Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Dec 16th, 2014Someone from Martinsburg, WV signed.
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Dec 16th, 2014Someone from Miami, FL writes:
guilty until proven innocent is an injustice to all men that are innocent victims.Dec 16th, 2014Someone from Homestead, PA writes:
I'm a lawyer and my ex-wife and her self-proclaimed "Sons of Anarchy" type boyfriend that she had cheated on me with throughout our marriage had concocted a PFA scheme to have me jailed and extricated from my children's lives...all because they knew that a man cannot defend a PFA action...and that alleging a subsequent violation would have me thrown into county jail. The whole process is designed to emotionally and financially exhaust a party without their even having a chance for a fair fight. In the end, I haven't seen my children for over a year (because they believe that I wouldn't have been jailed if not true) and the District Attorney won't even typically consider filing charges against anyone for falsifying an indirect criminal complaint. The whole process needs to be re-evaluated.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 16th, 2014Someone from Fresno, CA signed.
Dec 16th, 2014Someone from Chesterfield, VA writes:
I am 24yr male and I was Accused of Strangling for 5 mins!!!!!! !!!and beating a domestic partner this girl has scoliosis and is very tiny 5f-1in (assume) found out she was taking my car to see someone else instead of work so i said get out of my residence. She did leave! but two weeks later.... non stop calls and hounding messages with photos of preg test! that others had posted online from 4 years ago At court judge was female prosicuter,judge and even my laywer were all female and my lawyer (CAL)gave nothing about the truth i had texts of harrasment with the photos of her "fake repost preg test both her sent via facebook and a whitness who i was on the phone with at the time i found out what she was doing with the car with my only name hmm? waits two weeks to file charges,(best of them all ) and says the dog that i owned1 year before i even knew her exiestence, that i stole from her O.o the prince george officer of VA did NOT even take me ino booking or holding not even a car ride just said "we gota do it"none the less judge looks at her and says (looking at my size to hers) and says thers is no way that was possible (wow ) but she still charges me with domestic violence probation, batters programs CCC was my choice and all they have done is find a way to carry on your 24 week class course 65 first fee 20 every class! and we all know gota pay the probation officer in every way too he likes to make the time on probation "hell" you need to seek help pushing into your personal business and making just even more struggling for you. i understand that there are some of you guys hat have had worse than me for someone who really did NOT commit this act i turned 24 in nov 2014 so far i cant hunt protect my family or even have the option to even look at a fire arm and forget about your rep that girl slung my name and my family to the ground im still on probation and they continue to make my time in the court system even longer when i already have lost from this my first apartment that i got on my own my licens was suspended i had to give my soul for the fines they gave they took my welding job i cant travel i have been working at odd jobs cooking ect making nothing but im still alive giving my family everything....and mind you that day in court she lied and ruined my hard work that i built to live for left free and is now in another state and is free to tell her tramatizing story. ~ michael ~ p.s i am sorry for the misspelling stayed up all night trying to find a way for some one to help cut this knot that keeps me in my dog house i fear and mistrust anyone involved with this case for the plain smack in your face "i can do what i want to you bec im a judge...but i have no idea who are so im just going to accept these very harsh punishments to someone who will never have a complete constitutional rightfull lifREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Minneapolis, MN writes:
I was charged falsely for also trying to leave a girlfriend... It's guilty until proven innocent if a man is charged with domestic abuse.. Even my lawyer said a fair trial in this situation is unobtainable.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Glenmoore, PA signed.
Dec 15th, 2014Someone from Gallatin, TN writes:
My ex girlfriend could not take the fact that i wanted to break up with her one night. I had been drinking and i told her i wanted to leave. As i was putting on my shoes she ranup to me pushing and slapping saying "NO I WONT LET U LEAVE ME!" She was holding me against my will and i didnt know what to do. I slapped her twice on the face an left. She then called the cops saying i punched he multiple time and strangled her. I was arrested for aggrovated domestic assault and contributing to a minor. I then spent a week in jail and got bailed out. I now await court, looking at possible prison time or a Minimal 6 months in jail. All because she is making a mountain out of an ant hill.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Lenoir, NC writes:
I know that love makes you do things that sometimes you regrets, this is my "4" time I see my self in this situation, My wife just we disagreed in a decision, she just goes out call the police, and out I go. Lost of respect, money, friends, it hurts my real loved ones. Lest make really effective law. I hate when I hear of a "man" that hits a woman, and this law doesn't help her anyways.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Mebane, NC writes:
A friend of mine is going through this right now. He is facing a lot of false charges and could really use support from anyone who has experience with these matters. I know this himand he is not who this woman is claiming he is. I would die for This man and there is nothing I can do to help. I'm asking if there is anyone out there that would take a moment to hear his story. All I ask is for your time, help and opinion. With upmost sincerity, Timothy JonesREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Marquette, MI writes:
i am a victim of this lie. i was accused of domestic violence when i broke up with my girlfriend. this happened in 2010. she called the cops because i was breaking up with her and wanted to leave. they threw me in jail and dragged me through the court system. costing me thousands of dollars and now i have this on my record. just for breaking up with her. its ridiculous. i think this is a money scam. because it sure isn't justice.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Fond Du Lac, WI signed.
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No, CancelDec 15th, 2014Someone from Euclid, OH writes:
Taking the low road, may be easier, but perpetuates circumstantial injusticeREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 14th, 2014Someone from Buckley, MI signed.
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Dec 14th, 2014Someone from Memphis, TN writes:
Ex parte orders and Department of Children Services processes are both unconstitutional.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 13th, 2014Someone from Mocksville, NC writes:
I was falsely accused of do in 2010 and had everything taken away from me. I do have joint custody of my two kids but they are used as bribes and collateral. I have to pay $1200.00 a month in child support and I don't make alot of money. I went thru 29 weeks of anger management and a year of probation because my ex cheated on me and didn't want to take responsibility for her actions. Wanted to be the victim.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 13th, 2014Someone from Fort Gibson, OK signed.
Dec 13th, 2014Someone from Lebanon, NH writes:
I have recently been falsely accused ot domestic violence. This article seems to speak directly to me. The woman who shall not be named accused me of this heinous act as she was suspicious of me leaving her. I had been discussing with several friends about the fact that I was going to leave. However, I foolishly stuck around because she could not afford the apartment herself. I wish I would have left earlier before she escalated her erratic behavior, unfortunately she is mentally ill ( Bi-Polar disorder) so I could not accurately predict how she would act from moment to moment. I am unable to afford an attorney all of my material belongings are in her apartment and I am forced to beg a friend to sleep on their living room floor as I try to sort this out. Innocent people get accused and wrongly convicted too often. I am proof, all you can do is hold back the tears, raise your chin high and move forward.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 13th, 2014Someone from Anderson, IN signed.
Dec 13th, 2014Someone from Waltham, MA writes:
Due to my own recent experience, I have noticed that judges are now becoming bias when it comes to domestic abuse disputes. When a woman lies about being abused, the judge and the whole court system seems to automatically take her side. At that point I felt I couldn't even tell what actually happened because the judge had already made up his mind. I was always under the impression that when you are accused of a crime, you are innocent until proven guilty. This does not seem to be the case anymore in domestic dispute charges where the woman straight up lies about what happened. Don't get me wrong, I know that plenty of women are actually abused by their boyfriends or husbands; which is sick and wrong; however, that is not always the case. Especially when dealing with a pathological lying, drug addicted ex-girlfriend who will say anything in order to get exactly what she wants. In these particular cases, there is a flaw that needs to be fixed in the justice system. One lie in the court room regarding the domestic dispute can cripple the guys whole life. I am now learning this through personal experience and I hope this changes in the future.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 12th, 2014Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
Monmouth County family court are bias against men and do not see the web of lies my ex wife tells along with the mental abuse she is causing both my daughters it's a disgrace. This battle has been going on for years. She has also accused me of fLse domestic violence where I was facing 10 years. The judges wanted to hang me all on account of her fabricated story. I took it to trial and thank God for the jury, evidence did not add upREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 12th, 2014Someone from Marion, OH signed.
Dec 12th, 2014Someone from Falls Church, VA writes:
I was a victim of false domestic abuse by a woman who used me to get a green card. We were only married for 5 months until the day after she received her green card approval from USCIS. Now I'm stuck with false charges and she is getting her green card, my money, child support and I'm stuck with the shame, guilt and a criminal charge. The sad part is that she claimed I pushed her. There were no marks or evidence of abuse what so ever. NOT FAIR I'M BEING TREATED LIKE A CRIMINAL FOR SOMETHING I DID NOT DO. Fairfax Virgina.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 12th, 2014Someone from Windsor, VA signed.
Dec 12th, 2014Someone from Claremore, OK writes:
My son is going thru this right now. They have added other charges too. His girlfriend has told the DA she wants the charges dropped but they will not do it. The worst thing is that they are bringing the children into it & threatening their mother to take the children away if she doesn't cooperate with the DA. They have already sent DHS to the school & their home. And they are attacking my son saying he is a bad parent which is not true. He's never ever harmed his kids or the girlfriend. What do you do? Its a nightmare!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 12th, 2014Someone from Greenfield, MA writes:
How my partner has been treated without evidence, without cause, and the harm caused by the courts to his daughter for his ex's manipulations is unconscionable. Men are targeted because of their gender alone whereas women are presumed innocent because of theirs. The institutional bias must end.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 11th, 2014Someone from Fort Thomas, KY writes:
Going through this with my son now his life is ruined by a girl who lied I am spending all my money to show she not being truthful having been abused I know the power the court gives her and constitutional rights for my son are none he is guilty before court this is not how our founding fathers ment it to beREPORT COMMENTS
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