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Please stop the unfair punishment of good fathers. We need child support reform now!

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  • May 1st, 2018
    Derek M. from West Deptford, NJ writes:
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    All through out the my child support is garnished from my pay well what I don't get is my entire income tax $48,000 or $42,000 a year gets snatched an I don't see a dime for 25 years now an I'm in all my children's an I've always have been so for those crying saying don't stop it step aside please. Because something needs to be done besides me working hard an the mothers benefiting big time off of me new cars every year big houses why I'm struggling in a dam apartment
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  • May 1st, 2018
    Derek M. from West Deptford, NJ writes:
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    All through out the my child support is garnished from my pay well what I don't get is my entire income tax $48,000 or $42,000 a year gets snatched an I don't see a dime for 25 years now an I'm in all my children's an I've always have been so for those crying saying don't stop it step aside please. Because something needs to be done besides me working hard an the mothers benefiting big time off of me new cars every year big houses why I'm struggling in a dam apartment
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  • Apr 30th, 2018
    Lashayda W. from Spring, TX writes:
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    I feel that it’s wrong for childsupport to be taken away. If you helped brought a child into this world then it’s both parents responsible to take care of this child . There are dead beat dads out there that don’t do for their child period . Don’t see the child, don’t send the child nothing for birthdays and Christmas. And since he don’t provide or care to take care of his child then he should be obligated to pay childsupport . They always concerned about where the money is going, but why should it matter where it’s going when the mother is providing a roof over he/ she head, feeding that child, clothing that child and etc.. IT’S BOTH PARENTS JOB TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILD!!! Not just one person . It shows that you don’t love your child if you are complaining about taking care of that child . IT SHOULD BE FORCED FOR DEADBEATS!!!!
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  • Apr 29th, 2018
    Georgia G. from Tampa, FL writes:
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    My son pays child support never sees the child!!! She has since had more kids an kicked all dads to curb!! She makes a bunch of money through child support, my son misses a payment he is punished, his driver license suspended, back up on child support mounts, he lives like a pauper already, it's not fair that this may not even be his child, won't allow paternity test to prove either way while possible father is living an enjoying his life with not a second thought!! Lawmakers need to change laws an make it fair for all parties, not just put it on the man!!! Antiquated ideas an laws have to be changed. Step up lawmakers hear the people that are decent an reaching out to be heard!!!
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  • Apr 28th, 2018
    Someone from Orlando, FL writes:
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    Wouldn’t change anything about what was said about how it should Be based on both parents.
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  • Apr 27th, 2018
    Bobby S. from Johnston City, IL writes:
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    I live in Illinois we had 3 children when divorce I got custody of our daughter she was 11 she mom lost visiting rights the other 2 kids a boy 9 and a girl 1 the boy flunked the 7 the grade because of absence I took her to court the judge was an idiot he said kids will not go to school if they don't want to so I got him to come live with me in the 8 the grade he did well in school but the mom pulled him out of school 4 times the principal wrote a letter to the judge because of her doing this again the judge was an idiot did nothing to her when he graduated 8 the grade she the mom never came to the graduation in the summer he went back to live with her he got on drugs an was in rehab 8 half months gateway wouldn't let her have him back because of the drugs in the house he stayed with me another 3 months an ran back to his mom's where there was no one to make him mind he was in jail 6 times while in highschool an what should been his senior year he went to prison the judge who never made her send him to school was the one who sent him to prison the younger girl was in 7 different schools by the time she was in the 2 nd grade failed the 3 Rd grade some how got put into highschool where she never attended at 14 she got pregnant had baby at 15 the daughter I raised graduated highschool and not works Intel for the government I'm still paying back child support for 10 years now on 2 kids my x never raised or did anything but live off
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  • Apr 27th, 2018
    Bobby S. from Johnston City, IL writes:
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    I live in Illinois we had 3 children when divorce I got custody of our daughter she was 11 she mom lost visiting rights the other 2 kids a boy 9 and a girl 1 the boy flunked the 7 the grade because of absence I took her to court the judge was an idiot he said kids will not go to school if they don't want to so I got him to come live with me in the 8 the grade he did well in school but the mom pulled him out of school 4 times the principal wrote a letter to the judge because of her doing this again the judge was an idiot did nothing to her when he graduated 8 the grade she the mom never came to the graduation in the summer he went back to live with her he got on drugs an was in rehab 8 half months gateway wouldn't let her have him back because of the drugs in the house he stayed with me another 3 months an ran back to his mom's where there was no one to make him mind he was in jail 6 times while in highschool an what should been his senior year he went to prison the judge who never made her send him to school was the one who sent him to prison the younger girl was in 7 different schools by the time she was in the 2 nd grade failed the 3 Rd grade some how got put into highschool where she never attended at 14 she got pregnant had baby at 15 the daughter I raised graduated highschool and not works Intel for the government I'm still paying back child support for 10 years now on 2 kids my x never raised or did anything but live off
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  • Apr 26th, 2018
    Someone from Plant City, FL writes:
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    I’m from FL married and have 1 child 1 year of age. I have a son with my ex, he is currently 5 years old. Haven’t seen him since his 2nd birthday because the mom don’t even want my son to see nobody not even grandparents from both side. She made an injunction and was passed which I have a lawyer on that because I never committed domestic violence but still got passed some how due to my ex shouting that I was dating a minor which her parent were actually present with me on that day of court. I guess he didn’t like that info and decided to set the injunction and the visitation to be supervised by my mother which she had no idea of and y girlfriend which she only had contact with my son only 1 day cannot be around him. My ex stoped bringing my son around and that’s when she became a bit more bossier with the schedule until she stop bringing him completely, the. She took me off child support because she calls me the sperm donor and that I wasn’t the father of the child no more. In today’s date I’m actually going back to court because she placed me back again on child support. Note I’ve had a chance to see my son but my mother is old and don’t want to be part of any of this nonsense because it’s true that order was very stupid and she has no time on hand for it knowing she work literally every day. So now I’m being placed back again on child support just because she filed for food stamp but in my knowledge her and her wife (lesbian relationship) are making so much money now that her wife have CDL and my ex at a barber shop so I’m guessing the lied just to get food stamp approved and now food stamp is trying to demand child support otherwise she gets the benefits revoked. Note that she don’t need food stamp her house hold make way to much money for that nd even if she said that she don’t work at the baber shop o more her wife works as a trucker which she makes big buck traveling out of states. I can’t do much in my case but I have a lawyer which was super expensive with the help of my wife’s parents so I can solve this nonsense of back and forth child support and which has ruined my license record because they cannot keep their data clear. I’ve almost went to jail because of child support and I didn’t even know it. And all my support was paid but just because an error on their end almost ruined everything and this happens frequently. How can you try to support if you can drive to work when they suspend your license, makes no sense. Honestly this system is dumb and inaccurate. It just helps the mother even if she was the one that made the choice to leave after we made a child, but me as father I get all the weight. That’s not fair at all. She knew she had a child with me why don’t she get punished for making such decision? She knew better right?
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  • Apr 24th, 2018
    Someone from Humble, TX writes:
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    I have 2 sons , I get nothing from their father but my boys still see their dad. My current husband has 1 daughter and pays 600 a month in child support. He lost his job last year so he requested a modification because he could no longer pay 600 and help with our living expenses. Well before the judge could make a ruling his ex hired an attorney and is now being sued for more child support even though he already can’t pay his 600 a month. He hardly sees his child because his ex always makes excuses and any time he calls or texts to see how she’s doing it always leads back to money. My point is, there are women/mothers like me who don’t care about the money. I only care about my boys having a healthy relationship with their father. My opinion is money will not make nor help my boys become respectable, hard working men when they grow up. But then there are girls /mothers like my husbands who only care about the money. They view their child as a pay check and could care less what type of relationship their child has with the other parent. Females like her do not deserve to have the same rights us good mothers have. My husband is a great father and an amazing step father who gets bashed by his ex for doing any type of activities or for financially helping me, his wife and step kids out. Because in her eyes he should only do for his 1 daughter and help her with her other 2 kids that are not his. This situation we are in sucks but I believe justice will be served now that we hired a great attorney.
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  • Apr 24th, 2018
    Susy R. from Odessa, TX signed.
  • Apr 23rd, 2018
    Sentle W. from Lufkin, TX writes:
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    Child support laws do need to be redone if not doing away with it all together. I been on this for yeard now and i dont get to spend time with my kids really at all. I hardley get to talk to to them because their mom rushing them to get off the phone. After reading laws on child support the law itself sexist and does benefit the mother in every way. I have a child that i havemt even seen since the first day of court because his mom does everything to avoid me and its been over 5 years. My other two kids that i was able to stablish a relationship with i dont get to see them really because their mom never brings them over even when they are in the same town. Ive done everything the court said to do but get a lawyer but because of child support i cant afford a lawyer or to live in my own place,get a vechicle, or fo anything that i want to do with my kids all because of their moms. I personally have always said that the law should be just dropped and not returned. Though it would make some people that should be on it not but most of the people that are on it are the ones getting punnished for those dead beats parents.
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  • Apr 22nd, 2018
    Someone from Grovetown, GA writes:
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    Hi I live in Atlanta Georgia. Honestly I had a one night stand with this woman in 2008. And no it wasn't a random one night stand she was a friend of the family that. Long story short we had sex .. in March 2008 and she moved didn't think nothing of it. Then 5 years later I get child support paper in the mail. From this chick that filled on me obviously 5 years later after we had sex.n (NOVEMBER '2013) I knew nothing bout her being pregnant. That's not even the worse part I just got my cdl and was getting ready to a woman with four kids. That I didn't help make but I love them to death.. so I went to court the judge called attendance and all the dads went to another room. Called one by one. And the child support didn't ask me any questions basically just said this how much u paying a month. I gotta pay $800 a month for one child ive never seen a day in my life don't know how he looks. My think is I'm taking care of four kids that's not mine why wouldn't I wanta take care of my own child(Ren) my thing is my did u wait so long to file for child support after all these years. I'll tell u y. Cuz my no good sister contacted her n told her I'm bout to get married to a woman with 4 kids thts not mine. So the chick filed for child support with is messed up. I can see if she filed when the baby was born but she filed years later and thts not far to me nor my wife and kids. She taking away frm my family tht I go to wrk and be gone weeks at a time. I dnt mind paying the child support but dang can I at least see my child. Child support really needs to be monitored or taking off cuz it's not far to the ones that try to do right as a dad/father. Im innocent cuz i knew nothing bout her being pregnant. Yes there's some dead beats out there and I'm far frm tht. Me and my wife been married 4 years now. With our 4 kids. Even though I've never seen my child n she never seen my child she still claims him as one of our children.
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  • Apr 21st, 2018
    Someone from Philadelphia, PA writes:
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    The situation it's different in each case..yes I do agree with most of you.. but I will tell you my experience. I have beem married for 5 years last September think hot ugly and I left the house with the kids he new I was living.. so I pick my thing and my kids and move to Philadelphia the agreement was he was going to give me have the deposit for a house which he did and after that I ask him to give 500 for both kids... Kip I. Mind he make 3000 a month He told me that the amount of money he give me for the security deposit was enough for the kids and he wasn't going to give me anything. I have been in Philadelphia for 7 months now.. hi comes 1@2 a month to pick the kids up and go back to the bronx he picked them up Saturday to the Sunday.. and he still doesn't give me nothing for the kids 7 months finally I went and put the order last month.. today he call and ask me if I take him out of childsupport he will give me 400 a month I said no why will I have any consideration for him when he didn't have any for my kids.. I found out he hasn't been given any money couse he it's getting married and supporting the new lady and her 10 year old son. . Can you believe he is actually taking care of a kid it's not his own.. but his 7@8 year old kids he doesn't have money for them.. do I did what I have to And I will not make any agreement with him
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  • Apr 21st, 2018
    Someone from Jefferson City, TN writes:
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    Tn does income share which looks at both parties income and family obligation as well as the number of days each person has the children. I agree with income share 100%. The rest is just way over the top. Each persons debt is their own and has no place in deciding what the child needs. You're in debt..well, that's your own issue not the child's or the other parents problem. Drug testing..nope...not unless there is proven neglect or behavior that is in question. Payment of court fees. Nope. That's on who ever files. If it falls on both then that would allow each party to bleed the other dry just because they can. Employment status. Lot of factors in there. For instance, having a young child and the cost of childcare which can sometimes be over half their pay. Also, the other parent may be going to school to better the situation for the children. That's a case by case basis. In any case and in any state, the parents decide visitation. If they can't, then the court steps in or when ppl are just ugly about it. Don't want to pay child support then go for 50/50 custody and raise your child. Its always irritating listening to people whine that their spouses income goes for child support. You knew that before you got with them. Don't like it..then don't marry them. Its also frustrating to listen to people whine that they pay to much and can't support their new family. You knew you had kids to support before you made more kids to support. Thats on you. While reform in some areas are needed, what this is proposing is not over the top.
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  • Apr 20th, 2018
    asa f. from Jacksonville, FL writes:
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    i don't mind paying child support i feel that the money should be monitored with the spending. I need to take care of my child not fund the mom's wants
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  • Apr 20th, 2018
    Someone from Newport, TN writes:
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    I have two daughters(They have different moms) a 12 year old and my youngest will be 10 In November. I have full custody of my oldest daughter who I've raised without the help of her mother but I've not been able to see my youngest daughter since she was 3 years old! Her mom constantly moves around, has done any and everything In the world to keep me away but yet always seems to move back to take me back to child support court every year asking for the courts to raise my child support and they do. I'm currently killing myself working 6-7 days a week and If I don't get at least 20-30 hours of overtime each week I don't make enough to even pay my bills while her and her deadbeat husband live off of the money I break my back to send In every week and It's not right and definitely not fair to myself and my youngest daughter. I've told the courts how she does but they never seem to care about anything I have to say. They also revoked my license last year because I was Injured and unable to work for almost 7 months and I'm currently having to walk to and from work unless I can catch a ride with someone while she drives around In a nice car. How fair is that? I agree the child support system does need a major reform!
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  • Apr 19th, 2018
    Someone from Memphis, TN writes:
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    My husband struggles taking care our household including our two children together because most of his money goes to the other baby mother whom he has two kids with. She is also married and we never get to see them. 804 a month is what he pays and she hardly ever buy them anything with it. Something has to be done about the child support law. I think it's unfair for women to be able to go in court and lie about things such as having yo pay childcare. She does that every time and his payments go up. Smh it's just not fair on his behave because even when we were seeing them she never sends cloths so we had to go and buy everything they need for the time they spend at our house. I hope something is done about this soon.
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  • Apr 7th, 2018
    Someone from Apopka, FL writes:
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    I will never have kids with a woman ever again! Child support is a terrorist organization that could care less if kids get to see their fathers and the mothers could care less if the fathers end up homeless due to child support. I'm using my school loan next month to end one of my child support cases and the other child support case will be ended early as well ahahahahaha! My exes are slobs and they left me for ugly men who are losers that just sit on their asses and live off of the child support I pay! Now they shall be bankrupt ahahhahaha! TO ALL MEN OUT THERE, DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH WOMEN, FOR THEY WILL ALL LEAVE YOU TO COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT FROM YOU AND YOUR YOUNG YEARS WILL BE SMOTHERED IN DEBT AND STARVATION! A LOT OF MEN DO NOT KNOW THAT THEY CAN GO TO SCHOOL ONLINE TO NOT ONLY GET A CAREER, BUT TO ALSO GET SCHOOL LOANS TO PAY OFF CHILD SUPPORT EARLY AHAHAHAHAH! THAT SAID, I AM SO GLAD THAT I AM A TRANSSEXUAL NOW AND I WILL NEVER **** A VAGINA AGAIN! JUST THE THOUGH OF VAGINA MAKES ME WANT TO BARF AND FROM NOW ON I ONLY WANT A TRANSSEXUAL WOMAN LIKE ME TO FALL IN LOVE WITH BECAUSE WOMEN WITH VAGINAS ARE COMPLETE GARBAGE AHAHAHAHAHAH!
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  • Apr 5th, 2018
    Miranda W. from Warwick, RI writes:
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    This system is the most sexist system I have ever encountered. They do nothing to go after the fathers who truly are negligent and refuse to work or quit their jobs to work for cash intentionally shirking any responsibility; meanwhile, the father who work, try to provide for two households post divorce/separation/breakup, reap consequences such as license suspension, wage garnishment etc. And continuously allow the mothers to withhold any type of visitation from the father along with no expectation or motivation to gain employment. It states right in the child support court paperwork that it is unlawful to withhold visitation due to child support but when the issue happens and you express concerns, the child support agencies will tell you that child support and visitation are two separate matters and again, they continue stealing money from you monthly while almost encouraging a lack of emphasis on the visitation piece (which having a meaningful relationship between the child and BOTH parents are what truly matters in there development and well being, not the money). This system was not put into place for the "best interest of the child" and needs to change NOW!
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  • Mar 26th, 2018
    Someone from Woodruff, SC writes:
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    It is the most unfair way to treat the children. My son cries to spend more time with me.... and all I ever hear is its best for the child to live with the mother and you pay for her to raise him..... breaks both mine and my son's heart and I paid thousands to have what few days a year I have since she left me and married another man......
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  • Mar 24th, 2018
    Theodore R. from Macon, GA writes:
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    Child support is a joke and they all can go to hell
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  • Mar 15th, 2018
    John B. from El Dorado, KS writes:
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    Stop interest on child support
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  • Mar 9th, 2018
    Rebecca A. from Emporia, KS writes:
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    I agree totally 100% with all this.
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  • Mar 8th, 2018
    Mike M. from Peoria, AZ writes:
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    Child support should be taking out out pre-tax and count as income to the recipient. Making it similar to spousal support.
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  • Feb 21st, 2018
    Someone from Lafayette, LA writes:
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    My husband deals with this constantly. My husband has a disability n trying to get his disability and this woman keeps trying to put him in jail. Now my husband paid $800 a month child support and had health coverage on his child. She is a Nurse who lives with her father and has no other bills but yet in still she is trying to put him in jail. My husband is still going to court and always bring his papers for his disability for proof of not being able to work. Now she's keeping the child from seeing him. Something has to be done to help good fathers. My child had a dead beat dad and I didn't keep fighting for child support because I knew what type of man he was. My child needed me and my support more than taking time out for a dead beat dad. I vote for this change. A fair reasonable change for the good fathers.
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  • Feb 17th, 2018
    Someone from Deep River, IA writes:
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    I was slammed with monthly payments based off what I could be making an hour per child so they told me I had to make 10 an hour per child x3 making my child support 340 per child and i couldn't fight this for 3 to 4 years putting me in debt so deep even finding a job was impossible it was to the point of the judge wanting to lock me up for 7 years due to lack of payment this is bull and needs to be stopped I'm an amazing father who loves spending every waking moment with his kids and the laws make it so hard to even buy a car keep a license heck they even take your right to forage for food they have to much power besides I didn't know the money you made makes you a good father in fact my oldest sons mother tells me all the time that no money no son like I have to rent him for the day gerrrrrr
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  • Feb 7th, 2018
    William H. from Norfolk, VA writes:
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    Military members who serve on active duty service in Virginia, are unfairly rated against a custodial parent. All pays and allowances to include, (Base Pay, BAS, BAH and special pays,) causes a service members gross pay to be greatly conflated. Service members pay taxes on base pay alone. Sounds like a sweet deal huh? Not really. If you add up the specific allowances which are most often than not below the regional cost of living, (BAH,) this puts us at a serious disadvantage. We rely on these special entitlements to pay for housing and to put food on our table. Child support in Virginia should be based only on Basic pay as it used to be or NET income vice gross.
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  • Jan 14th, 2018
    Christopher S. from Lecanto, FL writes:
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    The whole subject is unjust . You made your kids in private and your right as a parent should be private.
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  • Jan 12th, 2018
    Someone from High Point, NC signed.
  • Jan 5th, 2018
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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    I have a support order based on a default judgement, I filed for paternity test three time in CA,, the mother ignored them ran to another state, WA that issued the support order by default! I have tried to modified which was denied cause this woman is always in school, and abuses the system! She then ran to Hawaii and is again in school! I wanted to pay for an abortion, but she said no! There is no DNA proof that the kid is mine, but the court system keeps screwing me over and I am tired of the high legal and court cost! I now have to work as a 1099 or on my own so that I can afford to pay for my children I have with my fiancée that I know are mine!!
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  • Dec 26th, 2017
    Logan E. from Hancock, MN writes:
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    I requested a paternity test 8 times in my divorce/ custody battle; my requests were ignored by corrupt southern judges and lawyers, even though I had probable reason to believe that the boy I raised for 8 years, was not mine by blood, but was that of my former father in law( my estranged wife's step father). I have not been able to have contact of any kind with the boy I raised, even though none of my parental rights have been revoked, nor do I have any judgment forbidding me to do so. I pay my monthly payments into oblivion, with no word on the child's welfare whatsoever. I question the systems "gray zone" with regards to income tax: I.e. my not being able to claim my child support as a dependency, and (her) not having to claim my child support as "income". Now after researching family law, it looks like I'll have yet another fight to end my child support obligation, once the child has come of age. This corrupt system needs to be abolished, and re-evaluated. Women need to be held accountable for their flagrant disregard for family, and abhorrent misuse of the legal system.
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  • Dec 22nd, 2017
    Jeremy A. from Glen Lyon, PA writes:
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    i do believe that the child support system is very sexist against fathers. i was paying $700 a month for both of my children until i had been granted full custody of them. just being curious i filed for support just to see what would happen. just as i thought my file sat and colected dust for 2 years. they told me that they gave her the option to do job search but it would not be enforced so i was told that they could not set an amount for child support. also before all of this i served in the marine core for 4 years, when i got out i went to school to get my cdl, wile i was in school they kept charging me the same amount each month even tho i was in school. they claimed that they could not lower the child support because of my earning potential. now having full custody i take care of both of my children with no help from anyone and we are doing just fine and i am damn proud of that. if you cant survive without child support than you probably are not fit to have them. not all fathers are dead beats and deserve to have there kids more than the mother.
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  • Dec 18th, 2017
    Someone from Roseville, MI writes:
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    THIS SYSTEM IS RACKETEERING, FRAUD AND 100% UNCONSTITUTIONAL. DID I MENTION COLLUSION? It's also a private owned for profit industry to the tune of one half trillion profit that benefits the State, not the Mother not the child by their own admission. All these fake Judges should be lock up for deprivation of rights under the color of law and conflict of interest. UNWED MOTHERS ACCOUNT FOR 45% OF ALL CHILDREN BORN TODAY. WONDER WHY PEOPLE ARE SO F-UPED?
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    Someone from Roseville, MI writes:
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    THIS SYSTEM IS RACKETEERING, FRAUD AND 100% UNCONSTITUTIONAL. DID I MENTION COLLUSION? It's also a private owned for profit industry to the tune of one half trillion profit that benefits the State, not the Mother not the child by their own admission. All these fake Judges should be lock up for deprivation of rights under the color of law and conflict of interest. UNWED MOTHERS ACCOUNT FOR 45% OF ALL CHILDREN BORN TODAY. WONDER WHY PEOPLE ARE SO F-UPED?
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  • Dec 6th, 2017
    Kelvin M. from Terrell, TX writes:
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    I pay my Childsupport and it's constantly getting higher and I don't get to see my kids or talk to them on the phone because she refuses to give me their number and I can't afford a lawyer or court cost what can I do .
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  • Dec 6th, 2017
    Kelvin M. from Terrell, TX writes:
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    I pay my Childsupport and it's constantly getting higher and I don't get to see my kids or talk to them on the phone because she refuses to give me their number and I can't afford a lawyer or court cost what can I do .
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  • Dec 5th, 2017
    Brian C. from Bronx, NY writes:
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    Visitation Should be automatic, with child-support. I pay and cant see my kids. I cant afford a lawyer , so what do I do ?
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  • Nov 30th, 2017
    Danny S. from Purvis, MS writes:
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    I pay on the kids I'm raising they live with me have for the last three years an dhs to ok them from there mother an gave them to me I've called Jackson an everything but all I get is nothing I mean real ant that sio called support for the kids
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  • Nov 30th, 2017
    Danny S. from Purvis, MS writes:
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    I pay on the kids I'm raising they live with me have for the last three years an dhs to ok them from there mother an gave them to me I've called Jackson an everything but all I get is nothing I mean real ant that sio called support for the kids
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  • Nov 30th, 2017
    Someone from Stout, OH writes:
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    Tired of all the money she gets for free plus gets free food and housing will my children that live with me get less because they keep raising the support order ever year and calling it a cost if living raise
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