Please stop the unfair punishment of good fathers. We need child support reform now!
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May 3rd, 2016Someone from Sacramento, CA writes:
This "Beast/System" took a wrong turn lately, because it creates an income cycle for a handful of people. Both parties should be considered when calculating support. PLEASE SEE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=196XCAXfqrI Divorce corp did an excellent study that shows how the states are robbing those who actually want to make FAIR payments towards our children's rearing. We need to stop the overreach of those who are responsible, as well as something for the lazy judges who just cut from the top instead of scrutinizing... -
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May 2nd, 2016Someone from North Chelmsford, MA writes:
Totally agree. We are "put" on CS. It's unfair and the one that makes the money loses.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 2nd, 2016Someone from Lynden, WA writes:
I'm signing because my children and myself are victims of this shit.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 2nd, 2016Someone from Plymouth, OH signed.
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Apr 29th, 2016Someone from Indianapolis, IN writes:
Child Support Officials are not being fair when it comes to Good Dads...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 29th, 2016Someone from Silver Springs, NV writes:
I am the new wife of a wonderful father who pays his ex child support instead of courts requiring her to get a job to support her own kids. It is unfair that my family scrounges to pay our bills but also pay hers?! Where is the maternal responsibility to support children? Just because the father is a responsible working adult does not mean he should pay for someone who is not, to skate by in life without any consequences.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 28th, 2016Someone from Buffalo, NY signed.
Apr 27th, 2016Someone from Napa, CA writes:
My ex is currently re-married, has a great job, and so does her new husband. The two of them combined make about 4 times the amount of income that I make. However, I am still forced to pay $1200 per month to her. This leaves me and my twin boys, whom live with me, little to nothing each month. Were trying to make it and I am trying to be the best father I can be, but the unfairness of this system makes each day such a challenge.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 27th, 2016Someone from Carrollton, TX signed.
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Apr 26th, 2016Someone from Minneapolis, MN writes:
I couldn't afford to pay the $875 per month ordered by the courts. I gave my ex-wife $300- $400 a month through direct deposit. Just found out that doesn't count since it wasn't paid directly through child support. Now I owe $58,000 in back child support and the state is threatening to go after my DL. The broken system doesn't care that I have a 3 month old and 2 year old at home. Oh and I'm required to pay for health insurance as well even though the dependant child is already covered 100% by tri-care since my ex is active duty Air Force. That's another $130 added onto the child support. I can't support my family anymore.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 26th, 2016Someone from North Attleboro, MA writes:
My support order is more than I make a week. Looks like I'm losing my license and headed to jail.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 25th, 2016Someone from Malverne, NY signed.
Apr 25th, 2016Someone from Belgrade, MT writes:
Child support is ridiculous and invasive. If one parent is not given visitation rights (unless it's due to abuse, neglect or drugs on their part) then the other parent should have reduced Child Support. Both parents should be REQUIRED to work and the financial guidelines a fixed. NO ONE responsible for Child Support should have 50% of their income taken away and the person receiving child support should be required to report and prove what the money is being spent on. Any amount in excess of $300 per month per child is ridiculous and out of control. Child support agencies should have to provide a monthly accounting to the one paying support showing when payment was received, how it was distributed and the person paying should have the same rights and support that the person receiving does. Child support is a joke, run by greedy government, designed to render the father (in the majority of cases) incapable of ever being able to make it beyond simply existing and does not EVER make the mother (in most cases) accountable for being a tramp just looking for a "baby daddy" so she can keep her lazy*****parked on the couch all day. You can screw up ONE TIME - you have another child and you're not married to that person - you're clearly too stupid to know how to use birth control and should be forced to have your tubes tied / vasectomy so that you can't spread your stupidity in this world.REPORT COMMENTS
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Apr 25th, 2016Someone from Panorama City, CA writes:
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Apr 21st, 2016Someone from Georgetown, KY writes:
My fiancé has a child from his previous marriage whom he pays over a third of his income to. She currently lives with her mom, so I'm not sure why the excessive amount of child support is needed. I want him to support his child, but I feel like he's just buying her whatever Michael Kors purse she wants. I have two children from my previous marriage, and my ex and I worked out that he would pay support based on what the childcare expenses were that month. I felt like that was fair and didn't feel the need to punish him because we divorced. I've felt a lot of stress over my fiancé' child support because I now feel like the sole provider in our house and have to work my butt off, sacrificing time that I would've spent with my kids, just so his ex can get her excessive amount of child support each month. It sucks. It hurts me. It hurts my kids, and I'm sure it hurts my fiancé.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2016Someone from Spartanburg, SC writes:
I'm paying child support in SC. And I firmly believe there should be a reform due to the court favoring the mother and just consider the fathers as a cash cow.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2016Someone from Wamego, KS writes:
I have been paying child support in the state of Ks. My child and mother moved to Nebraska. Nebraska says I owe 17000 the state of Ks says I owe 9000. I can't get any help from either state to resolve this matter. I can't afford an attorney to get it fixed either. I'm also not seeing my child or allowed to talk to her. Can someone please please help me?REPORT COMMENTS
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