Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Tampa, FL signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Troy, OH writes:
Gender bias in domestic violence laws is out of control. Once again the pendulum of justice has swung to the extreme and needs to be tempered.Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Adams Center, NY signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Elkhorn, NE writes:
My son was in this predicament. My son and his then girlfriend were fighting for custody of the two children and in the prior 4 years in their relationship there was no violence. My son won custody because she was on drugs and also arrested for prostitution. But when she cried wolf "domestic violence" they arrested him on her word alone and was taken to jail. Nothing was done to her and even when she was ordered to get drug tested twice by the courts she failed to comply and never once paid any consequences. I am a woman and I appreciate that there are laws in place for such things BUT there is no justice in these laws. Justice is really blind!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 27th, 2015Someone from Elkins, WV signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Olympia, WA writes:
My step son arrested yesterday for the 3rd time. 2nd domestic violence charge was dropped because his girlfriend knew it was her fault and she paid attorney fees. He was arrested at work this time, now he has no job and is facing up to,20 years. She, his girlfriend is a nurse, using drugs, drinking, she is bi-polar extremely verbally abusive and she actually told my daughter & i she was planning his arrest. I think she should be in jail! Many witnesses have seen her drink alcohol and flip out almost immediately hitting him, screaming, kicking, breaking things all while the baby was in the house. She has left with the child many times just so the dad couldn't have time with his baby. She has repeatedly caused fights in public usually after a small amount of alcohol and antidepressants causing traumatic problems. Including drinking and driving with baby. I could go on and on. I guess I've made my point. Me step,son most often is who cares for baby and has wanted to leave numerous ti.es but fears for the safety of his baby. Now due to her allegations, he will most likely rot in a Washington jail! And she is scott free. The woman who was too drunk early on to breast feed her baby. The instigator is scott free. Both need help but she caught wind that he doesn't want her any longer so she planned a horrendous dv story so she can go on in life peacefully without help when his life is over.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 27th, 2015Someone from Hampton, VA signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Hampton, VA signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Hampton, VA writes:
There are some vindictive people are there.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 27th, 2015Someone from Boston, MA writes:
Hi All, Lie detector should be mandatory and psychology / psychiatric evaluations as well My wife lied lied lied She ruined my life She took my 3 children She remarry and her second husband has enough as well of her paranoid and false allegations At divorce he asked the Judge that his wife take psychology / psychiatrist evaluation and test The doctors found and gave her the diagnosis that she is paranoid and narcissistic This woman has destroyed two men and she played the victim and accuse me and her second husband Many false allegations I spent one week in Jail because my ex wife thought she was in danger and was afraid of me and she even said to police I want to kidnap the children and take them to Egypt. . Now I lost all ..my children are growing well They wwere separated from their father just because the mother paranoid state and all people belive the sweet victim / mother while the father was portrait as a monster .. It took several years before a doctor diagnosis this woman with paranoid / narcissistic All allegations should be follow by a doctor test / evaluation and lie detectorREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 27th, 2015Someone from Peoria, AZ signed.
Oct 27th, 2015Someone from Jacksonville, FL writes:
Last Friday I was served an injuction for protection against domestic violence. The petitioner is my half sister that I haven't seen in a year and never planed on seeing ever again. I am confined to either a walker or wheelchair, when the female police officer that delivered the injuction saw this, she laughed and said well you can read all the lies in here. I now have to appear in court Nov 4 to try and avoid ending up with a criminal record.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 27th, 2015Someone from Jacksonville, FL signed.
Oct 26th, 2015Someone from Rocklin, CA signed.
Oct 26th, 2015Someone from Seminole, FL signed.
Oct 26th, 2015Someone from Mccomb, MS signed.
Oct 26th, 2015Someone from New York, NY writes:
My husband's ex wife made him jobless, suffer from major depression, and completely broke by just filing false domestic violence and false child abuse petitions. No one wants to believe him and he is considered some kind of a psychopath or a monster. I never even got into fight with him for all these years. He is a smart, thoughtful, hardworking person. He needs more time to fully recover but we are living happily with our baby born last year. Gentlemen, think once, twice, thrice,,, hundreds, thousands before your legally get married. Marriage is not all romantic. It's about taking a risk that might costs you EVERYTHING. If you think you can continue to love this woman even if she takes all your money, ruin your career, reputation, health, family, property etc etc, you are ready to get married.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 26th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
when these women go to file these restraining orders, there are women advocate representatives who COACH them and ENCOURAGE this insidious law, my soon to be X told me personnely they told her,,,,, don't leave on your own, NO NO NO don't do that,,, use the ABUSE ALIBI to support your spousal support case, hey,,,,, I had to leave don't you known ? I just couldn't stand all that abuse there, so I cheated on him until he caught me and divorced me, then I file a unsupported protection from abuse order, unbelievable I pray to god this doesent happen to anymore people,REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 26th, 2015Someone from Donora, PA writes:
Caught my wife on Facebook commiting infidelity, gave me a sexually transmitted disease, I filed for divorce, Heres the outcome : she starts to argue and make threats, I walk away and go downstairs to sleep. she calls the police and says I AM SCARED, I voluntarily leave my home my parents left me, because the policeman was going to arrest HER for being biligerant, I come home from my friends in the morning, her cafr that I bought is gone, I had to break into my home to get in, all my belongings are gone TV computer etc,,,, and shes gone, 5 days later the sherrif comes and serves papers on me and takes my collectible firearms over claiming I threatened her with my firearms, just a lying statement on paper, she never filed a police report NOTHING until I filed for divorce, the womens advovate rep advised her to claim abuse, if shes goping for spousal support because if I prove (Which I can) she was going leave me anyway, shes not INTITILED to support or alimony for infidelity or abandonement, so here I am now JOBLESS because my job is armed guard. defending something I didn't do, being sued for support for a unfaithful wife, and a divorce try talking to some of these people in these court agencys, they talk to you like your already guilty for having testicles, my heart bleeds for anyone going thru this, it has ruined my life, and bank rupted me she admitted to me over dinner ITS GOING GEt UGLY, I'm going after the guns ???? hey ladies you want to destroy a mans life who loves you and worked himself to death to take care of you, all you have to do is go to the nearest domestic relations office and file a protection from abuse order, lie as much as you can, and don't worry,,, theres no reprecussions or cost to you. if you get caught neveragain never againREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 26th, 2015Someone from Neosho, MO writes:
I am a recent victim.My wife left the state with my kids and my car filed an exparte claiming I struck her liar .Since I had no transportation I missed the CRT date.I was slapped with a FTA jailed and draged to the judge he than made the no contact permant would not listen to a word I said .I'm now homeless can't work and I haven't seen my kids in 6 months I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy my life is ruined its got to stopREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA signed.
Oct 25th, 2015Someone from Lithia Springs, GA signed.
Oct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
I know someone falsely accused of domestic violence granted by a judge for a dvro. She spent thousands of dollars on a lawyer trying to defend herself in this matter. The petitioner manipulated his gf to also file a civil restraining order on her too in attempt to get revenge and to solidify their relationship. The petitioner knows how to abuse the court system by filing ro's because it is free to file and to bring respondent to come to court to intimidate her. He made up lies, exaggerated, acted sad and the judge fell for it. It was the petitioner who caused problems with cheating and lies. Not only did the judge subsided with the petitioner. The Judge had no respect for the respondent and her lawyer. Anyone can file an ro on anyone and be easily granted--to ruin their background records, to destroy their employment/careers, Life and reputation. The petitioner was granted a dvro on the respondent. He and his gf mocked their butts off in the hallways of the court. The laws need to be changed. It shouldn't be easy to file an ro on anyone, it shouldn't also be abused and used for scheming and revenege.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
The law needs to be change. Narcissists getting away with false allegations by abusing the court system as a cheap easy trick way to gain Revenge on innocent people. This needs to stop!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
The law needs to be change. Bad people getting away with ********/false allegations abusing the court system as a cheap easy trick way to gain what they want---innocent people get all the consequences and no rights!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
I know someone falsely accused of domestic violence granted by a judge for a dvro. She spent thousands of dollars on a lawyer trying to defend herself in this matter. The petitioner manipulated his gf to also file a civil restraining order on her too in attempt to get revenge and to solidify their relationship. The petitioner knows how to abuse the court system by filing ro's because it is free to file and to bring respondent to come to court to intimidate her. He made up lies, exaggerated, acted sad and the judge fell for it. It was the petitioner who caused problems with cheating and lies. Not only did the judge subsided with the petitioner. The Judge had no respect for the respondent and her lawyer. Anyone can file an ro on anyone and be easily granted--to ruin their background records, to destroy their employment/careers, Life and reputation. The petitioner was granted a dvro on the respondent. He and his gf mocked off their butts off in the hallways of the court. The laws need to be changed. It shouldn't be easy to file an ro on anyone, it shouldn't also be abused and used for scheming and revenege.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Birmingham, AL signed.
Oct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
Too many bad and evil people know how to Use and abuse the court system to get the accused person with an easy Restraining order to get it on their record. What's worst is, the accused has no rights after being granted by the judge a restraining order. I know someone who is dealing with this and it is all lies and exaggerated and schemed out. The laws need to be changed! It should not be easy to get a dvro on someone that easy. The accuser is a great actor, liar and knows exactly how to work the court system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA signed.
Oct 25th, 2015Someone from Gaylord, MI writes:
The laws also need to be changed regarding what is listed as marital property. When a man goes to his home to get HIS belongings after a PPO but is told they can't because it is considered marital property by his wife, then he cannot get his clothing, vehicle, or contact lens - something is VERY wrong with this system. Perhaps when a Domestic is called maybe both participants should be arrested and let the court figure it out. When men are abused they often keep quiet for many reasons. Some women abuse the system. If Men who had accepted plea deals where REALLY able to be heard out, I wonder how many would be convicted of domestic violence. but because they are treated poorly by the court and threatened with jail time and higher fines, they accept a plea. If you remember nothing else, remember this, men are abused too and now need help by the system to advocate on their behalf. Please do the right thing for them.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2015Someone from Spring Lake, NC signed.
Oct 25th, 2015Someone from Lagrange, GA signed.
Oct 24th, 2015Someone from Minneapolis, MN writes:
In Minnesota, the family courts and CPS are out of control. I provided photographic evidence of drug use by my son's mother, asking for a UA when abuse allegations came out on her side with her bf. There is an active OFP that has been failed to be served to the bf because of cat and mouse games. After all this, they wouldn't give a UA because they needed to know how drug use affects my son. Wow!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2015Someone from Corpus Christi, TX signed.
Oct 24th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA signed.
Oct 24th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
Too many good people are being falsely accused of domestic violence by bad people. Why is the court system allowing so much of this to happen? Someone I personally know was wrongfully accused of domestic violence, yet the judge sided with the accuser who was lying, making false allegations and substantiated it with no proof/evidence. Something needs to be done about thisREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA signed.
Oct 24th, 2015Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
Too many good people are being falsely accused of domestic violence by bad people. Why is the court system allowing so much of this to happen? Someone I personally know was wrongfully accused of domestic violence, yet the judge sided with the accuser who was lying, making false allegations and substantiated it with no proof/evidence. Something needs to be done about this.REPORT COMMENTS
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