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Please stop the unfair punishment of good fathers. We need child support reform now!

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  • Apr 22nd, 2019
    Jeremie P. from Grand Haven, MI writes:
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    There should be no interest on the back child support. The interest is what really kills fathers. The interest is criminal. It keeps down anyone who falls behind and does not benefit the child in any way. All the interest does is line the pockets of politicians. They are in effect profiting from the poverty of fathers trying to do the right thing.
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  • Mar 29th, 2019
    Someone from Princeton, KY writes:
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    I 100% agree. My husband pays child support on three child and can hardly help me support the child we have together. Our child dont count bc hes not paying child support for him. Smh. I'm active duty so when I get transferred he will still have to pay 1000 a month even though he will be drawing unemployment. They wont adjust his payment bc he is quitting his job Voluntarily, so we can transfer., so he may get 1000s behind bc I have to transfer. So they are making him choose between his kids and family. Its ridiculous. His childrens mother dont work and that's on they dont have to Financially support the kids but if the man cant work for whatever reason and gets behind in financial responsibility,he goes to jail. Also, if father gets a raises at his jobs and he is bettering himself with a good job he has to pay more and more. my husband's kids are a pay check to thier mom. I know this sound crazy but females should be held more responsible for thier childs care. It's not ok to hold the men more responsible. All females are yelling now days is how they want equality. Before my husband and I started dating he had to move out of the house he owned bc he couldn't afford to pay all the Bill's and mortgage and his mortgage was 400 a month bc they take so much out in CS. He was living with his mother. It's ok to take all the man's money so he cant support himself , while the mother sits at home collecting his money while she doesn't work. If children are school aged the mothers should have to have jobs to help financially support the child she 100% was responsible for having. The laws really need to be looked at and adjusted.
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  • Mar 20th, 2019
    Someone from Staten Island, NY signed.
  • Mar 20th, 2019
    Someone from Ceres, CA writes:
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    Im suffer from child support i also have a new child id be homeless without my mom and god i have skills im slow im a fightn addict and just lost my job i can afford to live on earth anymore i want out of life i cant go to school they suspend license i explain what im tryn to do to avail ive been crushed by this woman my wholelife and my kids are fine with all the latest video games and applebees and just havn a blast while me and my nee family have not worked out n now im alone this is ridiculous and its childesh to play thr kids and destroy lifes and fathers and the childrens future they suspend me everytime i miss a payment of any amount license guard card restraining orders its ****n impossible to stay alive like this
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  • Mar 9th, 2019
    Andrew F. from Southampton, NY writes:
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    I have been on disability for the last 3 years for below knee amputation went from making 33000 a year to 23000 have been paying 1400 a month in child support. Trying to get it modified but seem like Suffolk County New York can careless I submitted my last tax returns, disability income letter saying I only bring home 650 a month from 1900 they only supposed to get 29% but taking more then 50%. I don't expect to not pay anything but be fair!!!! She never gave them her income statement or anything I been paying her since 2009 and have gave her 110000 so far it's a struggle for me to survive!!!!!! I hope it change after I file a objection wish me luck
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  • Mar 9th, 2019
    Amber A. from LAPORTE, CO writes:
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    Why is there Not required DNA testing done.. We are in debt paying for 2 kids that's not his the other 2 are just cause you sign the birth certificate Your telling me it's that easy to nail a guy for child support laws need to change
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  • Feb 12th, 2019
    Stephen H. from Conroe, TX writes:
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    What's against the Constitution, Is also against the people.
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  • Feb 12th, 2019
    Stephen H. from Conroe, TX writes:
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    What's against the Constitution, Is also against the people.
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  • Feb 6th, 2019
    Someone from Greenville, TX writes:
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    I find it unfair to lose my custody case, to a mother that had two CPS cases against her (neglectful) and another mother that admits its not in the child's best interest to be with her, simply because they're the mother. Even still, I don't have a problem with supporting my children, but I'm ordered to pay $1,500 a month when I barely make over 33,000 a year. Child support should be calculated by net pay and over time worked shouldn't be considered. It should also take both parents income into account and expenses to determine a reasonable payment for the child support so fathers, such as myself, won't have to work almost every single day to pay an outrageous amount in CS and afford my essential bills, missing out on being able to spend time with our children. That's what would be in the child's best interest.
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  • Jan 28th, 2019
    Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
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    Child Support is UNCONSTITUTIONAL. How is a father supposed to be able to make the money to pay the stupid money if he keeps being thrown in jail before he can? And I say this as a woman watching a good guy go down. I feel like all babies need to have paternity tests completed AT THE TIME OF BIRTH, before putting anyone on Child Support, and any woman that is unlawfully or fraudulently putting a man on child support should serve 10 years in jail. This is one of the stupidest things I have ever witnessed in this country! It's not right!!! Oh! And I also do not feel that if a woman decides to go on SNAP or whatever to take care of her child, the father should not be affected by that either.
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  • Jan 28th, 2019
    Troy C. from Jasper, TX writes:
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    I honestly could care less about the child support. I would pay everything but my basic needs to see my son. However, I pay child support and I'm an amputee on disability. As of right now I'm having to deal with the court system again. Because she filed falsified information claiming I'm an alcoholic amongst other things. The first time she kept him from me for 5 months while she pursued custody. He was only 3 at the time and we had been working together in his best interest. Until another man came into the picture. Which she has recently got with another man. I would gladly take a polygraph to prove the falsity of the accusations levied against me. This is absolutly unfair to my son, who loves his father very much. He is the one who has suffered and seems these courts will continue to allow him to suffer. Because his best interest is not their concern.
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  • Jan 20th, 2019
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  • Jan 17th, 2019
    Someone from Columbus, GA writes:
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    I agree with everyone comment on here! My husband pays 263.79 a week for child support and his kids don't see no where near half that money. Their Mom don't work she sorry!!!! She don't got her own space any more trying to be in her sister wedding but still collecting food stamps and and blowing the child support money in the club and out to eat. My husband has two girls by her 15&12 the 15yr old lived with us from October 26 until December 16 and he made her come get her disrespectful behind. I just feel like this needs to be revamped and he ought to be able to give them the things they need instead of all that money a week that she blows anyway. We get the kids and do extra with them as well. It's just not fair how the system is designed to destroy our good men behind these women. Not to mention she got a son name after him that's not his he took car for six years she should be made to pay his money back and give him his name back.
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  • Jan 10th, 2019
    Someone from Santa Fe, NM writes:
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    Yes my name is Matthew I live in Santa Fe N.M. When I was 16 I got the baby mama pregnant and due to my immaturity at that time in my life I ended up in a juvenile detention facility for 18 months. Now that I’m out and doing good for myself and trying to pursue a military career. The grandma who has has custody of my son because the baby mama parties, drinks and doesn’t work or try. The grandma is threatening me with backpay and not even letting me see him. We came to an agreement of 300$ a month but now she’s asking me to throw in backpay when I’m barely starting out. And shes unemployed, collects over 600$ in food stamps and basically wants to live off me.
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  • Dec 28th, 2018
    Someone from Texarkana, TX writes:
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    My name sedrick in i Bering paying child. Support for ten years when i was making good money i brought my son what ever needing in i am a good father in i still do for him but my baby mom is geting for free because i dont not get to see my son at in when i do see him he look like no his clothes or very dirty in him dressing better den him in when you do go in try to talk the child Support tbay would tell you it nothing they can do about issues
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  • Dec 28th, 2018
    Someone from Texarkana, TX writes:
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    My name sedrick in i Bering paying child. Support for ten years when i was making good money i brought my son what ever needing in i am a good father in i still do for him but my baby mom is geting for free because i dont not get to see my son at in when i do see him he look like no his clothes or very dirty in him dressing better den him in when you do go in try to talk the child Support tbay would tell you it nothing they can do about issues
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  • Dec 28th, 2018
    Someone from Texarkana, TX writes:
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    My name sedrick in i Bering paying child. Support for ten years when i was making good money i brought my son what ever needing in i am a good father in i still do for him but my baby mom is geting for free because i dont not get to see my son at in when i do see him he look like no his clothes or very dirty in him dressing better den him in when you do go in try to talk the child Support tbay would tell you it nothing they can do about issues
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  • Dec 28th, 2018
    Seadrick M. from Texarkana, TX writes:
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    My name sedrick in i Bering paying child. Support for ten years when i was making good money i brought my son what ever needing in i am a good father in i still do for him but my baby mom is geting for free because i dont not get to see my son at in when i do see him he look like no his clothes or very dirty in him dressing better den him in when you do go in try to talk the child Support tbay would tell you it nothing they can do about issues
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  • Nov 6th, 2018
    Jacobs J. from Burt, IA writes:
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    I am a father making 37000$ a year but only bring home 15-16k a year after taxes and child support. I can't pay all my bills and have children in my house.
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  • Nov 6th, 2018
    Jacobs J. from Burt, IA writes:
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    I am a father making 37000$ a year but only bring home 15-16k a year after taxes and child support. I can't pay all my bills and have children in my house.
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  • Oct 18th, 2018
    Shirley V. from Emporia, KS writes:
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    I believe both parents should take responsibility for thier child(ren). Both parents should encourage connection with the other parent and not deny visitation unless there is abuse involved. A child was brought into this world because of two human beings not one and rather you like/dislike the other person you DO have something in common. When a parent is in another relationship and continues to have children they clearly cannot afford they should not continue to raise the other parents child support and continue to ask the other parent for money and blame that parent for not supporting the child. Another thing is DO NOT put your child in the middle, if you are asking the other to help don't take them shopping/ enroll them in activities and tell the child to call the other parent while in action of these things. Child Support is just that and the nonriding should not be forced and turned against when they cannot meet the demanding parents needs. Mostly teach your child respect for all involved and not beliddle the other for not being able to pay for the things you asking of them. Like it or not no matter how bad you treat and teach the child your stupidity of nonrespect you both are parents and usually Grandparents/ Aunt's/Uncle's/ cousins are involved and it makes it very uncomfortable for all or at least if you have any concience at all you should be uncomfortable. Put yourself in the others shies and think how you would feel. My husband and I both come from a divorced family and I always said I hoped I could be fair and work without the courts involved if anything happened to us (it didn't) because I saw the hatetred in my family and my husband's to the point to this day he still does not talk to his Dad much. It's sad actions and words have caused this. Grow up and be a good example. Money shouldn't buy love.
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  • Oct 17th, 2018
    Brad A. from Saint Johns, FL writes:
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    Child support should not be based on income. Children of high income parents do not require more food, clothing and care than children of low income parents. It should be based on the minimum amount deemed necessary to raise a child in a particular state. Child support based on income is a way for a lower income parent to extort money from a higher income parent and is an incentive for a lower income parent to stay home and not work, while still enjoying a lifestyle that they can no longer afford and shouldn't be living at the expense of the person they decided to divorce or decided to divorce them. It eliminates then incentive for a parent to find employment and advance their own career. It creates more animosity, ties families up in the courts, creates huge additional expenses in legal fees bartering time with their child for money. If alimony or spousal support is deemed fair and necessary to help a parent get back on their feet and gain employment, that's understandable, though it should be finite and be based on an action plan, but the amount deemed necessary to raise a child should be the same for a child who's parent makes $40k per year as it is for a child who's parent makes $100k per year. If a high income parent is fortunate enough to have the ability to provide nicer things for their child than a lower income parent, the high income parent will continue to provide nicer things for their child after the divorce. Child support based on income is just a way for a parent to force the a higher income parent to continue providing nicer things for them. The child support laws are outdated and in need of a major overhaul. Again, children of high income parents do not require more food, clothing and care than children of low income parents. I don't think anyone will argue that.
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  • Oct 17th, 2018
    Brad A. from Saint Johns, FL writes:
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    Child support should not be based on income. Children of high income parents do not require more food, clothing and care than children of low income parents. It should be based on the minimum amount deemed necessary to raise a child in a particular state. Child support based on income is a way for a lower income parent to extort money from a higher income parent and is an incentive for a lower income parent to stay home and not work, while still enjoying a lifestyle that they can no longer afford and shouldn't be living at the expense of the person they decided to divorce or decided to divorce them. It eliminates then incentive for a parent to find employment and advance their own career. It creates more animosity, ties families up in the courts, creates huge additional expenses in legal fees bartering time with their child for money. If alimony or spousal support is deemed fair and necessary to help a parent get back on their feet and gain employment, that's understandable, though it should be finite and be based on an action plan, but the amount deemed necessary to raise a child should be the same for a child who's parent makes $40k per year as it is for a child who's parent makes $100k per year. If a high income parent is fortunate enough to have the ability to provide nicer things for their child than a lower income parent, the high income parent will continue to provide nicer things for their child after the divorce. Child support based on income is just a way for a parent to force the a higher income parent to continue providing nicer things for them. The child support laws are outdated and in need of a major overhaul. Again, children of high income parents do not require more food, clothing and care than children of low income parents. I don't think anyone will argue that.
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  • Oct 17th, 2018
    zachary p. from Amory, MS signed.
  • Oct 13th, 2018
    Nicholas B. from Quincy, CA writes:
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    The actions taking against me from child Support have been damaging and have caused me to lose jobs and become homeless. My son has been taken from me and his mother awarded all the benefits while I have another daughter with a different woman that I've had to raise alone and never received any child support for. In fact the child Support case for the child I've raised alone for 9 years is never persuade and I get letters every month asking me to drop the case while the case against me takes my Class A license I need for work and ruined my credit scores making my life a constant struggle.
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  • Oct 13th, 2018
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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    This should be stop because Man or a getting mistreated Fare take a not sure to no way and make this a child support is unfair
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  • Sep 6th, 2018
    Becs A. from Greenacres, WA signed.
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  • Sep 3rd, 2018
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  • Aug 22nd, 2018
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  • Jul 22nd, 2018
    Adam H. from Apopka, FL writes:
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    Child support makes non custodial parents pay all their child support in payments because they want to be nosy and see if you obtain a good paying job so that they can jack up the amount of the child support payments! Child support wont let me pay off less than $2,000 that I owe for the last year of child support! I am tired of paying child support! I am not a slave! I am now a transsexual woman, I only date transsexual women, I want nothing to do with vagina ever again and I want to be free of Nazi child support! So, go make your own extra money greedy gov, child support and slutty worthless CIS genders who are wannabe custodial parents and let me pay these remaining Nazi child support payments off!
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  • Jul 20th, 2018
    Harold E. from Moss Point, MS writes:
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    My husband makes $8 more than he did 8 yrs ago when his ex wife took him to court for child support. His oldest is 19 and has supported herself and lived on her own for the past year. The other 2 children are 16 and 12, he pays $1,000 for all 3 as of now. Spoke to a few attorneys who informed us that even though a child has reached the age of modifying for removal, he will continue to pay $1,000 for the remaining 2 kids!!! His ex does not work, receives food stamps, medicaid and has been frauding the irs letting her mother and sister file their kids! She also is living with a man who is $69,000 behind in child support that the state of alabama will do NOTHING about! While my husband pays his obligation religiously and they want to screw him over! They didnt care that we have 2 kids together that are biologically his or that they both have health issues requiring money spent out of our pockets for travel due to one needing surgeries every few months or the other needing blood/ lab work done due to her epilepsy! The lawyer figured up that we financially support 79% of the income into his ex wifes household and she just sits on her*****and lives off of the government!!!
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  • Jul 2nd, 2018
    Tarik C. from Cleveland, OH writes:
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    I have had shared parenting, joint custody since my son was 3 years old and he's 17 now, but the entire time I've had to pay full child support even during times when I was unemployed. The mother has Section 8, $12 a month rent, no job, food stamps, free healthcare benefits, and she has a new car, and lives in the suburbs. I have no food stamps, no medical benefits, and my rent is $875 a month. My son is with me Tuesday Wednesday Thursday every other weekend including Friday half of the summer every other holiday every other birthday all year round, but I still pay full child support. When I file a motion, I have to pay the courts to file documents, I have to pay for lawyer fees, and court cost, Every time I get a settlement or paycheck or tax return it goes directly to child support. I also got three other kids, little kids that don't see a dime of it. They sleep on the floor, and barely have clothes. My son comes over and brags about the stuff that his mom has, and the house that he lives in and the neighborhood he lives in. And what's funny is she don't even buy him stuff she bought her new boyfriend a new Range Rover, while my son can't even get tennis shoes and it's his child support child! Support needs to be reformed right now!! It is VERY lopsided and unfair to the father that's there for the child. Since the age of 3, I taught my son martial arts and watch them grow up from 3 years old to 17 year old and I've been with them the entire way, still paying money the entire way. So when he's with me I don't get food stamps so that's extra money that I have to pay to support him and when I get money that's extra money, it goes directly to her. Someone please fix this problem that's not fair to good Fathers. I spoke to judges and child support enforcement agencies and they don't do anything. The last time I spoke to the judge they rose my child support payments during a period when I was unemployed, and the mom had a job during the time. It's not fair.
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  • Jun 20th, 2018
    Someone from Fort Smith, AR signed.
  • May 21st, 2018
    Someone from lafayette, LA writes:
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    I pay child support faithfully...It is taken out of my paycheck every 2 weeks, with my obligation..i can't survive, i am behind on my car payment..i have relayed this to the child support office but they do not care..Instead they think it is a joke..yes they laugh when the good fathers get punished for what the deadbeat fathers don't do for their children..I make 2,000 a month but my obligstion is 900 a month..before taxes...There should be something that can be done about the childsupport system here in Louisiana..The mothers of my children should be held accountable just like the father is held to very harsh rules in the courts..This is ridiculous because these women go in and tell lies to the courts and the judges, D.A's and social workers all try to destroy the good fathers along with the bad ones..I love all of my children..1 of my children receives 400 a month but the other 2 recieve 250,, now how is that fair?? If i lose my car and place to live i won't be able to make it to work...and my children will suffer...but noone seems to care about the good fathers...
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  • May 16th, 2018
    Cathy T. from King, NC writes:
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    I am a woman but I totally agree that a lot of good fathers are not being treated fairly. My son makes 25,000 yearly. His ex makes 80,000. He was ordered to pay 1200.00 a month. And can only see his kids every other weekend. She wants her new boyfriend to be their father figure. He's tried to modify this but to no avail. How is this fair. His kids want to live with him also. Every father should pay to help support their kids but they shouldn't have to be homeless to do so. We need change. Also these women taking out 50b's just because they can needs to stop. Just because a man looks at them wrong is NOT abuse.
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  • May 13th, 2018
    Someone from Chicago, IL writes:
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    I live in chicago my son this year in June will be 6. I have only seen my son 15 times and that includes all the days in the hospital after birth. It has been three years since i seen him, he has a little brother and they have only meet once. I have tried to put myself on child support twice and file for visitation to no avail. His mother has a another son and does not collect support from him. Throughout our very brief dealings and prior years leading up to this date he has not been around. I was falsely accused of threats and placed on order of protection. During the last five years she had not attempted child support. Then i found out that it was so to her appling for setion 8. She wouldn't qualify. Lawyers were too expensive even before my support obligations started. I not the type of man to run from his responsibilites. I attempted to be a father but was constantly lied to, avoided, restricted and plain out denied. I made too many attempts to be present from conjuring an affidavit and mediation. I even tried to show the courts that i was making an attempt to provided by placing him on my health care. None of this was taken in consideration. The judge ordered child support. And asked me to put my freedom and stability at risk by having vists at the home of the women who utilized the system to put me on order of protection once already i think not. I wouldn't even drop things off at her household with out a witness. I asked the judge to reconsider she laughed and said this is an agreement you made when you laid down. But i promised her if she place me on child support thats all i will be i hate to say it but refuse to be apart of this unjust system. Nor do i deserve it. Labeled dead-beat and placed into a class of men I'm nothing like. So i guess now when in Rome you do what Romans do. So I no longer call/text, attempt to spend time, purchase items needed nothing. Now you have the right to call what i am a dead beat. I know its not fair to him and nor did ever want it to come to this but look i have another son looking up to me i cant and will not throw myself into a situation were i cant be the man i want to be for him. At some point you have to cut you losses. Hell i cant even afford to put him on my health plan cause i cant afford it with child support . this game i refuse to play
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  • May 13th, 2018
    Someone from Senatobia, MS writes:
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    Not all dads are deadbeats. So what about the dads that actually want to see children and be active, give you everything the child needs, but just doesn’t put actually money in your hand. Grocery to your house, clothes, shoes, health insurance, copays for visit, bank account where the mother holds the debit card where she gets $450 a month and he still ends up on child support. Cause these are things I know factually cause this was my husband and I actually helped him. Now the state told her she only could receive $200 a month and she still tries to keep the child away.
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