Unfair child support laws
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Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Ft Mitchell, KY writes:
IF YOU HAVE 50/50 CUSTODY, THERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY CHILD SUPPORT INVOLVED, YOU TAKE CARE OF THE CHILD WHEN IT IS YOUR TIME AND VICE VERSA.REPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Inverness, FL writes:
The system should be equal and just as tough onot the custodial parent as they are with the non custodial parent.REPORT COMMENTS
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Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Morgantown, WV signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Saint Louis, MO writes:
I AM PAYING CHILD SUPPORT FOR A CHILD THAT IS NOT MINE, A DNA TEST HAS BEED PERFORMED AND I'VE DONE EVERYTHING I COULD THINK OF TO GET OFF CHILD SUPPORT BUT THE STATE OF MISSOURI REFUSE TO TAKE ME OFF. I NEED HELP PLEASE.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 12th, 2015Someone from Bristol, CT writes:
When my wife had custody of our son I payed an absurd amount of money in child support each month. At one point my job closed its doors suddenly and I was left with nothing. Judge told me find work or do 20 job searches a week and turn them in to the court or go to jail, so I did. I now have custody of both my children and two different judges have ordered that neither of them get child support from their mothers because they dont make enough make enough money because both are living on state aid because they dont want to work. Both mothers have cell phones and cable tv but the court says they are to poor to afford 25$ a week to help out with their kid. How can this be ok?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Kahului, HI signed.
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Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Bayville, NJ writes:
Ps this is the 6th time I emailed over 4 years.just goes to show im done with this government. Your all a joke.just give money to other countries like u do help everyone else but your own.sad truth.I had to work threw 10 months of chemo and 12 months of recovery in misery. No hope from u.your a joke total joke.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Bayville, NJ writes:
Ps this is the 6th time I emailed over 4 years.just goes to show im done with this government. Your all a joke.just give money to other countries like u do help everyone else but your own.sad truth.I had to work threw 10 months of chemo and 12 months of recovery in misery. No hope from u.your a joke total joke.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Bayville, NJ signed.
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Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Alexandria, KY writes:
I am a very involved in my sons life. I have always paid my support on time and happy to do so if it actually goes to my son. My problem is, I worked my tail off to finally finish my Bachelors degree and get a decent job. Of course now my son's mother wants more child support and I am sure when we go to court she will get it too. I am guessing she only wants more money cause she is pregnant again and doesn't want to work.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Reading, PA writes:
It is horrific how there are many parents who wish to be involved in their children's lives in a positive healthy way, but the custodial parent makes it unhealthy and doesn't adhere to court rules regarding visitation. It appears too often custodial mothers are more concerned with what's in their best interest and that involves money! Versus what is in the best interest of their child! My husband adores his daughter, but his ex does everything possible to keep them from forging a relationship - the only thing she is concerned with is getting money to the point where she is now requesting more money! Apparently when her husband tells her she isn't contributing to the household - she feels it's important to have my husband pay more money towards her household which consists of 2 more children with her new spouse. Pretty ridiculous because if they were still together there is NOWAY that they would spend hundreds of dollars in excess - yet that is what they say it's meant for...to provide a normal household - Let alone what woman chooses to stay home and do nothing but watch TV all day - oh that's right the entitled woman who thinks it's her childs father to pay for HER way of life - and the court allows this WHY???? Yet it costs more money to go back and argue even with visitation....why aren't woman held accountable for making babies instead of making it look like it's a meal ticket to financial freedom for themselves. It's called BE RESPONSIBLE and hold EACH PARENT ACCOUNTABLE FOR SUPPORTING THAT CHILD -REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Riverbank, CA signed.
Nov 11th, 2015Someone from North Augusta, SC signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Manchester, NH writes:
Mother and child used to live in Illinois. They have moved to a different state. Illinois is still taking money. There is no one to contact.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from New Hyde Park, NY signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Mitchell, SD signed.
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Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Wilmington, DE signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Savannah, GA writes:
It takes two to make a child. I dont care if your married or not because you still share responsibility in rasin the child. It should go the same way financially. A women can receive government assistance and child support way faster than men and its not fair at all.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Bronx, NY signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
Child support laws have failed me. Custodial parent is a licensed nurse refusing to work to get more child support. She was making $27/hr before but would rather see non custodial parent suffer. I took her to court because she would not allow me to see my son. Visitation was Only a couple hours and it had to be at her parent's house. So I fought for custody and she fought for money. She is now driving a new model bmw and going on vacations. While I am struggling working hard all my life. Laws have got to change. Who can help us?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Needville, TX signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Rice Lake, WI writes:
My Ex wife makes great money on top of the $600. I pay her every 2 weeks. Mean while Ive had to get a part time job on top of my full time job just so I can live in substandard conditions. My new job now takes away from my weekends and consequently away from the only time I get to spend with my kids and adversely I have very little extra money to even do anything with them aside from parks. I should also mention my ex get to take them out to the movies amusement parks etc... on my dime. How is this system even allowed. At this rate am going to have to claim bankruptcy just so I can afford to spend time with my kids...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Rice Lake, WI writes:
My Ex wife makes great money on top of the $600. I pay her every 2 weeks. Mean while Ive had to get a part time job on top of my full time job just so I can live in substandard conditions. My new job now takes away from my weekends and consequently away from the only time I get to spend with my kids and adversely I have very little extra money to even do anything with them aside from parks. I should also mention my ex get to take them out to the movies amusement parks etc... on my dime. How is this system even allowed. At this rate am going to have to claim bankruptcy just so I can afford to spend time with my kids...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Tacoma, WA writes:
I have never had an income and was the dependant of my ex the whole time. Cps ****s people over again and again because they want you to pay for them taking your kids. Now i owe for my son who they took and adopted off and my 2 daughters whom are with the only working parent they have. I can't even ho myself out let alone sell drugs and the state won't give me funds for my disabilities nor let me be a parent to my kids for them either which ironically they claim that I put my kids at risk when i raised my 11yr old all her life and shes smarter than every caseworker they got working for them. THERE SHOULD NOT BE CHILD SUPPORT AT ALL AND THERE SHOULDN'T BE ANY GOVERNMENT AGENCY BREAKING THE RIGHTS OF THE PEOPLE.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
Women are taken advantage over the systems some of them have several babies with several men and collect like retirement and they used it to attract another man buy buy expensive clothing and cars. Some of this woman don't work and live good on child supportREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from San Antonio, TX signed.
Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Minot, ND writes:
My ex has had nerumors drug charges lives with a drug dealer exposes my child to drugs. And yet still im not able to get custody. Cause she a female or something. I have to move cause of my Caree im afraid to leave my son in this enviroment cause but yet she going to come after me for child support i dont even deserve this its unfairREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from San Antonio, TX signed.
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Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Phoenix, AZ writes:
My son files bankruptcy while his college-educated exwife sits home doing nothing. And she is the one who blind-sided him with the divorce. And moved in her boyfriend. So now my son gets to support him too. And these are not young kids. All of them are in there 40's. Alimony should be banned except in extraordinary circumstances and child support should be closely regulated.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Fort Worth, TX signed.
Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Fairfield, PA writes:
I am a single mother of 3 children 17,15,14 years old. I was an established professional when I married my ex husband. He refused to be productive, a father or a husband. That is why we got a divorce. I pais for him to go to computer programming school. He worked 8 months then quit.I think that the day he married me he thought he would never have to work again. He is suing me for more child supoort (we have 50/50 custody which I agreed to because I thought it would be good for the children). He is refusing to work so he needs more money from me to support himself and he is using his children to do it. What he is doing should be outlawed and considered a form of human trafficking. He is hiding behind the skirt of the court and these ridiculous unfair laws so he doenst have to support himself.REPORT COMMENTS
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