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Please stop the unfair punishment of good fathers. We need child support reform now!

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  • Apr 14th, 2016
    Someone from Beaumont, TX writes:
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    Congress supports the abuse of fathers for failed relationships. It should not be a punishment to the father of a child/children if a relationship does not work. Then to consistently increase the support amounts is a travesty because when my children come during my visitation there is no disposable income to enjoy a movie or put a basketball and take them to the park. Not to mention i struggle to provide any sort of quality meal for them as well. But some sort of way the attorney general for the state of Texas feels as if I have an additional $250 of support to provide on top of everything else due to a modification. We are nearing homelessness no one seems to give a damn and reform this broken system.
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  • Apr 14th, 2016
    Someone from Beaumont, TX signed.
  • Apr 14th, 2016
    Someone from Houston, TX writes:
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    I've seen good fathers go homeless without any place for their children to live when they have visits. I've seen good fathers on the verge of suicide because they are consumed in debt.
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  • Apr 14th, 2016
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  • Apr 13th, 2016
    Someone from Eagle Grove, IA signed.
  • Apr 13th, 2016
    Someone from Rock Rapids, IA writes:
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    My husbands daughter has been alienated from us for 7 years. We have paid child support and health insurance since she was born. We have been trying since day one with little time with her.
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  • Apr 13th, 2016
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  • Apr 12th, 2016
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  • Apr 10th, 2016
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  • Apr 10th, 2016
    Someone from Brooksville, FL writes:
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    The whole child support system is unconstitutional. I do not wish to recieve child support and do not think the courts should be making money off of it. Family law is nothing more than a money pit. Why is it ok to suspend licenses or impliment jail time? This is a clear violation of personal liberties. Mothers and fathers should have 50/50. If they dont
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  • Apr 10th, 2016
    Someone from Eau Claire, WI writes:
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    I support this, I have not seen my son in many years, even though i have tried numerous times unsuccessfully - Any time i require assistance I have to dole out cash for a lawyer, but if i miss a child support payment, they send actions which i have to pay for, no matter the circumstances for the miss, as well as no real out of pocket expense for my son's mother to have this action taken for her. Another thing that bothers me, are the women who use sex and babies as an income. My ex (yes i was a stupid teen) when i met her, was sitting around a table talking about how NICE child support was - I didn't pay attention, and a few months later I was hit with hey im pregnant, and I am leaving you. No care, no consideration for me. I had to move out of state, as i couldn't afford to live on my own, I had dropped out of school to get a job to take care of my ex, and my soon to be born baby boy, I was excited, I wanted to be wed, I wanted to have a family.She wanted an abortion. I convinced her not to, went to get a promise ring / engagement (not just because of the baby but because i knew she was my first love) But nope. She refused that after only a week. Cant force them to stay with someone, and its an instant money gain for her. She did it again 10 years after that, she had another child with another man, she refused to wed or engage as far as i Know, she neither returns my calls, nor allows me to see my son who is on facebook (mind you I am not a violent person, i have no court issues besides child support and nothing on my record besides this)I have done everything I can to rectify my lack of payment of child support and arrears. It is absolutely Unfair how the system is currently, and it needs to be changed.
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  • Apr 9th, 2016
    Someone from Bronx, NY writes:
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    Discrimination of the highest order.
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  • Apr 8th, 2016
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  • Apr 7th, 2016
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  • Apr 7th, 2016
    Someone from Pasadena, CA writes:
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  • Apr 6th, 2016
    Someone from Chickasha, OK signed.
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  • Apr 5th, 2016
    Someone from Crestview, FL writes:
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    You should not have half your paycheck taken away to a person who makes twice as much as you as it is. Living on 600 a month is impossible, especially when you have joint custody and are still expected to but food, clothes and toys for the children. While the other party takes in all the financial benefits of having the children.
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  • Apr 5th, 2016
    Someone from Phillipsburg, NJ signed.
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  • Apr 5th, 2016
    Someone from Arlington, TX writes:
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    Completely agree with this, but there should also be a clause about fathers who are trapped into being fathers by mothers looking to benefit off the system. Also back child support should not accrue interests its not a loan that if paid the government will take the child away. How is a father suppose to catch up when every month the portion paid into back pay if becoming less and less due to interest raising the total amount.
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  • Apr 4th, 2016
    Someone from Bremerton, WA signed.
  • Apr 4th, 2016
    Someone from Daly City, CA writes:
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    i'm tired of being harassed and stalked even though i'm paying. the whole child support system is ********. am i paying to have rumors spread about me and for my reputation to be ruined? even though you pay and spend all week to pay child support taking care of other people's kids, you got******talking people from they other party saying you're not there as a father... i'm not living my life just to pay child support
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  • Apr 4th, 2016
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  • Apr 3rd, 2016
    Someone from Flagstaff, AZ writes:
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    The mother just plays the part of a "middleman". Why am I paying her to pay for the child? I am fully capable of paying all financial responsibilities and obligations concerning the child myself. The system that is currently in place needs major reconstruction.
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  • Apr 3rd, 2016
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