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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
    Someone from Beeville, TX writes:
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    It has become a 'fashion' to use these false allegations in divorce cases just for financial gain.
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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
    Someone from Holden, MO writes:
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    I HAVE SEEN THIS MIS - USE MANY TIMES. IT ISN'T FAIR NOT NOT ALLOW A PERSON TO DEFEND THEMSELVES OR THE ACCUSSER HAVE NO BURDEN OF PROOF OR ANY PUNISHMENT FOR LYING. ON A PERSONAL NOTE: WE SPENT ALOT OF MONEY, LOST A VEHICLE & PERSONAL POSSESSIONS- FOR A MINOR'S LIES. WITH NO RECOURSE OR JUSTICE. DOESN'T OUR LAW SAY YOU ARE INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILT?
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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
    Someone from Birmingham, AL writes:
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    People are taking advantage of this to retaliate against their spouse and to gain an advantage in a divorce that they are most likely at fault for.
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  • Nov 3rd, 2011
    Someone from Hurst, TX writes:
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    The law must provide and protect equally and the rules of evidence must be followed. The Constitution says innocent until proven guilty. That means protect life and property, while giving the benefit of the doubt. 88% did it. 22% are innocent. We must protect the least of the breather from the most vicious of predators, the dishonest spouse. NOTHING is a bigger waste of resources or more devastating to the family than the FALSE allegation and INNOCENT punished.
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  • Nov 2nd, 2011
    Someone from Fairmont, WV writes:
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    It is well documented that false allegations are used to sway the court in custody issues but the word of the accuser is taken as credible regardless of evidence to the contrary. Those who have not experienced this nightmare can not begin to understand the devastating impact it has on the victim and their family. It has to be stopped.
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  • Nov 2nd, 2011
    Someone from Tacoma, WA writes:
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    I have been a witness on several occassions to where the accures had lied on the victim, which is totally unfair. If the situation were true I would not take the time to write this comment. When you cook a pancake both sides need to be flipped.
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  • Nov 1st, 2011
    Someone from Lakeland, FL writes:
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    The disproportionate number of bogus allegations and ruin to innocently accused does not warrant the perceived deterant it creates.
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  • Nov 1st, 2011
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  • Oct 31st, 2011
    Someone from Inwood, WV writes:
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    Going through this right now as I await a "Final Protective Order Hearing" based on a false allegation my wife made the day after she "happened" to see me at a lawyer's office where I was filing for divorce. I was forced to miss my youngest daughter's birthday this past weekend, and was not permitted to even call her or mail a birthday card. I sat by myself in a room and sang "Happy Birthday" out loud, hoping that somehow God would let her know I love her and wish I was there to celebrate her life. I really miss my kids.
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  • Oct 31st, 2011
    Someone from Crystal Lake, IL writes:
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    Lawmakers - wake up!
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  • Oct 31st, 2011
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  • Oct 31st, 2011
    Someone from Austin, TX writes:
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    If there is a way to stop these controlling women, I'd sure like to see it done. Everyone I've asked said the man has to wake up and stop the abuse himself. He can't do that if she has stockholmed syndromed him...then he's brainwashed and needs therapy to get back to his normal self before he met this monster of a woman.
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  • Oct 30th, 2011
    Someone from Toms River, NJ writes:
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    My ex-wife is using domestic violence laws to #1 Keep my children from me, and #2 to try to keep me from my children's school functions because she claims to "be afraid of me" though I have not broken any laws.
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  • Oct 30th, 2011
    Someone from Raleigh, NC writes:
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    It is clear that not only are people's constitutional rights being violated, but the question which is begging to be asked while those rights are trampled on is simply, "Do valid restraining orders actually work?" I think not. Truly violent people will ignore such trivia as a piece of paper! Yet, without one shred of evidence a judge will put his/her signature on a paper full of lies thereby setting up a chain of events to destroy another person's life. This outrage must stop! It is amazing that with the number of people who have been hurt with this type of court-sanctioned lies and false allegations with not even the smallest shred of evidence required our law makers would take notice. Where is the ACLU when they are needed?
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  • Oct 29th, 2011
    Someone from Sioux Falls, SD signed.
  • Oct 29th, 2011
    Someone from Truth Or Consequences, NM writes:
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    I too am a victim of false accusations. Right now I am in the fight of my life to protect my career and reputation and there is nothing out there that can really help those of us who can't afford it. Something must be done to stop it.
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  • Oct 29th, 2011
    Someone from Nacogdoches, TX signed.
  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Gainesville, VA writes:
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    I have seen this travesty in action, a woman says she is "afraid" a totally subjective FEELING and the court acts on it to the detriment of totally innocent men being played by a vindictive, conniving woman. It makes me ill, as a woman, to see others taking advantage of laws set in place to protect both MEN and WOMEN in abusive relationships.
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Woodstock, IL signed.
  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Opa Locka, FL writes:
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    Yes, I agree with you all how a woman could actually falsely accuse someone of domestic violence without that person being their. Imagine that the cops would actually take their statement a believe she says. To me they should put them under a lie detector test to see who is lying. Yes, I agree that the person who falsely accusing should pay for all court fees and also be put into a treatment plan. Even better have them spend a couple of weeks in jail to see how it feels.
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Opa Locka, FL writes:
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    Yes, I agree with you all how a woman could actually falsely accuse someone of domestic violence without that person being their. Imagine that the cops would actually take their statement a believe she says. To me they should put them under a lie detector test to see who is lying. Yes, I agree that the person who falsely accusing should pay for all court fees and also be put into a treatment plan. Even better have them spend a couple of weeks in jail to see how it feels.
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Opa Locka, FL writes:
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    Yes, I agree with you all how a woman could actually falsely accuse someone of domestic violence without that person being their. Imagine that the cops would actually take their statement a believe she says. To me they should put them under a lie detector test to see who is lying. Yes, I agree that the person who falsely accusing should pay for all court fees and also be put into a treatment plan. Even better have them spend a couple of weeks in jail to see how it feels.
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Quincy, MA writes:
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    The scales of justice are not balanced. and no one seems to care. Perjurs should be charged criminally.." thou shall not bear false witness" these harrassment restraining orders are being used as litigation strategies and the pleas of the innocent are going unheard...innocent until proven guilty....no proven guilty without any defense...RESTRAINING ORDER GRANTED!!!! THIS IS RUINING LIFES, PUTTING SEVERE BLEMISHES ON RECORDS AND THE PEOPLE WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THE VICTIMS THEY ARE THE VICTIMIZERS AND THEY ARE USING THE LAW TO HURT THE INTENDED TARGET.... LAWMAKERS, LAWYERS AND JUDGES YOU KNOW THIS IS WRONG SO WHY HAVENT YOU CHANGED IT?
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Brick, NJ writes:
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    This is so true. This happened to my son. His wife simply said that he was violent and she was able to get a restraining order. This had dire consequences when it came time for him to have residential custody of his only child. This woman IS mentally ill and we had reports to indicate this but were totally disregarded by the court. Where is the justice?
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  • Oct 28th, 2011
    Someone from Jessup, MD signed.
  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Hancock, NH writes:
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    Women who lie about domestic abuse should be liable for all court costs and punitive damages.
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Kirkland, WA writes:
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    We were in need third party mediating presence and ended up with a court date because of mandated process. Allow our finest to use their judgement and be a community representative.
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Howell, NJ writes:
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    My now X wife used and continues to use false charges of DV. Why? To gain an upper hand in our custody battle. Even though I can prove she lied there is no penalty for her! Yet I stand guilty at her word! Thank God my sons are old enough to know the truth and defend me. Toxic women who pull this crap belong in jail!
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Kirkland, WA writes:
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    When a family is going through a crisis they should be supported. I feel that law ennforcement has lost their common sense when addressing cases of DV. States are encouraged to maintain a certain quota to continue receiving federal funding. Prosecutors are just following protocols no matter what the circumstances are. Society has turned noble laws into statistics. I hope we could have other ways to measure DV and both parties get the same respect and their chance to share their case in a fair trial.
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Woodstock, IL signed.
  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Crystal Lake, IL writes:
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    This is no laughing matter! My relative, with no prior arrests is currently facing 2 felony charges for defending himself from his abusive wife. She attacked him, then ran to the police to report marks on her body, caused by his self-defense actions. She was the first to file a complaint, so he was arrested. Its an outrage!
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  • Oct 27th, 2011
    Someone from Crystal Lake, IL writes:
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    This has become epidemic!
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  • Oct 26th, 2011
    Someone from Castro Valley, CA writes:
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    I've been fighting a DVTRO/DVRO for two years in COCO county. Spent 13 days in jail; 125,000 bail. Supervised visits for a year. My "violent" deed? Text mssgs...no violence, no threats...just name calling after finding out my lovely (now ex-) wife was having sex with her friend's husband. Made me pay for the hotel room and lingerie, too.
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  • Oct 26th, 2011
    Someone from Vineyard Haven, MA writes:
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    I am a victim of false allegations by a woman named Luz Maria Liriano who lied to the police, the court and probably immigration to get her green card. She has destroyed my life with lies. I have proven in court many times that she is lying but she was still able to get a restraining order preventing me from being around my children. She has bankrupted me and cost me more than one job with her devastating lies.
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  • Oct 25th, 2011
    Someone from Weaverville, NC signed.