Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jan 27th, 2016Someone from Far Rockaway, NY signed.
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Jan 27th, 2016Someone from Oak Forest, IL writes:
I have an Ex girlfriend that keep threatening me to go to the cops for abuse, when the only time i had to put my hands on her was to stop her from hitting me in front of my children. In which consisted of just hold her down. I never hit her like she did me. Now who is the real Victim? here?Jan 27th, 2016Someone from Maspeth, NY writes:
These ****ed up Biased, Unconstitutional and Unjust Restraining Order Laws Need To Be Officially Thrown Out For Good.. And, These ****ed Up,Biased,Dirty,Corrupt,Peace of ****en Scum ShitHead Govnt Officials Need To Be Thrown in Jail For Life.. And, The People That File These False,Biased,Unjust,and Unconstitutional Restraining Orders against Other People,Need To Be Thrown in Jail For Life.. Point Blank.!!!! End of Story!!!1REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 26th, 2016Someone from Roswell, NM writes:
I have known several men that go to jail and have there life's ruined due to false statements made by the woman. It is not right that the police and the public defenders only believe the woman. Public defenders are supposed to help there client not help them go to jail or prison. I have seen this happen over and over again. If the public defenders assume there client is guilty they are in the wrong job. This should be illegal. Not every one can afford a good attorney so these guys are expected to just take what they get. No one ever asks them what happened. Everyone assumes it is all the mans fault and I have heard the police tell them man something that was not true. They are just out to help the woman. I am a woman and despise domestic abuse but when lies are being told and the men are not getting a good lawyer something needs to Change. If I could change the way things happen where this is conserved I would do it. It happens way to much and destroys to many life's. What happen to innocent until proven guilty???? That sure isn't the case.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 26th, 2016Someone from North Las Vegas, NV signed.
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Jan 26th, 2016Someone from Kaukauna, WI writes:
This very thing happened to my son. Even though the DA caught her in the lies he continued with the persecution(not miss spelled) anyway, in his own words "if he is going to give up on the felonies, he should at least get DV misd." Seems to me for him it was more about a win on his record than the truth. My son took a plea with probation rather than risk prison so he could fight for his rights to his children. Alledged victim admitted she is bi-polar and not on meds. Was found to have lied about drinking the night of the incident. These laws need a serious overhaul!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 26th, 2016Someone from Longmont, CO signed.
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Jan 26th, 2016Someone from Fairfax, VA signed.
Jan 26th, 2016Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
I completely agree - it is one thing to have a true victim of DV, but for the prosecution to not even consider doing a full investigation in the matter - how is that fair and how is that justice? Why would our government allow for people to lie and we reward them for that - the government should investigate into every situation of DV and find out who the real criminal is. Why am I paying taxes then - I am paying taxes so that the government can do their job and stop wasting everyone's time by allowing women or men to make false allegations. We don't pay taxes so that our men and women can go to an unnecessary war - we don't pay taxes so that the government can ruin innocent peoples lives - if the government did their job and fully investigated into each and every allegation of DV they would find out who the real victim is and they can still hold someone responsible whether it be the complaining witness for lying or the person being accused for actually causing harm to the complaining witness, but it is your duty to at least do a thorough investigation. When you don't do your due diligence to investigate then that allows the complaining witness to call the police department whenever she wants and keep accusing someone innocent of a crime they did not commit, whenever she or he does not get their way. Believe me I know their are real victims out there all over the U.S. all I ask is that the ADA's and DA's do a full, thorough investigation into each case brought to their table.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 26th, 2016Someone from Urbana, OH signed.
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Jan 25th, 2016Someone from Denver, CO writes:
I wrote and am Producing my motion picture, "Shadow In The Rain." It's a true story of how my to be ex wife falsely accused me of this many times.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 25th, 2016Someone from Fort Lauderdale, FL signed.
Jan 25th, 2016Someone from Marina Del Rey, CA writes:
I have been accused of domestic violence more than five times by my baby's mother in CA. She then ran with our baby to Utah and took up residence with her estranged parents. I had filed for custody in CA and that was ignored. I bought a place in Park City to ease the situation for and the domestic violence accusations surfaced again, resulting in my encarceration, followed by attempts to shake down family memberss for my bank credentials. Turns out mother was a high end prostitute before me and has history of violence, drugs and prostitution. Listed on her resume is a shelf marketing corporation formerly known as Companions. I have been accused 1000 mi away and when my receipts showed I was not present at the time stated by the mother. I left on the first Utah accusation because a forced fight was being orchestrated over a TV show. I left knowing where she was taking this and returned hours later to the police in Utah. They refused to check where I was down the street. It is quite opposite in this case , I have been beaten, two broken ribs from a jump behind landing me on the corner of a coffee table - all the while the neighbor watching me trying to calm what is violent mental disorder(s) which I thought was alcohol, but that is just one trigger. I am six foot four inches and am Non-Violent. Utah convicted and gave me requirments for a Dual Focus at Valley Mental which is backed up and still has not filled the appointment now way past conviction. I have fired two lawyers, maintain my innocence at NEVER hitting her, but also never turned her in for this indiscretion or defaced her reputation in court. In my family, we do not call police on each other unless Capitol crimes are committed. I am very confused, but a successful Apple Engineer of past and Internet protection startups that are geared toward identity protection. I have worked on the DOJ's backend and setup servers systems for the IRS. I am a large nerd, now with false convictions - investigators say mother and her family are trying to have me encacerated, then get at my 401k and all savings left to baby. I am falsely accused and deceitful information has been passed by her father to authorities that I run guns (I never owned one) and drugs. My four year old is in the hands of very bad people, assuming the role of nice suburbanites. They have done irreparable damage to my daughter and to my life. I need these lies overturned and I am overwhelmed by such actions against me. Best to all of you - stay safe. - tomREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 25th, 2016Someone from South Portland, ME writes:
The concept of Equality has no gender. The pendulum has swung way too far in an effort to prevent what was deemed to be the weaker sex. When women make false accusations against men the full weight of justice should , along with corresponding punishment, come down on them as a result.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 25th, 2016Someone from South Portland, ME writes:
The concept of Equality has no gender. The pendulum has swung way too far in an effort to prevent what was deemed to be the weaker sex. When women make false accusations against men the full weight of justice should , along with corresponding punishment, come down on them as a result.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 25th, 2016Someone from Redwood City, CA signed.
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Jan 25th, 2016Someone from Spencer, IA writes:
I have been acused by my husbad and he is the abuser . I did not understand i needed to b in court and miss the court date so was guilty. Help helpREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 25th, 2016Someone from Cincinnati, OH writes:
May justice be served in a fair manner. Even if the victim who has been accused is a woman or man.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 24th, 2016Someone from Newark, DE signed.
Jan 24th, 2016Someone from Philadelphia, PA writes:
I was falsy accused and had to afford a lawyer to prove it was an outright lie! Then the accuser can just say the "accuser" was in violation (without proof) and be in jail for just being accused! How is this innocent until found guilty! ALL states should do away with these UNLESS there is direct and visual evidence that someone laid their hands on another person!! You're guilty immediately - your house, your kids and other rights taken away because of vidictive behavior by the accuser! Abolish it and give fair rights to ALL involved!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 24th, 2016Someone from Missoula, MT signed.
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Jan 23rd, 2016Someone from Eden Prairie, MN writes:
The law needs to clearly define specifically what domestic violence is. I was a very unfortunate recipent of the dispicable Order for Protection maneuver at the onset of a divorce proceedings. I have no criminal record and am a respected professional. My wife filled out a form stating never in our 20 year marriage had she ever witnessed me to be violent - HOWEVER she was scared I may become violent. Just like that she got an EX Parte order. Next thing I know - a sheriff knocks on the door of the dream home I bought my family and hands me the order and states I have 10 minutes to pack and vacate MY home. I spent $5,000 hired a good lawyer and killed the order. But my spouse already accomplished what she wanted - and that was to gain an advantage in the onset of the divorce she petitioned - and that was the last time I ever entered my dream home again with out a police escort to retrive belongings. The whole process was alarming. This is a common dirty divorce manuever - I have never felt my rights as a US citizen more violated.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 23rd, 2016Someone from San Jose, CA signed.
Jan 23rd, 2016Someone from Rock Springs, WY writes:
My son is in jail awaiting trial and he is innocent but we can not get any help here.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 23rd, 2016Someone from Annandale, MN writes:
I was setup and she recorded me. Do not trust anyone.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 23rd, 2016Someone from Yonkers, NY writes:
I was previously married and was the victim of false domestic violence claim by my ex-wife. It was a horrible ordeal. Now she try to call me with all her life problem, and mind you the NJ courts issued her a indefinite TRO, but as you know if I call the courts they will say I'm harassing her, and take advantage of me like they did before when I was severely depressed over the sudden lost of my so called wife and family (kids) to which she is raising poorly and is now in and out of court with my 10 year child, and I have no leg to stand when it comes to them to seek custody.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 22nd, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Mitchel A. from Oklahoma City........ If you read this..... Immediately take your recording to the magistrate, judge, or intake official at the courthouse (wherever she filed for the order at)... find the official that SIGNED the order, if it has already been issued... and make SURE they hear the recording! It still may not stop them from issuing the order, but it is your only chance! Once the order is issued and served, you're screwed. They will NOT prosecute her for filing a false report, I can guarantee you that! Even with the recording, even if you have PROOF that she lied! They WILL NOT prosecute her for it.... They either issue the order, and its a done deal.... or they don't. Seriously, I would immediately take the recording to the courthouse where she is trying to falsely accuse you at... and make sure they hear it. Once the order is issued, you are a domestic abuser by definition... sad, but true. Good luck.REPORT COMMENTS
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