Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Nov 13th, 2015Someone from Providence Forge, VA signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Stafford, VA writes:
My name is Mark Rose I was accused of domestic violence after my wife who I had been with for 9 years tried to leave with my son. I would not let her take him from me and disappear she called 911 when officers arrived she told them that she was trying to take my son and I wouldn't give her him I told officers I had been a stay at home dad for 5 years and she could leave but my son was not.Officers explained to my wife that she could not take him unless there was custody three officers questioned her about abuse or threats she told them I never raised a hand at her in the years we had been together she was worried about my anxiety depression and insomnia the officers left with us both crying telling each other we wanted to work it out 20 minutes later she was at the court house she said that i threatened to punch her in the face the next day I had 15 minuets to pack a bag of cloths when I had arrived at court I had no money for attorney and she had locked me out of all bank accounts took my car I was screwed living homeless in NC with my nearest relatives in northern Va. I arrived at court and the accusations now turned into I threatened to kill her and I ran around the house punching holes in the wall also kept her from calling 911. I couldn't get a police report because there was no sign of domestic violence after police arrived 5 mins after the 911 call. She now has rights to our house a 6 month protection order against my son and a year order against me and her. What a messed up society we live in where a woman can go and say whatever she wants to have a man completely ruined. I thank god for my family who have helped me out but this has been after 2 suicide attempts and a trip to a crisis ward and rehab facility. To anyone that is going threw the same pain I can only say don't give up it will get better with time I am 2 1/2 months into my 6 months before I can see my son and I am going to make sure that he will be back in my life as for my wife I have realized she is an awful person that I have no business wasting another day of my life with.Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Shakopee, MN signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Limington, ME writes:
My name is David E. Eisenhauer. I am currently scheduled for trial Nov 18th, 2015. Charged with Domestic Violence. - I never hit anyone. - I did not mentally abuse anyone. -I took my girlfriend to the hospital for kidney pain. -A Sheriff of York County Sheriffs office wrote it down as I struck her in the kidney. This and many other lies are the basis for you the tax payers to cover my indigent legal services. Pell grants don't cover these expenses. I have been waiting since March for trial and once I was told I could go home if I payed 200 dollars and admitted to something. I was not aloud to go home. I was and am in full time school (third year) and was not aloud to get my books, my clothes, my car ,nothing of my life until August. I am not waiting to see if I will get punished. I am getting punished. I am not affraid of the truth and welcome anyone from the press to meet with me Monday morning before and after court. I was also informed by my girlfriend today (Nov 11,2015) that the same Sheriff that made the above statement stopped by her house (the one I'm not aloud at) and when she said I shouldn't be charged he told her someone has to be. Guess my trial isn't going to be fair. I still am not aloud to go home. -I did not throw anyone either. The above mentioned sheriff won't have to answer to the lies because he issued the supeanas and he probably did issue himself one.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 12th, 2015Someone from North Stonington, CT signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
Your lucky, the way the courts act against accused men, you would think that's enough to get anyone off, (Far from true) I listened to over 20 cases in two different countys my soon to be x tried making me go over 5 hours north where we lived to file a restraining order, (where you must show up) or it sticks for 3 years, then go to another county south PA, another 5 hours from where I lived, knowning I have serious health problems, and no transportation, just to put me thru hell, as it has, financially, emotionally, etc,,,, these laws are not fair, anyone out to hurt or destroy someone can use this to no end with no cost for filing false repercussions. I overheard cases in front of me, and it wasn't pretty, its like a assembly line, next, next, next, very sad my wife of 7 years was committing infidelity, and when I tried to file divorce I got a restraining order slapped on me, put out of my home,,,,,,,,,,,,, that I OWN, something needs done NOWREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 12th, 2015Someone from Selinsgrove, PA signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from Denham Springs, LA signed.
Nov 12th, 2015Someone from North Bergen, NJ signed.
Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Zanesville, OH writes:
Had Video an Audio of Wife Hitting me just hours after returning from Florida saying she filed for a divorce on that Thursday when i left on Friday a year After The Judge Dean Wilson of Perry County Ohio Gets DUI and HIT SKIP charges and has them dismissed because of paperwork not being filed on time....REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from Oklahoma City, OK signed.
Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Mesquite, TX writes:
The law is set up for a man to be guilty until proven innocent. Domestic violence is a horrific crime that needs harsher punishments but we need to make sure no man is EVER falsely accused or charged.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 11th, 2015Someone from South Ozone Park, NY signed.
Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Dallas, TX signed.
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Nov 11th, 2015Someone from Cedar Rapids, IA signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Youngstown, OH signed.
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Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Brant, MI signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
There needs to be something done, protest these congressmans offices, they don't seem to care about the problem, you don't see anyone trying to sponser any new bill to fix it, this has destroyed countless people already.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
To Leander Texas, I bet your Restaining order said this: Made threats to harm himself, Made threats to harm others, and myself, Abuses Alcohol, Isolates me from friends and family, I'm from PA and that's what was wrote on mine, The facts are, I'm a diabetic (I don't drink) her family stayed with us in the home, lol lol I never once threatened anyone or to hurt anyone including my self, on Christmas day I confronted her over indidelity and leaving a message on my phone by accident , meant for another man, when I confronted her I got HOCKERED (spit on ) in my face, I am 51 and in bad health with leukemia, I got hit with a restraining order on my job, knowning I was divorcing,REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
I went to my final hearing, back here in PA where my spouse (The one I thought I had) had. I was overhearing a case where the girlfriend actually told the judge she lied to gain control in a custody battle, this guy was incarcerated in jail for 60 days (over admitted lies) The judge overzeaoulously would not back off the restraining order, and said,,,,,, its the descrection of the court, not your testimony,!!!!!!!!!! when it was her testimony that put him in court to begin with, watch out who you get involved with, your life will be turned upside down, as mine has and othersREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
Try getting any help from any congressman or group I got NOTHING but the runaround, we feel your despair, its a legal matter, yeah,,,,,,, I known that, just spend a couple thousand dollars, loose your job, your mental health, physical health, depression, go broke, get a record for something your innocent of, Congress feels your despair, theres your help.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
I went to my final hearing, back here in PA where my spouse (The one I thought I had) had. I was overhearing a case where the girlfriend actually told the judge she lied to gain control in a custody battle, this guy was incarcerated in jail for 60 days (over admitted lies) The judge overzeaoulously would not back off the restraining order, and said,,,,,, its the descrection of the court, not your testimony,!!!!!!!!!! when it was her testimony that put him in court to begin with, watch out who you get involved with, your life will be turned upside down, as mine has and othersREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Auburndale, FL writes:
My friend was just issued with one by his ex girlfriend. They ended their relationship almost 5 months ago. She has refused to move and refuses to pay any bills, and now that he is in the process of moving out she has this injunction placed on him, so that he has to leave but he is forced to continue paying rent and the bills for her to stay in the home. He was not allowed to get anything out of the home except his clothes, bathroom supplies, and medicine. They wouldn't even allow him to get his pillow and a blanket. Nor was he allowed to take his dogs, that was his prior to their relationship. And now he has found out from a mutual friend that she is selling off his belongings and there is nothing he can do about it. I can understand the need for protection orders for people who are truly being abused. But there should be concequences to those who abuse the system and file for false restraining orders.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from San Francisco, CA writes:
It is deplorable that anyone can walk into a court house and a restraining Order is immediatley granted. Most men have tolerance for the abusive psychological, emotional and physical abuse inflicted by their partners and don't seek restraining Orders. Most men have hope that things can be worked out without the legal system. The problem is that women are told that filing for a restraining order will give them a leg up. Even without proof it is more likely than not they will succeed. Due process should be afforded without immediately granting these Orders.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 10th, 2015Someone from Newark, NJ signed.
Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Yonkers, NY signed.
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Nov 10th, 2015Someone from Leander, TX writes:
I'm going through it right now. 9 years of HER being the unstable violent one. As a paying gift, she paints me with the brush, she is guilty of. And did a really good job of making me look love a monster. We had known eachother since highschool. NONE of the friends that have known us both for the last 15 years belive her. But in the eyes of the state, I'm an "alcoholic abuser, that needs to be re educate". My life has been completly ruined. Thousands of dollars in legal bills, supervised visitation with my children, my son is showing signs of PTSD, and she gets to play the victim card when it suites her.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Bangor, ME signed.
Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Valparaiso, IN writes:
Happens too often. Please see that this becomes a reality. I've see it several times personally.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Hey, Congress! American citizens (including Law Enforcement, military, and FBI agents) would like their DUE PROCESS back!! American lawmakers have gotten so "tough" on domestic violence /domestic abuse, that now every accusation is being acted on... and everyone knows it! Its the common "go to" tactic in a divorce situation. There is NO burden of proof for the accuser, AND there is NO RISK whatsoever for falsely accusing! NONE! 2-3 million protective orders / restraining orders issued every year, and not ONE single prosecution for LYING to get one!! ZERO! This is because ALL prosecutors in America absolutely refuse to prosecute people for lying under oath (felony perjury) to get one of these orders! These orders immediately kick the accused out of their own homes, and make them homeless, living on the streets, with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO EVIDENCE...(and gives the "accuser" possession of the house, car(s), custody of the kids, and LABELS the accused as an abuser) simply an accusation with NO RISK for lying..... NONE! The judges know it, the magistrates know it, and now the rest of the world knows it! Its open season for false accusations!... The more heinous the accusation, the more likely it is to be acted on with no evidence or due process! Illegal immigrants are now using these protective orders and restraining orders to steal from men and get a faster path to citizenship, under their "victim" status! Thanks American lawmakers! Hey, Congress!!! Can we please have our DUE PROCESS back? How about being presumed innocent, until PROVEN guilty in a fair court of law? Would that be okay with you? It has gotten EXTREMELY bad! Men in America are targets (your laws have CAUSED it), for manipulative women (women are falsely accused too, although not as much... it is EXTREMELY widespread, and yes, it is systemic).... and they have NO defense whatsoever, because they are already assumed guilty! Please stop this! 1. Due Process 2. Innocent until proven guilty 3. Prosecute False AccusersREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Cheboygan, MI signed.
Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Covington, LA writes:
As the mother of men and after 44 years of teaching junior high kids, I have seen all too often how easy it is for lives to be ruined by false claims, false claims by both boys and girls, men and women. This freedom of accusation must stop.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelNov 9th, 2015Someone from Hanover, MD signed.
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Nov 9th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
Not only will it UNABLE you to land employment, it will bankrupt you, I'm at 4,700 and counting, for lies,,,,, allegations on paper, all it takes is IM SCARED as a statement, and your in court, its that easy, all your accuser has to do is have histrionic personality disorder,,,,,,,, be dulusional, prolific in the amount of lies they can write,REPORT COMMENTS
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