Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Oct 7th, 2014Someone from Land O Lakes, FL signed.
Oct 7th, 2014Someone from Carmichaels, PA signed.
Oct 7th, 2014Someone from Cumming, GA writes:
On my 18th birthday my mother evicted me. So I told he don't expect me to do anything . I will ride out my last 30 days here at the house. She did not like that.one 2 weeks later she asked me to do something I told her no. She calls the cops says I'm being unruly (because as a juvenile I can be arrested if she calls and says I'm not listening) but I am 18 and the operator tells her I'm am an adult and there is nothing they can do about that. Then her demeanor Completley changes then she goes on to say she feels threatened by me becausei was yelling at her. They now send 3 officers to my residence and have me removed in the form of arrest on the charges of simple assault. I'm 18 years old and have never laid a hand on my mother. And I will probably have a domestic violence on my record rendering me from lots of things in my life. Screw this system. We are in a police state. The citizens are the real victims of these policy enforcers.Oct 7th, 2014Someone from East Grand Forks, MN signed.
Oct 7th, 2014Someone from Westbrook, ME signed.
Oct 7th, 2014Someone from Topeka, KS writes:
My wife has now filedd 3 or 4 PFA's against whenn she got mad enough to split up she has admitted to lieing about all of them and the last two was admitted to a judge in turn still awarded her custody of our children due to my second shift job and she never got in trouble at all and i lost everything for weeks until my hearing on the matterREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Cheney, WA writes:
I am an innocent man, a victim of DV. My wife regularly abused me & blamed me for it, she has wrongly accused me of abuse and ruined my life. Her word is taken at face value. Even when she was arrested for public DV the prosecutor cut her a deal because I was "not really in danger" who would ever say that to a woman? There is no justice in the systemREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Easton, PA writes:
WOW! Sry, for the rest of you, going through the same thing I am. Didn't realize our judicial system was this messed up. Thought I was being singled out. My daughter is also bi-polar, which is kept a secret. I, have tourettess syndrome, which 3 1/2 yrs ago through much abuse before hand, never did what happened during an illegal misconduct by an ex-employer, called an exacerbation. I call it torture. Well, my daughter ever since then, has taken my disabilities and so happily used them against me. Beautiful, huh? My dad had become critically ill when I went to stay with him, and during this time, my 17 year old daughter decides to go to the court house, unbeknownst to me, until I got a call from the sheriffs, who came and arrested me, twice btw now. Uh, yes, I threatened to shoot her a year ago, left her down the shore a year ago, and 7 other dates on the paper.. Well, I never had a gun when she lived with me, she stole the car and left me down the shore very sick with drugs and alchohol in a car all in my name, and, in fact, I have all the police reports to prove all of these things, BUT I, ALSO AM NOT ALLOWED TO SPEAK. FACT, MY LAWYER NEVER SHOWED UP ONCE, EVEN WHEN I WAS ARRESTED FOR CALLING MY DAUGHTER. SHAME, HER NUMBER CALLED MY HOUSE. I have been and am so passionate about, advocating for; Womens Act Rights (which I supposedly now violated), I am all about, and a member of VAST-Valley Against Sex Trafficking (locally in our very own community) and I advocate for very good causes and to get creeps off the streets and to get congress to stiffen these lame laws in place and I raise awareness. I LET MY VOICE BE HEARD, SO THAT OUR CHILDREN, WOMEN, BOYS, MEN, WHOMEVER, DO NOT EVER HAVE TO LIVE IN FEAR OR BE HURT BY ANYONE. I WAS AND I DO GOOD WITH WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH. However, none of who I am has ever came up, except the made up stuff, and no one will listen. I WONT STOP UNTIL THEY DO. I WILL SIGN THE PETITION, AND AM GOING TO START ONE MYSELF. THANK YOU FOR THIS. GOD BLESS!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Martin, GA signed.
Oct 6th, 2014Someone from Upland, CA writes:
I have never ever touched my wife. Yet she got a domestic violence restraing order against by simply saying she was in fear. I have no criminal record yet the judge took her at the value of her words. Now i am facing an uphill battle in court to get my kids and an equatable divorce settlement. She has used the system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Bothell, WA signed.
Oct 6th, 2014Someone from Pittsburgh, PA signed.
Oct 6th, 2014Someone from Roseburg, OR signed.
Oct 6th, 2014Someone from Cleveland, OH writes:
Yes a woman can falsely accuse a man, yes she will get everything. Even if you catch her admitting she lied or she is caught in her lies the system does nothing to rectify the damage caused. You are a man, you will lose everything. Your life will be destroyed and the courts or the women advocates or child services will do nothing to correct the wrong. We as men are nothing but crap. We need a voice, we need advocates that can match up against what women have. We as men are constantly being abused by an archaic system. We need a voice that is strong, that can affect judicial races, that has the power to changeREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Groveland, FL signed.
Oct 6th, 2014Someone from Burlington, KY writes:
I am not that address now why police told me don't come that place I am the one hu is paying the rent power water n all infant needs she need to be out of my name the leas of the apt. Wen I refused she made wrong statement of domestic I've first court tomorrowREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Seattle, WA writes:
I have been falsely accused. Now I will have difficulty getting a job in the field that I have a passion for. My life is shot and the court refuses to listen to my girlfriend as all of this was an argument and someone called the police. This has gone to far. When there are actually men out there that are horrible, I am far from one. Please help.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Seattle, WA writes:
My boyfriend is in jail because of this and no one will listen to me. I don't have a voice. It breaks my heart and my family. This has to stop.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 6th, 2014Someone from Burlington, KY signed.
Oct 5th, 2014Someone from Huntsville, AL writes:
Until recently, I had absolutely no idea that a United States citizen could be tried and convicted without the support of strong evidence. I am absolutely appalled that my taxes are contributing to a system so flawed and bias. I am a woman, and I know exactly how much damage I could create if I were to maliciously file a false allegation against a man. I am 100% supportive of persecuting those that are found guilty of any crime, in fact I believe that the U.S is too lenient when sentencing most citizens that commit crimes. However, I am a firm believer that every individual is granted their right to a fair trial, and only subjected to the consequences when and if they are found guilty beyond reasonable doubt. A felony is not just a simple, move-on-with-my-life conviction, it is a very damaging, very life-changing charge. Like others, I have become an indirect victim of this disturbingly impaired legal concern. I am currently (and have been for over a year) living with and dating an extremely passive man that has absolutely no history of violence, crime, or mental issues. Unfortunately, His ex-girlfriend (whom has a history of domestic violence), has accused him of strangling her. I understand that my relationship is not a valid source of evidence in this case and I am not argueing that it should be. What I am objecting to however, is the lack of evidence used to convict him (it is nothing more than a he-said-she-said situation). The court, without any sound proof, is pushing him to sign a plea bargain and morally I can't support that. I believe in integrety and in standing up for yourself but in this situation the consequences are far too devastating. No American should feel bullied into admitting guilt when they are clearly innocent. How do we change this? How do we protect the true victims, both of domestic violence and of false allegations? My only hope is that this petition is loud enough to bring about change. This, my fellow citizens, is the United States of America...and I think that it's about time we acted like it!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 5th, 2014Someone from Philadelphia, PA writes:
I was recently arrested for the same things, based on lies. She is now harassing my family with DHS(child services) after my sister and writing letters to my brothers work to get him fired. She is an alcoholic and a druggie, but the courts let the kids stay with her without questions.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 5th, 2014Someone from Missouri City, TX writes:
My brother has been awaiting trial for almost 2 years now to clear his name against his now ex-wife and accuser. A family court awarded his ex-wife a bailment of our grandmother's home (that was inherited by my brother) via a protective order against my brother. Meanwhile this irresponsible ex-wife lost our grandmother's home, so now my niece and nephew are homeless and destitute, their father is still held in jail awaiting trial. Our family courts are the worst place for our families to go for family disputes----jails, shelters, and foster homes--- and you know who goes where--- the family courts would love to help your family today.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 5th, 2014Someone from Agoura Hills, CA signed.
Oct 5th, 2014Someone from Brant Rock, MA writes:
I am a domestic violence advocate and have passed many Laws on behalf of my sister Patricia Gordon Murphy, who was brutally murdered by her husband Robert Murphy on August 1, 1993, in front of their then 3 year old son David, who was only 3 years old then and is now in his twenties and still remembers this horrific event today. I had one Law in particular passed Descent and Distribution of Property passed in Mass., a first in the Nation, also the Presumption of Custody Law, Lizzies Law, I also was instrumental in getting DV Laws to be reinforced by adding more time to sentences for abuse against a victim. However, I have seen on many occasions where male victims are abused by women, every single day and that isn't right at all. There is one case that I am working on and that is a nephew who was accused of beating his aunt, (they are both adults) This sick woman actually ripped her shirt and then said that her uncle beat her, which of course was not true, and I know this because I am now fighting this woman in court for harassment. She is not only narcisstic. I truly believe that she is a psychopath by nature. Needless to say, she is a pathological liar. She had tried to take me, (I am only a neighbor, who owns my house, she only rents and has been living there for only 3 months) She has accused me of things that were not true, but serious lies against me. What kind of person does that? Well, put it this way, she accused her nephew of crimes of abuse that go way past any scale of abuse. serious allegations of abuse, that never happened. She is an alcoholic, this I have seen for myself, drug addict, etc. I have also seen this, after all, she lives right next door to me. She brings in all of the heroin addicts in the neighborhood. She parties all night long with them, and throws her beer bottles, on my property in a deliberate attempt to incite me. She also accused me of something that I never did and proceeded to lie to the police and the court. I was told to get a harassment order against her over 2 months ago, but I thought at the time to be amicable about this, but of course, that was not to be. She turned the table around and said that I was harassing her. This was not true. She is not only spiteful, but very evil by nature. She also works for the National Guard and uses this to her advantage. which of course, we know that this is not what the National Guard represents. That is character unbecoming an officer. I believe she has also poisoned my dog. I got in touch with her nephew and she has done this before. My dog whom my family love is now dying. What kind of person could do such a thing? As I am speaking to you, she is passing. This woman was in Abu Gray prison, in the scandal that happened. She was torturing so called prisoners there. She was let go and then the prison closed within 2 months. and through much embarrassment regarding the Government, in the Bush era. And nobody has caught on to this woman??REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 5th, 2014Someone from Brant Rock, MA signed.
Oct 5th, 2014Someone from Aliso Viejo, CA writes:
Me and my wife had an arguement last Monday, and she is known to get physical with me. On monday I was laying in bed and she came in the room and started yelling at me because the kids kept coming down stairs where she was watching tv. She started calling me a deadbeat dad, and worthless. We both were arguing when she hit me in my chest. At that time i started revording her on my phone and she got furious and tried getting the phone. I told her if she hit me again i was calling the police. When she hit me the second time in the head, i called 911. While on the phone she attacked me, hitting me and scratched my arm by trying to take the phone. The 911 operator said lock myself in the room which i did and she kicked the door in. When the police came the listened to the recording and took pictures of my injuries. My wife went to jail for domestic violence for the second time. The kuds were left with me. I went the next day and pilles a tro. When she got out of jail, she then went and filed a tro on me saying i beat her, the kids and torture them. Somehow a different judge granted hers with no evidence. I was then served and recieved death threats vua text from her brother. I went back to court the next day and the clerk said hers takes precedence since it was filed sooner. They said i wouldnt be able to see the judge until monday since there is no physical threat to the children. She has only been physical with me and not the kids. The kids went to her by police because she said i beat them. I had the kids the whole week while she was in jail, and i work two jobs and go to school. I had to drop out of school due to this, and now living in my car as i was forced to leave my home due to her false accusations. I have no family or friends in the area as Im from Michigan and currently in california as I stayed out here when I got out of the Army two years ago. Im going back infront of judge next week, but in meantime im homeless. I dont get how a tro is just granted on simple accusations. Ive never been arrested for domestic violence, but she has twice. She has never called the police, or took the kids to the hospital or even made any accusations of child abuse until she was released from jail this last time. She never told the police that night of me beating my kids. She did say I hit her as hard as I could in the side of her head, but the police knew she was lieing as she had no injuries at all. Im a 6'2", 250lbs male. If i hit her as she said there would be a mark or something. In the meantime until I get to court next week the kids are with her. The woman that abused me, and Im a homeless veteran. I cant see or talk to my kids until this is cleared up, and god only knows what she is telling them right now. The judicial system is suppose to put the best interest of the kids in mind. How is that so in this case. I was ordered in the tro to pay her 2600 a month, and my monthly income is around 3000. I dont get how the system can blankly violated my righREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 4th, 2014Someone from Plano, TX signed.
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Oct 4th, 2014Someone from New York, NY writes:
ISLAMIC LAW / SAUDI ARABIAS GOT THE RIGHT IDEA, ANY WOMAN WHO THINKS SHE CAN RUIN A MANS LIFE BY MAKING A FALSE ACCUSATION OF RAPE, GETS STONED TO DEATH, BRING OUT ON AROUND THE WORLD !!!! ! !! !REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 4th, 2014Someone from Eugene, OR signed.
Oct 4th, 2014Someone from Chicago, IL writes:
Women abuse the system and are granted their wishes when a man is falsely accused and locked up. Its a shame, because the arresting officers should be able to use discretion and tell if the woman is telling the truth or not. A not for profit needs to be started to assist with men who have had to deal with such catastrophes.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 3rd, 2014Someone from Auburndale, FL writes:
My ex has somehow survived almost 3 years playing the system to support all her needs. In addition she rotates between 2 to 4 different men, at the same time, to cover anything else. When I finally figured her out, I made it clear that we were done. Out of pure vingence, she made claims of domestic violence, although the report clearly stated, I was not at the scene, no visable marks or bruses, and only witness was her minor child from a previous marriage. The lessor of two evils was a class, 12 weeks no big deal..... till she claimed I violated an injunction.... Too explain why I choose to plea is nine plus years ago I got into some trouble, all stemming from an adiction. None of these charges were violent in any way, but feloneys non the less. In Polk County Florida even when you a prson sentance, or probation NOTHING is forgotton. All these years later being productive, Im viewed as a multiple convicted felon," DANGERIOUS". Didn't matter I was a Generaal Manager of a National Landscape company, clean, honest, REFORMED. All it takes is a female to cry wolf, and its a done deal. If the courts would look half as hard at the accusser too the would find.... 1) multiple claims on every major relationship she ever had. 2)She is the one with the violent charges 3) in the mist of a custody battle and so on and so on..... HELPREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 3rd, 2014Someone from Haltom City, TX signed.
Oct 3rd, 2014Someone from Kent, WA writes:
I would like to also add that women from outside of the US, come to the US under fiancƩe visas, get pregnant, get married and then file false domestic violence charges against their new husband in order to obtain "special" status to expedite their work permits or other status. THIS MUST BE STOPPED!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 3rd, 2014Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
I'm going through something similar he said she said situation an i have a kid on the way dec 25 with my current girlfriend... its so stressfulREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 3rd, 2014Someone from Albuquerque, NM writes:
My boyfriend is currently in jail for tjis exact thing. His ex who is a very violent, jealous and vengeful women repeatedly through their 6year relationship would start fights, locking him in they house, hitting, biting, stratching and throwing anything in reach also doing massive property damage. He being much larger then her would take the abuse till it got unbareable and then would try to leave or restrain her but never hit her even when she was punching him in the face. He tried to leave multiple times but stayed because of their young son. After a routine fight where neighbors called the cops he was arrested and was talked into pleading no contest to assult. After he was released and we started dating he got an indictment for felony battery. When she found out we were together she had made a false report of abuse. Even though he hadn't even seen here in weeks. Because of the plea they indicted him. After bailing him out she continued claiming to ne scared making up reports and using the courts to harass us. When he filed for visiting rights she claimed we had her kid napped. Though we had no contact with her in over 5 months, he is now sitting in jail with a bail of 100, 000 cash only. This is a guy who had no criminal record and just wanted to see his son. His trial isn't set for another 5 months and because we can't afford a private attorney and definitely can't afford the bail he is sitting locked up and no one cares he was the true victim of abuse. She has now focused on me trying to claim I put a hit on her, in hopes of also getting me charged. Telling me she will make sure I lose my kids and so on. Because she is the "victim" wr can't seem to get any one to listen to the truth or help us. She is a drug user who is bitter and the courts ate helping her ruin our lives. What do we do, where do we turn for help against this crazy women? Please helpREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 3rd, 2014Someone from Albuquerque, NM writes:
My boyfriend is currently in jail for tjis exact thing. His ex who is a very violent, jealous and vengeful women repeatedly through their 6year relationship would start fights, locking him in they house, hitting, biting, stratching and throwing anything in reach also doing massive property damage. He being much larger then her would take the abuse till it got unbareable and then would try to leave or restrain her but never hit her even when she was punching him in the face. He tried to leave multiple times but stayed because of their young son. After a routine fight where neighbors called the cops he was arrested and was talked into pleading no contest to assult. After he was released and we started dating he got an indictment for felony battery. When she found out we were together she had made a false report of abuse. Even though he hadn't even seen here in weeks. Because of the plea they indicted him. After bailing him out she continued claiming to ne scared making up reports and using the courts to harass us. When he filed for visiting rights she claimed we had her kid napped. Though we had no contact with her in over 5 months, he is now sitting in jail with a bail of 100, 000 cash only. This is a guy who had no criminal record and just wanted to see his son. His trial isn't set for another 5 months and because we can't afford a private attorney and definitely can't afford the bail he is sitting locked up and no one cares he was the true victim of abuse. She has now focused on me trying to claim I put a hit on her, in hopes of also getting me charged. Telling me she will make sure I lose my kids and so on. Because she is the "victim" wr can't seem to get any one to listen to the truth or help us. She is a drug user who is bitter and the courts ate helping her ruin our lives. What do we do, where do we turn for help against this crazy women? Please helpREPORT COMMENTS
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