Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Harrisburg, PA signed.
Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Seaford, NY signed.
Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Louisville, KY writes:
Not only the allegations were exaggarated but also the police made up a statement I took my Miranda rights but that was never recorded) and then the prosecutor lied about the injuries, medical report and even had photo-shopped pictures. My attorney advised me to just plead guilty and the prosecutor was not asking for jail. At sentencing he changed his mind, asked for 6 months jail and did not give me the chance to withdraw my plea. The legal system does everything to get convictions so it looks good on their record and do not hesitate to lie and cheat and break the law. My injuries and evidence was never brought up by my attorney because he said it would just make everything "difficult". The family court judge gave everything I owned to my wife during the following divorce, just an added bonus to the DV charge and I was not even convicted at that time. Shame on the legal system and corrupt prosecutors.Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Mukilteo, WA signed.
Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Mukilteo, WA signed.
Dec 4th, 2014Someone from Odessa, FL writes:
Are there any national or local groups in Tampa, Florida that are standing up to the false allegations that lead to domestic violence and stalking injunctions? If not let's get something started. Something has to be done.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 3rd, 2014Someone from Paris, KY writes:
I support this statement and having been in this situation, I have also met many others who have been dragged through the system and lost a large part of their lives and what they had worked for. In my case (and that of others I have met in counselling), the injuries of the stabbing I sustained where not recorded by police but the bruise on her wrists where I had held her to stop, where considered "physical injuries". I do of course support the law for domestic violence but these situations are very often a tw-way street and are often used to "short cycle" a divorce where the wife will get everything including custody. The mandatory counseling was surprising: they pretty much focus only on symptoms of "crazy women" such as signs of bi-polar, borderline and narcissistic personality disorder and advise to RUN if you recognize these situations. It would make sense if in case of domestic violence BOTH partners would be court ordered to undergo counseling and this would help both the men and women. But for now, its only the men that are being arrested with all dire consequenses except when the wife shot the husband. Note: in the state of Kentucky, the domestic violence program is not open for women: they get "anger management counseling" instead in case of domestic violence. Domestic violence involves two people and not always a "victim and perpetrator". Women know that the law however will be on their side no matter what and abuse of the system should not be tolerated. These practices also seriously harm those women who are in truly bad situations of DV and it amazing nobody hears from them.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 3rd, 2014Someone from Denver, CO signed.
Dec 3rd, 2014Someone from Haddonfield, NJ signed.
Dec 3rd, 2014Someone from Worcester, MA writes:
Its not only women making false accusations. My brother in law and sister are facing jail time and losing thier kids over several false reports made by his father. The justice system needs to look into all parties envolved including history of making false reports before they automaticly side with alledged victim. After the year it takes to prove your innocent you already lost your job home and kids. Whos the real victim?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 2nd, 2014Someone from Foresthill, CA signed.
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Dec 2nd, 2014Someone from Wayne, NJ writes:
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No, CancelDec 2nd, 2014Someone from Wahoo, NE signed.
Dec 2nd, 2014Someone from Anacortes, WA signed.
Dec 2nd, 2014Someone from Brandon, FL writes:
Our family was recently faced with this deplorable situation. And my son being in the military is now also facing possible repercussions with them as well. I'm sickened that a young man's whole life can be ruined by a false claim, where he was simply trying to get away from her, and hold her arms from abusing him as she was the aggressor and the one hitting and kicking him. Now we had to come up w/ $1k bail money and now must try to find a good attorney and the money for a good attorney even though she has since been clearer in her statement that he in no way was trying to harm her. She is afraid if she is clearer on her actions that caused him to hold her arms down or push her away from him, she will end up in her being charged so she is trying to minimize her actions. I am sick that even though he was only trying to get away he is now facing the loss of all he has worked for in the military, and the loss of his freedom or something on his record. Sickening. Saddening. Heartbreaking.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 2nd, 2014Someone from Tulsa, OK signed.
Dec 2nd, 2014Someone from Spokane, WA writes:
my childrens mom did this twice.. to me I was arresteted by both cases were thrown out.. and dismissed .. inbetween these two since she basically had me wrapped .. due to the fact I loved her and didn't want my family split I did anything she said... including going to our apartment while after the first arrest.. which a no contact order was in place automatically.. she said don't worry.. I arrived and we sat on the couch hugging and kissing .. and she said she was sorry for doing it.. then a knock on the door the police showed up in about ten minutes after my arrival.. later after it was all over and dealt with she admitted to me .. her mom was waiting outside a block away to see me show up and then notified police. the only thing I did was argue and I never touched her.. hence why both times it was thrown out and dismissed. he mother had also attempted to get her to move to live with her so she wouldn't work.. her enticement was that between her alimony from her ex husband and my childsupport they could live on that and not have to work. we were together off and on for almost twenty years.. we broke up several times.. the when we would separate we would go to court for custody.. and she would bring those things up in a declaration.. which even tho dismissed still impacted and she had custody.. eventually she moved across state and then made it very hard to see my children as she isn't required to meet me halfway as I can only see the kids for now if I go there and she has total control. before she moved I had my kids on a regular basis weekends over night ect. but when she moved to Puyallup after and to live with her mom... that is what changed my visitation.. she brought that claims into court and the guardian at litem saw fit to enact that type of partenting plan reguardless. I feel powerless.. and feel shame even though I shouldn't.. my childrens mom had charged me from across the room as I sat on the couch.. and punched me in the face as hard as possible and other times would follow me room to room screaming me and tearing me down.. I regret never calling police not once.. because I felt It would do no good cuz the fix I wanted was our family together and happy.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Cumming, GA writes:
I WAS ONE OF THEM VICTIMS,THIS NEEDS TO STOP AND THERE IS A LOT OF MEN ABUSED BY WOMEN OUT THERE AND STILL END UP BEHIND BARS AND DESTROYED LIFES!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Aurora, CO writes:
Creating additional victims solves nothing. Could VAWA be any more wrong than the sociopath that approved it? The man who did not have sex with that woman signed off on VAWA. The same man who didn't inhale also signed off on Glass Steagal. For one do something that is just and not in your own best interest!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Acworth, GA writes:
As a victim of false charges, I am very interested in seeing reprocussions for false allegations.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Lake Oswego, OR writes:
My mother filed a protective order against me because she was afraid I would talk to her children from a marriage she hid from my Dad when he met her 30 years ago. She did not want her secrets to be know in her small town. I live 2000 miles away from her, but the judge gave her the order anyway. I am a teacher.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Gnadenhutten, OH signed.
Dec 1st, 2014Someone from Barberton, OH writes:
I also was in the U.S.Army Special Forces as a support Small Arms Repairman (Gunsmith) and now I can't own any weapons due to this woman's agenda to ruin me and her false allegations! Stop these false allegations!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Barberton, OH writes:
I was convicted of felony domestic violence in Ohio because I didn't want to be with my wife any longer. I was trying to get my stuff from her house and was attacked by her. She then called the cops and stated I hit her when I was just trying to leave the house. This woman is trying to ruin my life any way she can. She's making false allegations years later after I divorced her and she is married yet again with her 5th baby on the way!! 3 children which were not from me! She keeps having kids to claim this on taxes and get more free money from the government. I have not seen my 2 daughters for over a year as she will not let me see them and tells them they have a new daddy yet I'm still required to pay child support!? This is a deplorable act from women across the U.S. and it needs to stop! IT NEEDS TO STOP!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from Dalton, OH writes:
This happened to both my son and brother. Both of these men are very respectful to all women and have never been violent in any way. My brother's ex had been married 3 times previously (and also claimed DV on 2 former spouses - which was learned when it was too late). My son's ex has 5 babies from 4 different daddies and only 2 (my grandchildren) were conceived during marriage. She has also claimed DV and rape against former 'boyfriends' and has a criminal record in FL. There was no actual evidence against by son or brother, yet Victim's of Crime (Assistance) helped both of these 'women' get away with a crime. This needs to be stopped!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from New York, NY writes:
Please stop this practice. It almost happened to me despite never laying a hand on my ex wife and I lost my reputation and almost my career. I am not saying domestic violence should not be taken seriously but it should be done in a lawful and fair manner as any other. In the United States, the mantra is "innocent until proven guilty" and yet men are too often falsy accused by bipolar or narcissistic women to fit their narratives to devious ends.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 1st, 2014Someone from San Jacinto, CA signed.
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Nov 30th, 2014Someone from Greenville, PA writes:
Falsely accused by adulteress spouse who used her legal right to allege Domestic Violence. Which was attorney driven calculated positioning to get me out of residence. Even though the alleged was encountered with her lover while husband was investigating possible break in at family camp. I was armed with 44 mag. And discovered wife and lover without incident. But weeks later wife alleged concern for her life and her lovers. No evidence to support. Very disturbed by the ability wife had to manipulate the system at current time am restricted from my home and property for one year. FOUL!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 30th, 2014Someone from Wichita, KS signed.
Nov 30th, 2014Someone from Kirkland, WA writes:
A friend was falsely accused of domestic violence by his estranged wife and had to go to court to prove his innocence> He was found innocent within 20 minutes. She then accused him of physically abusing his 7-year-old daughter. Thank God he got the surveillance tape from Safeway where his estranged wife claimed the crime had occurred. She was found to have no credibility. The judge awarded her custody and now he will have to endure this type of abusive behavior forever. The judge completely ignored her behavior.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 30th, 2014Someone from Williams, IN writes:
I came between my wife and her 15 year old daughter by telling my wife of the info i found of her daughter admitting to lying to my wife on many occasions in the daughters journal, i was arrested two days later for domestic battery in the presence of a minor, my wife pushed me and i pushed back, the daughter called 911 and my life has been turned up side down.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 30th, 2014Someone from Wilkeson, WA writes:
Police came to house while I was asleep. called swat because i was a SOF sniper charged with DV1 thats right SGM US army all SOF and she told them i was a crazy vet!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 30th, 2014Someone from Ward Cove, AK signed.
Nov 29th, 2014Someone from Rockledge, FL signed.
Nov 29th, 2014Someone from Phoenix, AZ writes:
My ex falsely accused me of domestic violence, she was the abuser herself. Women falsely accusing men of domestic violence has become the normality in our society. I have heard countless women talk about how they used false accusations to gain the leverage in court scenarios against ex boyfriends and ex spouses. The fact is, people are abusing the broken court system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 29th, 2014Someone from San Bruno, CA writes:
It doesn't just happen to men, women are falsely accused as well and there is no burden of proof on the accuser. It's next to near impossible to disprove a negative. The ease of making these false allegations is all to easy and there are no consequences for anyone proven to be making these allegations out of spite or malice toward their spouse all the while the most damage being done is to the children involved. This needs to stop and those who have been proven to have made false allegations should be prosecuted and should make restitution to the injured parties.REPORT COMMENTS
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