Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Feb 19th, 2016Someone from North Las Vegas, NV writes:
I am currently living with my wife. I want a divorce yet she will not sign the papers. I am currently unemployed and going to school. I am 35 years old and tired of arguing with woman. She constantly behaves in a way that she can get on my nerves. When I change to ignore the fact she tries something else. This is continuously happens and she brings outside strangers into the mix. There have been times where she will even get in my face and call me names. Like usual I just walk away but lately she has been saying that she will call the police and say that I hit her. I have never touched this woman and even worse there is a nine year old boy in the mix of this. He has been bad at school and has been denied to see me by his mother even though we live in the same house. I am currently searching for ways to protect myself against her false claims is when I came across this website. I appreciate this site to express myself to others in the same situation. Makes me more strong and a person my son can look up too. My son is legally not mine since I got married to her when she had him. I never adopted of fear of her also using that to her advantage. Scares me sometimes because this woman is non-stop. She brings strangers in to live in the spare rooms to help with rent and makes me uncomfortable. Of coarse she uses that to her advantage by calling me useless in front of people I don't even know and understand (one is Spanish speaking). When I got the divorce papers she helped but when I got the final pieces to be signed she wont sign. To make matters worse there is a woman down the street from my home that tells her in front of me that I just want the divorce because I dont want to give her spousal support. I have been wanting a divorce and have proof for a while now(6 months) and just started school a few months ago, so makes no sense. That woman is making things worse and doesn't even know me, ridiculous. -
Feb 19th, 2016Someone from Raleigh, NC writes:
i have lost jobs, lost educational opportunities, lost emotional energy, lost financial opportunities because of accusations and something that is upheld based on me being a man and a societal stigma "geberal-rule-of-thumb" without any clear step-by-step process of gathering evidence from both sides and thorough investigations by therapists and doctors to confirm physical trauma and abuse. any woman can cry and thus satisfy a general "emotional distress" and logic, reason, inquisition, theoretical testing and sound proof goes out the window and thus the system uses "spiteful, irrational, manipulative" emotion as it's vehicle for due process. i am now releasing everything, including the taped coerced resignation from that county and asking for an attorney and an advocacy group to go after this college and county and have an impartial investigation from the outside as i have nothing left to lose after being labeled off an original title that had to be illegally upheld just to stick and the losses from such cheating tact. please pray for me that i have the favor of david against this goliath. it's easier and cheaper for those in comfortable power to cover something up rather than restore my life and go after the ones in power that allowed this to happen to me and created these chips stacked against me. please follow me on facebook adam woodard or text me or call me 8284062109 if you know of a federal investigator, a college civil rights group and an assertive and underdog attorney that can see what i have and help put pressure on changing and expunging everything after that original illegally upheld restraining order that first stigmatized my great name and record. everything after can't happen as i would have had two jobs and my own place. i have been with women and even married before this ex-fiancee and my record of traffic tickets prior to 2013 speaks for itself. my marriage ended in a mutual annulment with no foul play nor accusations. that is a real testament to my resolve as a man regardless of the last two liars.REPORT COMMENTS
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Feb 19th, 2016Someone from Raleigh, NC writes:
i am about to go to legal war over this, so i am asking for all prayers and support. in 2013, i had an ex-fiancee that wanted me out of her home county in my native state so bad, that she deliberately and maliciously staged an act of tears in court after filing a restraining order. not only did she win, and the judge refuse to look at my text messages and records showing that we were sending love texts and spending a long time on the phone the day before she even found out that i had gotten a job and was staying in that county. but once she had the restraining order awarded, just to sabotage my life even further, her and her father went to my new employer that same day and had me fired. i called a law enforcement officer of that county and he turned a blind eye and kept me outside and said she can come to my known place of employment which i know is an objective violation of the protective order and it's purpose, but clearly shows a perjury and her real ulterior motives. i still stayed in the county and got a full time job as a TA with the school system i had been substituting for, then in one month, i suspiciously got "coerced to resign" for no merit nor write-ups nor just cause. TAs don't just get cut after a month. i have the recording of the coerced resignation. just one restraining order is like herpes. it followed me to another state and i had charges pressed by a spiteful ex i got involved with that was intelligent and had access to this awarded restraining order in my home state. this girl originally claimed in her official statement that she had no idea who i was, and they made a felony arrest on stalking, then when i showed the law and my defense attorney the evidence that we were intimately involved and she is objectively lying, instead of throwing it out, they cooperated with her to change her statements and press different charges; this time alleging physical abuse. my "public defender" tried to get me to plea bargain, while i maintained my innocence and her lies. i even had a family member (that is a female) in 2014 when i came back home that i've never been close with use this when she found out i was enrolling in her college that semester. she dropped it a few months later because she knows what she did was wrong and was a low blow despite her personal opinion of me. then, this past fall i got banned and dismissed unlawfully from a school that created a case against me surrounding this "domestic violence/stalker/harasser" label that started only because the first one was unlawfully upheld in 2013 and the subsequent instances. this university never notified me of an investigation nor did i ever have the student handbook rights to question the "anonymous women that i harassed" as well as this university banned me and sealed the letter dated October 19 and kept me on campus until December and then notified me banning me completely abandoning proper procedure and policy. i have lost jobs, lost educatREPORT COMMENTS
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Feb 18th, 2016Someone from Alvin, TX writes:
This is tradic ,the laws that are there to protect the woman from domestic violence is being used against men in general, this is got to stop, the same laws to make men pay child support,are there to hurt the man ,these law,s are used against men ,they can lose there job ,and everything all over false allagation,s and woman who want to use the system,please protect our fathers brothers and the men that stand to mean anything in our life,if we hurt these men than that's and injustice.REPORT COMMENTS
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Feb 18th, 2016Someone from San Diego, CA signed.
Feb 18th, 2016Someone from Irving, TX writes:
The Domestic Violence Industry is aided by a corrupted judicial system which keeps citizens hostage. Who needs ISIS if we have the US justice department violating its own laws. Wake Up America, Drama Queens cannot run this country. Prosecute those who file false reports and wait with protective orders until all parties are heard and evidence is investigated. Jail police officers who file false testimonies.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 18th, 2016Someone from Miami, FL writes:
I was falsely accused and arrested in Holywood, Fl. My wife did this because I confronted her about money she stole and fraud bank/credit card accounts she opened using my name and ss number. I had filed a restraining order against her months ago for stalking and involving our child when she came to family's house to start trouble, and the law did nothing. This was just revenge and a good way for her to get an easy advantage, hiding behind her lies. But when a man is falsely accused, the law is very different. They will come after you like a hungry wolf pack. But remember: most of the biased arresting officers are also men, and every dog has his day. It is very wrong for anyone to abuse the law system, but it is even worse for the law system promote it. In this case, Broward County.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 18th, 2016Someone from Punta Gorda, FL signed.
Feb 18th, 2016Someone from Fond Du Lac, WI signed.
Feb 18th, 2016Someone from Oakland Gardens, NY writes:
My brother is in this predicament right now, his wife falsely accused him of assault because she got tired of pretending while she was using my brother to get a green card. Now we are all frustrated and with the impotence of being under her will, even though she was the one who was abusing him.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 18th, 2016Someone from Irving, TX writes:
I have now been falsely accused of domestic violence for the second time and facing a felony offense. Fist time was in 2000 by my ex and now this time by another person who was temporarily staying with me and refused to leave after she admitted having illegal drugs and undesirable people in my home while I was st work. When police arrived, they ignored my claims and coheresed her into making a false claim against me. I was arrested and she was left in my home even tho she was not a resident and she was high on drugs and drunk on vodka. The officer stayed there with her alone, in my home, to "take some picturers ". I was told by the officer who took me to jail that he was called in because the officer that stayed behind was off duty. This seemed very inappropriate and suspicious. The alleged victim did not speak about any assault until after the officer told her that I said something.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 18th, 2016Someone from Brooklyn, NY signed.
Feb 18th, 2016Someone from Wellford, SC writes:
My wife at the time in 2014 falsely accused me of CDV. I proved my innocence after spending 17 hours in jail and $5000.00 in bond, lawyers fees, lie detector test, as well as lose of two careers. I am in the process of exspungement. No use to even try to find a job !!! Where is the justice for me ?? I can not even own a gun now thanks to this liar !!! We as innocent victims need some help from the ones who make the laws. It is set in place as a penalty of up to 7 years imprisonment for filling false information with the police, but her crime is not monetarily beneficial to our judicial system, so she is not being sought by the police. Maybe instant justice will be our only hope of true justice in this unfair society that the lawmakers have created. I await a truth and a just conclusion for my unfair situation. RKSREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 18th, 2016Someone from Fond Du Lac, WI writes:
My son is falsely accused of domestic violence and now has to get a lawyer to see his child. This is devastating for us!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 17th, 2016Someone from Sicklerville, NJ signed.
Feb 17th, 2016Someone from Sweet Home, OR writes:
My son's mother got a domestic violence grant from the state saying I had hit her. I have not seen her in months and never laid a hand on her or any women my whole life. She is a drug addict only trying to figure out a way to get her next fix. Angelia Marie Wagner.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 17th, 2016Someone from Chanhassen, MN writes:
I came to this country 3 years ago with a kind of AMERICAN DREAM. Now it turns out to be a NIGHTMARE for me because of the false charge on me of domestic assault based on the false accusation of my wife. I just got my green card but now I am facing the possibility of losing it. I would be deported if I lose the trial. But I will still go to the trial to clear my name. This is the most important for me, even though at the risk of being deported. I have lived in 3 countries and have been following all the laws and rules for my life so far. I never though I would be arrested and put into jails. I never thought I would be charged with a crime. But this happened, though I was innocent and the actual victim. This happened in a country where each one's human rights are said to be highly protected. But my human rights have been violated, even violated in the name of law! The law system of protecting the victim of domestic violence is so easily to be utilized by a liar. Under this system, to be a victim is so easy. You just need to call 911 and claim to be attacked, no matter actually you attacked the other part. By doing this, you can kick the other part out of the house which you did not pay one cent. By doing this, you would have a good reason to get the green card, which you were not eligible. If you still have other greedy purposes to reach, you can do this too. Do not worry, you would never be punished because of lying. It is a heaven for liars!!!! The defects of this system are so clear and easily to be improved. But no improvement is being done. It is possibly because of the political correctness of "protecting the victim". Who cares who is the real victim. Who cares the human rights of those falsely charged innocent. As a law abiding resident, I want to get my freedom back, ***the freedom from fear !***. Now I have to fear the possible consequences if I lose the trial, though a small possibility. I have to fear being framed and arrested and charged again, which is very possible if the alleged victim would not get what she wants in the following divorce. Despite of the fears, I am going to fight.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 16th, 2016Someone from Springville, IN writes:
Every one wants equal rights, so why is it ok for men not to have a right in this case?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 16th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Everyone needs to start CHALLENGING the CONSTITUTIONALITY of these Protective orders / Restraining Orders! They need to be taken to the supreme court! PLEASE READ!! If you have been falsely accused and served with a Protective Order or Restraining Order please listen.... Find a GOOD lawyer in your state, and tell them that you want to CHALLENGE the constitutionality of the order that was served on you, and go all the way to the Supreme Court! It has been done once before (crespo vs crespo) in New Jersey... google it. The court found that these orders were UNCONSTITUTIONAL, but then the decision was reversed on apeal... They KNOW that these orders are in DIRECT VIOLATION of the US constitution, in MANY ways.... but MORE people need to stand up and CHALLENGE it IN COURT! They violate the right to a TRIAL, the right to DUE PROCESS, the right to face your accuser and cross examine them, and the RIGHT to be presumed INNOCENT until PROVEN guilty in a court of law! With these orders there is no burden of PROOF... only a "preponderance of the evidence", and after the order is issued, the burden is automatically on the accused to prove they DIDN'T commit they abuse! Not enough people are CHALLENGING the constitutionality of these orders IN COURT! This needs to be done in ALL states! If you have a bogus Protective Order / Restraining Order on you right now, please do yourself and the rest of America a favor... Find a good lawyer.. You may have to call around... A lot of lawyers don't really want to do the work... but SOME of them DO care about this epidemic of false accusations... and this issue is gaining ground. Find a lawyer that will take your case all the way to the Supreme Court in your state! (reference: crespo vs crespo in NJ) Challenge the constitutionality of the order! These Protective Orders / Restraining Orders / Domestic Violence injunctions have completely circumvented the US constitution! This has been going on WAY too long.... MILLIONS of falsely accused citizens kicked out of their OWN homes, and even thrown in jail. Families destroyed by our own government's laws! Please... They are slowly waking up to this! http://caselaw.findlaw.com/nj-superior-court-appellate-division/1187309.html http://www.law.msu.edu/king/2005/2005_Nizol.pdf http://www.ejfi.org/DV/dv-23.htm http://restrainingorderabuse.com/2014/06/15/mocking-the-constitution-for-30-years-a-summary-of-defendants-due-process-rights-under-the-american-charter-and-how-restraining-orders-treat-them-contemptuously/REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 16th, 2016Someone from Jamaica, NY writes:
I have been personally affected by false allegations of domestic violence...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 16th, 2016Someone from Everett, WA signed.
Feb 16th, 2016Someone from North Hampton, NH writes:
My ex wife and i got divorced about 3 years ago. A year and a half ago my ex wife got engaged to somebody and that was a good thing it was the most peaceful she has ever been to me. I got engaged shortly after to my now wife and things were great i had 50 50 custody had my kids over night every other day but it all went to hell when my ex split up with her fiance and a week later i was being served with a ex-parte saying i couldnt have my kids anymore saying that my current wife is abusive, which is bs my wife works for easter seals volunteers at a church and works with elderly clients as well as mentally challanged miniors. She is a wonderful woman. But because my ex wife "says" my current wife is abusive i lost custody of my kids and a no contact order was placed on my wife. With no proof of evidence! The judge says he must lean on the side of precaution and play it safe and put this no contact order on my wife. So then i was left with the choice to either leave my wife and move back in with my parents so i could continue my normal days with my kids. Or stay with my wife and fight this in court. (I say move in with my parents because with the amount of child support i must pay now, i could not afford a place of my own) which is a funny thing that my ex after 2 years of being divorced dosent want any support until she becomes pregnant by another man that up and left her after impregnating her. Also gives up her job just a few weeks before filing for support. And the way support was determined was my income vs her income and had actually nothing to do with what i was already supplying the kids. Paying her child support isnt even a big thing to me. All i want is these false accusations againt my wife to be acknowledged as being lies! And be able to have my kids back with my wife and to have MY FAMILY! Its the only thing i want in this world to sit with my wife and kids for dinner, read and sing bedtime stories, go on family trips play games and to grow as a family. ??REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 15th, 2016Someone from Denver, CO signed.
Feb 15th, 2016Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
I've been living with a woman in public housing in nyc she been on ssi since the 1980s never work and I've always work till 2012 that I got on ssd and I live with her since 2006 now she wants me out so the government or NYCHA don't know I was living with her so now the city and NYPD is telling her to get a Domestic violence order against me to put me a disable person in jail and it would get me out of the apartment and she won't have to pay the city or go to jail for being with me 14 years and being on ssi new York city knows who she is cause I let them all know even the attorneys General office DOI and supplemental security income but if it was me ill be in jail by now and the way I feel it may be best cause I hear when I get out they give me an apartment or is that just for womenREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 15th, 2016Someone from Demotte, IN signed.
Feb 15th, 2016Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
I know a married woman who was on several dating sites and wanted a divorce. Husband did not want a divorce and she proceeded to file for protection against domestic violence. Husband stands to lose EVERYTHING because of her lies. There needs to be justice for those falsely accused. The woman is NOT always right and will lie to move on to greener pastures and the man suffers irreparable harmREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Blackshear, GA writes:
My husbands ex-wife had their 7 year old lie in court saying he saw my husband hold a gun to my head to regain custody of him after we proved her unfit two years ago. She alleged domestic violence in my own home and had absolutely no proof yet we lost custody of the child over her lies, and could have lost our other 3 children to the state!! It's time to do something about false allegations of abuse!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from San Bernardino, CA writes:
I currently have a domestic violence restraining order on me something I didn't do. My cowardly lawyer laced down on me so his law firm can remain in good gracious with the court commissioner who hears these cases and divorce cases to. I Had a police report that documents I did nothing and a witness how observed the entire incident. But my lawyer laid down and refused to present my case on the day of trial. Go figureREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Milton, TN writes:
Where is the justice in our " justice system". A woman cries wolf and get shelter, order of protection under false pretenses, free legal assistance and represeration. Also their is ZERO ramifications for all these lies and false alligations that instantly paints a evil woman beater and kids are taken from him. As a father I also love my children as they are my life and my heart! I have to spend money I don't have for legal council and pray for a "fair" outcome usually at best I see my children every other weekend!!! We call this justice?? The love I hold and have in a simple question of "son how was your day at school" gone!! Let not forget this is the 2nd time she had pulled this crap.. Yet she's so scared she came back to me for two years , we have another child together and she does this again! She still contacts me having my 5 year old son call me know a oop is in place to try to violate me. Though the court with stacks of evidence somehow over looks all this and she still wins and gets her way.. Truly sad, corrupt, set up for a man to fail. Justice is merely a illusion along with these alligations from a bi-polar abusive woman and I'm somehow the "bad guy"..REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from East Orange, NJ writes:
its bad when a female police officer lies that she is a domestic violence victim...what is dangerous about this is because she knows the domestic violence and knows how to script. the most favorite and used charge in domestic violence cases is harassment .REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Richland, NY signed.
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Feb 14th, 2016Someone from Teaneck, NJ writes:
innocent until proven guilty is not quite applicable but neither is guilty until proven innocent. there must be a place in between where the truth existsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Cabot, PA writes:
This is a growing epidemic that makes women look like idiots!!!! When you truly are abused others find it hard to believe since so many make allegations out of vengeance or anger!!!!! It's sick!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Durham, NC writes:
I have not posted here since before I "won" my case. You never really win, you simply get back to where you started after these crazed women try to take your life. I am not dramatizing - I was pushed to the brink of suicide from the felonious allegations against me.... with zero physical evidence and injury only to me!!! WTF America? Anyway, I was exonerated unanimously by a jury of my peers. Keep your heads up. My hope is that someone who is struggling as I was will see this. I hope that if they do, they will continue to maintain their innocence and they will take it to a jury. Do it. Let the people tell you that you have committed a crime. Because I know you have not. I know that you were the one assaulted, and I know that this system is completely ****ed up. The jury will too. They are just normal people.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 14th, 2016Someone from Durham, NC signed.
Feb 13th, 2016Someone from Arlington, TX writes:
My ex Karen Texas is constaly typing online falses accusation against me with the APD obviously APD dimissed all the falses accusation, but she still **** off me with her evil behaivor the father no have rights. The system allow women manipulated the law just to get revanch for the father just want to be in the child life. This crap need to end, because the citizen choose the candidates to work in favor the all citizen's men & women, but this is not our realities.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 13th, 2016Someone from Kissimmee, FL signed.
Feb 12th, 2016Someone from Pompano Beach, FL writes:
My husband brought a woman to our home while my kids and i where sleeping, he started havin sex with her so loud that he waked me up, i called the police and i went to his room to video taping him since he is being doing horrible thigs to me but he is good liying, he is a lawyer... So i went to the room and he almost t killed me, i bited his arm to safe my life, the police arrived and they arrested me, next day i was out of jail with out my two childrem and in the street.... He is trying to destroy me because i wanted to divorce him. I am really afraid that he is getting what he wants... I have witnesses of his abuses, videos of him hurting me, our oldest son is in fear of him, to the point that he asked for help... I have a lawyer, but for what he says... I am really afraid..... My husband is a rich men that is whilling to spend all his money to hurt me...REPORT COMMENTS
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