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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Plain, WI writes:
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    I am dealing with false accusations right now by my soon to be ex-wife through the Protection Services The system believes all her lies with NO PROOF!!! Where is the justice? She falsified a police report to claim abuse, luckily the police didn't believe her, but they refused to charge her with Falsifying A Police Report!!! You Got To Be Kidding Me!!!!
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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Silver Springs, FL writes:
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    My wife has made false accusations against me and taken an injunction out so that I could no longer see my children or even be able to collect my personal items from my house. I have been kicked out of my home and have been forced to take a batter's course for something that I did not do. all of this because I got into a small argument with my daughter which my wife does on an every other day basis with my daughter. she has been diagnosed bipolar and has also been Baker acted in the past in a previous marriage however the injustice of the court system ate up every word that she had to say and her false accusations. I am in detergent and disabled and I am currently awaiting my disability case to go to trial so she knows that I cannot fight back or afford any lawyers. she conned are roommates into lying as well with the promise of giving them my electronics. the justice system is punishing an innocent man do to a false accusation and something needs to be done about this. I even pleaded by filing two petitions asking for a polygraph test to be done or any other form of lie detecting test to prove my innocence. is there anyone out there that can help me I have lost my family my home and I am only down to the clothes on my back.
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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Lancaster, CA writes:
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    Hello my name is Bobby im 22yrs old i have my son 4 yrs old my son was removed and placed with the mom who had monitored visitation twice a month n failed to visit our son she is unfit she is on drugs and my son has been crying out for help saying his mom is hitting him he is saying that in the presence of the social worker and the social worker denied it every week my son has bruises on face forehead body arms n leggs he begs to come home but de to false aligations of child abuse he was ripped away sceaming from my moms arms he has a extremely close bond with my mom as well as i do to. Due to the social workers not helping or protecting my son and lying about my sons crying out for help i started recording my visits just so that somebody anybody can hear it and believe us n help us rescue my son before a tradgedy occurs due to my sons mom hiting him and her boyfriend who just got out of prison abses my son previously he has burnt my sons forehead with a lighter shoved a pillow over him due to my son crying for seeing him have sex with the mom im desperately seeking help to bring him home where he is safe and loved so much my mom was told by the administrator of dcfs to call the hotline and make a complaint of nobody helping my son she called the hotline and the social worker got so angy that made a bad report saying my mom is saying bad things to my son about the mom and thats the most biggest lie ever its not fair that the social worker is getting away with everything she is doing she got my mom banned from the visits my mom has fallen in depression and has gotten sick on me the pain is so severe she has trouble focusing and is always crying and worst of all the pain my son is sffering asking for mommy he calls my mom mommy ive called the supervisor, public defender, district board of supervisors the antonovich deputy, the chairman of the board, ect... they don hear me they dont care we complain and they make it nearly impossible to bare with the situation my son is my heart he was removed in june and until this date the judge or anybody has failed to let me speak or present my witnesses or evidence they made up a horrile story and the dcfs investigator tampored with my evidence blanked out all the dates and pulled out the evidence that proves my innocence i dont know what to do i rocated in Lancaster to give my son a better and safer environment due to me growing up in east los angeles was so rough but i managed to stay out of trouble prison, or jail i have a clean record and they trying to lock me up accusing me of something i wouldn't ever do to nobody especially to my son. Please help me save my son im desperately seeking for help nobody hears me nobody wants to help please help me help my son rescue him please i dont know what to do or say anymore there is laws n the department of children services are braking the laws violating my rights and failed to protect my son. I cant bare the pain i have terring me apart thankyou
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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Hesperia, CA signed.
  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Mckeesport, PA signed.
  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Louisville, KY writes:
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    The Family Law "system" is terribly broken. Divorces used to take months, now they take years and attorneys profit at the expense and demise of innocent families. Please stop this "legal" destruction of the family unit and destruction of the children. My son was given the gift of a wonderfully intelligent brain by our God. He read every single Harry Potter novel in one summer at the age of first grade. Now, in the hands of his abusive dad, he has C's and D's. A bright child being wasted and destroyed so attorneys can make money. Please stop this travesty.
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  • Jan 22nd, 2015
    Someone from Newark, NJ signed.
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    Someone from Weldon, CA signed.
  • Jan 21st, 2015
    Someone from Brooklyn, NY signed.
  • Jan 21st, 2015
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  • Jan 21st, 2015
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  • Jan 21st, 2015
    Someone from Foster, RI writes:
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    It's an injustice to all Americans. They should be prosecuted and convicted if found to be filing false aligations. I was accused. I lost my job. My home. Friends. Cost me thousands of dollars and endless hours to defend. Found not guilty and the case was dismissed. Now what? Who will recoupe my losses? I strongly support this and any other bill trying to prevent these kind of things from happening.
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  • Jan 21st, 2015
    Someone from Charlestown, MA writes:
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    I was able to have the Massachusetts Appeals Court VACATE a 209a restraining order that was obtained by my X wife that was riddled with "LIES" and supported by a crooked Judge. I have 3 children and it took years to finally have the RO vacated. By the time I was finally vindicated my children were totally brainwashed. It is now 11 years later and I have never seen my children again. The only solace I have is knowing that Lawyers have cited my case in Court to help there clients. my case has helped others
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  • Jan 21st, 2015
    Someone from Berry, AL writes:
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    I'm not quite sure if my opinion counts anymore due to the fact that i served 240 days in jail because of false accusations; But, I know this my ex-girlfriend lies and lies and lies and she just left me for a heroin dealer because my dad made her leave his property(in which me and her resided on). My dad made her leave because she was trying to tear up my dad's trailer. Just out of stupidity and pure meaness she cheated on me and threw away 4 years of being in a relationship with me. She lied to the court too and said that my dad hit her! I was there, and my dad did not hit her! She is one example of an insane woman who lies when things don't go her way! I am an honorable man and I loved her to death. I would have never cheated on her, ever. I would have done anything in the world to make her happy. My ex is just an evil and sickminded person though, and I 'd hate to see other men have to go through all of the craziness that I've gone through with my ex. She even burned down our last trailer because she is just wicked and heartless. I never pressed charges on her though. I knew she burned it down and I still didn't try to put her in jail. Men must have bigger hearts though I guess.
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  • Jan 20th, 2015
    Someone from Denton, MD writes:
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    My wife is Bipolar. She would go to the Courts in a Manic state and file several Orders, and never show-up for the hearing. We are also a same sex couple. Let me tell you the Courts are so ill-equipped to deal with Mental Health driven actions, add a same sex couple to the equation and it becomes all so sad.
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  • Jan 20th, 2015
    Someone from Hubbard, OH signed.
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  • Jan 20th, 2015
    Someone from Plymouth, MA writes:
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    I been falsely accused and my X has put 2 restraining orders on me. Both were dismissed in Court because none of them had any basis at all. After the second Restraining order was Terminated after your 10 day wait she leaves that Court house and immediately goes to another Court house and then gets a Harassment order against me. She totally has no basis and on her affidavit she writes that I called her "Evil" which I did, I will admit and that she is in constant fear of me and she also states that I always keep breaking orders. She lies on all the affidavits and I can prove it 100 percent. Now I am being prosecuted for 3rd party contact because they are saying I violated the order. My big crime is she got an email from Twitter that said the following " My Name and then it said "Is still waiting for you to join twitter" I did not send that out and I have a Twitter account I set up a long time ago but I have NEVER twitted any one in my life. Now I am Being charged with a Felony. I was also charged before the Restraining order because my son was sick at School and the school called me to get him to bring him home because they couldn't reach his mother. I got him brought him home and walked him in the house that I own and always walked in before but because she is angry I have a new girlfriend she goes to the police station and tells them I broke in the home. Never mentions to them the reason why I was at the house. It got dismissed like everything else but I am tired of defending myself for things I don't do or such nonsense. It's affecting me and my kIds and I need help?? I could type in so much more but I could possibly go to jail for 90 days because of this Twitter email that came from info@twitter.com... Not me!! How can I make her stop???
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  • Jan 20th, 2015
    Someone from Schellsburg, PA writes:
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    There needs to be some type of law to protect those who are innocent against false charges. What is disturbing to me is it is a local domestic abuse center that is convincing my wife I am an abuser even though if the facts are closely examined I tried hard to be a good husband. What I was guilty of was I was not smart enough to realize how sensitive she was and how I upset her by not fully understanding her. The false charges hinder or kill any chance of reconciliation.
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  • Jan 19th, 2015
    Someone from Deltona, FL signed.
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    Someone from Harrisburg, IL signed.
  • Jan 19th, 2015
    Someone from Rock Creek, OH writes:
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    i know a women who is being accused of domettic violence....she is disable & would never be able to commit the actions that her soon-to-be ex husband is claiming. the bottom line is, it is cheaper for him to get a divorce if there is domestic abuse.....he can also get support from her. nothing he is claiming has gone on, but from what i understand, there is no burden of proof. my guess is that 95 % of cases are absolutely true, but there are people out there who are cowards & are going to use this as a crutch...the indivisdual i am referring to is a habitual liar, among other things. so because he wants to lie to get a free ride with lawyer fees paid and possible spousal support, everyone jsut believes it. some people are very good at puttin on a show & this man is no exceptions. she cannot even get into her house to get her personal belongings such as birth cert. social securtiy card, clothing, such as bra, underwear shirts pants, shoes. she has proof that would make his statements no credible, but t semed the magistrat was not interested. out justice system has some very serious flaws. a womens life , reputation and future will be ruined because some selfish **hole didn't want to be a real man and just tell his wife he wanted a divorce. PATHETIC!
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  • Jan 19th, 2015
    Someone from Huntington Station, NY signed.
  • Jan 19th, 2015
    Someone from Savannah, GA writes:
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    I have a family member falsely being accused in order to benefit the spouse. Many calls were made to build a case in order to have the accused removed from the home away from their kids. This needs to stop and evidence should be imperative when accusing. Many lives are ruined for no reason. Please help stop the false allegations of domestic violence.
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  • Jan 19th, 2015
    Someone from Mililani, HI signed.
  • Jan 18th, 2015
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  • Jan 18th, 2015
    Someone from Casselton, ND writes:
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    I am one of these men who are victims themselves of domestic violence who has been charged as the aggressor by using the necessary for to get away and called the cops to report the attack on himself only to be charged with domestic violence from her word. Even when the cops where called before the DA sent a letter stating they would not charge the wife for domestic violence, and I belive that this is because the stigma of men being the abusers and not the abused. Living through this time and time again and having to go to court before with the same woman, and being acquitted and now has to go through it again, this time I do have more support of friends to help get through it and leave the situation, but for men this is the hardest part to live through, we are supposed to be the strong one, the provider, and the one who keeps the household safe, but in fact there are more men who are the victims who can never be helped because the system does not see us as weak or being able to be mentality and physically abused. I hope this petition helps men like me and others to find justice and help through victims services that now concentrate on women. More men need to step up and release this stigma and be strong in the since of being able to stand up to the abuse they recived, get help, and have justice not throwing a blind eye at this problem.
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  • Jan 17th, 2015
    Someone from Millersville, MD writes:
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    Approximately 2 years ago I was working in California in my trained trade. I am a professional Poker dealer. I found an opportunity to move to a better job in the State of Maryland. After moving there, and starting this great job, I summoned a girlfriend I was seeing from California to come to Maryland to join me, and I would try to get her into school as a poker dealer of which I did. At some point our relationship grew. She is 41 and I am 26. At some point, I decided that I wanted out of the relationship because of our age difference. She took offense to it in such a way that I had to leave the residence and find a place to live, which I did. Suddenly, I am arrested at my place of employment accused of Domestic violence supposedly happening 87 days ago. Now I am out of work, facing Criminal charges. The crazy thing about this is, I never did any of it. She is angry because I left her. She had no cause to do this other than that. The other part is, there is no police report, no evidence that any of what she says even occurred. It's just her word. This is a Travesty of Justice, and something has to be done about the way innocent people are treated in events of this nature..
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  • Jan 17th, 2015
    Someone from Fort Lauderdale, FL writes:
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    I was a sworn armed law enforcement officer with my department for 23 years with an exemplary record. One night, my ex live-in girlfriend head butted me and I sustained a serious laceration over my eye. I left my residence and she received no injuries. i called 911 from my cell phone. She was arrested at gunpoint, handcuffed and put in the back of a police car. After a false and tearful statement to the sergeant, I was unlawfully detained for over four hours in the rescue vehicle and in an ER room under guard. With a coached and leading statement by a detective, i was arrested for d.v. strangulation (5 year felony) and d.v. battery (misd.) She had no marks on her face despite her lying I "punched her hard with a closed fist." She had no bruising 2 days later when the agency took more photos. i won my arbitration and my job back. My agency transferred me to a high crime area (not my previous assignment) and retaliated against me until my hypertension and medical conditions worsened. I had to resign due to constructive discharge. That night, my agency made a false arrest and ruined my career and my personal life, I am suing my former agency and the responsible individuals in federal court myself, if I don't retain an attorney. The domestic violence laws need to be revised- as they are not gender neutral, Males as well as females need to be protected from domestic abuse, and have the same Constitutional Rights.
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  • Jan 17th, 2015
    Someone from Pennsburg, PA signed.
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  • Jan 17th, 2015
    Someone from Nashville, TN writes:
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    I have appeals in civil and criminal courts the only evidence is heresy this is not right went to jail because she said called her for 8 days still no evidence so o appealed wish me luck
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