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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Sep 21st, 2016
    Someone from Franklin, MN writes:
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    I was a victim of these exact circumstances. The accuser is a scorn ex with whom i own a business a home and a child with. Through her lies and calculated misuse of the system I have been arrested, had my son taken away, given a litany of reprimands and orders that restrict our communication and furthermore I have had zero opportunity to explain my side of the story. I feel as if my rights stopped being valid at her first accusation. Something must be done to stop this madness.
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  • Sep 21st, 2016
    Someone from Peabody, MA writes:
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    cops lie joes in jail since 1/2/201nothing done no bail grand jury lied kid made stories lawyer not ready went to court.im broke in debt in bills sick out work almoast homless becxause of this rotten liar tina brought false allegations sayin g he strangulated he no marks passed out hit table in my apt druken stupor pigs lied on records da cronan made the kid lie hanfg my husband like witch trials in saLEM MASS
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  • Sep 21st, 2016
    Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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    No citizen should be denied the right of due process. Law enforcement should not make arrests based on gender or word. Law enforcement should examine evidence, and make a reasonable decision. If an error in judgment is made, at least hold the appropriate party accountable.
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  • Sep 21st, 2016
    Someone from Mastic, NY signed.
  • Sep 20th, 2016
    Someone from Maumelle, AR signed.
  • Sep 20th, 2016
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  • Sep 20th, 2016
    Someone from Bradenton, FL writes:
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    Criminal manipulation, abuse of process, one sided, instant credibility, instant victimization = free pass to terrorize and torture. Forum shopping (denied in one county, try again tomorrow in the next), perjury, false/fraudulent allegations - GLORIFIED BY NO CONSEQUENCES! I am a woman who made a 'sexual harassment' allegation against a very bad man. Unbeknownst to me, he's married, his wife being just as evil as him knew it was a race to the Violence Protection Office - never crossed my mind. 10 year stalking injunction issued with no evidence - just her word. Since, she has filed complaints at 9 different law enforcement agencies, as well as weekly violations to the court. I've been arrested twice, no charges filed, however the sick pleasure she feels by being the "victim" and having the "Power". Considering this is just the first year, I can expect that I will be in prison by year 5. She has a 7th grade education, with a master in criminal manipulation. My Bachelor of Nursing and Bachelor in Psychology are worthless now. She has destroyed my reputation by constant character assassination and slander. What I know is that the criminal justice system is nothing if they don't have a revolving door - ends justify the means (making criminals any way they can). The entire family is mentally ill, so my choice now is their wrath & fear for my life or prison. Fabulous life sitting and waiting for the next shoe to drop, absolutely powerless! You would think after all she's done, if I really was a danger to her - she wouldn't continue to taunt and torture me and/or I would have REALLY hurt her. My entire life has been destroyed, my reality is sad - I didn't know the world was this bad!!
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  • Sep 20th, 2016
    Someone from San Leandro, CA signed.
  • Sep 19th, 2016
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  • Sep 19th, 2016
    Someone from Minneapolis, MN writes:
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    In the State of Minnesota, there is no mechanism for protecting the accused. In addition to my ex wife denying me representation (I was a dependent spouse), I found that under MN state law all she needs for an extension is to tell her attorney (not to the court, under oath) that she is still scared. Legal aid doesn't take DV cases because the system is weighted so heavily in the accusers favor. I have limited time with my children, and am concerned for what they are learning from my ex's actions toward me.
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  • Sep 19th, 2016
    Someone from Huffman, TX writes:
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    My son is going through this now. It has ruined his job his military career his finances and most of all left him without his kids. People are right you can't believe in the court system.
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  • Sep 19th, 2016
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA signed.
  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Kenner, LA signed.
  • Sep 18th, 2016
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  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Pensacola, FL writes:
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    For 28years I was married to a Narcissus who was living a double life. Her family is mobile al. City detictives. MAIRIED IN1988, DIVORCED. 2014. 1997 SHE HAD ME ARRESTED. FOR HITTING HER EHICH DID NOT HAPPEN. IN 2005 OUR 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. TURNED AGAINST ME CLAIMING ABUSE. IT DID NOT HAPPEN. SHE HAD HER BOYFREIND PUSH LARGE LOG ON ME CRUSHING BACK ANDNECK.TO THIS DAY I LIVE IN HOROR. BOTH OF THEM BACKED BY POLICE STOLED ALL BANK ACCOUNTS ALL POSSESSIONS INCLUDING TOOTH BRUSH. RAN UP 150000 IN DEPT AND DESTROYED MY HOUSE. POLICE WIRE TAPPED SPY CAMERAS SET UP SCENE AFTER SEEN WITH HELP FROM NEIGHBORS.ALL PICTURES &TAPES RECORDS. WERE. STOLEN. EVERYTHING LEFT IN HOUSE EAD DESTROYED. I AM LEFT DISABLED. PENNYLESS HOMELESS. MOBILE SHERIFF DEPUTY TOLD ME I PUT DRUGS IN YOUR HOUSE IF YOU GO THERE I WILL SEND OTHERS IN THEY WILL FIND THEM AND YOU GO TO PRISON. I AM TAKING YOUR HOUSE. PLEASE HELP NO ONE WILL.
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  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Pensacola, FL writes:
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    For 28years I was married to a Narcissus who was living a double life. Her family is mobile al. City detictives. MAIRIED IN1988, DIVORCED. 2014. 1997 SHE HAD ME ARRESTED. FOR HITTING HER EHICH DID NOT HAPPEN. IN 2005 OUR 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. TURNED AGAINST ME CLAIMING ABUSE. IT DID NOT HAPPEN. SHE HAD HER BOYFREIND PUSH LARGE LOG ON ME CRUSHING BACK ANDNECK.TO THIS DAY I LIVE IN HOROR. BOTH OF THEM BACKED BY POLICE STOLED ALL BANK ACCOUNTS ALL POSSESSIONS INCLUDING TOOTH BRUSH. RAN UP 150000 IN DEPT AND DESTROYED MY HOUSE. POLICE WIRE TAPPED SPY CAMERAS SET UP SCENE AFTER SEEN WITH HELP FROM NEIGHBORS.ALL PICTURES &TAPES RECORDS. WERE. STOLEN. EVERYTHING LEFT IN HOUSE EAD DESTROYED. I AM LEFT DISABLED. PENNYLESS HOMELESS. MOBILE SHERIFF DEPUTY TOLD ME I PUT DRUGS IN YOUR HOUSE IF YOU GO THERE I WILL SEND OTHERS IN THEY WILL FIND THEM AND YOU GO TO PRISON. I AM TAKING YOUR HOUSE. PLEASE HELP NO ONE WILL.
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  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Chicago, IL writes:
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    I was a student at Brown University and this happened to me. I could not attend an Ivy League institution due to my ex-girlfriend's actions. Please help
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  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Peabody, MA writes:
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    that false allegations suck .judicial system suck real bad.this situation ruined m,y life because of these rotten liars and almost lost everything because of it my husband ,place of summer camper apt and health.tinal lima and kiars son out to be in jail false lies perjury. all fenscum bags.government suck.dont give a dam about men hanging as salem witches
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  • Sep 18th, 2016
    Someone from Levittown, NY writes:
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    Currently being falsely accused and its tearing my life and my mind apart while also being terrified of prison
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Dickinson, TX writes:
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    My own son has been the victim of this very thing. He was the primary caregiver to his children and now he has been forced to have no contact. I know she is a liar because she has lied to me on several occasions.
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Maryville, TN writes:
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    Those lacking the mental state to make good decisions and keep their emotions in check from alcohol, drugs, etc., easily harm themselves. Such as in their anger at the least little things against others, gain great strength to attack and in the process harm themself. For example, they are inan alcoholic state and highly confrontational to attack their partner using body slams. In the process, lose their balance while wearing footies on linoum only to fall and slam her head on the floor. From her alcoholic state, her reaction time is considerably slow preventing her from catching herself.
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Ocala, FL signed.
  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Redondo Beach, CA writes:
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    stop! innocent lives of women, transgenders, and nonbinary gendered people r ruined. reform now! theyre trying to be honest. justice for the innocent people not destroy their lives! this is unfair!
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Austin, TX writes:
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    This is an epidemic and a total miscarriage of justice. Divide and conquer; that's the modus operandi. Disrupt the sense of community among the human race: mission complete. Destroy the family unit and divide the sexes: a work in progress, rapidly advancing. Why? Because very few are there, well-informed and determined to defend our collective well-being and there is so much to gain. Once we are completely divided the fear campaigns will be much more effective. Love is the answer! That which creates division is rooted in hate. Be the light! We are many and shall prevail! I may suffer, but my brothers and sisters will right those wrongs. The truth shall set us free!
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Plano, TX writes:
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    Its not fair to be called an abuser just because a soon-to-be-ex-wife decides to go to court for money and self-benifit after being informed about a mutual divorce. You are taking someone's reputation from a person based on false accusations. Not fair. Costs thousands of dollars to hire attorneys to protect Give rights equally. If they decide to take the charges back, a special cell should be assigned to investigate the motives and take tougher legal actions and pose hefty fines to the false accusers. I'll be very glad to discuss further details about my current scenario and how my soon-to-be-ex tortured and looted me even after she being the accuser. I had reached out to the police to discuss my scenario, they wished me luck in the divorce, my attorney said that this is the B!t*h tax I'll have to pay. Really? Extremely unfair.
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Plano, TX writes:
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    Its not fair to be called an abuser just because a soon-to-be-ex-wife decides to go to court for money and self-benifit after being informed about a mutual divorce. You are taking someone's reputation from a person based on false accusations. Not fair. Costs thousands of dollars to hire attorneys to protect Give rights equally. If they decide to take the charges back, a special cell should be assigned to investigate the motives and take tougher legal actions and pose hefty fines to the false accusers.
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  • Sep 17th, 2016
    Someone from Dickinson, TX signed.
  • Sep 16th, 2016
    Someone from Youngsville, NC writes:
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    Falsely accused of domestic violence, showed all evidence proving the woman was lying, even she herself admits that she lied to my lawyer and I still have to agree to a no contact rule for the next eight months. Completely unfair and just down right cruel.
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  • Sep 16th, 2016
    Someone from Topeka, KS signed.
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
    Someone from Kenner, LA writes:
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    I had many things to say but the abuse from my ex, the stealing of my child, the using the almighty great system of criminal justice (rewards/Justice for Criminals to hell with the victims is what it seems to me these days), the loss of my health, my identity, the loss of an unborn baby thanks to the abuse , my sick baby cat and my abuser trying to use that to further abuse myself , my child, & my cat. I am a lady and it infuriates me when people try to make this only about the man being the victim. HOWEVER, My abuser and his mother both lied about Them having been abused. I HATE abusers , I HATE those who lie about being abused, but to BE THE ABUSER and TURN IT ALL AROUND ONTO THE ONE THEY ABUSED AND FALSIFY INFO TO CPS AND TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE COURT?!!! For the REAL VICTIM WHO IS BEING HONEST AND EVEN MINIMIZING THE ABUSE TO BE TOLD BY an agency there to HELP ABUSE VICTIMS that because she had NOT BEEN PHYSICALLY ABUSED IN OVER A (?) NUMBER OF MONTHS THAT IT WASNT LOOKED AT AS ABUSE?!!! I'm sorry I can't type anymore. I am so beaten down. The system let the damn abusers steal my baby from me. Lesson here - RUN FROM HELL AT THE VERY FIRST SIGNS OF ABUSE AND DO NOT THINK ONE WILL CHANGE JUST BECAUSE YOU ASKED THEM TO. I HATE NARCISSISTS AND I SEEM TO BE SPOTTING MORE AND MORE OF THEM. PLEASE DEAR JESUS HELP THOSE OF US WHO JUST WANT TO "LIVE". These sick b's & b's LIVE TO SUCK OUT OTHERS ENERGY. THEY SHOULD PAY CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR ABUSE. Oh ya- and guess what? I WAS PUSHED AGAIN AND JUST CAUGHT MYSELF BEFORE FALLING ONTO A RUSTY NAIL AND BUSTING MY HEAD OPEN AFTER THE AGENCY who was THERE FOR REPRESENTING ABUSE VICTIMS SAID IT WASNT ABUSE. YEP AND GUESS WHAT - HE CALLED THE POLICE AND TURNED THAT AROUND TOO. THANK GOD I HAD THE SENSE TO REPORT A COUPLE OF OTHER THINGS (they did NOTHING. "ITS A CUSTODY BATTLE" NO! IT IS A CRIMINAL MATTER AND SOONER OR LATER IT MAY BE OVER MY DEATH . Between this and the list of chronic conditions I have developed from the stress I probably won't be around much longer anyway. On the verge of a massive stroke mainly because I live in an upside down and turned around world and nothing makes any sense to me anymore. I hope the system changes. thx.
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
    Someone from Tallahassee, FL writes:
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    The wrongfully charged do not even qualify to have their record sealed in my state. Their lives are ruined and dreams are crushed due to false accusations. Not only are their lives affected, but their spouses and children are also affected by a lingering criminal record that they didn't deserve. No one should be allowed to scream abuse just to hurt people out of spite. Please stop allowing lives to be completely ruined by these victimless people.
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
    Someone from Peabody, MA writes:
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    i love lost money time health and husband bec of this ******** and lies because of this scumbad drunk loser drug bag with false accusation almost homless .joe sits 9months fen lawyer dont answer.thief judiciary system sucks
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  • Sep 15th, 2016
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  • Sep 14th, 2016
    Someone from Saint Paul, MN writes:
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    I've missed out on over one year of my children's lives due to protection order abuse, and now I face false domestic violence charges. The accuser's word is assumed to be on par with the words of Jesus Christ, while the accused is silenced. It's a travesty of justice and no one cares because the victims are mainly men.
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  • Sep 14th, 2016
    Someone from Peabody, MA writes:
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    false allegations by scum bags drunks junkies get what they want court systems .joe landry in jail 9 months
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  • Sep 14th, 2016
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