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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Dec 18th, 2015
    Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
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    As a female, I do understand that there are many legitimate domestic violence cases. But unfortunately, there are many fabricated cases in order to gain personal benefit and been protected by our dearest judicial system to obtain whatever its takes such as; protection order, immigration status, subsidize rent, or pure malice greed, revenge to former spouse/family federal mail tapering, innocent people been accused.
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  • Dec 18th, 2015
    Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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    Why are men considered guilty until proven innocent in this area? One of the cornerstones of our legal system is the concept of innocent until proven guilty. This is critical because people lie; it's as simple as that. I sympathize greatly with victims of domestic violence; such situations are horrible. I have personal experience as a child seeing and experiencing abuse. But, even with that background, I know that does not make it okay to punish someone without proof simply because of their gender. The pendulum has swung too far in the other direction and in an attempt to protect the perceived victims our legal system has become very unfair and sexist against men. It should be possible to protect victims of crime without punishing everyone accused by a possibly dishonest person who gains advantage by lying. Not every person claiming to be a victim is speaking truthfully. Why is that simple fact being over-looked?
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  • Dec 18th, 2015
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  • Dec 18th, 2015
    Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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    In 27 years of Police service, I experienced first hand how people manipulate domestic abuse laws and policies to suit their own agendas. The abuse must stop
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  • Dec 17th, 2015
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    EVERYONE!......Call the whistleblower hotline at the US Senate Judiciary Committee (202) 224-5225 This is their JOB! Tell them that Americans would like their DUE PROCESS back! Currently, it is LITERALLY guilty until proven innocent! 2-3 million protective orders EVERY year, and NEVER a prosecution for LYING under oath to get one.... NEVER! Its Felony Perjury, but they NEVER prosecute it! Try and prove me wrong. They GUARANTEE to NOT prosecute the false accusers.... ask them WHY? Protective orders and restraining orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution.... the right to a TRIAL, the right to DUE PROCESS, the right to face your accuser, and the right to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty of a crime. There is NONE of this with protective orders and restraining orders!.... AND the false accusers are GUARANTEED to NOT be prosecuted! Call the whistleblower hotline NOW and DEMAND that they STOP issuing protective orders and restraining orders (thereby, kicking completely innocent people out of their OWN homes, and labeling them as "abusers"), with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO BURDEN of PROOF! This is a direct violation of the US constitution and violates the BASIC civil rights of EVERY American citizen, in MANY ways! Call the whistleblower hotline NOW... US Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 This is about to change... they are FINALLY realizing the HUGE mistake they have CAUSED... make SURE it changes (like, NOW).... call them NOW, or the false accusations will continue! US Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington, DC) (202) 224-5225
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  • Dec 17th, 2015
    Someone from Stockton, CA writes:
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    I could not say it better. But also add that when it's a matter of self defence, it becomes even more unjust for the accused even when there is clear evidence to support the self-defense claim. These people who falsely accuse people are taking away precious resources from the people who truely need them and do so without any punishment when/if they are proven to be vengeful liars. The police can make false statements in their reports to the da's office and not be punished and the DA can submit motions to amend anytime they feel without any evidence being able to be argued and the accused has 0 recourse to fight these claims often being thrown back in jail then and there because the judge is to scared to say no and the bail goes up. Charges are added and the DA doesn't even have to investigate . Enough is enough people, something has to be done. PD have a caseload that suffocating them. The DA has everything at their disposal. This kind of injustice can cause the most law abiding person to become criminal from the treatment they endure especially from the punks in the booking process. Being subjected to that kind of inhuman treatment and conditions should be a crime in itself. Not correcting this injustice and not taking the millions of dollars that these "victim advocates groups" get pumped into out of the equation will only feed this out of control monster that has been left unaccountable for the injustice being done to the the falsely accused and the lives that are ruined by them. Make them accountable for their actions just as the defendants are.
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  • Dec 17th, 2015
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
    Someone from Pittsburgh, PA writes:
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    my ex girl friend is using the pfa for her own personal gain bye lieing to the police
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
    Someone from Essex, MD writes:
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    These false accusations have to stop I was falsely accuse of domestic violence when i was the victim in the case it was caught on camera and I filed charges also the judge granted my protected order and denied hers against me because of the facts on the video 1 month later I was arrested and charged with domestic violence and giving a bail for the same charge I beat 1 month earlier the state attorney in the case wouldn't hear my case because of a reason I yet to find out from them although it was caught on video this last time it wasn't the first time this had happened to me with the same person I'm tired of men getting the blame when some of these women are just at fault as men
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
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  • Dec 16th, 2015
    Someone from Limington, ME writes:
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    see site sites.google.com/site/beatupbyyorkcountycourt/ someone else made a couple similar sites for confusion.
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  • Dec 15th, 2015
    Someone from Miami, FL writes:
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    Breaking the Silence Mom part #1 La Havana, Cuba 2011. This evening I received news from the United States, saying "YOUR SON WAS INJURED, AND SOMWONE HAS DIED ". I could feel inside of me what my son was going throuht. My heart was like if it wanted to come out of my chest. My older son also felt the pain of his little brother. He said "MY BROTHER IS ALIVE, IT'S WHAT MATTERS ". We knew that this nightmare would be over one day. We spent that night in my house flat roof clamouring to God, looking into the sky. Because what we knew was, that God was listening to us. From the beginning His angels were caring and saving my son from dying. I was only clamouring because I wasn't able to be there caring for him. I have no words to describe the pain I felt. But, God said to me "GET UP OFF THE BED AND LOOK FOR ME, BECAUSE YOUR SON IS ALIVE ". Therefore so, day by day I went to church praying to God for my son, knowing that God's justice will prevail and the truth will come to light. Knowing inside of my heart that my son did not do anything, when multiple people said the opposite. Revelations of God to me: - Evangelical Church, Methodist. Mareanado, La Havana, Cuba 2011. "YOUR SON IS ALIVE ". - Evangelical Church, Pentecostal. Centro Havana, La Havana, Cuba 2011. "YOU WILL TRAVEL SOON, YOUR VISA IS THERE ". - One day God said to me audible and loud, "YOU SON DID NOT DO ANYTHING, THE ONE WHO DID IT, LEFT ", ( the devil) . Miami, Florida 2012. Permitting that U.S. Embassy gave me a visa, I arrived to the United States. Those were the longest ten (10) moths of my life. I saw my son through a little crystal window. We look at eachother, we cried and I told him "I AM HERE NOW ", "I AM HERE NOW ", "I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING, THE ONE WHO DID IT, LEFT ". He said, "THANK YOU MOM ", but he maintain to himself in silence and did not say anything else. He was like that for two years, under strong psychological medications. When I went to visit him, he did not speak or think clearly. He fell asleep putting his head against the little crystal window,and could tell by the saliva coming from his mouth... that was so, so painful. He never talked, and like that he was presented to court and sentenced to more than three (3) decades in Florida States Prison. Florida 2013. Once in prison, I gave thanks to God for listening to my prayers. To be able to hug my son for the first time. To see his smile and his desire to fight and look for justice. I gave thanks to God for preparing me much before my son confessed to me the occurrences from that day. To continue, I will exhibit some excerpts taken from a written essay by Whitney Hopper on The War Cry, Sept. issue. Reports and statistics about the topic of this case, will be on this excerpts view. After this, I will release my son's confession gave to me once he was sent to prison. Breaking The Silence Excerpt: Repor
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  • Dec 15th, 2015
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  • Dec 15th, 2015
    Someone from Ellenwood, GA writes:
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    Falsely accused of aggravated asualt by my wife caused,me to be arrested and have to post bond and now I have to fight for my freedom to stay out of prison.
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  • Dec 15th, 2015
    Someone from Union, NJ writes:
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    I m abused by domestic violence industry, my wife hit herself and call the police, they didnt took my fingerprint on injury, they put me in jail, judge order me pay $35,000 bail to get out, I have a criminal record now , my father from india surprised that how american system work , he just say one word shame shame
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  • Dec 15th, 2015
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  • Dec 14th, 2015
    Someone from Oakland, CA writes:
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    Yes this is a continuation the fact that I don't have a criminal record this is amazing to me that they will haul me off to jail like that then tell me I can't go back home she got a extended restraining order the next day when I got out on bail she told a coworkers stating that the reason I went to jail was that I own some people lot of money and they had police pick me up the difference between the truth and Lie is that a lie you have to continue lieing and it always be different story the truth you remember 20 years from now it will be the same story the truth is I didn't act like that angry black man who turned it and who's supposed to turn into this monster guy that didn't happen at all so she put in her report even the police came 3 times that I seem very comfortable with the situation then at one point she put another report that I was threatening but I didn't go for the bait she was trying to provoke me you know I have a hard time trying to figure this out what would make a person falsely accuse you of battery a person you've been sleeping when I can't imagine doing that to somebody oh yes this happen in Orinda California and she is continuing slandering me my name and reputation but I can't communicate with her she going through a third party I mean this is a nightmare
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  • Dec 14th, 2015
    Someone from Oakland, CA writes:
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    Yes this is a shame that this could be perpetrated on innocent people I was accused of domestic battery by my live in girlfriend who I told I was unhappy and I was packing that night and will be moving out the next day well after 3 police call the third call she claimed I pent her against the bathroom vanity which was a lie never touched her no use for profanity against her they haul me off to the jail had to pay bail emergency restraining order now I'm homeless and there's nothing to be done about that but I'm going to fight it and I went to the police department the city that it happened to file charges for false arrest false charges and they are like they didn't want me to do that then I found out that once you file false charges against somebody like that that mean you including the police because they had to be the one that from their judgment this see some kind of abuse. Calvin Ainsworth
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  • Dec 14th, 2015
    Someone from Greensburg, PA writes:
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    Found out some information from a good friend of mine that used to hang with my ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend has a pfa on me for rape and assault. But here is the starting issue....there was no proof...yet alone no rape kit done to prove this....but the pfa went through for three years....just recently though I found out from a real close friend of mine that she talked to him and told him that she lied about everything she accused me of on the pfa. ..now that I have a reliable witness....I don't know what to...and I don't know much about the court system but it would also be nice to know how to go about stopping this
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  • Dec 14th, 2015
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  • Dec 13th, 2015
    Someone from Pittsburgh, PA writes:
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    I'm just another father torn from his child because a a pfa filled with lies. No evidence. No hearing. How many thousands of children cry themselves to sleep each night because they no longer have their fathers? When will this nightmare end? Where did the Constitution go? Free lawyers and millions in tax payer money to lying women go to fund the vicious campaign against loving fathers. No free attorneys for fathers, because its a civil action. Yes, lots of judges, lawyers and women's shelters suck millions out of these judgements against good men. Welcome to the true abuse. Just remember evrrything that Hitler did was legal too. For the thousands of children with no fathers and broken hearts, STOP!
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  • Dec 13th, 2015
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    EVERYONE!......Call the whistleblower hotline at the US Senate Judiciary Committee (202) 224-5225 This is their JOB! Tell them that Americans would like their DUE PROCESS back! Currently, it is LITERALLY guilty until proven innocent! 2-3 million protective orders EVERY year, and NEVER a prosecution for LYING under oath to get one.... NEVER! Its Felony Perjury, but they NEVER prosecute it! Try and prove me wrong. They GUARANTEE to NOT prosecute the false accusers.... ask them WHY? Protective orders and restraining orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution.... the right to a TRIAL, the right to DUE PROCESS, the right to face your accuser, and the right to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty of a crime. There is NONE of this with protective orders and restraining orders!.... AND the false accusers are GUARANTEED to NOT be prosecuted! Call the whistleblower hotline NOW and DEMAND that they STOP issuing protective orders and restraining orders (thereby, kicking completely innocent people out of their OWN homes, and labeling them as "abusers"), with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO BURDEN of PROOF! This is a direct violation of the US constitution and violates the BASIC civil rights of EVERY American citizen, in MANY ways! Call the whistleblower hotline NOW... US Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 This is about to change... they are FINALLY realizing the HUGE mistake they have CAUSED... make SURE it changes (like, NOW).... call them NOW, or the false accusations will continue! US Senate Judiciary Committee (Washington, DC) (202) 224-5225
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  • Dec 12th, 2015
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  • Dec 12th, 2015
    Someone from Bakersfield, CA writes:
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    I am a victim of this system as well. My wife is currently using the system as a weapon against me.
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  • Dec 12th, 2015
    Someone from Marysville, CA writes:
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    My husband has been arrested 4 times charge 2 times with domestic violence . I need someone to help him because hes innocent. I suffer from ptsd and depression has over come me . I was hurting myself at the time and he tried stopping me then I black out and feel like im being strangled from past experience. When in reality hes handing me down so I cant harm myself . Please help us
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    Someone from Gardner, MA writes:
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    I am no longer able to see my children after an argument occurred, the police came and informed my children's mother that unless she was hit or put in fear, they couldn't do anything. The officer mentioned that several times and intimidated my ex to press charges and make up a story and let the judge figure it out. My ex is a horrible addict and as a result of everything, she received, subsidized housing, exposed the children to situations that were not necessary and caused long term psychological damage to everyone. She did recant the story but the courts say its typical for an abused woman to recant. No support, no justice and more important there's no doing what's in the best interest of the children.
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