • May 25th, 2016
    Someone from Berkley, MA writes:
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    hi my name is Jacquelyn and i was taken by DCF from my loving mother and supporting family when i was 9 its been almost 6 years sense i was taken and its sickening. My family has fought so hard to get me home and DCF wont let me because one time my nana let me see my mom... ONCE!! and i was taken from my mom because shes sick with a heart and brain desease and thats why i cant be with her... im so tried of fighting and am almost ready to give up please help kids like me get home!!!
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  • May 25th, 2016
    Someone from Plymouth, MA writes:
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    It is despicable that DCF workers have no one to answer to and can harass families based on "speculation" and with no actual proof of any accusations.
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  • May 25th, 2016
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  • May 24th, 2016
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  • May 21st, 2016
    Someone from Marblehead, MA writes:
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    I cannot for the life of me even begin to understand how and why the children of Massachusetts are being striped away from loving parents. a simple call to the police if and when children are present warrants an immediate 51A filing of abuse/neglect. The women who are scared to call 911 bc of fear of DCF will continue to get beaten ,continue to suffer, and then after it all someone will finally end up dead, or so injured that police eventually will be called and after all the pain already endured they will take the kids away anyways. and if they don't they will take your pride, dignity, self respect and destroy your life anyways and if you get to keep your kids hold them tight and close because soon enough they will strip you of just about everything to prove you are fit to keep them and then take them anyway. it's a sick system and I hope we cN change it by standing together. I don't want to cry racism but I have yet to walk into one state office DTA, DCF, DCHD and encounter a Caucasian employee at entry and super is or level I am interested to see if and what the numbers and statistics are of increase of white single mothers having kids taken away. anyone who is willing to disclose that please add in comment. 33 white middle class mother of 2 children.
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  • May 19th, 2016
    Someone from Boylston, MA writes:
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    DCF AND Worcester court have treated my wife like a useless bag of trash. Her ex narrsasstic husband has falsely accused of her actions she has never done. DCF took away her children while they were in school 8 weeks ago!!! DCF informed my wife it was all her fault despite all the proof we had that the ex husband was lying about every allegation. They offered this so called "service plan"? In that plan they forced me (the step father) to take a parental class, in which mainly focuses on parents going through Divorce? They also claimed I needed to take anger management despite the fact I was being attacked by her ex husband and his psychotic girlfriend every time they were around at a kids event (even had police reports that the lovely worcester judge cared less to work at). They made my wife take the parent class as well despite the fact she took it several years ago already. We have tried to have our lawyer create further time for us to see the kids as DCF only allows us to see them 1 time a week for 1 hour in their dirty box of an office in worcester. They rudely cancel any meeting we schedule last minute and continue to not bring the kids to dentist appts they may have (2 of them have braces) or doctors appts (one has glasses and needs eyes checked). We have all come to the conclusion they are forcing the kids to live with a father who never paid child support, has a violent history, does drugs, drinks alcohol daily and in all cares less about these innocent children. I truly pray some day, this nightmare of an organization, receives it's same exact punishments it has giving children all around in Massachusetts. They all do this for an extra bonus to their checks! Half of them look like hood rats. We have one social worker who forgot to pick up her own son at school? We were at a visit and the DCF announcement said over the intercom that the social workers school was calling and the son was waiting for over 45 minutes????? Maybe we should all report a useless 51A report on her!!!! This is all ruled up mainly because of a corrupt judge in Worcester Court. I wish every innocent parent luck who ever are involved in this situation and hope some day this all ends!
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  • May 19th, 2016
    Someone from Salem, MA writes:
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    Dcf is destroying my family, please help me,
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  • May 17th, 2016
    Someone from Athol, MA writes:
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    My daughter had her kids taken because of an isolated incident where she threatened suicide and cut herself. She has since received help...therapy and meds and done everything dcf has told her to do and they still won't give her them back. They keep coming up with allegations of prior suicide attempts when she was a minor...which is absolutely false. They refuse to provide any documentation of these claims but thr judge keeps siding with dcf and her case constantly gets continued. It's ridiculous the amount of power they have and aren't held accountable.
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  • May 17th, 2016
    Someone from Waltham, MA writes:
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    I am a 57 yr. old father of a new born baby girl, in recovery, 1+ years of sobriety,random uranalysis1+monthly, with one positive in 4+ years. Criminal history; no violence,sex or arson related crimes, 26 years since a felony, 10+ since a shoplifting offense. In. The past 15 years I have made a 180° transformation in My behaviour and thought process. My wife sober since the day informed of her pregnancy. was tested  "Swab",Aprill 1,informed aprill 8 it was positiv for cocaine, requested a new test and told,"too late,also requested hair analysis for DNA, informed,"not cost effective" , the positive screen and allegation of neglect concerning our baby's growth chart. THE premise of an affidavit, resulting in the removal(theft) of (Alianna) our baby.Since refuted line by line via previous neurological test, diagnosis and post and current profesionals, pediatric exams, Inpatient feeding study, every diagnosis" perfectly healthy" baby. The removal caused us to be evicted from the family shelter. Every employee of the motel. Manager, security, Dr.,nurses, social workets, housing workers. etc. etc. Offered to testify on our good behaviour , never seeing us impaired and in total compliance.the numbers and apointments were and are daily and often multiple daily verified frequent observation of us and our babies condition. This, the short version. The number of egregious lies and over reach that are verifiable are numerous as is positive verification from reputable agencies and profesionals, opportunities to improve our lives has been set back by D.C.F. .I was working toward re entering the work force (3 semesters at college) and actively perusing a job How I the father, without allegation or dirty drug screen was and am excluded from my babys child care.DCF "s Plan reads Thomas Rozene is to continue as he has been. Why did they not leave the baby and l at the family shelter? The removal, causing by process eviction, has left us homeless. In a catch 22 now further unfit from being re-united with our healthy baby.
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  • May 16th, 2016
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  • May 16th, 2016
    Someone from Springfield, MA writes:
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    Springfield mass Dcf is ruining my family, traumatizing my kids for life , they lie, and do not care about kids it's a job to them, something needs to be done about the unjust things they do ...
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  • May 15th, 2016
    Someone from Waltham, MA writes:
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    They refuse to listen to the CORI checked advocates in best interest of the child and are very disrespectful and irresponsible. They make bad decisions on behalf of the child.
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  • May 15th, 2016
    Someone from Boston, MA writes:
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    Romeo A Juliet laws should be passed for massachuttes my 15 year old girlfriend is going to give birth and although I realize it was a mistake we are going to own up to it and raise the baby I'm a few years older than her and I'm at risk of serious charges I have a good paying Job and I'm under 18
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  • May 15th, 2016
    Someone from Braintree, MA writes:
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    I'm 17 years old and currently being accused of having sexual relations with a 14 year old girl that's in middle school.... School teachers informed me of the situation the next day a police officer comes into my school and tells me she's going to arrest me for sexual abuse I know this girl from my best friend which is 16 now Dcf is now in her life being relentless trying to accuse me of being with her when I have not been, then about 3 months later two police offices come to my house threatening to send me to jail for life over allegations that are not true They are insisting that I am lying to them.... I'm 17 and work my*****off as a mason while attending high school and I just finished a college English dual enrollment class I'm getting my life together and it seems as if I'm being targeted by Dcf officials and the police although I do talk to the girl and help her through rough times I would never prey on a girl to me rape is the worst crime you can commit my life may be potentially ruined for being a good kid better himself and when I think the situation is bad enough the local police department informs my landlord that if he doesn't clear house
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  • May 15th, 2016
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  • May 14th, 2016
    Someone from Deland, FL writes:
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    Dcf has ruined our families lives as well. They lie, coerce, manipulate, antagonize, the list goes on. Dcf took my children out of the home based on an allegation of domestic violence without any verified findings. Meanwhile my children beg to come back home. One of my children has disabilty in which dcf and cpc could care less about, while I fight in the side lines. They have traumatized my children and myself. At the time they took my children I was 21 weeks pregnant, lost the baby one week later due to the amount of stress I was under. Dcf is a joke, all they do is hurt children and families and they need to be shut down!
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  • May 12th, 2016
    Someone from Topsfield, MA signed.
  • May 11th, 2016
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  • May 11th, 2016
    Someone from New Bedford, MA writes:
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    "Insult to injury" is all I have to say I was treated like " A child called it" while living in their homes from 2-18 . Now my children are forced to tolerate such pain and forced separation. Please end the kidnapping My children have parents who love them and went through the ringer for them. Now we are in appeals court. The criminal charges were dropped and my children have been kidnapped.
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  • May 10th, 2016
    Someone from Lowell, MA writes:
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    Dcf has had my children for 2 yrs. Then they recently pulled my 11 month old. All based on heresay no physical evidence nor abuse. The system is corrupt my 3 yr old came to my house a month ago with bruises all over her and my 6 yr old has staples in her head on halloween which at the time i questioned the worker she was not aware of it. They pull ppls children that try hard to do the right thing and leave children in the care of drug atticks,child abusers,and they are ok with that this is why so many children end up dead on theyre watch. Trying to say they protect family and children that they try to keep them together the social worker i have has done nothing but pulled me and my children apart even caused my boyfriend and i to break up. They have destroyed our lives and i just feel like thr government needs to give back our rights we do no live in a communist country we should not be living out lives in fear but thats exactly what dcf is doing to good parents. They have been watching me for 2 yrs i have been walking on eggshells for these ppl just for them to take my babies away who the hell made these ppl god or creator of man kind they are not and something needs to be done about them.
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  • May 10th, 2016
    Someone from Dorchester Center, MA signed.
  • May 9th, 2016
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  • May 9th, 2016
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  • May 7th, 2016
    Someone from Turners Falls, MA writes:
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    My children have been taken 834 days. I dont enough words and space to even begin to show and explain the EXTREAME mental abuse the department has put me and my babies through. The department even refuses to give me an answer why i can't have them back. I'm doing this battle all by myself I don't have a mom, I don't have any grandparents, I don't have any family that can be so. This is so difficult here in Franklin county we don't have enough judges around here to even pick trial dates after being told twice that the department is looking to reunite me and my babies, my life my air God gave me this responsibility even after being told I can't have children they are mine I will fight forever for you my babies mommy WILL NEVER GIVE UP
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  • May 7th, 2016
    Someone from Seekonk, MA writes:
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    The Massachusetts DCF program is the biggest Joke... Talk about corrupt... Dcf took my girlfriend son away because the father had a drug problem. She passed a drug test the next day. Then they bribed her.. Your son can come home but we keep custody. Or if you want to appeal the neglect charges he will stay in Foster care.. WHAT?? How does that make any sense... She got a letter in the mail saying the neglect charges are being supported.. (even tho there are zero signs of neglect from her.) She sent a letter to the appeal board and asked her dcf office for a copy of the 51a report and they told her oh it takes up to 6 months to get that... How convenient she won't have her report for her appeal hearing.. Most unorganized, unprofessional, corrupt system ever.... THE MORE KIDS THEY HAVE IN THEIR CUSTODY THE MORE FUNDING THEY GET FROM THE STATE... Sad these people are RUINING good families.. Traumatizing these poor kids, ripping them away from there parents for money!!. IT'S DISGUSTING
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  • May 7th, 2016
    Someone from Derry, NH writes:
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    Me and my fiance were forced to either sign rights over to my mom or get my two week daughter taken away into foster care, because of diaper rash, thresh and an ounce of weight loss in which she gained back which is all perfectly normal for a two week old baby. DCF is trying to make an example out of us showing that they can in fact do some good because of all the mishaps they have been having with children during in thier care. They have a lot of people breathing down their necks, its still wrong and they are destroying my family. I've missed three holidays with her due to this. The worst part is after crying in the hospital holding what became my world, it was ripped out from under me and I've started to feel like I'm not the great father I know I really am. Its killing me inside, I'm sick to my stomach, they need to be reformed
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  • May 6th, 2016
    Someone from Dalton, MA writes:
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    DCF bases their views based on someone's past history instead of who they are today. My boyfriend was a severe alcoholic. He now only drinks socially, works full time, and takes care of business. Because we got into a verbal argument and a neighbor called the police and said it sounded like I was abusing him, I was arrested. Because of that DCF refuses to let my boyfriend around my son because of his past history. They told me that this might not ever be lifted. They are harming us more than helping. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and he has a great relationship with my son.
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  • May 5th, 2016
    Someone from Gardner, MA writes:
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    DCF reached out to me to take in my nephew after the family he was living with was becoming "frustrated" with his behaviors. They were concerned about how he was transitioning. I agreed to take him and went through the process of home evaluation, cori, ect, I was approved. The DCF never contacted me and didn't reply to my emails or calls for over a month after this happened. When the worker finally responded, she informed me of their solution, (over family placement!) was, "we put him in daycare all week so it's okay now". I informed them that I still wanted to take him only to be denied bc placement was no longer needed. Clearly, they are not putting the children first. Makes me nauseous and scared.
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  • May 3rd, 2016
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  • May 3rd, 2016
    Someone from Jacksonville, NC writes:
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    Dcf took my son away for lies that was told on me by family and even lies that the dcf worker made.....
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  • May 3rd, 2016
    Someone from Clinton, MA writes:
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    They are a total disgrace!
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  • May 2nd, 2016
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  • May 1st, 2016
    Someone from Webster, MA signed.
  • Apr 30th, 2016
    Someone from Chelmsford, MA writes:
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    How do I find information on Reform the Courts? I am very interested in these activities. I am not able to find website. Please tell me how to make contact.
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  • Apr 29th, 2016
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  • Apr 29th, 2016
    Someone from Cambridge, MA writes:
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    Hello everyone. We are starting a movement to reform the Massachusetts probate/Juvenile court system as well as to revamp the absolutely broken DCF. The changes will need to come from the top because grassroots movements often fail. For the sake of our children, we cannot afford to fail this time. We will not relent until the system is fixed. A new website is being established: WWW.REFORMTHECOURTS.COM If you are interested in joining or to order a poster, please visit the site or email at: INFO@REFORMTHECOURTS.COM Good luck everyone!
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  • Apr 28th, 2016
    Someone from Boston, MA writes:
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    My significant other and I had our 18 month old daughter taken by DCF. By a temporary worker a month after our worker went on maternity leave.the reasons didnt make sense. Completely contradicts statements and reasons in documents.hadnt ever felt nesacery to look at proof i had proving them wrong.further more totally destroyed .our daughters life our family our relationship and eventually took my sobriety..when i entered a program dcf terminated both our rights and closed the case.neither us ever signed anything.her father never lost contact missed visits or appointments doesnt do drugs.totally compliant with union job.he was never even an option for her to go to neither were ANY either her blood grandparents.by time we were told of our rights being terminated the time had expired for an appeal( which i did try and do). Our temp.caseworker mocked my going into a program laughed said i really helped my case good luck to both you.case closed.we really need help in having. A REAL SHOT AT SECOND CHANCE PLEASE.OUR DAUGHTER JUST TURNED 3 LAST MONTH WE HAVENT SEEN HER SINCE JUNE.
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  • Apr 27th, 2016
    Someone from Reading, MA writes:
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    Nothing that I hear about DCF is good. They opened a case on me through an investigation that was a 5min conversation at 2:30am. There are children dying in their custody and they come to my clean home, stuffed cabinets, and my daughter wants for nothing. She is loved and cared for. I cant understand why they took 4months to do an investigation after the "supported allegations of neglect". My worker told me that my case wasnt the typical DCF case and that other serious cases come in and mine gets pushed to the side. Thats not fair at all. If my case isnt serious then why did they stick around for 4months before handing me a service plan? The system is broken. They just wait for something that they can use against you and twist it around so you look bad.....its pathetic!
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