Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jan 17th, 2015Someone from Las Vegas, NV writes:
This happened to me, a 54 year old woman, by my 30 year old niece who I was kind enough to allow to live in the home I own. She moved her BF in and when I needed to start living there also two and half years later, they lied about DV and I was arrested. Then filed TPO keeping me from my own home! No priors of any kind I spent four days in jail. Pleading innocent to the video court judge would have allowed me to stay in jail for three weeks awaiting trial date. Posting bond (ae: bribe for my freedom) would have cost me $3000+. Pleading guilty allowed me to be set free on OR and stain my record permanently. I had no court appointed atty. but heard someone else plead 'no contest' and so I did too and was released on OR. Court date still pending, nightmare not over. Shameful system where the two acted as each other's witness and I had none. Their word against mine and she had no injury just a good drama acting job. I was definitely found guilty upon her mere accusation with no way to prove or even hear my claims of innocence heard. Disgusting. -
Jan 16th, 2015Someone from Ormond Beach, FL writes:
I am a victim of being falsely accused of domestic abuse by an alcoholic women who was coming off a cycle if antidepressants and was having, unbenonenced to me, 2 affairs. The charge was later dropped but the tramatic effect it had on me has been something that has changed me forever. The whole ordeal was totally taken that I was guilty and had no rights.REPORT COMMENTS
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Jan 16th, 2015Someone from Lansing, OH writes:
I know a lot of women that abuse this and try to get men locked up because they can It is never investigated like it should be. I also know women that abuse their husbands and get away with it because police won't believe that a women could do such a thing . Start investigating and spare the innocent from being fond guilty in our court systems, there are always two sides to every story. Our whole judici al system needs revampedREPORT COMMENTS
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Jan 16th, 2015Someone from Lansing, OH signed.
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Jan 16th, 2015Someone from Houston, TX writes:
Not just an ex-spouse but many teens nowadays know how to "work the system" for whatever crooked purposes intended or coxed into exaggerating or basically lying, by wicked or at least mean-spirited accomplices. God has his eternity for justice, man has only the few decades on Earth.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2015Someone from Woodhaven, NY writes:
My friend is spending in jail right now because her malicious roommate and our "friend" called the police on her while she was eating dinner lying saying she was abused by her. My friend is ill while locked up because she has a medical condition! This malicious female is getting away with it because shes using the law to get what she wants! Shes sleeping soundly right now while dreaming of more malicious things to do! And money to break free is a bit of a struggle! This malicious friend also has pictures of bruises that my friend never gave her! Its unjust!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2015Someone from Bangor, ME signed.
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Jan 15th, 2015Someone from Houston, TX writes:
After 39 years of marriage my wife without warning wanted a deviorce and said she was going to call the sheriff department and claim demostic assult on me. I have never done anything like that in 39 years. I had to retreat from my own home in fear of being arrestedREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2015Someone from Azusa, CA signed.
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Jan 14th, 2015Someone from Harlingen, TX signed.
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Jan 14th, 2015Someone from Oroville, CA writes:
My 58 yr old sister got s dv to against me based on false allegations of me having a history of violence . I proved that I have no history of violence but judge granted it anyway . she got the dv restraining order to keep me from visiting our 80 yr old mom and to discredit me should i report financial elder abuse. She is being unjustly enriched and won't allow me to discuss my concerns with mom. I'm terrified of my sister now and fear she will stop at nothing to keep me from mom. She grows marijuana for profit and has 5 distressed houses uninhabitable that moms income pays for. Mom recently diagnosed with dimentia. I need to start conservatorship action but my sis is making it impossible.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2015Someone from Portland, TX writes:
Wife abandoned marriage. Left the kids with me. Decided to go back on parenting agreement within a few days and have my kids stay with felon boyfriend. I put a stop to it by not turning kids over to her until the temporary court hearing. She accused me of stalking and got me locked up; took my kids; and move back into my home essentially making me homeless. No history of criminal violence; no protective order in place; not even a warning of anything; simply straight to jail. Cost me my winning custody battle simply because a police officer believed the tears and pretty face over the evidence. The justice system sucks.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2015Someone from Harvest, AL signed.
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Jan 14th, 2015Someone from Blue Springs, MO writes:
My wife went off when she realized I had moved a couple items from the house and was leaving. The next day I had a false PFA put on me. This is the second year in a row this has happened. I have never committed 1 crime against her. Nor have I ever verbalized any thing threatening.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2015Someone from Yakima, WA writes:
I was put in jail by a women who knew I was going to do very well in life . I didn't want to continue my relationship with her so she faulty accused me of hitting her and said "You are going to jail" i was like "why?" Because im a girl and theyre going to belive me. I was so confused and that's exactly what happened I was in jail for 4 days 3 nights as innocent man with bad people. I learned to be a stronger man and know what to do know with the law this law needs to change. This law is not right. We as humans need to get together and fight for this. I will never always this to happen to anyone I love.I'm glad I went threw it and grew stronger. Little does she know she woke up a sleeping giant. we will fight and won't stop until they let every single innocent out of that hell we call Justice.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2015Someone from Yakima, WA writes:
I was put in jail by a women who knew I was going to do very well in life . I didn't want to continue my relationship with her so she faulty accused me of hitting her and said "You are going to jail" i was like "why?" Because imREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Georgetown, KY writes:
It is scary to see how many similar stories are posted here about false or trumped up domestic violence charges. The kentucky protocol, in black and white, tells police to arrest one person only and it is not favored to arrest both. Without severe life endangering injuries, that will mean the man goes to jail. A friend of mine got stabbed by his gf and the neighbors called the police. When they showed up, they took him to the hospital and let her go, no charges, no arrest even though she admitted that she stabbed him because she was angry and bi-polar.This thing was on the TV news, except that the media changed it that she was the one who was stabbed. Other people in kentucky have to go for 28 classes for DV, which is only for men. If a woman is convicted, then she may have to get anger management or drug/alcohol treatment. Meanwhile, during a divorce the arrested party loses all rights and the crooked kentucky courts gladly cooperate. The DA and judges lie and make up stories, do not look or consider evidence and even the county clerks are involved by "losing" records. Kentucky is a poor state which does its best to keep poor people in jail in order for the county government to make money of tax payers, claiming that they fight crime. The KY prosecutor here is a crook and makes up the strangest and false allegations to anyone who is indicted, not only DV. He should be investigated. Not only false allegations by partners but also the lies by prosecutors to boost their conviction rates need to be punished. But I have no illusions that will ever happen since prosecutors are above the law. Kentucky (as many other states) does not even have a criminal law about domestic violence but have to label it "Assault". But only one person is charged with it, no matter what the injuries of both parties are. Even hair-pulling or something minor is labelled assault but if that would happen in a bar or somewhere, everyone would think it is ridiculous that someone goes to jail over that. So there need to be better laws defining domestic violence so that the assault law do not have to be abused by prosecutors. Please help DV victims by providing counsel and treatment in a marriage counseling for where it applies and keep DV for severe cases where there is a pattern of violence, such as the law says.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Pleasant Hill, CA signed.
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Jan 13th, 2015Someone from Lytle, TX writes:
Men should learn that once falsely accused their basic rights are taken away forever. Even when they are the victim they still lose in the system. Men, DO NOT ever take a guilty plea when you are innocent! Attorneys will always try to get you to, even when they know you are innocent. The falsely accused should always bring charges against the false accuser. They may not win but at least it will be on official record.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Mountain View, CA writes:
I have posted on this site before. Please be advised that a lot of men file false allegations as well. I recently joined a support group and there are three other women in our group who have an identical story to mine. We are all highly educated women and ours exs set us up, and gained and advantage in custody and division of assets. In my case a year later the police admitted wrongdoing but NOTHING happened to my ex. The deputy got disciplined by the Dept. and I will receive compensation for what the police did, but my ex (the real criminal here) not only did not suffer from what he did, but gained advantages in the divorce proceedings! The system is broken and it needs to be fixed, so PLEASE tell your stories and become proactive so that real criminals (men or women) who file these false charges are held accountable for their actions. These charges have had a horrible impact on my kids, and they truly are the real victims in such cases.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Dublin, OH writes:
If they file a false report, they should not only be criminally prosecuted and face jail terms but also be made responsible to re-pay the court costs (taxpayers' money) as well as the costs incurred by the falsely accused. This in itself is a terrible crime!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Miami, FL signed.
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Jan 13th, 2015Someone from Spokane, WA writes:
As an actual victim of domestic violence I an repulsed by the rampant use of false accusations as retaliation for slights both real and imagined. I am currently a witness to such a tragedy and feel personally assaulted by the fallout. An innocent man is being railroaded with no recourse. Innocent until proven guilty is such a false statement these days. How truly sad.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2015Someone from Durant, OK signed.
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Jan 12th, 2015Someone from Bend, OR writes:
This reactive law is unconstitutional. The Bar Associations, ACLU, and other legal entities dedicated to U.S. legal integrity need to help citizens get this law revised. NIH states 80% of RO's are bogus. Our legal system fails the citizens !REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 12th, 2015Someone from Springfield, MA signed.
Jan 12th, 2015Someone from Woonsocket, RI writes:
I'm under age so is my girlfriend we end up having a baby very early the baby isn't born yet but . Obviously the parents did not allow this so there for they put a no contact restraining order on me towards my girlfriend (my girlfriend did not know about this and couldn't do anything) now I can't talk to her or see her or try contacting her in any way or I will go to jail, she has no choice to go over them because she's under age. They have no evidence of me trying harm or pose threats towards them or her and when the hearing comes I will be proven incconent because I did absolutely nothing to break the law. I believe something should happen to the false accuser for taking my rights away for no reason at all please help to get this fix in this currupt system. Thank youREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 11th, 2015Someone from East Elmhurst, NY signed.
Jan 11th, 2015Someone from Wappingers Falls, NY writes:
This is my second time going thru this in Ulster county N.Y. The first time the petitioner admitted lying on the accusations, that she was upset about me leaving? I was put on 5 years probation anyway. With a limited order of protection. 2 years later we had a child together, her abuse became horrible. Physically attacking me and screaming at the baby while in my arms many times, even threatening to gut the baby and myself. At 6 months old I was at her house for the night, when leaving for work in the morning a small remark threw her into a rage and as I was walking out she attacked me in the head with a shoe. Then ran back into the bedroom where the infant was. I went to the bedroom to calm her and see that my daughter would be ok if I left.. She started screaming for her son to call the police. He is 9 and was frightened so he did. When the police came they observed a falsely filed full stay order in the system. ( was not a stay away order) then charged me with felony criminal contempt , harassment , and unlawful inprisonment. My probation was also violated from the first false case. I am now fighting for my life in 2 separate court systems and soon to be family court for my daughter. The Ada has a note in my ex's file as a pergerer. Still her first offer is 2 years in prison. Which I rejected. By doing so I'm risking a 7-9 year prison sentence. I'm now awaiting the indictment process where they will put her 9 year old on the grand jury. His father recently committed suicide because he was stripped of his parental rights for not being able to keep up his child support. This woman is borderline. Bi polar , sociopath. She constantly is black mailing me for large sums of money to help straighten this all out. Which is the reason she admitted to lying the first time.. These laws suck they are an injustice to men. I don't know how long it will be before this issue for what ever reason becomes a fashionable political platform. Until then many will suffer. Until then I'll be on house arrest in my parents basement unable to work at my career awaiting a prison sentence. Worrying about my babies safety and knowing when I get out there's little chance of having ample custody of her. I need help The Ada in my case goes around giving seminars to other Ada's on how to bury men with no evidence. My lawyer tells me.. It's only getting worseREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 11th, 2015Someone from Wood River, NE writes:
I've been removed from my home for no reason. For false allegations written on a protection order. I'm in shock devasted can't even see my daughters. Going thru trauma. I have proof evidence to fight this but seems like no one will step up. I would like to press purjury charges or false testimony . But my attorney is saying they won't do anything to her. Someone please help. Please call me 308-383-4279REPORT COMMENTS
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