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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Oct 13th, 2014
    Someone from Mason City, IA signed.
  • Oct 13th, 2014
    Someone from Oakland, CA writes:
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    Im a victim of false allegations and the court as lied to , I was never serves to attend any hearing and now I'm convicted of being a violent person, I'm 42 and never my whole life have been in trouble or had violent confrontations with anyone! The way this is handled is ludicrous to and wrong!
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Oakland, CA writes:
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    Im a victim of false allegations and the court as lied to , I was never serves to attend any hearing and now I'm convicted of being a violent person, I'm 42 and never my whole life have been in trouble or had violent confrontations with anyone! The way this is handled is ludicrous to and wrong!
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Biloxi, MS writes:
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    This NEEDS to be addressed.too many innocent lives are being ruined
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Darien, IL writes:
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    I don't feel so alone anymore - Thank you. My ex-called repeatedly only in the presence of our 10 year old son. The abuse on her part was clear as even the responding patrolman asked they she not abuse municipal resources in such a way - the officer was a female and knew what was going on. She called 7 times and uses that against me as she now lives with her boyfriend and reminds my son how often she had to call the police on his father. Young and impressionable my son could not handle that and we remain estranged. I don't force reconciliation = I just believe the truth will out and pray he turns out OK. I want to get involved and help. What to do ? Thank you. Dan Milosevich
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Hesperia, CA writes:
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    my husband of a 23 year marriage frauletly filed a RO on me 2 years ago. Last week he reinstated it again because it ran out at 2 years. Still to this day I have not been able to go in front of a judge because he keeps postponeing it and also asking for a two day trail to sue me with a present Ro of 5 years. We own a big croperation lots of money. That what this whole RO thing is about the money. He's a Narsasitic abusive man. In two years not one thing has happen to dissolve marriage. I'm at 35,000 in lawyer fees just fighting RO. Finally got a new attorney that has promised me the RO does not stop the divorce. I have totally confidence in him. Iv been living in our RV for two years on only 600 a week. While my husband is enjoying all our perts. Vacations women homes cars etc. I feel my civil rights have be taken from me in that I have not gotten a timely trail. I have found how very strong I really am. After getting away from my phyicaly verbally sexually mentally abusive nightmare of a sick husband. Please help me Rhonda petty
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Lake Huntington, NY writes:
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    I read the stories of those who are victims of abuse by those who falsely accused them. It happened to my son. Let it be clear that there needs to be no real evidence or past record or any abuse for a vindictive or desperate or mentally ill ex girl friend or spouse or other to falsely accuse that person of domestic violence. The courts do not even abide by the definitions of abuse under the Domestic Violence Act. We were told the courts hand out PFA orders in Wayne County, PA like candy, to just accept a 3 month PFA as you don't stand a chance. Find another lawyer! Be brave, and opt for a hearing and have your story, your declaration of innocence on record. Until these inequities in the legal system are corrected the victims of false accusations, both men and women, will suffer needlessly-their lives interrupted and often shattered.
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Port Huron, MI writes:
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    I was Convicted of a Domestic Violence Crime that I DID NOT Commit! I Lost 10 Days of My Life in the County Jail, which I will Never Get Back! This was all thanks to LYING Witnesses along with the So-Called "Victim" REHEARSING This Ahead of Time! All to keep My From Getting Custody of My Then 7 Month Old Daughter (My Daughter is Now Close to her 20th Birthday).
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
    Someone from Escondido, CA writes:
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  • Oct 12th, 2014
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  • Oct 11th, 2014
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
    Someone from Mankato, MN writes:
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    as the above information is same in my life please save me i am in a critical position now. Thanks and Regards,
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
    Someone from San Francisco, CA writes:
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    My narcissistic ex-wife threatened me with a DVTRO if I didnt comply with her wishes. All I wanted was to keep the 50% custody awarded to me...I never thought she would, but she did. A couple of emails where I am irate about her keeping my children when they should be with me, a lie to demonstrate "threat" and another lie about the nature of our marriage and boom! I went from 50% to 2x2hr supervised visits/week. Hearing was no better. San Mateo, new judge, recent press on DV, she didnt even look at my evidence. Im heartbroken, my boys are so sad about it when I see them. Shes from a wealthy family and has already drained every penny I had and more in legal fees just trying to stand up for my role in my sons life. No more money for lawyers but Ive lots my children...to someone that should be in jail!!
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
    Someone from Fullerton, CA writes:
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    This happens to women too. My husband filed false child abuse charges against me to obtain full custody of our children. I cannot count the number of times that he threatened to keep the children away from me. He said he would tell people I abused them. I am a victim of domestic violence and this allegation has just allowed him to continue the abuse.
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  • Oct 10th, 2014
    Someone from Spokane, WA writes:
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    My ex filed completely false claims about me in order to do a ex parte order to take temp custody of my daughter. My ex claim I beat him up when I would get drunk which both claims are untrue. The first one I beat him up is crazy he was my abuser I left him after he threw a chair at me while I was holding my daughter. I shielded my daughter so my face was wide open which resulted with my face being cut open. He would of kill me if I touch him ever. Also he was so controlling I was never even allowed to drink when I was with him to get drunk. I let his mom have my daughter for 6 weeks this summer for a vacation. Well before I came to pick my daughter up like plan I get a call from my ex lawyer saying he was filing a ex parte restraining order against me for some alleged phone call to my ex. I told my ex lawyer he couldn't file that because I have phone records proving I never call his client in fact I would prefer to never have contact with his client . So his lawyer goes into court claiming I'm this awful mom who's addicted to pain pills once again I don't have the problem with pain pills but his mom and him do. they also said my daughter who only 14years old try to commit suicide with pain pills which she never ever try to commit suicide and that while she was supposedly in the hospital for her alleged suicide that I left her and went to some suppose military ball that I never went to. It just goes on and on with the lies. I have lost temp lost custody of my daughter and still have zero clue how this all just happen I have had custody of her, her whole life my ex was a barley every other weekend dad. My daughter is in serious danger and no one will help me because my ex has use the court system to continue his abuse and has everyone convict that im the danger. I cant tell you how hard it is to of been abuse by a man for years and now have the courts hold me down while him and his lawyer continue to beat me up and take my daughter. This man has taken everything from me . Now ive been order to pay child support to a man who is seriously behind on his child support to me. My ex also abuse my other children and Threw a Chair at my 2year old and the courts of Spokane WA gave this man my daughter.This has to stop now ex parte restraining orders she be used for true domestic violence victims not a loop hole for unethical family law lawyers.
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  • Oct 9th, 2014
    Someone from Hot Springs National Park, AR signed.
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  • Oct 8th, 2014
    Someone from Clearwater, FL writes:
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    This has to stop. I have had a female falsely accuse me of stalking her. I go to school with her thats it. I have hired an attorney. There has been know domestic at all with this female. I am not allowed to go to school until after the hearing. Please we have to stop this.
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  • Oct 8th, 2014
    Someone from Yakima, WA signed.
  • Oct 8th, 2014
    Someone from Tulsa, OK writes:
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    I have been falsely accused and this situation has ruined my perfect record. I had never been arrested before this and it is hard to convince new women I met or people in general that I am innocent. However, my family and true friends know all this was made up. The prosecutors office has no clue about this situation and just goes off her word. If the system really took time to investigate these particular cases innocent men like myself would not have their lives flipped upside down. The saddest thing in the world is being falsely accused. This is not a video game and the courts should not play with people's lives.
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  • Oct 8th, 2014
    Someone from Livonia, MI writes:
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    I am a criminal defense lawyer in Michigan who concentrates on defending those accused of assault crimes. Domestic violence is the most common charge I defend. Every day, I get a call from a would-be victim who begs me to help the person they accused because the Prosecutor's Office simply won't accept the fact that a false accusation was made during a heated argument. Then there are these ridiculous No Contact Orders. The list goes on. It's very upsetting for my clients and I. This needs to be addressed at the State level, though. And for those accused, remember that the Prosecutor's Office is political, and they won't stop until someone says something to stop them. FIGHT YOUR CASE AT TRIAL! Visit me at: www.michiganassaultandbatteryattorney.com.
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  • Oct 7th, 2014
    Someone from Annandale, VA writes:
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    Ex lied to the police to get the house and children. I am forced to pay a small fortune for both still. As I move toward custody, she lies more to gain advantages in the divorce.
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  • Oct 7th, 2014
    Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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    I have a open case against me I'm fighting. My ex wife had been using drugs and alcohol one day I came home from work, she got off early from work that day and started drinking by the time I had got home she had already finished off eight or so beers. I knew that she had erratic behavior so I went to my room and locked the door. I had head phones on and she was knocking but I couldn't hear. So I'm laying on my bed the door comes flying open and her falling into the dresser and tv stand. She has the look in her eyes of a lunatic so I get myself up and head outback to meet an individual to rehome a puppy. So I'm out in the ally the sdpd comes in full force taking me down while elbowing and kneeing me. Never even read me my meranda rights. To find out I'm getting charged for three felonys and a mistemeter resisting arrest. She told the dispatcher I chocked her completely out and I stomped on her. But sdpd never called a ambulance or never even took pictures. Till she went to victims of violent crimes to get paid all on a scam. Come on we need to put an end to this my whole saving has been spent on bailing out and fighting a case that I'm the victim in.
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  • Oct 7th, 2014
    Someone from Florence, AZ writes:
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    Very close friend going through violation cause he contacted his kids on Facebook only saying he loves them. All he wants is to see his kids and let them know that he loves and cares about them and will fight hard to get them back. His ex is an evil person and karms will catch up to her very soon!!
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  • Oct 7th, 2014
    Someone from Elizabethtown, KY signed.