Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Canoga Park, CA signed.
Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Everyone reading this.... Please, call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC.... this is their JOB! (202) 224-5225 Tell them Americans would like their due process back! These false accusations are widespread and systemic because of our LAWS! Federal AND state laws need to change.... mainly with Protective Orders / Restraining Orders issued with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO burden of PROOF!... and they NEVER prosecute the false accusers!... NEVER!... and everyone knows it. Please call the Senate Judiciary Committee at (202) 224-5225 (Washington DC) NOW! Protective Orders and Restraining Orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution... the right to a fair trial, the right to due process, the right to face your accuser in a court of law, and the right to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty in a court of law! This is a widespread and systemic violation of MILLIONS of American citizens most BASIC civil rights! Our own government is CAUSING this! Federal AND state laws NEED to change immediately! Call (202) 224-5225 Senate Judiciary Committee NOW, or the false accusations will only get worse. This issue is completely OBVIOUS, and its destroying our society, one family at a time.Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Arlington, TX signed.
Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Arlington, TX signed.
Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Key Largo, FL writes:
This site has been up for a long time . Our politicians are failing us one again , by not bringing to the forefront injustices which are caused by the very same laws enacted as a political body. This issue needs and deserves attention as the live of women , men and children are turned to waste because no action has been taken. If a laws are hurting more than helping the should be revisited ,. In the case of domestic violence there are already laws which help victims. Yet our politician chose to sit idle while lives are crushed . What's driving the inaction now, are they afraid that the numbers false domestic violence cases that are false are more than what the laws intended to stop, Are they afraid of losing funding for prosecuting innocent people and not prosecuting those who will lie to gain advantage in a divorce or pay back . When laws give an advantage over one or another they are no longer laws that work for the benefit of society rather hurt those who really need the help. Why has the issue of false allegation and the lack of judicial relief not received attention is beyond me. Is it just a money game. It's really need to stop.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 7th, 2016Someone from Red Bluff, CA signed.
Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Hollywood, FL signed.
Feb 7th, 2016Someone from Nazareth, PA writes:
My son has been verbally accused of mental abuse by an unstable wife with pre and post partum depression and who has been secretly campaigning for months with comments about him "yelling at her" and fear. He has never and would never harm her and had been the primary caregiver of their newborn while she is treated and hospitalized with pre eclampsia, placed on zoloft. She has much sympathy because of pre existing mental issues and has now fabricated this story. Her constant need to be the center of attention and discredit others is alarming. She refuses counseling for depression and only agrees to marital counseling so he can see everything thats wrong with him. She feels she has no faults. Please stop this cycle for our gentle loving sons who are falsely accused.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 7th, 2016Someone from Boca Raton, FL signed.
Feb 6th, 2016Someone from Baker City, OR writes:
It happens daily and ruins a man's life and needs to be stopped.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 6th, 2016Someone from Denver, CO signed.
Feb 6th, 2016Someone from Ankeny, IA writes:
my false allegation story isn't particularly terrible. i was accused of harassment, the police were annoyed both that it was happening and that they were forced by procedure to charge me and bring the case to court. the judge was also annoyed that the accusation made it to court and declared me not guilty. my life was left mostly intact, but even the fact that i was in court for a harassment charge caused a few complications in my life.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 6th, 2016Someone from Waco, TX writes:
My boyfriend had an altercation with his son but started with me telling him " to quit being a *****" & in a quick second grabbed me under my jaw & released. NO PAIN, NO IMPEDENCE of breath! Grabbed & let go! About an hour later he & his son got into an argument that led to other instances happening & the law was called. When the deputies questioned me, I told them the truth of how everything led up to the law being called. The call was made by his son & for his son only. NO CALLS OR INFORMATION concerning me was included in the 9-1-1 call, but in the event of the law questioning me & me TELLING THE TRUTH &giving them the information of how it all started, the law took it upon themselves to arrest my boyfriend for family violence, causing pain & impeding breath. When I was questioned about him grabbing me, I was asked if I wanted to press charges & I said no. In the end of their "investigation" that night, I asked if they were taking my boyfriend to jail & they told me yes they were. I asked for what & I was told for putting his hands on me. Remember, the cops WERE NOT called on anything about ME, only on & for his son. I had already gone to bed to which should have shown the "law" I was no where close to being "IN FEAR OF MY LIFE"! I understand & believe that there is a need for laws concerning Domestic Violence but there should be levels of degree to when & how much has been done or incurred & if the accused is at the scene the level of degree should then be assessed & whether or not there should be an arrest made. I don't BELIEVE OR THINK it should be left SOLELY up to the officers to make that call! I feel that is a violation of my RIGHTS as a UNITED STATES CITIZEN! I am a grown woman, very capable of making my own decisions & I should be able to do so on my own accord!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 6th, 2016Someone from San Diego, CA signed.
Feb 6th, 2016Someone from Colorado Springs, CO writes:
My husband and I have been involved in legal matters with his ex wife for the last two years and every time the courts don't grant what she wants, she automatically claims abuse and plays the victim. My husband is a disabled vet who has done nothing. She also has BPD and has even gone so far to claim child abuse against my husband because she wasn't going to get full custody. This needs to stop and these false claims need to have consequences.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 6th, 2016Someone from Los Angeles, CA signed.
Feb 6th, 2016Someone from Charlotte, NC signed.
Feb 6th, 2016Someone from Evans, CO writes:
Wife made false reports. Became the victim. I became the hunted. Local police arrested me wit no cause. I filled restaining orders on 5 family members involed in incecient . None were approved by court not one. 100% disabled vet. 20 years fighting for the freedoms of others while here in colorado they attack vets as hostile treats. They come no my home with weapons draw. During iccident to family members try to attack me and nothing was done to incarcerate these locals This is second divorce case in colorado women have all the rights men are treat a gulity and have to pay all court cost child support and the wife sits at home on there*****an laughsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 5th, 2016Someone from Stockton, CA signed.
Feb 5th, 2016Someone from Winnsboro, SC signed.
Feb 5th, 2016Someone from Indianapolis, IN writes:
I am in the same situation because I decided to leave and they did exactly what that state did to me restraining orders no contact order its wrong someone needs to address this and something needs to be doneREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 5th, 2016Someone from Accident, MD signed.
Feb 5th, 2016Someone from Riverside, CA writes:
I was and still am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence. I was separated from the 8 year service to the army, lost a house and job, served 3 years on a sentence of 5 years, 8 months in 2000, was stripped of all money by the DCSS without going through the court and told I owe 47,000 dollars in arrears. Additionally, in my recent divorce proceedings, I was just ordered to sell the house and pay $157 a month in spousal support after to court denied me an extension because my attorney abandoned me one week before trial. He was not familiar with family law and because of the lies, vexatious litigation and misleading documentation, especially since it deals with German language and false allegation, he abandoned me 9 days before my court hearing. My soon to be ex based her case solely on hearsay, never providing one piece of evidence. The decision of the Courts were all based on hearsay as they would not even LOOK at my proof and documentation prior to making a judgement. As it currently stands in the Riverside Court RID1404777, I have been denied my right to counsel, denied an extension to get counsel, ordered to pay $157 per month in spousal support even when she was the main bread winner since 2000 to date, my mandatory settlement conference was moved up from April to 2/10/16 leaving me with no time to get counsel or defense (unheard of by anyone I?ve spoken with). My house is being sold out from under me, my bank account is depleted and I feel that soon, my pets and I will be homeless. The accuser has filled for German citizenship 2 years ago and has property and bank accounts over there and has failed to report this to the courts. She has turned my family (where she stays to date) against me along with my daughter all for financial gain. There have been so many lies, accusations and attacks against me, none of which have been proven. Neither her attorney nor my old attorney checked the facts. The sad part is the attorneys never check facts and Americans always want to protect everyone, even the ones that lie to them until it too late. Some will never even realize it and if they do, no one seems to ever do the right thing to fix it.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 5th, 2016Someone from Apple Valley, CA writes:
Been through a 1 year ordeal. I was guilty before even questioned. Once I told them that I wouldn't speak to them and wanted an attorney they arrested me then enhanced the bail to 500k. After the accuser recanted her story on the stand the DA still wanted to press forward with the case. What a ordeal. It was all lies because she wanted custody of our child. Something about these laws need to be changed to protect innocent men as well.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from Broomfield, CO signed.
Feb 4th, 2016Someone from Elizabeth City, NC writes:
I hope this bring attention and open your eyes before it happen to anyone family. . I don?t know how to begin tell you. However, I am hurt and ashamed to say I am a server damaged U.S. citizen victim of false allegations of domestic violence in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. My life has been literally been destroyed by others that I thought was suppose uphold the law in our courts system. It?s been nearly 18 years since DSS falsely fabricated warrants for my arrest through my wife collaboration not knowing what she signing. She was non U.S. English speaking wife with a temporary resident visa here in USA with our new born baby. The case was brought to a Judge and the judge was my prior Attorney and disregarded my civil rights when I ask for different judge. I don?t know how many people been damaged like me and fallen between the cracks. It affected my mom and especially my daughter I have not seen in over ten years. And my ex-wife continues her parental alienation to this day. Is this really what our Great Country about?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
my brother is going through this right now. got into an argument with his girlfriend and she called the cops accusing him of choking her, when he didn't even touch her and once again there is no proof nor marks that he did and he is going to jail for 3 years.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from New Haven, CT signed.
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Feb 4th, 2016Someone from Revere, MA writes:
I am going through this situation personally. Even though i have everything proving my innocence and she's using the system to get revenge because i don't want to be with her anymore.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from Riverside, CA writes:
I was and still am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence I was separated from the 8 years service to the army. Lose of a house and job. I served 3 yrs on a sentence of 5yrs 8 month in 2000 was stripped of all money by the dcss without going thru the court and told i owe 47,000 dollars in arrears proven to be false. Now to date in a divorce were i was just ordered to sell the house and pay 157 in spousal support ,after the court denied me an extension because my attorney abandoned me one week before trial because of the lies and vexatious litigation and misleading document especially since it deals with German language ,false allegation without having to provide one piece of evidence just accusations today as it stands in the riverside court rid1404777 I have been denied my right to council denied and extension to get council ordered to pay 157 in support even when she was the main bread winner since 2000 to date mandatory settlement conference moved up 2/10/16 leaving me with no counsel or defense un heard of by any one i talk to. My house is being sold out from under me my account is depleted my pets and i will be homeless. The accuser has filled for germane citizenship 2yrs ago and has property and accounts over there that has been failed to be reported to the courts. Turned my family in which she resides to date against me along with my doughier against me all for financial gain. all because of lies and vexatious litigation the sad part is the attorneys never check facts and Americans always want to protect every one even the ones that lye to them until it too late . Some will never even realize it and if they do .do the right thing and fix it.the laws were ment to help people in real need not a gide book for a profetional victiom abuse some one for profiteREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from Smyrna, GA writes:
There should also be reparations made to to victims of false accusations of DV from the police who refuse to include evidence in their reports that could exonerate the falsely accused and the prosecutors that go forward with cases when the person who made the false causation goes to them and tells them that's what they did.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 4th, 2016Someone from Smyrna, GA writes:
There should also be reparations made to to victims of false accusations of DV from the police who refuse to include evidence in their reports that could exonerate the falsely accused and the prosecutors that go forward with cases when the person who made the false causation goes to them and tells them that's what did .REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 3rd, 2016Someone from Aurora, IN writes:
My sons life has been destroyed. He is not only innocent but he was the victim of her abuse. He has been denied contact with his daughter for five months,lost his job and is about to lose his home. This has got to stop.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 3rd, 2016Someone from Jefferson City, MO signed.
Feb 3rd, 2016Someone from Milwaukee, WI writes:
I had this happen to me last year because my drunk self centered roommate was mad at me for helping another drunk person and not paying attention to her. I have spent the last 7 months of my life watching everything I worked so hard for be tainted and destroyed due to her selfish reasons. She lied under oath. I told the truth and was found not guilty but my life is still a mess. What effect did it have on her?! None. She is partying, going on cruises, lying about me, and living life. This needs to stop! There Is no reason good people should have to go through this because of vengeful and heartless people!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 3rd, 2016Someone from Milwaukee, WI writes:
I had this happen to me last year because my drunk self centered roommate was mad at me for helping another drunk person and not paying attention to her. I have spent the last 7 months of my life watching everything I worked so hard for be tainted and destroyed due to her selfish reasons. She lied under oath. I told the truth and was found not guilty but my life is still a mess. What effect did it have on her?! None. She is partying, going on cruises, lying about me, and living life. This needs to stop! There Is no reason good people should have to go through this because of vengeful and heartless people!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 2nd, 2016Someone from Delavan, WI writes:
Additionally,Illegal immigrants or alien non citizens, after living with a U.S. Citizen in their owned home or property get automatic green card status while case is going on and the defendant is forced to leave their own home and Alien/Invader gets to stay in the house that once was that of the U.S Citizen Now incarcerated for years possibly. Or even just forced to leave through a No Contact Order........ Brings to mind the communist manifesto- "We will get you from within". Maybe that is why they call it the Red Femme movement ? I firmly believe there should be a Congressional hearing and investigation as to the criminalities of the writers involved and how this unconstitutional law ever got passed. Do not think your immune either! Its just too easy for anybody to call on anybody and police have to arrest.REPORT COMMENTS
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