Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Oct 26th, 2014Someone from Farmington, MO signed.
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Oct 26th, 2014Someone from Gainesville, GA writes:
In April of this year, I attempted to intervene in my 18 year old son's drug abuse problem. This included the abuse of alcohol, marijuana, LSD and heroin, which my ex-wife had allowed to occur at her house where my son lived. When I suggested he enter a Rehab Program, my wife filed a TPO against me. I had Joint Custody of my son for four years prior to this incident and we had a great relationship. Upon receipt of the TPO, I was shocked to read the flagrant lies she had alleged, one of which that I had been abusive to my son. Bear in mind, my son was 18 years old, an adult and he NEVER filed a TPO or criminal charges against me. The Judge, Martha Christian, acknowledged the falsehoods in the TPO, struck them from the official record, but ALLOWED the TPO against me. Her order included me NOT having contact with my 18 year old son! I spoke with the Forsyth County Sheriff's Office (GA) and they assured me if I contacted my son, I would "go to jail for 10 years". Fast forward to September, 2014. My Mother suffered a stroke and was placed in a hospital and ultimately passed in a local Hospice. My brother, with the assistance of my ex-wife, filed a TPO against me in spite of the fact I HAD NOT SPOKEN TO HIM in over 10 years! He then had his son contact me 6 times from a Burner Phone Number and when I returned the missed calls, I was threatened with arrest by the Cherokee AND Forsyth County Sheriff's Offices (GA) for "violating the TPO". Both Sheriff's Offices assured me that I COULD NOT visit my dying Mother because she was my brother's "immediate family" and if I did I would be arrested. The TPO was filed on 9/4//14 and we went to Magistrate's Court on 9/24/14, where the TPO was thrown out for lack of sufficient evidence. Sadly, my Mother passed at 12:30a.m. that very day and I was not even allowed to be with her during her final 21 days on this earth. Both of these are PERFECT EXAMPLES of how arbitrary and illegal the enforcement of TPO's are in Forsyth County, GA and the United States. A TPO protects MINOR CHILDREN, not adults of family members. They are supposed to apply to family members who LIVE TOGETHER or people who have recently cohabited. I was divorced from my ex-wife in 2009, my son was 18 years old and my Mother was 85 years old. These actions are a clear and criminal violation of my civil rights. I have not spoken to my son since April 12th since his Mom told him he would not have to attend Rehab if he did not speak to me. I was not allowed to visit my 85 year old Mother on her death bed although she had not lived with my brother since 1979! These events have devastated me emotionally and psychologically. I will be agreeable to offer my assistance to any organization that is willing to seek legislation that will rectify this draconian nightmare in our legal system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 26th, 2014Someone from Cockeysville, MD writes:
My crazy Bi-polar ex girlfriend is doing this to me right now.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 26th, 2014Someone from Fountain Valley, CA writes:
The police are out of control and the courts along with them. Why does not anyone have the desire or the balls to do something? They promote guilty until proven innocent, they promote conflict among family, they are against family yet say they do it to protect family members, they are against forgiveness, and against the founding principals of this country that most everyone in the country still believes in and follows despite what the major news networks will tell you. They are hypocrites, liars, and thieves. They take actions that are clearly and decisively the complete opposite of the principals this country was founded on, They stand for principals that are contrary to the principals that the vast majority of the population still believe in, and they oppose some of the most fundamental principals of almost every major religion in the world. The fact that this problem exists extends beyond domestic violence alone. The manner in which all of you have been treated in regards to domestic violence charges is deplorable and if not stopped soon, could set a precedence that at some point not so far down the road, would give absolute power to law enforcement and the courts to throw anyone in jail for any reason and to leave them there at will for as long as they "feel" is necessary. This power, attitude, movement, whatever you want to call it is dangerous, vicious, and anyone not opposed to it and actively doing something, anything, to stop it is a fool and God help you when they come for you! Violence is bad. Lying is bad. Speeding on the highway is bad. "Domestic Violence" is what they claim they are trying to stop. Why domestic violence? Because it is politically correct and hard for someone to speak against it. What would someone say, "Don't protect that poor woman from her terribly violent beast of a husband" You see they chose "Domestic Violence" because it gives them an easy path to gain what they really want and that is to have the power to throw you in jail at any time for any reason and to keep you there as long as it serves their purpose. I know this sounds crazy but let me tell you what crazy is. Crazy is when no one does anything to stop the police and other officials from protecting us by locking us all up and doing it based on hearsay, a letter, a phone call, a wink, or a sarcastic joke. any comment will suffice and of course it is expensive and difficult to sue them because there are "immunity laws to protect them to a certain extent. That is crazy. If you are chaerged and not found guilty, the person charging you should pay!!!!!!! They should reimburse you for you time, your pain, your suffering, your humility, your reputation, and your future loses and this reimbursement should be automatic not something you should have to fight for. Why should you have to pay such a high price for something they should not even be involved in the first place. The vast majority of the time the people would have been better off all aroREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Cockeysville, MD writes:
In 2012 I was accused of domestic violence. My son's mother told the judge that I attempted to kill her. Without a police report, without any evidence at all, I was sentenced. And even with evidence that she lied I'm still having trouble proving my innocence.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Dexter, MN signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Highland, MD writes:
False allegations are being used by women nationwide to help steal their children from their fathers. I know this personally. Their attorneys advised some of it and there are books written about it. Look up "Hit Him Where It Hurts". I live my life everyday voluntarily under video and audio surveillance to protect myself from the woman who controls my child all because of false allegations. a woman I am subject to abuse from everyday and no one corrects her actions of hate or control.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Roseville, CA writes:
Children should not ever be used to bring billions of tax payers dollars to fuel states political agendas.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Bothell, WA signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Hagerstown, MD writes:
True intention Gone Wrong to Tell Someone and Living in Fear. I am disabled, no right hand and no vision in left eye. with my two children I am a victim of the following: when I exposed my estranged ex Medhin H Awala, an Ethiopian citizentic for Domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, illegal activities (signed for illegal person to receive government benefits), frauduently or bribely (an Ethiopian transelator in MVA) to get a driver license from Gaithersburg, MD, human trafficing and for Immigration sham marriage, she sheltered sponsored and sheltered by Montgomary Count MD DSS and VAWA then trained and claimed false allegations against me with my two innocent children)as soon as she received her "green card." DSS and VAWA blocked us from basic justice and silenced the victims. Then Family law and family court of Montgomary County, MD sentenced us for pain strugle, suffer, fear, loss fedral job, loss two carsr, bankrupcy, loss health (underthreatment since 2009) and homelessnes. She owned all our belongings including garnished my retirement. True definition of DV in Montgomery County MD is "protected criminals and victimize" innocent citizens by Family Law-Family Court. I guess, you dont expect if you dont test..humanities cry.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Sparks, NV signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Oklahoma City, OK writes:
I KNOW SOMEONE GOING THROUGH THAT NOW WE HIRED HIM A PRIVATE ATTORNEY..I HOPE IT HELPS...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Bel Air, MD writes:
A man automatically loses any court case when it comes down to "he said, she said". Society needs to protect anyone who is unable to defend themselves. No question there are abusers that deserve harsh punishment for their crimes. Some of the accused, however, are innocent.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Reno, NV signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Sparks, NV writes:
True victims of Domestic Violence are wronged and degrated by all those whom misuse the justice system as a tool for revenge.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
Just because you have a child does not mean that you can be a MOM.. False allegations to a man, a father is not noticed!! Time to look at facts !!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
Just because you have a child does not mean that you can be a MOM.. False allegations to a man, a father is not noticed!! Time to look at facts !!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from West Palm Beach, FL signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Bothell, WA writes:
Rape Shield laws is the feminist answer to equality? Men found guilty in the court of public opinion. While the accuser hides from her victim.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Chicago, IL writes:
Not only Florida but Illinois does not even have a clear definition of domestic violence.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Miami, FL writes:
Have you been falsely accused or wrongly prosecuted for domestic violence? False allegations and wrongful prosecutions harm the innocent, squander resources, and shortchange true victims.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 25th, 2014Someone from Melrose, MN signed.
Oct 25th, 2014Someone from Anchorage, AK writes:
In honor of Mike Pedarock..falsely accused of domestic violence by an angry ex girlfriend on drugs...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2014Someone from Kempner, TX signed.
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Oct 24th, 2014Someone from Rosedale, MD writes:
Im a strong supporter of victimsbof domestic violence, but someone I know and love had bogus allegations made against him out of revenge and it destroyed his life-homeless, lost employment, lost children's.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2014Someone from Peshtigo, WI writes:
My coward of an ex-husband (allegedly) gave me years of abuse, to include bruises, broken bones, financial ruin, custody battles and when I was finally brave enough to speak up about this, he managed to twist the story around and make himself the victim. This victimized me twice; first to endure his abuse, then again as I watch those who would help me turn against me. This is not a man/woman issue, but a cowardly choice abusers make. If a fire alarm is pulled falsely, does the fire department stop responding? No. And if you falsely pull a fire alarm there is consequences. Everyone knows that. If you report a child or a spouse being abused, they tell you there have been so many false reports made that they will not respond anymore until something 'really bad' happens. There should be strong consequences for those who file false reports! And all reports should be investigated regardless. My life is a silent prison and everyone involved says there is nothing they can do about it. This cannot continue.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2014Someone from Lakeland, FL signed.
Oct 24th, 2014Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
yes my ex is using this towards me and I know that I am NOT that person that she claimsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 24th, 2014Someone from Massapequa Park, NY signed.
Oct 23rd, 2014Someone from Lindenhurst, NY signed.
Oct 23rd, 2014Someone from Mishawaka, IN writes:
Conspiracy? Plotted? My x moved in the new boyfriend and slept with him in front of me. One night they both crawled in bed with me. They called the police on me 2 or 3 times per day and filed 30 reports of allegations. Cameras came into the house, things began to be stolen and i was accused of what he was removing. I was moving belongings from a 6000 sq foot home after 17 years and needed a place for my 3 dogs. My x finally got me arrested on a lie. He took my dogs, piano, everything. I was found 'not guilty' and his testimony was impeached for inconsistent statements and the new boyfriend was impeached as a witness for following the lies. The same video he had me arrested on also set me free because it revealed him tormenting me and locking up my possessions deliberately. I am a survivor of false allegations of domestic violence, tormented for months, but it destroyed my life. He was awarded by taking all my things and hurting me through keeping my dogs and lost my job over the arrest. It is so clear of a set up and the judge and attorney caught him easy in the lie. He is also a pathological liar since childhood and severe dyslexia through high school. Because he got away with lying his whole life and was never punished, he knew he could also get away with false allegations. But he would not succeed in he court room. My attorney busted him 3 times for lying. It was as if my X on the stand was inventing stories and mixing different stories, like a child and he smiled while doing it. I stayed with someone for 17 years and never really knew who he was until I saw his sick head lie on the witness stand. I also had police tell me they were not on his side and I think eventually the whole department began to realize. After all, he called the police on me at 2 am, accusing me, when I was fast to sleep!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 23rd, 2014Someone from Babylon, NY signed.
Oct 23rd, 2014Someone from Sterling, CO writes:
Please pray for me. I am one of those people that is facing this charge. Logan county Colorado M3 harassment.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 23rd, 2014Someone from Copiague, NY writes:
I attended an event October 14, 2014 at Touro Law School where Kathleen Rice, Touro Alumna and Nassau County District Attorney, was the guest speaker on the topic of Domestic Violence. I asked her if the prosecutors office has brought charges against anyone that has falsely claimed domestic violence especially in cases of divorce and custody battles. Although she seemed somewhat surprised by the question she answered honestly saying that her office is aware of the problem but has not acted on it. The pattern of mostly women claiming domestic violence just to improve their position in custody and child support will sadly continue until these cases are taken seriously and prosecuted. I ask you, is this equality?REPORT COMMENTS
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