Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Apr 23rd, 2015Someone from Downey, CA signed.
Apr 22nd, 2015Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
Had horrific experience for 2 years of neighbors that were renting an attached townhome. They were involved in Harassment, Stalking, Violence, Cyberstalking, Defamation, Libel and Slander of me but filed false petitions against me before I could do truthful ones against them. The neighbor bragged constantly that her stepfather is a police officer and every time I called 911 on them for assault, etc. the police took her side because of this claim and started to accuse me. They didn't even do their due diligence to learn that it was not true. I've never had to call the police or 911 for myself in my life until these neighbors. Their false report resulted in an injunction against me and a hearing which was subsequently dismissed. I ended up in the hospital 3x and was very ill due to the stress. I am also already disabled. Now this shows up on my Background Check and I have been unable to even get an interview for employment. It also jeopardizes my professional licenses, ability to adopt or foster, etc. I have years of experience and a college degree but since a DV shows up on your record and you can't see what happened or why unless you get a copy from the courthouse, employers won't touch you. And you are automatically eliminated with a DV for education/healthcare and/or jobs that work with children. You cannot even file a complaint or claim or perjury with the police or courts and no lawyer will assist in pursuing a civil suit. You are defamed, shamed, libeled and robbed of future gainful employment and there is nothing you can do about it. This is abhorrent and we need to be able to expunge false DV reports from our records, especially if they were denied or dismissed. I can pay $75 by check by mail to have a criminal misdemeanor expunged from my record but can't do anything about a false DV. Terrible. Please help us! Thank you.Apr 21st, 2015Someone from Frisco, TX writes:
I am victim of false allegation of domestic violence. I am being victimized by my wife. I was in jail for no reason, cannot see my son and now wife is trying shelter homes. Her parents are helping her with this mean mindset and I can't do anything. I am from India and with no one around me to help. Spent $10K and still nowhere. This law was put in place for a reason and I am getting victimized for no reason or fault of mine. I hope I would have been less emotional and should become one of those guys who do not care about their family. I am suffering because of bad wife and loopholes in legal system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2015Someone from Alamogordo, NM signed.
Apr 21st, 2015Someone from West Palm Beach, FL signed.
Apr 21st, 2015Someone from Cleveland, OH signed.
Apr 21st, 2015Someone from Cathedral City, CA signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from Dyer, IN writes:
False allegations have become the norm to those who want the play the system. Guilty until proven innocent is backward thinking and is not fair or right to the fathers and children of the sick game nor is it right to exploit those who are truly are victims of DV. Law makers who allow the travesty to continue are just as guilty as the false accusers for allowing the guilty until proven innocent debacle to continue. It is extremely naive to not believe that the large number of DV claims are mostly made up of manipulating liars. In the best interest of all involved, including the children who deserve to have a solid relationship with both fit parents, its time to end the well known false accusation game because its proven at the expense of countless innocently accused victims to be greatly abused and flawed.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Seattle, WA writes:
Courts need to do more research on those who file and have court date before kicking innocent people out also heavy penalties for made up orders.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Chehalis, WA signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from Kansas City, MO signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from New York, NY signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from Fergus Falls, MN writes:
Someone very close to me is looking at a long time in jail for something he didn't do. And the charges cannot be dropped no matter how hard I try.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Rio Rancho, NM signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from White City, OR signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from Raleigh, NC writes:
As many others who have signed this petition the system has worked against me as well. I've not been charged with domestic violence, nor have I ever committed an act of domestic violence. My wife ran to a federally funded shelter for battered women. I have had zero contact with her or my two children for 20 days. I have an emergency custody order granted by a judge, law enforcement didn't serve it on her stating the reason was "the nature of where she is." Because she wants to leave me for someone else, she is allowed to severe the relationship between me and my two sons. And it's perfectly legal. If I didn't want to be a father I would be forced to provide for she and the boys financially. I want to support my kids. I want to take them to ball games. I want to take them to amusement parks. I want to take them for pizza. I want to spend the weekends doing things with them and raise them well to be contributing members of society. But because there is no law to protect my children, I have no rights. Law enforcement will not attempt to find her to have the custody order served. She disappeared from the safe house where she was hiding with my children, they will not tell where she went. The system is broken. The lack of laws to protect good fathers is contributing to parental alienation, which I believe is a form of child abuse.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Gainesville, GA writes:
Most of this is happening to me. This needs to stop and is entirely out of control.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Pittsfield, MA writes:
The letter says it all, there is no need for additional comments.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Fergus Falls, MN writes:
I also was falsely accused and spent 4 days in Jail and LOST EVERYTHING. My home, my clothes, my diabetic medicine and EVERYTHING as she packed everything and left along with my Kids. Charges were later dropped as a Police Document Examiner, examined a letter she wrote gloating how "Cops believe Women in Domestic Violence Issues and filing Rape is just as easy as this was". She did not receive ONE Consequence for this. The charges of course were dropped against me but they have followed me for over 18 years. Time to put these Criminals in PRISON.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Wichita, KS writes:
Kids need both parents! This evil system of injustice must come to a end and all people parents & those in system must be made to obey the law no imutity for any judges or social works that tear family's apart for fed funds must be put in prison for life as a example!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2015Someone from Farmington, UT signed.
Apr 20th, 2015Someone from Omaha, NE signed.
Apr 19th, 2015Someone from Highland, CA writes:
False allegations of domestic violence are a slap in the face/tremendous insult to true, DV victims, EVERYWHERE. Restraining Order abuse is out of control because, the courts and their "better safe than sorry," attitudes will grant anyone a TRO ex parte, based solely on the word of the alleged victim. Though, rampant in the state of California, abuse of process seems to be low on the list of priorities. And even though it's NOT, a victimless crime, it is one in which the perpetrators are rarely, prosecuted.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 19th, 2015Someone from Fort Bragg, CA signed.
Apr 18th, 2015Someone from Lowell, MA signed.
Apr 18th, 2015Someone from Lowell, MA writes:
Iam currently suffering emotionally and economic ally due to domestic false allegations,,my daughter alleged that I had abused her during her mother absence,,it took them two weeks to plan the false allegations ..I was later served with restrain order after twi weeks ..after few days I went to court only to find that my wife whom I had not seen for more than two weeks was the key false witness..my daughter who is 21yrs was the plaintiff..I was not given a chance to deffed my self ..but later the daughter was asked by the court what she wanted only for her ti answer that I should be restrained for one yr because she was fesrling me without further explanation...I am still wondering how long is this violations if right will cintinue cos its centrally to our culture and religion as well.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 18th, 2015Someone from Lowell, MA signed.
Apr 18th, 2015Someone from New York, NY writes:
I had the unfortunate experience of false domestic violence reporting. My child's mother used the NY and Florida criminal justice system to gain leverage in our NY custody case. I spent 3 months in a NY correctional facility and after being found not guilty, i was extradited to a Florida county jail where i spent 5 weeks. I was fortunate enough to had good counsel in Florida.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 18th, 2015Someone from Livermore, ME signed.
Apr 17th, 2015Someone from Twentynine Palms, CA signed.
Apr 17th, 2015Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Out of the MILLIONS of Protective / Restraining orders issued in America.... NO ONE has EVER been PROSECUTED for LYING to get one! NEVER! It is Felony Perjury to LIE under oath, to get a Protective Order, yet NO ONE has EVER been PROSECUTED for doing so.... Our Prosecutors ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to prosecute it!.... Therefore, there is NO RISK whatsoever, for someone to LIE and falsely accuse their significant other of "abuse"! If you are ever accused of "domestic abuse", you have no chance whatsoever! You ARE guilty! The government will make sure of it... because it equals MORE FEDERAL FUNDING for Domestic Violence programs! THOUSANDS of completely innocent people (men and women) are in jail cells RIGHT NOW because of this.... It is also completely destroying families! Thanks Federal Government!... This is ALL stemming from VAWA.... the violence against women act.... They have helped to manufacture a FALSE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE epidemic in America... The real problem is the FALSE ACCUSATIONS!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 17th, 2015Someone from Honolulu, HI signed.
Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Lewis Center, OH signed.
Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Lunenburg, MA signed.
Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Irving, TX signed.
Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Stephens City, VA writes:
How can these accusers get away with lies? Sickning!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 16th, 2015Someone from Douglasville, GA signed.
Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Bonney Lake, WA signed.
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Apr 16th, 2015Someone from Edgewood, MD writes:
My son and I was falsely accused of criminal actions,which was filed by his babymother to keep him from seeing his son.She said she will continue to file false police reports to keep him from seeing his son.His son is almost 2years old and he has not been able to see him because of her false allegations she keep filing.Who could help him work on seeing his son because he pays his child support.But he's afraid to ask for visitation rights because she keep threatening him.Please will someone give him directions or information of how he can gain a relationship with his son.REPORT COMMENTS
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