Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Dec 11th, 2014Someone from North Babylon, NY signed.
Dec 11th, 2014Someone from Port Saint Lucie, FL writes:
My boyfriend was falsely accused by his soon to be ex-wife. She also lied in her statements & was actually the one who abused him which is clear in his mug shot!! He had to take a plea bargain or he faced up to 5 years in jail for a crime he did NOT commit!! She is also keeping their young son away from him!! The lying must stop!! Just because you're a "woman scorned" or didn't get your way doesn't mean you should have the right to put a man in jail!!! I want to start a campaign to have his probation dropped or force her to take a polygraph to prove she committed perjury!! This injustice MUST stop! #justice4jonDec 11th, 2014Someone from Marietta, GA writes:
My ex used her first dropped/perjured TPO as the basis for another new one! Stop the abuse against innocent fathers.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 10th, 2014Someone from Knoxville, TN writes:
My husband is having the same issues with his ex lying in Virginia.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 10th, 2014Someone from Corpus Christi, TX signed.
Dec 10th, 2014Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
My fiancƩ is falsely accused of domestic violence due to a woman who is forcing a relationship out of him so she being conniving, dishonorable, and vindictive towards him. He has a woman judge and there is being a bias towards it due to the accusations and her being woman. There is no evidence or proof he did anything. It's just the so called "victims" word against the accuser . It is highly unfair and the courts need to go by facts and reason instead of words and accusations. Men are not the only dangerous human beings out here , women contain power too and many take advantage of their powers by crying wolf. There must be a change of act.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 10th, 2014Someone from Winter Garden, FL signed.
Dec 9th, 2014Someone from Mesa, AZ signed.
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Dec 9th, 2014Someone from Trivoli, IL writes:
I believe its true; "that person who needed an order of protection ,it could not have protected anyhow , by the time the police get there it's too late." These Narcistic OP loving fools are manipulating peoples lives over and over again. It's a shame that Peoria County Circuit Court in IL would probably be the best place to proove that Letterman joke.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 9th, 2014Someone from Trivoli, IL writes:
I believe its true; "that person who needed an order of protection ,it could not have protected anyhow , by the time the police get there it's too late." These Narcistic OP loving fools are manipulating peoples lives over and over again. It's a shame that Peoria County Circuit Court in IL would probably be the best place to proove that Letterman joke.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 9th, 2014Someone from Kansas City, MO writes:
I was sexually abused at the age of 16 by a 24 year old lady.It was my first time so i liked it. we continued and i loved it. she ended up having twins by me. i was 17 she was 25. of course my mom didn't approve, so she fled town moved away. after having the bays a year went by she needed a place to live.my parents where okey with it if they were mine, they were so we reunited i was 18 she was 26. man i was head over hills didn't see the signs. well she was violent, name calling, controlling, you name it she did it. well i work hard three long year along with the physical, mental, and emotional stress. she didn't have to work i took care of it all. but she calmed i was the abuser i was doing so wrong i took care of her, her two boys from another guy whom she abused and got him jail time as well and twins and my Jr. I had to leave before it got more out of hand i left had no choice, either dead or jail had no help so i got on a bus and left. she calm i abused her an all i ever wanted was to take care of her and my kids, because my dad wasn't around for me. Now I see why. she even went to a abusive home shelter like she the victim. she could have stayed in the house but she abusing the system, well now the dfax people call me telling me she starting trouble there and wanted to know if i wanted my kids of course i do. Lord knows i do. ever dog has there day. Some one Please help men like me I'm 22 now and she 30. i got to do something with my life to be there for my boys so this don't happen to them. lets stop this madness. im hereto tell my story it was short and didnt involve much detail but trust me other men are dead or in jail and wont get tell a peice of theirs. I stand today to fight tomorrow with all the abused men men of america. Thank youREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 8th, 2014Someone from Philadelphia, PA signed.
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Dec 8th, 2014Someone from Spring Hill, FL writes:
My brothers wife accused him of sexual abuse against their young daughter. My brother is a hardworking, Godly man who has never once been in trouble with the law. My brother was asked to stop by detention center for questioning, he was immediately placed in handcuffs and unable to say one word. Within the first month of him being held in the detention center his wife (who has been arrested a couple times for domestic abuse against my brother) had already moved on with other men and wiped out his bank account just before submitting the divorce papers. My brother wasn't left with a dime to hire an attorney, or even buy a toothbrush and toothpaste. It's been 6 months...my brother has been asking every day to take a polygraph. He has been to court dates and awaiting trial. He has turned down deal offers for 10 years knowing he could be facing life. Will good prevail? I'm scared to say I don't know, because I know now more than ever that life is not fair.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 8th, 2014Someone from Wellington, OH writes:
My son is in this mess as we speak. Tried to break off a relationship, been accused of abuse twice. Hes been hit but wont turn her in because she has a child from previous. Shes crying wolf and hes paying the price!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 7th, 2014Someone from Naples, FL signed.
Dec 7th, 2014Someone from Gonzales, LA writes:
Without a father, how does a boy learn to become a father? How does a daughter know what to look for in a man?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 7th, 2014Someone from Caldwell, ID signed.
Dec 6th, 2014Someone from New York, NY signed.
Dec 6th, 2014Someone from Boulder, CO writes:
DV conviction look good on all kinds of resumes and reports, except that of the citizens falsely accused. DV by women is nationwide applauded in news-shows and reality shows such as Jerry S. Maury, Steve and so on. Everyday people watch this as entertainment and we all know its "fake".....just as fake as the computer-games which are said to be the cause of school-shootings. Domestic Violence is an political and media industry in the USA.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 6th, 2014Someone from Leavenworth, KS signed.
Dec 6th, 2014Someone from Deming, NM writes:
My ex the mother of my two daughters was being investigated by cps and during that investigation she took out a order of protection on whenever I am around my ex or her family I voice record everything that is said my lawyer has said I have the best evidence for a not guilty verdict he has ever had to work with but says I will most likely lose and with that I lose my children my job my life All because of lies and now my money is running out. I use to believe in truth and justice now all I know is lies winREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Piketon, OH writes:
My husband is doing this to me right now.He took our child while I was at work and is saying all these things I have done to him and our child. Its ALL lies but I haven't seen our child for 17 days now. I thought if I did every thing right that it would all be ok but now I am so scared I will never see my baby again. She is only 2 .REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Suffolk, VA writes:
I've seen this so many times. Its unfortunate that law abiding citizens can be subjected to such harsh charges.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Salem, OR writes:
These laws need to change. I can't even begin to wrap my mind around it, unbelievably cruel and unjust!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Santa Ana, CA signed.
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Lemoore, CA writes:
Are there any groups in Fresno or Visala, CA area forming to aggressively get this on the fast track ?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 5th, 2014Someone from Visalia, CA signed.
Dec 5th, 2014Someone from Elbow Lake, MN signed.
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Dec 5th, 2014Someone from Pueblo, CO writes:
I personally have been accused of domestic violence and worse, and I have been investigated. All of these accusations have been unfounded by investigators and four separate courts have found that no domestic violence has ever taken place. However, to this day I am still being treated as a perpetrator of domestic violence and my children have been systematically taken from me. My current court situation regarding these accusations has not allowed me to defend against or provide evidence that proves perjury in court by those making these accusations in the court room. The Judge involved has denied everything that would prove all accusations have been false, in order to protect those that have committed perjury in court, including the judges own conflict of interest. The most disturbing part of this is that the children involved are not getting any consideration by the court or other authority figures. They're focus has been solely on the one falsely making these accusations causing tremendous harm to the children involved by delaying any resolution.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Elizabeth, NJ writes:
This is a major problem in New Jersey. I have been falsely accused of domestic violence over 20 times. I have been arrested due to false allegations of domestic violence 3 times. I have no criminal record and never committed a crime in my life. NJ state courts refuse to acknowledge false complaints of domestic violence or provide any recourse besides attorney's fees(rare). My family has spent $100,000 in legal fees for my defense of false allegations of d.v. Now I represent myself because my ex was successful with the help of the courts to deplete all my money and my family's money. I've never lost a trial. I've witnessed over 100 other d.v. trials. 90% were dismissed because there was no domestic violence. Just people abusing the extraordinary application. Even in NJ case-law there is only a brief mention of misuse of the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act by the NJ supreme court from a 1997 case STATE V. HOFFMAN. It is my belief that the state does not acknowledge the numerous amount of false allegations because they are a major promotion of the legal industry. I live in the constant fear that I will be arrested at anytime even though I've never and will never violate the law. When I am outside my residence and I see a police vehicle driving down the street I run inside the house because I am afraid of going to jail for false allegations. I've been threatened, bullied, and intimated by the police which was prompted by my ex girlfriend who is determined to destroy my relationship with my daughter. My dream now is to have a peaceful life with freedom and liberties where I can parent my daughter. So far it is not looking propitious at all. Please pass legislation that will make it a crime to file a false complaint of domestic violence to a court.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 4th, 2014Someone from Elizabeth, NJ writes:
This is a major problem in New Jersey. I have been falsely accused of domestic violence over 20 times. I have been arrested due to false allegations of domestic violence 3 times. I have no criminal record and never committed a crime in my life. NJ state courts refuse to acknowledge false complaints of domestic violence or provide any recourse besides attorney's fees(rare). My family has spent $100,000 in legal fees for my defense of false allegations of d.v. Now I represent myself because my ex was successful with the help of the courts to deplete all my money and my family's money. I've never lost a trial. I've witnessed over 100 other d.v. trials. 90% were dismissed because there was no domestic violence. Just people abusing the extraordinary application. Even in NJ case-law there is only a brief mention of misuse of the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act by the NJ supreme court from a 1997 case STATE V. HOFFMAN. It is my belief that the state does not acknowledge the numerous amount of false allegations because they are a major promotion of the legal industry. I live in the constant fear that I will be arrested at anytime even though I've never and will never violate the law. When I am outside my residence and I see a police vehicle driving down the street I run inside the house because I am afraid of going to jail for false allegations. I've been threatened, bullied, and intimated by the police which was prompted by my ex girlfriend who is determined to destroy my relationship with my daughter. My dream now is to have a peaceful life with freedom and liberties where I can parent my daughter. So far it is not looking propitious at all. Please pass legislation that will make it a crime to file a false complaint of domestic violence to a court.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 4th, 2014Someone from Columbia, MO writes:
For those of us who are victims and have since moved on, false allegations of abuse towards our spouses from past relationships is not only damaging to the accused, but damaging to us. For three years my husband and I have been under scrutiny, our parenting insulted, our finances strained paying support and court costs, and his relationship with his children damaged. This is not to mention the strain on our marriage as a result of confusion, financial concerns, and stigma. My daughter should not have to grow up being told that her father was a batterer and a danger to her when he has raised her in an environment that is quite the opposite. It's wrong and it needs to come to an end.REPORT COMMENTS
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