Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Dec 26th, 2015Someone from Saratoga Springs, NY writes:
The Custody and Divorce industry has become a multi billion dollar industry. For instance 30% of all divorces in New York State end in a relocation ruling where attorney's maximize their profits. Shady practices and promises are utilized during a divorce, to some degree agitated by attorney's to bring about, "results", as some matrimonial attorney's call it. The unreported cases of DV are cases against males. Let's not turn a blind eye to this fact, and begin to calculate accurate DV statistics instead of fueling controlling agencies with a blank check, to portray a one sided battle. If you make false allegations, and or manipulate existing DV allegations then you are fraudulently abusing a child and the legal system, as well as tax dollars. You are thereby liable for criminal and civil legal proceedings without consideration for special treatment. -
Dec 25th, 2015Someone from Yuma, AZ signed.
Dec 25th, 2015Someone from Milpitas, CA writes:
This is a teenager girl writing. I have seen my uncle being falsely accused by my auntie. I know my uncle for several years and if one think I can tell about him is that he can never hurt or can never even think to hurt anyone. You may be thinking I am a young person and am writing out of love, but my mind had investigated the situation inside and out. I have noticed my auntie lying and making plots for even small things often. I would urge at least one thing that our legal system does not allow police to capture anyone in jail out of someone filing a false felony DV case. It should be like any other case, run in court. Also, no favor to women, or they will continue to take advantage.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Palo Alto, CA writes:
Another female writing. I have seen a person who can never even think about any crime or hurting someone, being falsely caused by his wife, who has plotted the entire situation under influence of her family as she tells. I would urge court to realize the implications on innocent person's life, specially for a well educated, respected, sincere, immigrant. Arrest by police, being in jail, going through such false allegations can ruin a person's life and his family's lives mentally, financially, and can leave employment challenges even if case is not charged. I am writing this with hope of protecting other innocents. Please consider.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Palo Alto, CA writes:
This is a woman writing who has seen another woman falsely accusing his husband taking advantage of the DV law. I request our legal system to please do "innocent until proven" for DV cases. I would respect a legal system who can prevent at least an innocent from being suffered, even if a criminal can not be captured. There are several big criminals, focus on capturing them than innocent one on just one phone call or false allegations, please.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Milpitas, CA writes:
Please do not make police arrest innocent and send to jail with other criminals until guilty. Also, stop reacting to false allegations. Men and women are equal. In some cases, it is obvious like why would not women file divorce if they are disturbed with DV? Several women are taking dvabtage of the situation to gain more control over men, his money and children. Look at men's past history, work ethics and then decide rather than allowing police to create felony and take to jail when he did not do anything.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Palo Alto, CA writes:
Please follow "innocent until proven" for DV cases. I would respect a court system who can prevent at least an innocent from being suffered, even if a criminal can not be captured. There are several big criminals, focus on capturing them than innocent one on just one phone call or false allegations, please.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Palo Alto, CA writes:
I have seen a person who can never even think about a crime being falsely caused by his wife who has agreed that she plotted the entire situation under influence of her network. I would urge court to realize the implications on innocent person's life, specially for a well educated, respected, sincere, immigrant. Arrest by police, being in jail, going through such false allegations can ruin a person and his family mentally, financially, and certaiemployment challenges. I am writing this with hope of saving other innocents.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 25th, 2015Someone from Chanhassen, MN signed.
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Dec 23rd, 2015Someone from Philadelphia, PA signed.
Dec 23rd, 2015Someone from Green Bay, WI writes:
I was almost killed and my dog was almost killed. Then her kid started my house on fire. Since she got the restraining order my friends got calls and texts threatening to send me to jail. I got calls but refused to answer. She and her son sent me threats from a DV shelter but the judge didn't care.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 23rd, 2015Someone from Ponca City, OK signed.
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Dec 23rd, 2015Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
EVERYONE! Please, Call the whistleblower hotline at the US Senate Judiciary Committee (202) 224-5225 This is their JOB! Tell them that Americans would like their DUE PROCESS back! Currently, it is LITERALLY guilty until proven innocent! 2-3 million protective orders EVERY year, and NEVER a prosecution for LYING under oath to get one.... NEVER! Its Felony Perjury, but they NEVER prosecute it! Try and prove me wrong. They GUARANTEE to NOT prosecute the false accusers.... ask them WHY? Protective orders and restraining orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution.... the right to a TRIAL, the right to DUE PROCESS, the right to face your accuser, and the right to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty of a crime. There is NONE of this with protective orders and restraining orders!.... AND the false accusers are GUARANTEED to NOT be prosecuted! Please, call the whistleblower hotline NOW and DEMAND that they STOP issuing protective orders and restraining orders (thereby, kicking completely innocent people out of their OWN homes, and labeling them as "abusers"), with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO BURDEN of PROOF! This is a direct violation of the US constitution and violates the BASIC civil rights of EVERY American citizen, in MANY ways! Call the whistleblower hotline NOW... US Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 This is about to change... they are FINALLY realizing the HUGE mistake they have CAUSED... make SURE it changes (like, NOW).... call them NOW, or the false accusations will continue! Men AND women (and the children who witness the lies and manipulation), are having their lives destroyed by these orders issued with NO trial, NO due process, and NO burden of proof! This is NOT a gender issue.... Its a NO trial, NO due process, guilty until proven innocent issue!... affecting BOTH men and women! US Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington, DC) (202) 224-5225REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 23rd, 2015Someone from Gallatin, TN signed.
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Dec 22nd, 2015Someone from Des Plaines, IL writes:
All aspects of the relationship should be considered, especially including the mental health of both parties, witness statements from both sides and the relationship history. The accused party must be considered innocent until proven guilty especially by any representative of the courts. Once the accused has been removed or distanced from the alleged victim, law enforcement must uphold their rights just as they would any citizen.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 22nd, 2015Someone from Louisville, KY writes:
I am a disabled veteran, a loving father, and a brother who defended his sister against her abusers. My wife is using a false DVO to alienate me from my child and to strip me of my rights. The family court in Jefferson County, KY approved the DVO in spite of lack of violence and a finding by CPS that the allegations were unsubstantiated. Stop these controlling and spiteful women like my wife from taking fathers away from their children. End the descrimination against men in family court and support equal parenting.REPORT COMMENTS
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Dec 21st, 2015Someone from Newbury, NH writes:
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2015Someone from East Grand Forks, MN writes:
Such abuses diminish, derail, and destroy lives every day. The no-contact order is one of more damaging orders a court can put on a person. While nominally it protects the safety of what is known as the protected person, they can also wreak havoc on a living situation. Further, they can create new criminal charges for a restrained person, even felonies. This week?s topic goes into how these orders come about, and the best practices for both the restrained and protected parties. The big problem area is that post-arrest, pre-conviction space. A no-contact order between two people who live together or have kids together can be highly disruptive to everyone?s life. And as I said, even if none of the parties want it, the judge will probably order it. I had no opportunity to challenge the prosecutors' request for a no-contact order, and the state has no burden of proof to show that the order is needed, and creates another criminal case without due process. The attractiveness of a DANCO for the prosecution is that once that order is imposed it carries separate criminal penalties that could exceed the ones that exist for the underlying case for which it was issued. Are restraining orders constitutional? There are certainly grounds for questioning their constitutionality. Provisions of the United States Constitution and state constitutions require that all citizens be given equal recognition under the law and that no group of citizens be shown special consideration, and preferential treatment both of women generally and plaintiffs specifically is not only prevalent but often mandated (for example, courts may be given grant monies in return for consenting to unquestioningly accept allegations of fear or violence from women as true). Restraining orders also deny recipients due process, a constitutional privilege guaranteed by the Fifth, Sixth, and Fourteenth Amendments. They furthermore enable the courts to criminally sanction defendants (imprison them) without first affording them their constitutional entitlement to a trial by a jury of their peers. And almost all if not all restraining orders are issued ex parte, which means defendants are deprived of liberty (and often property) prior to being heard by the court. Some defendants, in fact, are never heard. Restraining orders are issued against them without the court?s ever knowing anything about them but their names. Since restraining orders are obtained ex parte?that is, based solely on the word of the plaintiff?the notion that the scales of justice are balanced to begin with is ridiculous. Can a restraining order be placed with no hearing? Yes, in contravention of defendants? constitutional right to due process, restraining orders are typically issued ex parte, which means based on allegations made by the accuser and articulated in a brief interview with a judge (five to 10 minutes). In some states (Arizona and Michigan are examples), no hearing is required (also in contravention of dREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 21st, 2015Someone from San Diego, CA signed.
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Dec 20th, 2015Someone from Neshanic Station, NJ writes:
Unless this happens to a member of Congress, it will not be taken seriously. Please consider the lives of those falsely accused. It really is unfortunate and illegal to judge on the basis of gender when our legal system is based on evidence. Where is the equality now? Those with kids have seen the fear in their eyes when a loved one is accused. Kids have gone into depression from these traumatic events. Congress - Do something about this!!! As a male, I have domestic violence happen to me continuously, however, am unable to tell anyone as no one will believe me. But why not now??? Why do I need proof???REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 20th, 2015Someone from San Francisco, CA signed.
Dec 19th, 2015Someone from Falls Mills, VA writes:
Im in this situation now and anyone that knows me knows im not a violent person at all girlfriend said she was gonna get me back for taking one out on her i was trying to be nice give her a place to stay until she could get on her feet its unreal and unconstitutionalREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 19th, 2015Someone from Silver Spring, MD signed.
Dec 19th, 2015Someone from Spencer, NC writes:
We must find a just solution. Too many lives get ruined when there is a false allegations made!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2015Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
As a female, I do understand that there are many legitimate domestic violence cases. But unfortunately, there are many fabricated cases in order to gain personal benefit and been protected by our dearest judicial system to obtain whatever its takes such as; protection order, immigration status, subsidize rent, or pure malice greed, revenge to former spouse/family federal mail tapering, innocent people been accused.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 18th, 2015Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
As a female, I do understand that there are many legitimate domestic violence cases. But unfortunately, there are many fabricated cases in order to gain personal benefit and been protected by our dearest judicial system to obtain whatever its takes such as; protection order, immigration status, subsidize rent, or pure malice greed, revenge to former spouse/family federal mail tapering, innocent people been accused.REPORT COMMENTS
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