Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Wisconsin Dells, WI writes:
My ex is constantly harrassing me and using our son as a weapon. An alcoholic bi polor off her meds and going off trying everyday to attack me. Guardian Ad Litems and County Commissioners sit on hands. While my son suffers from her mental condition. Help Dads get a fair shake. Get those who falsely accuse arrested as well. It is a mountainous problem. -
Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Tulsa, OK writes:
I have SO MUCH more to tell, but let's bring this to a close with the fact that last week in court the Prosecution decided to "In the Interest of Justice" dismiss all charges against me. Great, but I still lost my home, over $100k defending myself, 6 months of employment, and 130lbs from stress, damaging my heath greatly and permanently. Land of the Free (as long as no one accuses you), Home of the Brave. Don't know if I'll EVER be brave enough to trust anyone again, especially romantically. Thanks for listening....REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Tulsa, OK writes:
I can give a very personal testimonial to how this happens and what it can do to your life. I was falsely accused in my hometown or Tulsa OK in May of 2014 by my (at the time) cohabiting girlfriend of one year. In May she filed with the Collinsville OK PD that I had, on multiple occasions throughout 2014, (Feb. & April) stalked, abducted kidnapped, raped, assaulted and attempted to strangle her to death. The charges were filed in court on a day in which she had called me numerous times, and everything was great and she was looking forward to seeing me later (conversations witnessed) and she also sent several "I love you" emails the same day. The Collinsville PD waited until I left my home for ONE HOUR for dinner to raid with over a dozen officers, destroying BOTH entry doors to my home, as well as the GUEST HOUSE door, in which I did not even live in, and they knew it. They seized numerous computers, printers, cable modems, zip drives, cameras, video cameras and cell phones. I later was informed that they had been watching my house all day, and waited until I left and they knew no one was home to enter and destroy my property. I turned myself in to authorities, was held without bail for ten days, finally my attorney got them to set bail at $149,000, and I posted the $14,000 to get out. I lost my home, my job, and was blasted on social media and verbally by my accuser AND some of the Collinsville detectives, one of them even calling people from my contacts in my computer telling them I WAS GUILTY of these crimes and was going to be jailed for life. People, including some of the detectives associates called me to tell me this. This same accusing body of law enforcement had TWICE in September 2013 removed her from the home and placed her on psychiatric hold in hospital for threatening to hurt family members OR kill herself, which she attempted in Jan & Feb 2014, as well as three other times in previous years. She has been under lengthy counseling for mental illness, and has been deemed dangerous to herself and others, but the NEITHER the detectives NOT the Tulsa County prosecutor took any of that into consideration. Wait, did I fail to mention that she has accused a past fiance, several of her mother's partners and even a family member of sexual battery &/or rape in past? This was never considered either..... My accuser even called my attorney, and in a recorded conversation in front of two other attorneys claimed that she had lied, did not want to see me prosecuted, and would drop all claims against me if I would meet with her, where we could work it all out, get married and have the family she wanted so badly, all while sending me fake untrasounds of the baby she WASN'T carrying......Classic. An 18 year old girl who I had never even met in person (a high-school classmates daughter) had messaged her on FB to ask her why she had done this and was charged and jailed for Intimidating a State Witness........ I haveREPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Houston, TX writes:
Sadly Very true . If you are a victim you will be reported to child protective services, ending an extensive interviews, harassment, involuntary interviews with your children, hair follicle analysis. Keep the government out of your personal family affairs. The system is corrupt.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Wichita, KS signed.
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Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Colchester, VT writes:
I'm a woman who's ex recently filed a TRO (I have to be in court all day Xmas eve to wait for my hearing) in retaliation for filing paperwork that my CONVICTED ex (years of horrible mental, emotional and physical abuse and rape) was in contempt of court for refusing to return my son as scheduled last weekend. He said in the report "my son said he'd rather die than go back to his mom's. I'm worried he'll hurt himself if he goes back" and he said my son "always pleeds (he's retarded and can't spell and always makes himself look like a dumb*****in court) with me not to send him back to his mom's". My ex ALWAYS returns my son 1-4 hours early EVERY time he comes back to my house twice a week. If my son was in danger then why does he send him back early every time and why does my son BEG me to let him stay with me rather than go to his dad's? My son is about to turn 14 and I have an almost 3 year old from another relationship. I'm scared that the court will side with that manipulative POS when I didn't even do anything!!! He filed because he's about to have another kid and has been complaining about child support for the last 14 years. He doesn't care about my son's well being. He only does whatever he can to abuse me since he can't physically do so anymore...he has always used my son against me and has put a wedge between us. I called the police last weekend because I found a stolen GUN in my son's room while I was looking for my cell phone that he stole. So DCF got involved and said that my son's issues are 100% ME and they won't let me make my son get help!!! If the state of VT awards this abusive POS a year restraining order against me, my kids will be separated and I may never see my oldest again and I didn't even do anything besides try to get the kid help!!! I have a lawyer and have already spent almost $1000 in the last week and I'm a stay at home mom and small business owner. I have never been in any trouble before and I'm beside myself. I'm scared to death which was exactly what my ex wanted. Fingers crossed that a judge will be able to see that my ex did this in retaliation and because he didn't want to try to get custody the "right" way. I'm feeling so helpless and hopeless and distraught. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2014Someone from Cottage Grove, MN writes:
I'm a living example of this. It has caused my several issues in my life and has made employment with law enforcement virtually impossible, which is the career I wish to pursue! However, I have forgiven her, and we are now much happier than before in regards to our relationship. That being said, false accusations are very real, and often times, my case included, you truly are guilty until proven innocent!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2014Someone from Peggs, OK signed.
Dec 21st, 2014Someone from Charlotte, NC writes:
There seems to be a high amount of domestic violence calls in Mecklenburg County, NC (one website listed over 36,000 last year) with the population approximately 991,000, which is 3.6% of the population. Take out young children and some of the elderly, then this percentage increases. This is too high of a number and the FBI or some agency should investigate. The courts, judges, law enforcement are making profits from this while the actual victim suffers. The Greg Hardy story has become and media circus. The victims and the witnesses were giving no consideration by the release of all the 911 tapes. One witness said that they were afraid and lived in the building practically giving that person's identity away. These officers are not trained in the psychology of domestic violence and are not held accountable for their missteps and have the victims arrested. Officers will arrest a person without talking to the person, or writing a detailed police report, which can be shown in the Hardy case as well. A warrant should not be taken out against the victim with 2 short sentences when the victim endured 3 hours of abuse by the accuser. The law no longer protects women, because the false accusers have learned how to manipulate the law to their advantage while they can continue to abuse other women and get away with it.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 20th, 2014Someone from Enfield, CT signed.
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Dec 18th, 2014Someone from Victorville, CA writes:
As a outside party watching a woman degrade, falsify stories, false accusations of domestic abuse without merit for the sake of gaining custody just for the child support and revenge, I 100% agree that the system needs to change and start treating both parties with equal respect and listen to facts and look at the facts. In addition, all women who falsely claim domestic abuse should be treated as a criminal because their false accusations in my opinion are consider obstruction of justice. Although the way things are judged greatly effect the innocent father's negatively the persons who are really suffering are the ones these courts are claiming to be looking out....the children. How is stripping away a good innocent father from their lives in their best interests.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 17th, 2014Someone from Woodbridge, VA writes:
In simple terms domestic violence is about abuse, which is not exclusively perpetrated by men. Abuse is a "behavior" that I've seen employed by women. However, I've known a few women that psychologically abuse their husbands with name-calling and yelling for nothing, abuse their children with their constant Drill Sergeant screaming orders, lie to present themselves as victims, create explosive situations to call the cops with the sole intention of "building a case" against their husband, and brainwash their children against their dad. All the while, they keep going to church pretending to be virtuous and devoutly religious, showing an innocent-looking picture of themselves to the world while continually sharing invented "stories" of abuse at home to inspire pity and make others believe everything she says. And people start giving her advice (on how to "get" him using the cops and the court system) because they Stupidly Believe in only her side of the story but get blind-sided by ignoring the man' side. This type of vindictive liar is a devil disguised in sheep's clothes. This False Allegations Campaign has been needed for a long time to stop these manipulative liars and place them in jail for bringing false complaints into the court system, and ruining the lives of their spouses and of their innocent children. Their motivation? Greed for money or vengeance, or both. As someone else said in their signed petition, everyone in this country is innocent until proven guilty, and laws should FIRST investigate the accuser's allegations to find strong Evidence instead of throwing men in jail without due process and only based on the woman's testimony. These liars need to be stopped by laws that do not vilify the other side immediately in a jerk reaction. And male's defense lawyers should have the duty to dig real deep and find the truth about the women's so-called allegations instead of giving up so fast on falsely accused men. No one thinks about it but: courts are giving custody of kids to manipulative liars who "play" with a broken court system, how do you think those kids will turn out learning from a liar to play victim to get what they want? That's a social burden that our society doesn't need either.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 17th, 2014Someone from Woodbridge, VA writes:
In simple terms domestic violence is about abuse, which is not exclusively perpetrated by men. Abuse is a "behavior" that I've seen employed by women. However, I've known a few women that psychologically abuse their husbands with name-calling and yelling for nothing, abuse their children with their constant Drill Sergeant screaming orders, lie to present themselves as victims, create explosive situations to call the cops with the sole intention of "building a case" against their husband, and brainwash their children against their dad. All the while, they keep going to church pretending to be virtuous and devoutly religious, showing an innocent-looking picture of themselves to the world while continually sharing invented "stories" of abuse at home to inspire pity and make others believe everything she says. And people start giving her advice (on how to "get" him using the cops and the court system) because they Stupidly Believe in only her side of the story but get blind-sided by ignoring the man' side. This type of vindictive liar is a devil disguised in sheep's clothes. This False Allegations Campaign has been needed for a long time to stop these manipulative liars and place them in jail for bringing false complaints into the court system, and ruining the lives of their spouses and of their innocent children. Their motivation? Greed for money or vengeance, or both. As someone else said in their signed petition, everyone in this country is innocent until proven guilty, and laws should FIRST investigate the accuser's allegations to find strong Evidence instead of throwing men in jail without due process and only based on the woman's testimony. These liars need to be stopped by laws that do not vilify the other side immediately in a jerk reaction. And male's defense lawyers should have the duty to dig real deep and find the truth about the women's so-called allegations instead of giving up so fast on falsely accused men. No one thinks about it but: courts are giving custody of kids to manipulative liars who "play" with a broken court system, how do you think those kids will turn out learning from a liar to play victim to get what they want? That's a social burden that our society doesn't need either.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 17th, 2014Someone from Haiku, HI signed.
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Dec 17th, 2014Someone from Washington, DC writes:
The huge problem with the court system and law enforcement officers is that they always go by stereotypes that Only men are capable of abusing others. In fact, I've seen women insult their boyfriends/husbands and calling them names. If they have done so in public, who can say that what happens in private is not worse? Nowadays women are using laws intended to protect victims of real abuse to "get rid" of their husbands portraying them as the abuser and them as a victim. It's sickening how women play victim and the system do not "investigate" the truth of their accounts. The court system should investigate the victim as much as the accused: the law says that we are all innocent until PROVEN guilty.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 17th, 2014Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
I was accused of domestic violence by my spouse on month after we were married. She just came into the country three months before on a fiancee visa. She wanted a change of status green card and didn't want to stay with me so she accused me of rape after we have been together for eight years and I took care of her all that time in the Dominican republic. I told her I wanted a divorce two days later she call 911 and said I raped her to get her domestic violence visa and later her green card, public assistance,. and a place to live on tax dollars.. Later bring her kids. and her family over. I fully support this or will never stop. My life is ruin now I struggling to get by.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 17th, 2014Someone from Butte, MT writes:
Being a personal victim of this 3 times I fully support this.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 17th, 2014Someone from Butte, MT writes:
Being a personal victim of this 3 times I fully support this.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 17th, 2014Someone from Rib Lake, WI writes:
My son's ex-girlfriend has done this to him many times over the course of several years. Not only is it unfair and unjust, it is very scary to know a man can go to jail any time a woman gets mad at him for any reason. Please, fix this problem!REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 16th, 2014Someone from Selbyville, DE writes:
There is no patriarchy, don't believe the hype.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 16th, 2014Someone from Liverpool, NY writes:
I have 3 sons, 2 of them were victims of false allegations of DV during divorce and/or custody disputes. The accusers make false allegations without a shred of evidence to back up the claim in order to gain the upper hand in family law courts. It needs to stop !!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 16th, 2014Someone from Charlotte, NC writes:
The era (or error!) of one-sided 'social-justice' has got to be brought to and end!REPORT COMMENTS
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