Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Feb 29th, 2016Someone from Fort Pierce, FL signed.
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Feb 29th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Yes, there have DEFINITELY been men who have committed suicide because of these false accusations (quite a few, actually)... I was almost one of them... extremely close. I'm a military veteran, and luckily I was able to get help at the VA hospital... a lot of other people have NO ONE. Suicide by cop, outright suicide, mass murders (its all possible), lashing out at other innocent people because its incredibly hard to deal with being falsely accused, and the government just literally takes the WORD of the accuser, and throws you in jail. These orders are CAUSING the VIOLENCE... people often BECOME violent, when they are falsely accused, and thrown in jail with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO BURDEN of PROOF whatsoever! Absolutely NOTHING but the accuser's WORD! That is LITERALLY it! It is ABSOLUTELY EMOTIONAL and PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE to falsely accuse someone... and our own government is CAUSING it! Thank you to the women who are standing up to this incredible, widespread and systemic tragedy! There are women who are falsely accused too, and that is JUST as WRONG! This BS WILL STOP! Thank you to everyone, men AND women BOTH, who are fighting to END THIS! It WILL change! Slowly, but surely, our retarded government is waking up to this!Feb 29th, 2016Someone from Dinuba, CA writes:
I'm going through something similar and lost custody of my lil girl and now only have 3 day visitation because of All the lies my ex saidREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 29th, 2016Someone from Summerville, SC writes:
Unjust do not PROSPER! I believe that many of these innocent men have committed suicide because of the lies of the women to get their way. The laws must be changed to protect the innocent men and punish the liars. This is a case of the unequalled scales or unrighteous measures, but the Almighty will correct the scales if the court does not fix this problem. The lives of the innocent will be saved instead of being railroaded.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 29th, 2016Someone from Bakersfield, CA signed.
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Feb 29th, 2016Someone from Hoffman Estates, IL writes:
I've never committed or been accused of domestic violence. However, my wife (at the time) physically attacking me during an argument, I did not hit her back, I knew even pushing her out of reach would be construed as violence on my part. I held my hand in front of my face and backed out of the room. When out of arms reach, I stated: "adults can not attack each other, it's illegal, and if I call the police the consequences would be serious." She smiled and replied, go ahead call the police, when they get hear you'll be the one arrested, go ahead and see what happens. You can never call the police on me." I was sick to my stomach, because I knew she was right. Statutes effectively negate my right to due process, and I could be forced from my home without any cause, and even after being attached by her. In this way, I realized I effectivly don't really have a recognized right to my child, home, or possessions. She is able to fabricate an accusation at any time, and my freedom would be immediately negated. I wanted to move out that night, but my child was still young and I was terrified her rage and erratic mood swing could result in violence to my child. She was not a very involved parent. We agreed to 50% parenting, but she generally is uninterested and leaves our child with me ~70% of the time. This is the silver lining. I'll never remarry, I now understand the extent to which marriage invites state intrusion into personal life. I'll warn my son about this when he is older. Men deserve to understand the risks, and forfeited liberty resulting from marriage. It's criminal, laws encourage false accusations, or in my case the threat of false accusations, and divorce. Upon divorce all parenting decisions are subject to state intrusion, employment decisions and the opportunity to change lifestyle are erased by imputed income, future earnings until death are all subject to distribution by a state family court. I believe in the traditional concept of a marriage and life commitment, but existing laws negate any possibility of a true two way commitment. There is no balance in a relationship if one can jail the other at anytime, and without recourse, or when one has all the financial responsibility and the other all the benefits. Sadly, I consider myself "lucky" that my wife never actually made the false accusations she threatened to make. "Lucky" for not being falsely accused; it's not right.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 29th, 2016Someone from Hampton, VA signed.
Feb 29th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
ATTENTION: If you are currently under a Protective Order or Restraining Order, you MUST find a GOOD lawyer and CHALLENGE the CONSTITUTIONALITY of the order! The order MUST currently be in place! It has been done ONCE before... crespo vs crespo .... google it. The NJ Supreme Court ruled these orders unconstituional, but then it was overturned on appeal. If people start CHALLENGING these orders at the Supreme Court level in each state, this unbelievable injustice will stop! Most lawyers won't have the balls.... but, some WILL! Please... call around... FIND a good lawyer that would be willing to CHALLENGE the CONSTITUTIONALITY of YOUR Protective Order or Restraining Order, and take it all the way to the Supreme Court! This BS is GOING to change... its a matter of time. These orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution, but it is VERY rare that someone actually challenges the constitutionality in court.. Our government is SLOWLY realizing how these orders punish completely innocent people, with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO BURDEN of PROOF! These orders have become NOTHING but tools for manipulation... and they are DESTROYING lives! Epidemic false accusations... systemic and widespread. EVERYONE knows how to do it... its just a matter of whether they are WILLING to lie, and LOTS of them ARE, because they NEVER prosecute them... NEVER!! 2-3 million of these orders issued EVERY year... ZERO prosecutions for LYING under oath (felony perjury) to get one! Its felony perjury, but it is NEVER prosecuted. Please, do yourself and the rest of the NATION a favor... FIND a lawyer (a constitutional attorney, possibly) who is WILLING to CHALLENGE the CONSTITUTIONALITY of your Protective Order or Restraining Order, and take it all the way to the Supreme Court! This is GOING to change... our retarded government is slowly waking up to this (widespread and systemic false accusations, CAUSED by our government). I only found out this info. AFTER my order had expired, so I lost EVERYTHING! It has to be done when your order is in place. This BS WILL STOP!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 29th, 2016Someone from Maricopa, AZ writes:
This just happened to me. A false claim by a mentally unstable wife who know I wanted out. I am unable to enter my home, see my son and am having difficulty providing for my family (as I am sole provider) with all of these new, sudden circumstances. This is devastating to me, to say the least. Her accusations are complete lies and it was served ex parte with no due process. Please fix this. I live in the State of Arizona and loved my state up until now.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 28th, 2016Someone from Camp Hill, PA writes:
My daughter lived with her ex father-in-law for over 18 years. During that time she assumed the role of a domestic helper. She lived in his house all that time plus an additional 10 years when she was married to his son. On the tenth of February he went to a neighbor asking for a bowl of cereal. They felt he was being abused and advised him to call the police. A restraining order was issued. And the police showed up that afternoon. They treated my daughter very badly! Slamming her against a wall and handcuffed her in a way that caused her to bleed. She was beside herself in panic and suffers from panic disorder. Due to her actions they stripped her and threw her in a cell with another woman. Her bail was set at $20,000 and she was penniless at the time! Fortunately a family member was able to make her bail. To date she is living with her daughter and all of her furniture is being held from her. She has been advised verbally (via phone) by her ex-husband to show up for her clothes with a police escort. Quoting the District Attorney??? She has yet to be notified of any such requirement. And had her restraining order thrown out! In court on the 18th of February. Why the heck can people just keep throwing restraining orders at people. This is new to me and gives me a bad feeling about our judicial system! John C. SestokREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 28th, 2016Someone from Toledo, OH signed.
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Feb 28th, 2016Someone from Toledo, OH writes:
I have been falsely accused and set up by my ex solely to try and get custody of my son. I have been put in jail treated like garbage and at second court date she wants to drop it! Not only am I being told going after her is pointless but the court will not enforce anything!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 28th, 2016Someone from Wilmington, NC signed.
Feb 28th, 2016Someone from Atherton, CA writes:
The problem is that men are not reporting women to the police often enough for assault. Once every woman has been reported to the police and charged with violence against men, will the police believe men defending themselves against false accusations. If your wife, sister, mother, female friend, any female whatsoever lays even a finger on a man, Report them and have them arrested. If they remark 'how can you have the mother of your children receive a police record?' just reply 'better her than me.' Women are openly urged on TV to injure themselves if they can use it to punish a man (season 1 episode 10 Quantaco) and it's time we men stop this and have violent females behaviour permanently noted with police. Nothing will change for men until we have every single violent female classified with the police as such. Once this happens we should notice a drastic drop in the numbers of men arrested for domestic abuse.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 28th, 2016Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
I'm going through this right now, falsely accused of abusing/ Robbing an ex girlfriend, order of protection since july/august. Case is suppose to get early dismissal 1st March, Now she recently made another false complaint ,assault, threats, violation order protection. It's crazy. The woman has mental issues and don't want to separate from me. But is smart enough to minipulate the courts and police into punishing me for not wanting to be with her.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 28th, 2016Someone from Wallingford, CT signed.
Feb 28th, 2016Someone from Van Nuys, CA writes:
This does not apply only to men. I am a female married to another woman who is mentally ill. I was punched in the face by her, which caused damage to my jaw and tooth. She took my phone so I could not call police. She then hit herself in the mouth, causing bleeding ( which happens very easily. apparently) She then called the police herself and claimed I assaulted her. They believed her because she had some blood on her teeth. I was subsequently arrested ( I've never been in trouble in my entire life but she has) It was the biggest outrage I've ever experienced. She also bailed me out in the a.m and never filed for an RO since i came right back home. I was never a threat to her- this is clear upon sight. She only helped me due to the fact that she knew the allegation was false and she lied to police. I had explained to the police that she has emotional problems and has a history of self injury-which I could back up. Didn't matter.Long story short- I am fortunate enough to say the case was rejected but not without cost to my reputation and ultimately my marriage, which will be terminated soon.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 27th, 2016Someone from Selmer, TN writes:
My husbands ex-wife filed many false allegations after we filed for custody of his son due to her severe neglect and abuse. She was allowed to keep him each time she abused him because she was the mom and the dad is not considered. We spent multiple weekends at doctors and hospital immediately after picking him up. DCS refused to even open a case or do a safety check most of these times because her lawyer was also the only judge for the city of Waynesboro TN. We fired lawyers who did nothing but suck money from us, got a lawyer and got him removed on emergency with 4 HUGE boxes of documented abuse of her to the child that our previous lawyers were given but did nothing with. Our lawyer DJ Norton of Selmer TN filed emergency custody where we live, we got temporary custody 3 days after removal and then got permanent. After the child not being in the abusive home with her and her dad for a short period of time, she stabbed her dad multiple times all over and then cut his abdomen open and his guts were all hanging out. This happened in Clifton TN. Her dad was airlifted to Vanderbilt in Nasville, TN. We took the child to a psychologist all the way through. She refused the appointments and we were only able to take him when we had him. This psychologist wrote multiple letters for removal to DCS and our previous lawyer in Lawrenceburg TN telling them she was unstable and not safe for him to be around. No one did anything. DCS refused to even do a safety check any of these times. We have so much documented proof. By her just saying false allegations, she was allowed to freely abuse the child with no one doing anything. We have boxes of documented abuse by her to the child from multiple providers, police, hospital, and so on. And no one did anything to save this child from this nightmare because she was the mom and she would make up lies and false allegations. She had only her lies, no evidence as there was no evidence because all she did was lie. There was no consequence to her lies or what the child or we went through. This has to stop. Protect theses innocent children against these people with abusive personalities and mental disorders. Stop the mentality that a mom can be the only one to raise a child and knows best and whatever the mom says has to be true. Too many children are abused by the mom and too many children are used by the mom to abuse the dad and others in the child's life. You want to know why the courts and jails are overcrowded? It's because these abusive moms are raising these children and the children then wind up in the court system. Stop the cycle of abuse. Give jail time to these women who make false allegations to get their way. They only get rewarded for ruining others lives with their lies and they ruin theses children's lives. Care something for the children and stop the cycle of abuse.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 27th, 2016Someone from Bronx, NY writes:
Take my case to proof a drug addict victim is lying to protect a female that she call her mother drug addiction. I am innocent and was force to plea to stalking when I wasn't and arrested back to back on lies by the victim.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 27th, 2016Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
Its pretty bad when an innocent man is wrongly convicted.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 27th, 2016Someone from Spotsylvania, VA writes:
Ruining someone's life because a malicious false accusation is wrong. This should be punishable by law!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 27th, 2016Someone from Edison, NJ signed.
Feb 26th, 2016Someone from Bakersfield, CA signed.
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Feb 26th, 2016Someone from West Frankfort, IL writes:
My alleged victim was intoxicated when she made complaint. When she sobered she called states art and told truth. She signed affidavit stating truth. In her history she has made many D.V. complaints. She has been jailed for making false complaint. The state has all this information but I am still scheduled for trial shortly. This is malicious prosecution and is being continued only in an attempt to increase conviction percentage and add my money to the county coffersREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 25th, 2016Someone from Bakersfield, CA signed.
Feb 25th, 2016Someone from O Fallon, IL writes:
I have seen this happen first hand, it destroys family's, friends, and children. The people falsely accusing domestic violence are the ones who should be put in jail. I understand the police forces have to take every report seriously, but at least investigate both sides of the story and do not just believe the "victim".REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 25th, 2016Someone from O Fallon, IL writes:
I have seen this happen first hand, it destroys family's, friends, and children. The people falsely accusing domestic violence are the ones who should be put in jail.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 25th, 2016Someone from O Fallon, IL signed.
Feb 25th, 2016Someone from Lake Zurich, IL writes:
I have been convicted of D.V.. Where police have given false statements and foul play, No injuries were inflected at all, let alone by me. Which all of these allegations come in wake of a custody battle and at the time of me being most successful in my career, I'm African American, my accuser is White, along with White police. I'm looking for help and justice. Thank you, Cyril Hart (224)-358-1281REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelFeb 24th, 2016Someone from Alexandria, VA signed.
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Feb 24th, 2016Someone from Livonia, MI writes:
It's time that EQUALITY mean EQUALITY for all. I do not doubt that DV exist, I do know first /second hand that there are FALSE allegations made frequently and that police and procesquors are afraid to act even when the claim doesn't smell right.....or is not plausible.REPORT COMMENTS
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