Unfair child support laws
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Dec 28th, 2012Someone from Los Angeles, CA signed.
Dec 27th, 2012Someone from Amarillo, TX writes:
In behalf of my son,his x has my two grand daughters. I am the one who raised them. That's the thanks we get. She took my babies to Okl and found this crazy guy who beat the hell out of her and he abused my grand babies. My son send over 3000 dollar for child support and she gave it to this guy.when we did see the kids they had know clothes.she left the state with out telling my son and the system didn't do a thing to her. She then found another guy he abused my grand babies now she has a baby by him. Cps won't do anything to help us. Now she has another guy they taken child support out of my son check I know my babies won't see it. Laws got to be changed for ppl like her. We need lawyer for low income families like usDec 27th, 2012Someone from Augusta, GA writes:
The child support system is broke. Any time that a woman can get the following 1- Her pay check 2- Child Support 3- Her tax money 4- The father's tax money This shows we have a broken system that leave a lot of fathers destitute. I served on active duty status where the judge illegally added additional entitlements (BAH, BAQ) which are forbidden by federal law 5CFR581.104 from being garnished. To add fuel to the fire the judge also took my monthly base pay and wrote it down it down as I was making it bi-weekly. There is a serious case of in justice in the child support system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 27th, 2012Someone from West Richland, WA signed.
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Dec 27th, 2012Someone from Farmington, NM writes:
I have been payinloser to $400, based on when my son was 3yrs old and in day care for 5 YEARS, is no longer in day care but 7 yrs old in public school, when I only see him 9 am to 5pm Saturday and Sunday, EVERY OTHER WEEKEND and is now SEVEN yrs old. I have paid THOUSANDS to a guardian ad litem, a personal attorney, $60 per counseling session, ordered by court based on my son's dad's attorney's strategy, forced to see ANOTHER child counselor whom dodges me and claim I won't cooperate, have had my HIPAA protected PERSONAL psychology notes, stolen by the child psychologist and my ex's attorney read them aloud in court... I filed a restraining order on my ex for having intercourse in a bed with my son IN IT, as they told to face the wall and my son at 3, was imitating sex. Police and CYFD couldn't prove it and at that time, my son was in my custody. My ex filed a retaliatory restraining order for me setting hot soup down, where my poor son bumped it and we went to the hospital. They took my son out of my arms. A month later, my racist ex picked a fight with a group of Mexican guys, getting a gun pulled on he and our son! , He was there when a dog attacked our son and and in his care when my son's leg got broken. My ex has drug charges, has lost jobs because of drugs and I got a picture of him at a smoke shop, with our son in the car and was invited to my family functions, showing up high. He lives in filth where bugs bite my son and any cousin or friends that come over. The apartment is a two bedroom, wherever adults, two kids, two dogs including a huge bull mastiff and a cat live and it's tiny, no yard. I bought a home and my son has his own room and a yard. My attorney hasn't changed anything after promising that $5,000 , would get my son back. Now, he wants another grand, the guardian ad litem wants another grand and the final hearing was set six months ago, but the judge bailed so it's back to another five possible years of hell. I am in constant panic. I love my son! HOW IS THIS LEGAL?! My ex teaches our son Thor is God, isn't fed when he's hungry and is mistreated by his dad's in-laws. And I cannot even protect him! His dad's family funds his vendetta and moved him here from Colorado, after being in a nazi group where he bragged to commit murders to earn his nazi tattoos... Can anyone help me?!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2012Someone from Farmington, NM writes:
I have been payinloser to $400, based on when my son was 3yrs old and in day care for 5 YEARS, is no longer in day care but 7 yrs old in public school, when I only see him 9 am to 5pm Saturday and Sunday, EVERY OTHER WEEKEND and is now SEVEN yrs old. I have paid THOUSANDS to a guardian ad litem, a personal attorney, $60 per counseling session, ordered by court based on my son's dad's attorney's strategy, forced to see ANOTHER child counselor whom dodges me and claim I won't cooperate, have had my HIPAA protected PERSONAL psychology notes, stolen by the child psychologist and my ex's attorney read them aloud in court... I filed a restraining order on my ex for having intercourse in a bed with my son IN IT, as they told to face the wall and my son at 3, was imitating sex. Police and CYFD couldn't prove it and at that time, my son was in my custody. My ex filed a retaliatory restraining order for me setting hot soup down, where my poor son bumped it and we went to the hospital. They took my son out of my arms. A month later, my racist ex picked a fight with a group of Mexican guys, getting a gun pulled on he and our son! , He was there when a dog attacked our son and and in his care when my son's leg got broken. My ex has drug charges, has lost jobs because of drugs and I got a picture of him at a smoke shop, with our son in the car and was invited to my family functions, showing up high. He lives in filth where bugs bite my son and any cousin or friends that come over. The apartment is a two bedroom, wherever adults, two kids, two dogs including a huge bull mastiff and a cat live and it's tiny, no yard. I bought a home and my son has his own room and a yard. My attorney hasn't changed anything after promising that $5,000 , would get my son back. Now, he wants another grand, the guardian ad litem wants another grand and the final hearing was set six months ago, but the judge bailed so it's back to another five possible years of hell. I am in constant panic. I love my son! HOW IS THIS LEGAL?! My ex teaches our son Thor is God, isn't fed when he's hungry and is mistreated by his dad's in-laws. And I cannot even protect him! His dad's family funds his vendetta and moved him here from Colorado, after being in a nazi group where he bragged to commit murders to earn his nazi tattoos... Can anyone help me?!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2012Someone from San Antonio, TX writes:
I have been paying for the longest. My kids are 36,37,38 and reside in california.im interstate and live in sa antonio texas.,im on the offset program data base.,i applied for compensation of arrears. And they close my case because.i didnt have 2000 to pay lump sum. Please help me somebody. I have a 16 yr old daught that her father tried kill her when she was 3 weeks. Its very hard for me. Also a 4 yr old boy a got through CPS. I have been paying. Please examine my file in san bernardino california457841755. Im 61 yrs old and have an income of 927. Monthly.i cant work because they take all my money.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2012Someone from Glendale, AZ writes:
My husband is military and the courts use ALL of my husbands entitlements to figure child support. We live on a military base and do not even receive BAH and that is something my husband receives for us being married. His child support is so high it leaves very little for us to take care of the children we have together.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2012Someone from Medina, OH signed.
Dec 26th, 2012Someone from Bossier City, LA signed.
Dec 25th, 2012Someone from Mobile, AL writes:
If two people made the child the two should work to take care of the child stop handicapping the mothers one day they will have to learn to work!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 24th, 2012Someone from Medina, NY writes:
if the children reside with there mother and recieves child support the mother should be forced to work or penaltys should apply just like they do with the father it took two to make them not jst one and there are plenty of fathers who pay and see there kids. and provide all transportation but yet when he trys to file custody courts won't allow it its not right and something has. to changeREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 24th, 2012Someone from Harvey, IL signed.
Dec 23rd, 2012Someone from Philadelphia, PA writes:
I think child support is not a fair system especially to legit men that do take care of their responsibility. And some women get over on this system and live on it for the rest of their life. Then the judge can't tell when they are dealing with vindictive women.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 23rd, 2012Someone from Minneapolis, MN writes:
The child support system is in need of an extensive make-over. It treats each case as an number instead of looking at the big picture. it dose not take into consideration the the noncustodial parents bills or other financial commitments. They say its suppose to provide for the children as if that parent was still in the household. well if that is so i can't see 65% of someones pay going towards the kids only. I guess they expect you to support your house of 35% of what you make. not cool and not gonna happen. I cant even buy birthday gifts or christmas gifts because of this. i have lost 25 pounds cause i cannot afford to eat everyday because i have to pay rent and make it to work amongst other things that i have to pay for. Honestly a lot of things have went unpaid and ruined my credit. How is that benefiting my children !?... If this dosent get fixed soon i will be homeless. This is the American way right !?... give me a break... swear !!!...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 23rd, 2012Someone from Austin, TX signed.
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Dec 23rd, 2012Someone from Uxbridge, MA writes:
Please consider doing something about this shameful extortion.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 22nd, 2012Someone from Moundsville, WV signed.
Dec 22nd, 2012Someone from Pittsburgh, PA writes:
The government is letting these women get over on them and it's embarrassing to see that. That's why these other countries are laughing at us. A man gets $1200 a month and has to pay 500 to the baby's mother. What does a baby need with 500 dollars a month. Married people dont even pay 500 a month for their children. This is sad. That's is a paycheck for our woman and that's why they don't work.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2012Someone from Grain Valley, MO signed.
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2012Someone from Blue Springs, MO signed.
Dec 20th, 2012Someone from Orlando, FL signed.
Dec 19th, 2012Someone from Fall River, MA writes:
Hello all, I too am suffering from the mandatory pay out of child support. I have a 17 year old that i have paid for , for thirteen years. I do not owe any back pay to his mother. I was with a women for 10 years . 4 years after we wear together she got pregnant.( lied and said she was on birth control and stopped taking it) She new I didn't want anymore children. Anyway my second son was born and no matter what I love him so tried to stick it out as I didn't want my second son to have to see the battle that my first son saw with his mother. Fast forward 5 yrs later , My second sons mother decides she wants to be a lesbian. She goes off partying with her friends all nights of the week . leaves our son with her mom all the time. I usually can't take him at night as I am a night manger. Needless to say she hits the court up for me to pay child support. They summons me in and make me pay the same amount I pay for my 17 yr old. Now I pay more to both of my sons mothers than I actually bring home in my check every week. They Make me pay on gross , not net! I work out of state so I pay at least $100.00 in gas a week. The court never took into consideration my expenses . They only looked at the guide lines of the support law and issued the amount. I tried twice to get a modification with both parents and the court just blew me off never gave me a hearing just made me pay. I am in serious jeopardy of loosing my job that I have bean working for 14 yrs because I can no longer afford Gas to get to my job. I have spent all my savings I am completely broke. If it wasn't for my girl friend I would be starving. The bills are piling up. I don't know what to do. Please help......REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 19th, 2012Someone from Saint Louis, MO signed.
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Dec 19th, 2012Someone from Dayton, TN writes:
i pay child support yet STILL got my drivers lisence took away and STILL dont get any visitation. something needs to be done about this the mothers of the child just getting away with everything...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Moundsville, WV writes:
what we need to do with these premeditated-unplanned pregnancy sperm seeking lazy nogood females who are making children not out of love but so they can live off taxpayers and the sperm donor(child support payer) plus they are increasing our population well we need to offer theses lazy lowlifes an alternative like legalize prostitution but only to those who get theyre tubes tied that would put taxpayers money and my money back plus cut down on population these lazy women who lay around getting foodstamps for kids they made to get money from-should be locked up but just think if prostitution were legal they had theyre tubes tied then they coudnt reproduce more and maybe theyd dissappear there would be more jobs just a thoght for these lazy drug using people using losers who are draining this country in more ways than one we cant just lock them up but what if they had some alterative its just pure laziness theres a lot of lonely guys out there and just think no kids only serious people would make kids if theyre not going to work they need theyre tubes tied men too-thankslet our taxes pay for the old and sick not the crimminally disturbed -thanks hope i at least sparked some ideas remember have your pet spayed or neuturedREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Moundsville, WV writes:
hi,im a man 44 yrs old,i suffer from paying 2 seperate supports-for 2 daughters whom sadly-i never get to see,i live in a smalltown where theres not a whole lot of opportunity-at least employment(wouldnt pay to advance anway-theres a word-cant think to overstressed)well i pay child support to the 1st mother:she lost my child to cpservices because she was selling drugs and got caught-i tried getting custady but had a hardtime cause it was a few states away where she got caught and they were particular of my backround record-which i had a couple domestic situations,d.u.i.,misdemeaners but took parenting classes-anger management etc..+9 yds couldnt get my daughter-mother got out of prison-got daughter.2nd daughters mother well she smoked pot on a regular basis-well i never liked it and her mom (grandmother of my 2nd daughter)was sleeping with 3 alternate guys-well the woman was my kids grandma she had backpain all the time complaing -i didnt like the fact of her sleeping with 3 guys and let my kids mother know i didnt care for her being around our daughter(probably why she had backpain)well-anyway one of the grandmas lovers had a bright idea for her to take medication whatever out of pain patch(she used for backpain)and shoot it up-well she must have tried it while taking a bath at her first boyfriends house they found her dead in her bathtub-i never did care for her inlaws using drugs or my kids mom using eventhough i tried it to get along-well the mom of 2nd kid hated me beause i was right that its bad-and dissappeared with a guy she had been cheating on me with all along at her dads where she smoked dope-she has my daughter still .i have recently quit drinking a year and1/2 ago and love being sober i hate struggling paying chilsupport to 2 seperate druggie moms who dont work just hide my kids and party-i quit drinking because its trouble let alone doing drugs-i also quit because i wanted to.i have been paying child support to these 2 losers for 11 and 12 years now not seeing my kids-i have been trying to improve my life but cant make enough money to live it-due to paying child support to these lazy foodstamp collecting sponges-what comes out of my checks is just enough to make life impossible for me-plus i pay taxes which help support them ultimately nobody wins in this game til the cycle is broken-the man is the one who suffers for making a life-the woman who doesnt work steady-well parties on for 18 years-hard working people of america pay taxes to support these lazy no good leaches-theres nothing unplanned about theyre pregnancies-no-they have it all figured out-theyre screwing the whole country while were all and were like duhhh whys this country such a mess,why is there so much population-well untli something is done about these lazy nogood premeditaded,drug using,sperm seekers(yeah they need a donor who can also pay child support to pave there way)these lazy leg-spreading drugusing people destoying women need locked up-that would cut dREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Moundsville, WV writes:
hi,im a man 44 yrs old,i suffer from paying 2 seperate supports-for 2 daughters whom sadly-i never get to see,i live in a smalltown where theres not a whole lot of opportunity-at least employment(wouldnt pay to advance anway-theres a word-cant think to overstressed)well i pay child support to the 1st mother:she lost my child to cpservices because she was selling drugs and got caught-i tried getting custady but had a hardtime cause it was a few states away where she got caught and they were particular of my backround record-which i had a couple domestic situations,d.u.i.,misdemeaners but took parenting classes-anger management etc..+9 yds couldnt get my daughter-mother got out of prison-got daughter.2nd daughters mother well she smoked pot on a regular basis-well i never liked it and her mom (grandmother of my 2nd daughter)was sleeping with 3 alternate guys-well the woman was my kids grandma she had backpain all the time complaing -i didnt like the fact of her sleeping with 3 guys and let my kids mother know i didnt care for her being around our daughter(probably why she had backpain)well-anyway one of the grandmas lovers had a bright idea for her to take medication whatever out of pain patch(she used for backpain)and shoot it up-well she must have tried it while taking a bath at her first boyfriends house they found her dead in her bathtub-i never did care for her inlaws using drugs or my kids mom using eventhough i tried it to get along-well the mom of 2nd kid hated me beause i was right that its bad-and dissappeared with a guy she had been cheating on me with all along at her dads where she smoked dope-she has my daughter still .i have recently quit drinking a year and1/2 ago and love being sober i hate struggling paying chilsupport to 2 seperate druggie moms who dont work just hide my kids and party-i quit drinking because its trouble let alone doing drugs-i also quit because i wanted to.i have been paying child support to these 2 losers for 11 and 12 years now not seeing my kids-i have been trying to improve my life but cant make enough money to live it-due to paying child support to these lazy foodstamp collecting sponges-what comes out of my checks is just enough to make life impossible for me-plus i pay taxes which help support them ultimately nobody wins in this game til the cycle is broken-the man is the one who suffers for making a life-the woman who doesnt work steady-well parties on for 18 years-hard working people of america pay taxes to support these lazy no good leaches-theres nothing unplanned about theyre pregnancies-no-they have it all figured out-theyre screwing the whole country while were all and were like duhhh whys this country such a mess,why is there so much population-well untli something is done about these lazy nogood premeditaded,drug using,sperm seekers(yeah they need a donor who can also pay child support to pave there way)these lazy leg-spreading drugusing people destoying women need locked up-that would cut dREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Moundsville, WV signed.
Dec 18th, 2012Someone from Liberty, MO signed.
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Dec 18th, 2012Someone from Birmingham, AL writes:
I was ordered to pay child support when my ex never had to prove her income and gets paid cash money and never pays taxes. How is this fair. o I cant take care of myself and dont get to see my child.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Carbon, IN signed.
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Dec 18th, 2012Someone from Clio, MI writes:
I pay my exwife $819 a month for child support that she recieves tax free and while she works for tax free cash. Which by the way she has always made a lot more money than me. She lives in a fabulous house that she bought and im forced to live with my dad because after I pay taxes, health insurance, and child support im left with nothing as she continues to live high on the hog.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2012Someone from Green River, WY writes:
They need to get job period. I went to work after I had my son within 6 weeks.REPORT COMMENTS
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