Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Oct 15th, 2014Someone from Versailles, KY signed.
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Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Yucaipa, CA writes:
This past yr I have learned, on a very intimate level, that people can claim anything they can "dream" up to a uniformed officer and in this country, you are GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT. My ex husband made a false allegation against my current boyfriend, filed for a restraining order, didn't serve it properly, but was awarded it regardless and has continued with his lies, so now, over the last 7 months battling him in court, I am only allowed to see my son through supervised visits. ALL BASED ON A FALSE ALLEGATION (and manipulation of my sons mind) he saw as his chance to screw me over for not taking him back. Absurd. My boyfriends ex has had him arrested 4x since their split/ 1 time on a 5150 claiming he was going to hurt himself.??? All to find out in the end, it's because she's developing a paper trail so he can't see the kids and she gets all rights. Yes, that came out of her mouth during a chit chat her and I had. (unbelievable) THE ONLY ONES WHO SUFFER ARE THE CHILDREN INVOLVED PEOPLE!!! False allegations need to be stopped immediately. Law should require there be a guideline for investigation before ANY action is taken. !!!! Some people are sick minded and selfish. So sad. BTW. October is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH. I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD BE MADE AWARE THERE IS ANOTHER SIDE TO SOME STORIES. Please, let me make myself clear however, I do realize there are cases of extreme abuse (have been a victim myself - the ex) and am behind punishing the guilty, I would just like to see some deeper investigation for all claimed abuse, to make sure the innocent aren't watching their lives get destroyed for a vendetta.Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Syracuse, NY signed.
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Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Sandy, OR writes:
Happened to me. In a second I went from respected to a homeless scumbag. She actually attacked me in my sleep after surgery. Out weighed by 130# she 330# 5' 1" I controlled her head like in third grade wrestling. I was told I was the aggressor by a woman cop I ****ed off 20 years ago when I out shot her on the police pistol range! I was too good of a reserve deputy. I advise all men to stay away from *****es your sister does not like and ALL super morbidly obese women. We all know that is most often a form of suicide which is an unstable trait already. Every man I know wrongly accused fits these two categories.. Man up and get your self a real woman. one who is fit an a type A personality. She won't have psycho issues. Question is when are American men going to man up and be worthy. It is tough guys, but worth it. I have never been happier with someone as my girlfriend now. But even though she's gorgeous, sexy and all I can handle sexually,,,,, she would kick the*****of half the men I know in any situation fight or survival. Thank God for Southern California and Iowa girls!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 14th, 2014Someone from Lakeland, FL signed.
Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Marina Del Rey, CA writes:
I am a victim of false allegations by a mentally ill woman who I befriended earlier in the year. She has a 4-year-old son and when her mental illness and drug abuse became so extreme that it affected the safety of her son, I reported her to CPS. The filing of a restraining order against me is just one activity she has undertaken to intimidate and harass me for reporting her to CPS.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 14th, 2014Someone from Riverside, CA signed.
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Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Victoria, TX signed.
Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Houston, TX writes:
I am being constantly arrested on false assault charges filed by my ex girlfriend, she is ruining my life through the justice system. What can I do to stop this?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 14th, 2014Someone from Cypress, CA signed.
Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Greensboro, NC signed.
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Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Bakersfield, CA signed.
Oct 14th, 2014Someone from Bakersfield, CA writes:
Im a witness to this story happening to my family member.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 13th, 2014Someone from Milpitas, CA signed.
Oct 13th, 2014Someone from Fort Lauderdale, FL signed.
Oct 13th, 2014Someone from San Antonio, TX writes:
We have been harassed by a former spouse using all manner of frivolous litigation that she has self filed without having to prove any of her allegations. These laws must be changed so that those of us who are doing the right thing are not falsely persecuted by systemic resources used under false pretenses.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 13th, 2014Someone from Julian, NC signed.
Oct 13th, 2014Someone from Bellerose, NY writes:
Men are not the only victims here I am a woman who has been falsely accused and have gotten arrested multiple times over false allegations. These allegations can ruin lives and since there is no reprocussions for making false allegations or wasting the governments resources these people keep abusing the system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 13th, 2014Someone from Post Falls, ID signed.
Oct 13th, 2014Someone from Mobile, AL writes:
I was accused via false allegation of Domestic Violence. It was my first and only arrest at age 56. My arrest photo was widely publicized via internet on Mugshots.com right after my arrest before any verdict is made. The city and county give or sale the arrest photo. I was presumed guilty and belittled by a Judge during arraignment. I was not convicted but the arrest record comes up on background checks. It costs money for Attorney fees, damages reputations, and there is little recourse one can take. The accuser is known to be violent, abuse drugs, and has an extensive arrest record. Mediation and fact finding should be exercised in cases of "he said, she said". There are mean people out there who even inflict self injury to inflate false charges. In the end, you have no rights, unless you have boat loads of money, cameras and sound surveillance, and truthful witnesses. It is a travesty of Justice in our Court Systems today.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 13th, 2014Someone from Denver, CO signed.
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Oct 13th, 2014Someone from Toledo, OH writes:
Double standards... The DV Industry... My wife was on Risperdal & other medications for bipolar where the side effects are worse than the actual symptoms before she flipped out on me and falsely accused me of Domestic violence. Her Mother I was warned of for 6 years not to trust took over meds,doctors appointments... Undermined my marriage when I felt I had no choice but to trust her a month prior when I explained to police why my wife might be acting weird and causing trouble with the neighbors and I took my wife home for her safety concerned for her health. This is when I discover 5 empty boxes of depecote(so?)the next morning as my poor wife had lied about taking her meds for so long. She made the terrible mistake of dropping her health insurance earlier that year or she would have/should have been hospitalized to avoid the narcissistic mother & save our good,"Christian" marriage. In the next few weeks leading up to my very tall and strong manic wife coming home from dinner & a doctors appointment where I was told I didn't need to be after 6 years of being faithful & loyal by my wife's side she spent a full week at home calling & begging me to rescue her from the "mad woman" mother. The mother was nosing her way into our personal lives,dictating how I should take care of my best friend and this is where risperdal was prescribed as my wife could barely stand on her own focus on a few things at a time,going from playful one minute to throwing a cutting board at me the next and laughing only to be ultra paranoid not sleeping or eating much wearing me out. In sickness & in health... I cared for her when I was clearly in over my head. Trying to play Super-husband. Trying to please too many people feeling inadequate with major acceptance issues stemming from an abusive Mother of my own my wife balanced out... I was losing my best friend and for all of my best efforts, the harder I tried to keep my wife safe & happy at home the more the Mother seemed to want me out of the equation. The harder I tried to help her keep her job as she feared losing it.. Me... The more the Mother insisted on changing doctors & new meds so fast to speed up my wife's recovery or destroy us faster. I know now how we were set up by the mother/family manipulated to fail... The justice system did nothing to clear my name and seemed obvious to my wife's being off meds or balancing out on new w/so many side effects. I should have filed false accusation charges but I was scared out of my mind,lost the church where we met,she worked & I proudly served as Volunteer by her side for 6 years regardless of how busy I was w/3 jobs up to the end. They took the only car we shared leaving me with the responsibilities of bills & debts on my own and that neighbor she thought was stealing our mail & out to kill me prior to my taking her home extorted over $3000 from me as I was too badly traumatized living in fear to know his lies of having a secret atty to "help" me were false. That neighborREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 13th, 2014Someone from Conroe, TX signed.
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Oct 13th, 2014Someone from Delano, CA writes:
My wife useing domice violance resting order agaist me.when d.a distance chrages agaist me.why goverment let this h appyen when I love her.and she used meREPORT COMMENTS
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