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Spouse Bereavement Leave (Initiative to Amend the FMLA)

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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Layton, UT signed.
  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Omaha, NE writes:
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    I agree with this! People need time to grieve!
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from South San Francisco, CA writes:
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    I agree completely. It takes months before you are even able to function again.
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Syracuse, NY writes:
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    Grief of this magnitude is life long and employers and co-workers need to be sensitive to the fact that no matter how much time is taken for leave, the loss lingers and a widowed person is forever changed.
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Dallas, TX writes:
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    A widow or widower should be allowed as much time as it takes to grieve. Grief has no timeline nor does it discriminate.
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Westfield, IN writes:
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    I lost my husband, age 37, after caring for him through a 7-year illness. I was 'fortunate' enough to be allowed 5 days bereavment, although my boss came to the funeral home (Tuesday) and asked if I could come back on Friday because they were so busy. Those who have not actually lost a spouse have no clue what it does to the surviving spouse - it isn't "like" losing your best dog, or your grandma, or even your brother or your dad....it is unique (as are each of those losses), but it certainly is on par with a serious illness that deserves 5 days to begin recovery. Thank you.
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Huntington, NY writes:
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    Horrible! I can relate but did not have a job. My husband was a NYPD 9/11 responder.After over 20 years on the job we were left without medical insurance. My children and I were shattered. Our life as never been the same. No one can relate unless they go through this themselves!!
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Maineville, OH writes:
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    I was able to grieve for a year after his death (due to unemployment) but it helped. Everyone should have time, and not because of the economy!!!
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Spring Creek, NV writes:
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    From experience to go back to work until you are ready is the worst thing you can do! My life is hell trying to work and figure everything out! You need 3 months!
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Spring Creek, NV writes:
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    From experience to go back to work until you are ready is the worst thing you can do! My life is hell trying to work and figure everything out! You need 3 months!
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  • May 19th, 2012
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Upper Marlboro, MD writes:
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    I lost my fiance almost seven months ago and still am not able to wrap my mind around returning the real world. I am 26 and was left with our one year old son to raise alone. Three days is absolutely absurd. It takes a lifetime to deal with this type of loss and pain that wont end. I hope my signature helps.
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  • May 19th, 2012
    Someone from Upper Marlboro, MD writes:
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    I lost my fiance almost seven months ago and still am not able to wrap my mind around returning the real world. I am 26 and was left with our one year old son to raise alone. Three days is absolutely absurd. It takes a lifetime to deal with this type of loss and pain that wont end. I hope my signature helps.
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  • May 19th, 2012
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