Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jan 17th, 2016Someone from Villa Rica, GA signed.
Jan 17th, 2016Someone from Pittsburg, CA signed.
Jan 17th, 2016Someone from Concord, CA writes:
I have been wrongly accused. It is terrifiing.Jan 17th, 2016Someone from Brooklyn, NY signed.
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Jan 16th, 2016Someone from Onamia, MN signed.
Jan 16th, 2016Someone from Dallas, TX writes:
Hello, I am Wilson, and I was convicted of domestic violence. I would like to first start by thanking you all for taking a stand to right such a disastrous wrong! Secondly, I do not believe in any type of abuse whether or not it be physical or mental because I to witnessed these things as a kid and violence of any kind is completely wrong. I am not a perfect man nor was I the perfect husband but the one thing that I was not was and am not is a woman abuser. I was convicted in 2013 after a year and a half of strenuous probation due to many factors such as transportation and finances. I have two kids with my wife but learned four years after my oldest kids birth that I was not the father. I was heartbroken but even more so for my son because I felt like I had no claim to his life or him for that matter. I felt like a liar. Reason being that, shortly after finding, out he at 5 years of age came to me questioning the exact issue stating that his mother had told him I was not his dad, so and I knowingly looked him in the face and lied. Though he is not my biological child it hurts to think of him as another mans son. I WAS CHARGED IN 2011 and later convicted in 2013 after showing up to a mandatory course tardy for the third time due to work and transportation. By the way I was SIX WEEKS AWAY FROM COMPLETELY FINISHING MY COURSES. I tried my hardest to overcome it but unfortunately lost everything including my military career! My wife and I were young and I extremely gullible and trusting. I believed everything my wife told me until I began having suspicions of infidelity while on deployment and after my return. I found these things out after learning of there being a possibility of falsified DNA documents pertaining to my oldest kid. Shortly thereafter we separated and she began to openly date other men and bring them to our home. These are only snippets of a relationship that last eight years. I was assaulted numerous times even drug by car twice and nearly run down once while with my son. I was told by two female officers to divorce her because it was possible that she was trying to ruin my career and reputation! But I didnt listen and now I've paid a hefty price. My lawyer misled and coerced me in to pleading guilty. She gave me the option of probation or diversion. I know its much but there's more to it than this. I loved my wife unconditionally and it wasn't reciprocated and in turn I lost my little family that we had begun. Since I have grown and matured more as a smarter, stronger, and more patient man because of this! Women should not be battered nor should men because everyone has the power to control only themselves and that is the best kind of control! The Amended Lautenberg Act of 1996 does save lives but due to its all encompassing nature of violent crimes both men and women are subjected to unfair treatment and in turn are vulnerable to ridicule and misjudgment. I am not here to take away from the the Lautenberg Act I simply believe aREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2016Someone from Jemison, AL writes:
My child was taken from me because my wife wanted child support before I could see my kid, while my wife and I were still married and living together in the same home. She filed divorce and for custody to get her money that she did not need. The custody battle continues since March 2015.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2016Someone from Owatonna, MN writes:
Only heartless people could do this to a loving parent. How they could not see it's going to majorly impact the children involved.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2016Someone from Owatonna, MN writes:
For the last 5 years, my brother has gone through and continues to go through utter hell at every turn with his ex-wife who is nothing short of a narcissistic sociopath.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2016Someone from Sebring, OH writes:
A father should have rights also. But they are good enough to pay child support. This does not make sense.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 15th, 2016Someone from Lynnwood, WA signed.
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Jan 14th, 2016Someone from Hamilton, OH writes:
I have four sons two of them married bipolar women , they catered to the girls jumping and trying everything to make them happy, and the children walk on egg shells ,when the women can not control them or get their way they blow up. One she broke and smashed things around the house he was afraid to leave the children,he pretended to call on her so she called on him they put him in jail. Not first time this happen I am finding out , she told me how sad is that? She went to anger management the first time they told her she is not a victim she is the one who pokes the bear. The other girl is an attorney she new how to twist it up. They divorced . I know other men who have came into work with busted heads these girls are mental. The men feel beat down and hopeless when it comes to speaking up. Some thing needs change! The children are also seeing the women getting away with this. Men are losing good jobs .REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2016Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
My wife was falsely accusing me of being abusive. Since we don't travel in all of the same circles I never found out about it until after I found out that she was having an affair. The whole "Abused Wife situation was to gather sympathy so that people would think that we were divorcing because of abuse, and not her affair.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2016Someone from Freeport, FL signed.
Jan 14th, 2016Someone from Mansfield, MA writes:
i am a victim of false accusations and allegationsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2016Someone from Hollywood, FL writes:
I was accused of Domestic Violence and was cleared of all charges. It cost a lot of money in attorney fees, and my soon to be x-wife ran off with another man destroying her family and fleeing with my daughter. She also has been brain washing my daughter trying to turn her against me. What can be done to correct this atrocity. Lawyers need to be trained on how to deal with these allegations and look for the truth. They are scumbags who take innocent people and punish them through the painfully slow legal system while the real crime was committed by the person that filed the false allegations. Most of all, they took the information provided by the petitioner whom has a Borderline Personality Disorder Cluster B. mentally ill. We (Men) need help now for our rights to not be violated and (you) need to take this serious. I am not proud to be an american in such a bureaucratic legal system. 31.545 letters, and nothing has been done, you all suck!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 14th, 2016Someone from Denver, CO signed.
Jan 14th, 2016Someone from Tupelo, MS writes:
I was wrongly convicted of domestic violence I never did nothing to her she ran off walk out on me and our kids she come home after being gone all weekend and started a fight with me because I knew the truth she called the law because I was leaving with the kids and told them I hit her no marks on her but I went to jailREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2016Someone from Somerset, KY signed.
Jan 13th, 2016Someone from Vincentown, NJ writes:
More of our lawmakers who are out of touch need to start paying attention to their people.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 13th, 2016Someone from Aliso Viejo, CA signed.
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Jan 12th, 2016Someone from Natick, MA writes:
Please stop this unfair law. Leaves men without hope ...have known of two suicides!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 12th, 2016Someone from Milton, FL signed.
Jan 12th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Everyone, Please contact the whistle blower hotline at US Senate in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 These false accusations are happening on a widespread and systemic scale.... Its because of our LAWS! They have gotten RID of the burden of PROOF, the right to a trial, and due process! Demand that they regard EVERY US citizen as INNOCENT, until PROVEN guilty in a FAIR court of law, with DUE PROCESS! This is not rocket science! Stop taking court action against people with no trial, no due process, and no burden of proof.... and PROSECUTE the false accusers when it has been PROVEN that they lied under oath (felony perjury). Please call the whistle blower hotline US Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC (202) 224-5225 US Senate Judiciary Committee (whistle blower hotline) (202) 224-5225 Call them NOW...... or the false accusations will only get worse. Protective Orders / Restraining Orders ARE the abuse!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 12th, 2016Someone from Aurora, CO signed.
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Jan 12th, 2016Someone from Kalamazoo, MI writes:
My Brother ex put a ppo order out on him. But has never been violent towards her. He goes to jail, he gets out of jail 20 days later. Not to mention she cost him a very good job. The same day that our family picked him up from jail, she sent him an email. He changed his phone number and lo and behold she started calling private. She has even attempted to show up at the home that i own which he and his son lives in. He now has a warrant because she seen our fathers car on a main street, i was driving leaving from taking him to get his resume for his new job the next day. I will be completing a no trespassing order. We have all evidence but the courts need to hold this woman and all who abuse the fact that they want control someone.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 12th, 2016Someone from Miami, FL signed.
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Jan 11th, 2016Someone from Merced, CA writes:
I was served with a temp RO last week. RO was granted based on false information. I'm very afraid of what might come next. I have 2 children and I believe my former spouse wants me out of the picture, and will stop at nothing to achieve that end. I have been reading horror stories over the last hour about other men in this situation and I'm fearful that I will meet the same fate.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 11th, 2016Someone from Chandler, AZ writes:
Im also a victim of this. Im going through a case where a woman that I previously dated and distanced myself from her because of alot of manipulation and deceit. This lady later came back to me claiming that she was dying of cancer and stating that she wanted to just right all of her wrongs before she died and she only wanted to be friends. I was fine with that seeing that she stated that she may not be around too long anf I felt bad for her. She later started pushing for me to stop dating others and when I didnt, she popped up at my apartment with her child. I did not welcome her in , her and her child just barges into my apartment. I asked her to leave and she closed the door and put her back up against the door so that I couldn't get the door open and have any witness or keep it public. I told her that we were not an item. She then slapped me across the face . I then told her at thst point we cant even be friends anymore. She then charged at me bloodying my nose. At that point I pushed her off of me and she went into my wall. Her son then enters the room , not understanding what's going on. At that time I toom the opportunity to run ro my door and open it and scrwamed get out of my apartment. She than stole my cell phone and ran out of my apartment screaming leave me alone. At this point im trying to get cell phone . She takes off in her var and leaves. I sat speaking to my neighbor for about 20 min and she popped back up with her son stating she left something in my apartment and she barhes past me again. This time I asked my neighbor to witness her goinh into my house uninvited. She asked me to stay because she drove to hours to see me and I said no . I asked her for my phone and she pulls it out of her bra and tosses it from the ledge and smashes it. She then rins down the stairs and stomps it. She then states that she was going to ruin my life. 2 weeks later I get arrested on the job in front of my peers because she drove home and called the police. Thr police never even came out to assess a crime scene nor did call to make sure thatI wasnt dead.when they arrested I asked the cop why didnt come out , she stated the by law she did not have to. She than handed me an orser of protection and told me that she had enough charge me with domestic violence and I spent a week in jail. Im also a 40 yr old man working at one of the most prestigious banks in the country. Wirh a potential to make a 6 figure salary and no prior history of rhis kind of behabior. I now face 2 counts of agrivated assault and a misdomenor for fighting. I have lost my job, my apartment behind on my finances , I have no income and I cant get a job because this is pending. Not to mention, my mugshot is on the internet and on mugshot.com which is not state or a federal website . This site is a scam to extort money from you for them to take it down and for it ro pop up on another website. My life sucks now. Can anyone offer any aREPORT COMMENTS
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