Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Oct 19th, 2014Someone from Oakland, FL signed.
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Oct 19th, 2014Someone from Fresno, CA writes:
In the process of habeas corpus, 5 diff clauses and a more then classic story. Not only did she completely lie, but the officer did, my attorney, probation multiple times. This is a story made worse cuz they can play a victim and men don't like to see women cry. Truly have so many reason it goes bad and others add to it making what was domestic against me, horrifically shameful and liable.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 19th, 2014Someone from Saint Paul, MN writes:
I have seen this law actively being abused by the police toward innocent parties while the true abuser is continuing to abuse not only his ex, but now his daughter, and no one pays any attention to the truth!!! DANCO must be eliminated! It empowers those who know nothing of the truth in these situations and it adds to the abuse of the innocent!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 19th, 2014Someone from Springfield, MA signed.
Oct 19th, 2014Someone from Melrose, MN writes:
I am currently titled the "alleged victim" in a DANCO case.. the one accused (my best friend and boyfriend of over 3yrs) is being FALSELY accused. I have been fighting this for over a year. The one serving time is only in jail because my abusive ex-husband has told police the "accused" was in my house. After multiple police searched my home without a warrant or permission, they didn't find the "accused" in my house, but weeks later arrested him anyway on 10/17/14. This kind of thing is continuing to go on and on.and has since July, 2013. I, myself have been bullied by the police, handcuffed thrown against the police car and yelled at simply because I respectively declined the officer's to enter my home based solely on what my true abusive ex-husband claimed that the accused was in my home. The county attorney has also bullied me and did not let me know my rights to request a speedy trial back when the original arrest was made in July, 2013. There was a hearing scheduled for Oct. 28th, 2014 to have this DANCO finally dropped, but yesterday, Oct. 17, 2014 law enforcement arrested the accused like they always do about a week before any scheduled hearing. We had a little over a week to finally have this been over with until he was arrested again .. FALSELY accused, no evidence, but according to the DANCO law ANYONE who says there was a violation of a DANCO order, including my abusive ex-husband who WANTS my boyfriend in jail, HAS to be arrested!!! This law is NOT helping the innocent.. in fact the wrong man is in jail and facing multiple felony charges due to my ex-husband who SHOULD be the one in jail! There is SO much more to this. NO ONE seems to be helping. "alleged victim" (of the STATE of MN., law enforcement and ex-husband.. NOT the "alleged victim" of the one serving time)REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 18th, 2014Someone from Santa Rosa, CA signed.
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Oct 18th, 2014Someone from San Antonio, TX writes:
Watched a friend of mine lose battle after battle trying to get someone to listen to his side while his exwife used the "he abused me and probably the kids" to be awarded a move hundreds of miles away and then to alienate his children from himREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 18th, 2014Someone from Vassar, MI writes:
I am currently watching my entire life shatter and crumble as a result of a drug addict making a false accusation of domestic violence. She worked in conjunction with a dirty police officer to get me put in jail so they could have sex, party, and rob me while i was in jail. I am 30 years old, with a clean record, holding a Bachelor's in Criminal Justice, and have NEVER been involved in any form of violence. I have been an advocate against domestic violence my entire life. The "victim" who is accusing me has done this three times prior and apparantly this is how she ends relationships. She has been charged with falsifying a police report and domestic violence herself on these past incidents. However, here I am on the verge of becoming homeless because of this false accusation. I have lost my job (which I love). I work with troubled youth in a juvenile placement facility. I cannot go back to work until I am cleared of these false charges. I have lost my CPL. I have zero money coming in and my bills are not stopping. The court system is moving slowly and continues to postpone my court dates. How is this fair? I am continually victimized over and over again. The worst part i I have tons of evidence proving my innocence and not one person cares. This includes video of the officer breaking into my house after his shift. An 8 minute video of the woman breaking into my house.A text record of talking to a detective while she was claiming the violence was occurring. And tons of other things. NOBODY cares that my life is in ruins and I have been victimized!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 18th, 2014Someone from Galax, VA signed.
Oct 17th, 2014Someone from Las Vegas, NV signed.
Oct 17th, 2014Someone from Rigby, ID signed.
Oct 17th, 2014Someone from Napoleon, OH signed.
Oct 17th, 2014Someone from Newburgh, NY writes:
Because of the false statement of allegations i've been limited time to speak to my kids no one person cares spite i live 68 miles and have done nothing then voice my opinion to be knock at. Evidence should be the main and not of just voice of someone that is abusive and controlling now to turn children against the other parent because they want to divorce and the no fault divorce should be a law banned it helps the one hiding asset and liesREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 17th, 2014Someone from Taylor, PA signed.
Oct 17th, 2014Someone from Akron, OH writes:
This happened to my son by a vengeful girlfriend. He was arrested and put overnight in jail, and who knows what will happen next!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 17th, 2014Someone from Tallahassee, FL writes:
It is incredible how the accuser's statements are accepted without any objective evidence.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Albuquerque, NM writes:
Sociality blindly views men as perpetrators of violence, the majority of Americans believe the biological myth the cycle of domestic violence only attaches to the ?Y? chromosome. The gravest flaw in democracy is elected officials pandering to the majority to be elected. The Violence Against Women Act, VAWA is falsely seen as a noble cause despite history revealing over and over again that the root of all evil is a false noble cause. Humankind must come to accept there is only noble cause? equality. Not that I advocate a Violence Against Men Act, two wrongs do not make a right not even a ?women?s right?. A Police officer came into my home prejudiced with society?s view and violated me and my 3 year old daughter while we should have been safe and protected in our home by our Constitution. The police entered and arrested me without a warrant. I was not even confronted with an allegation, later I would find out that a man must comply to fetal position when confronted by a violent women. I had pushed her off of me and ran from her. Domestic violence and abuse is terrorism the VAWA is state sponsored terrorism. Having a child with a violent abusive women makes my life being forever fused. I have exhausted all remedies within the system. As a man I am left to comply with abuse and the compulsory fetal position or be immediately arrested without a warrant.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Salem, OR signed.
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Oct 16th, 2014Someone from Waltham, MA writes:
I recently spent a night over a friends home only to return home the next morning. My wife whom has a child from a previous marriage and has been delusional from some time called the cops on me and claimed I was abusing her. She had not one mark on her and they (NINE POLICE) took me down to the ground and instantly arrested me. They would NOT listen to my side of the story at all, and ACTUALLY told me they didnt care. If they didnt arrest me, their jobs would be on the line. While in jail I was told by numerous police officers that they all knew I was innocent but there is nothing they could do about it. Just fight it out in court. Well 20 grand later Im still fighting it. Its amazing the power these woman have over men and without any type of proof. Instead of arresting me the authorities should be looking at her and her parenting skills. The child support check she gets from her ex husband goes directly to smoking cigarettes, drugs, and scratch tickets. Its an unreal world we live in but I believe in karma and it will turn around to bite her right in the ass.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Saint Francisville, LA writes:
My son lives in Louisiana, I do not. After signing this earlier I wanted to make a comment. As I write this he is sitting in jail with a high bond that we don't have money to pay (50,000.00) He is accused of "Misdemeanor" domestic violence against his estranged wife that simply never took place. He believes by her own conversations with him that she is on medications for serious mental disorders, the type that cause people to lose their balance easily; I believe this is what led to her allegation. He sits in jail and he has no lawyer, court appointed or hired. He does not go to court until late November. His job was being held until the end of this week and then its gone. He has no record of violence. There is so much going on here it is mind boggling and very hard not to be worried for his well being. He sits in isolation knowing he is innocent of her charges alleged in a restraining order. In his bond hearing she was allowed to give her testimony full of deceptive drama and untruthfulness and he was not allowed to give his defense evidence with his own testimony. He sits in jail knowing his sons life has been turned upside down suddenly and feeling like his life is being ruined by someone he trusted; someone who changed when she met someone new and just wanted him gone. When he leaves Louisiana his little son will feel further the sting of a manipulated absence of a parent he adores. Her misguided and reckless actions against a father trying to give the best support possible to his son have been instituted without regard for the feelings of the child. This is the second time she has attempted to separate a father and child, she lost the first attempt with her older child, she may get her way on this attempt. I am writing this with his permission and on his behalf after a telephone conversation with him today from the jail. I see in reading some of these comments that many are suffering and I ask what has happened to America's system of "Justice for All"REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Clyde, MO signed.
Oct 16th, 2014Someone from Florence, CO writes:
My wife beat the crap out of me. When the cops showed up they threatened to take me to jail then left with her still pinning me to the ground. In another incident she would not leave me alone. When she went into the house I hit our vehicle which is when I got my DV charge.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Chattanooga, TN writes:
I am know one of them victims! Know because I wanted out of a relationship I was accused of a domestic violence and thrown in jail and not able to make one statement! Hopefully my innate sense will prevail!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 16th, 2014Someone from Alamogordo, NM signed.
Oct 16th, 2014Someone from Dallastown, PA writes:
I have had this happen to me .... I have lived a nightmare for 7 years . It's not just me living it my daughter age 7 is too. I stayed to protect her but now because of the law I can no longer protect her ...and there are not support groups or help in my area for men only womenREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 15th, 2014Someone from Lincoln, NE signed.
Oct 15th, 2014Someone from Tonawanda, NY writes:
This has recently happened to me. The story is a long one and has done quite on number on me. I feel so frustrated and helpless. I have an initial hearing tomorrow, 10/16/14. I have a diagnosis of major depression and anxiety disorder and know she was targeting my weaknesses but for what ultimate goal I do not know. Maybe she gets off on this and in the process has turned my life upside down. There is so much to say about this but I would go on for hours. Thank You and I am glad I found this site.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 15th, 2014Someone from Nashville, TN writes:
I was set up by my brother knowing I entered a contract with the court of law in Nashville TN. He annoyed me to the point were I chased then smashed my fingers on the door knowing ill get mad.So I spit in his face and he called the cops on me and I got arrested for (D.V).It is unlawful that I was accused of this when there is always brotherly conflicts no matter what.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelOct 15th, 2014Someone from Lincoln, NE signed.
Oct 15th, 2014Someone from Hollywood, FL writes:
Dear Gentlemen : I am victim of DV false accusations of sexual abuse of my Daughter . AS a result of this accusations IO was restrained from my children I had to leave my America so i do not go to jail .I have never seen my children since then even i pay my child support .Try to extinguish hell from this law wirch mainly resul;ts are to send to jail incent men .REPORT COMMENTS
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