Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jan 4th, 2015Someone from Seattle, WA writes:
My wife's father hates me for whatever reason. He has my wife convinced we cannot be married and I am an unsuitable husband. My wife loves me and has been torn by the situation. Well, daddy wins.. Now the wife is using domestic violence that never occurred to remove me from and force us to sell at a loss. The dv advocate has her convinced of who knows what and the courts want 2 months of jail and 2 years of probation and classes that are designed for failure and lead to more jail time. If I'm convicted, 2 months will cost me my job. Meanwhile everytime I turn around she's filing another police report against me for who knows what?? The court fees and attorney bills will take me years to pay off. Last we saw each other we were in love and working our stuff out. Then the dv advocate comes in and brainwashed my wife into all out attacking every bit of my wife. I yelled at her and that was it. Innocent until proven guilty is non existent in the court system -
Jan 4th, 2015Someone from Saint Albans, NY signed.
Jan 4th, 2015Someone from Lutz, FL writes:
I recently married a man from overseas on a K1 visa. We were starting our lives in South Carolina. He assaulted me badly over money problems and I was trying to escape our apt. We were both arrested because scratch marks were left on him and he lied to the police that I slapped. My entire life I would never harm anyone and never had a speeding ticket . I'm a professional citizen of this country and I was wrongfully arrested because my husband lied. My life was destroyed in seconds and now I realize the man I married may have just used me for a meal ticket. Even though I knew him since 2006... I realize he is not the man I thought he was.... Law enforcement should NEVER be able to arrest a person based on stranger's word. I have solid evidence that I had to 100 percent to defend myself and there was a struggle for my safety. I encourage Congress to investigate the internal activities of Hardeeville, South Carolina.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2015Someone from Jacksonville, FL writes:
this is happening to me now there needs to be a way to stop thisREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2015Someone from Boca Raton, FL signed.
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Jan 4th, 2015Someone from Paterson, NJ writes:
I want to thank my friends who signed this petition. I don't understand the judicial system, how they found probable cause for something we didn't do. They are not even investigating. Correct me if I'm wrong, aren't they supposed to do a search. Since my ex said that my husband owns a gun. They have to check my ex-boyfriend cell and the girlfriends cell and what number and if the text is still there. We are innocent of what my ex accused us of, and we are not going to plead guilty for something we didn't do. My ex-boyfriend says that I sent him a text saying that I threatened to kill him and his girlfriend. On the restraining order it says that. The police report only says that I threatened him. Even the judge from Passaic said that the charge was that I threatened to kill him. Again my husband don't even have their number. We need help to prove our innocence and someone who really looks into it and let us show the proof of everything my ex-boyfriend has been putting us through. My ex has a long criminal record for drugs, domestic violence and shop lifting. His probation officer knew he was positive for cocaine and didn't report it. He wasn't even testing my ex randomly. I have all the facts and never get to show them. Back and forth to court and we always get another court date. The Justice system takes so long to do something about this whole matter. It's been a year and 8 months. And they don't see that this is retaliation and they don't investigate. My husband and I are the victims. Justice is not getting served for all the wrong doing to my husband and I. We need help, this has gotten very out of hand. Now my ex for his girlfriend to make a false allegation towards my husband. We just to live in peace and for this man to stop causing problems in our lives.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2015Someone from Danbury, CT signed.
Jan 4th, 2015Someone from Lodi, NJ writes:
this is the start to stop domestic violence believe me i lived through it so this is an important issue 4 me ....REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2015Someone from Rhinebeck, NY signed.
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2015Someone from Lebanon, TN signed.
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Jan 3rd, 2015Someone from Haledon, NJ writes:
That shame when man lied women have her kids taken away.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Haledon, NJ writes:
That shame when man lied women have her kids taken away.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Yucaipa, CA writes:
I went through two of the most traumatic restraining orders. My rights were entirely violated. The judge was prejudiced based on race, and also he did not allow me to defend myself at all. The two situations were entirely staged and set up way in advance. I came innocently out of my house, was almost attacked by two large dogs the meth dealers next to me set off on me, and then I noticed that the people across the street were filming me from the minute I came out of my house. I had the worst attack of asthma, and was without my meds, so was trying to get into my car to go get some. I was ready to pass out from the lack of being able to breathe. The man across the street kept jumping in fromt of my car and throwing fingers as I tried to get out and get to the pharmacy. His girlfriend kept filming. He threw fingers at me, called me horrible names, etc. the whole ttime I was struggling to breathe and about to pass out. I managed to call the police and I had to go back to the house and wait for them, but meanwhile the man's girlfriend had photographed me on the camera and made it look as though I was trying to run over him, when in fact it was not at all true. These people had bullied me for several years. I am a 73-year-old disabled senior, and I had served on Citizens Patrol and also on the City Commission for Public Works and Safety. The bullying started when I moved into the park and continued over the years, with hate letters sent to Citizens Patrol and the City Manager, and hate mail sent to me too. These bullies did everything they could to ruin my life. I think half or more of them were involved with drugs - mostly meth and probably some cocaine too. I called the police many times, and so because of that, they all knew who was doing the calling and they destroyed my property, threatened me and my animals, and made life really unpleasant. I kept thinking things would get better, but I got assaulted toward the end. The police did nothing about it because they said I had no business being there (on public park property trying to get some chair cushions that belonged to my friend on her wicker furniture. Once that assault happened and I had to go to ER afterward (the crazy woman has a history of assaulting people including her own daughter) , the bullying stepped up and that is when the most severe bullying started. It was a living nightmare and now I have severe PTSD.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Wilmington, NC writes:
My daughter-in-law has file many charges of "assualt"; "communicating threats"; & "stalking" against various people (6 +) including my son & myself. She does this to allow her to break up with people or to move out of their homes, while allowing her to take whatever she wants to from the property. She then either drops the charges or doesn't show up in court. This is after the true victims have hired attorney's & had their reputation ruined. On each document that she files she states "He told me that if I left him, he would kill me". She has established a pattern of abusing the judicial system & should be stopped. We need laws on the books to go after these type of people. Please help.REPORT COMMENTS
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Jan 3rd, 2015Someone from Tupper Lake, NY writes:
This is just wrong. Put an end on the war of false accusationsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Dallas, TX writes:
I was in an abusive relationship. She lied to police and had me thrown in jail. Now she is trying to make money off of it in NYC pretending to be a victim of DM by teaching yoga to women who were really victims. She even admitted to lying on the police report to me. I think domestic abuse goes both ways but is always geared to pre-emptively accuse men before facts can be gathered.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Paterson, NJ writes:
My husband and I are victims of what my ex-boyfriend has been putting us through, we have been back and forth to court for the charges against my ex-boyfriend. He has made our life impossible. He has kept harrassing my husband and myself. It's gotten to the point that he made more than one false allegation towards my husband. Because of the 2nd false allegation, is why I have not seen my children. My ex went to jail October 2nd for stealing from his girlfriend and ofcourse she called the cops on him. Then he was using my kids money to get high and they removed my children on the same date. My ex has a long criminal history and is on probation for domestic violence. His other false allegation he did was on December 22nd and on Dec 30th,2014. I went to jail for something I didn't do. He claims that I texted him sending a terroristic threat and I don't even have his number. He said the same false allegation towards my husband and now my husband is in jail. My husband went to the court to defend me and show all the proof against my ex and for my husband to get arrested for something he didn't do. I need help to get my husband out of jail. My ex retaliated against us both. Because of another court date for charges against him for false allegations and endanger the Welfare of my kids. And the judge found probable cause against my ex, because of the proof from the girlfriends statement to the police.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Paterson, NJ signed.
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Jan 3rd, 2015Someone from New York, NY writes:
There is no logic to this law. The system is ruthless and it is terribly abused by a lot of people. The law is not protecting the victims of domestic violence like it was intended for. Please consider that peoples lives are ruined because of holes in the system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2015Someone from Bend, OR writes:
The Circuit Court in Deschutes needs to be Audited for rampant civil rights abuses.They lack Training in applying the law fairly especially in overlooking perjury and contempt by plaintiffs Who have been awarded RO's. Its common knowledge that any one with a vendetta can get aRO in less than 5 mins. Circuit court judges are Totally unaware how they are used by borderline And bipolar women (especially) in exacting vendettas. I have witnessed a good friend get Slammed repeatedly by judges allowing the accuser (who has 5 felony priors ) to perjure Herself & act in contempt of her own RO without Penalty. Deschutes County judges are either corrupt or need training in Abnormal Psychology. Citizens here drdperately neef a Citizens Review Board or other entity to Review appeals ex posto facto as a corrupt process of approving RO applications has been ongoing too long.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 2nd, 2015Someone from Saint Augustine, FL signed.
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Jan 2nd, 2015Someone from Bend, OR writes:
When it comes to disputing alagations of an ro as a man especially in oregon, you'll find the odds are NOT just regardless of your facts or Attorney. All a woman has to say is, "Im scared of him or "something bad will happen if i dont have this ro." Add a few tears and a poorly bressed woman and presto, ro forever. Once they have it. Ots even harder to overturn later. This is most comonly used as a tactic to gain custody of a child. Ask me how i know?? ;) This practice is the most un ethical, un lawful and very dangerous for the person with the ro against them because it allowsallows the ro holder to do whatever they wantwant. They cancan harass the accused as much as they want with no legal enforcement. I dont kniw who wrote the law but i guarantee they never had a sociopath with an ro in there pocket mathekeing there life hell. Time to wake up. The leagal systen is being made the laughing stock of anyone looking for revenge or custody. I was such a fool to this I'd get a fair trial. Ifoolishly thought the accuser had to produce proof. They dont. An attory wont tell you its a llosing fight. Not that you shouldent but dont expext much. Please put an end to the un lawfully practice in our "legal system" end the mockery.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 2nd, 2015Someone from Bend, OR signed.
Jan 2nd, 2015Someone from Howell, NJ writes:
False DV charges are now common in NJ separation and divorce cases. They are suggested on the QT by many attorneys representing the woman to gain advantage in regard to child custody and control of all monies and property holding husbands hostage. My x-wife threatened to file false DV charges if I filed for 50/50 child custody (at which time I called the police and reported the threat). She threatened me repeatedly with false charges of DV through out the divorce and charged me in the divorce papers of physical and emotional abuse of her and our two sons. I was very lucky that my sons where teenagers at the time and provided eye witness testimony to the attorneys that all the charges where false. When I ask if she would be prosecuted for making false charges nothing was done. 67% of divorces cases now involve DV charges with only 25% of them real. Women or men who falsely make DV charges should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 2nd, 2015Someone from Bend, OR writes:
This is common in Deschutes County OR. Here Judges routinely award RO's in minutes, with no documentation. The appeal hearing is slated to last 15 minutes because the court is too busy. Interesting. RO's generate huge revenue. Statistics reveal that most troublesome people who are 'frequent fliers' are borderline, bipolar, or sociopath by definitons in the DSM-IV. I know of one borderline woman with over 23 hearings in the last two years in Deschutes Co: two DUI's, 3 evictions, 2 wage garnishments for fraud, felony theft, and now 7 hearings about a RO issue. The court has overlooked her admitted perjuries and attempts at entrapment.Keep the cash flowing in Deschutes County!. We need a Citizens Review Board to get some justice.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 2nd, 2015Someone from Bronx, NY writes:
I'm a victim of false accusation by my ex scorned gf who always lock me up whenever she want the cops won't listen to me and always arresting me without evidence only her words and sometimed she add her co workers of 5 years or her mother as a evidence , today I'm sick and tired of my life being like this for 2 years now . I don't know where she live I have no contact with her , we don't hang out in the same areas just because she has my ful name and adress and was intimate she succesfuly using the system againt me , I waisted so much money in lawyers and coutfees that today I really don't know if is worthy me living in this life and go through this mental disturbance, lost of livelihood, unhappy loved one around me at the moment, scard 24/7, please I need helpREPORT COMMENTS
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