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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Jun 14th, 2015
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  • Jun 14th, 2015
    Someone from Wallace, ID writes:
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    I have been arrested. Several times on this very issue and yes bad choices on women but this is the last time. Women have learned how to use the DV laws as a weapon, I have a very long history, in this probably 8 to ten times in my life and I have only been really quality. One time of DV my wife chasing me down the street with a baseball bat runing past a neighbour I said call the cop's well she couldn't catch me And stoped and banged her head on a building because she couldn't catch me. The neighbour seen it they arrested me. And the court appointed lawyer plead it out. Then arrested again. And yes once again arrested. Pled it out different girl, did the same thing. I'm innocent on all three charges, and you probably wouldn't believe what this court appointed attorney is and trying to do I learned long ago not to touch people. Anybody. I have not idea how I'm going to fight this and get the other convictions of my record. It's like this bill is saying so true I have lived it. And now I'm being stocked. By the sheriff's office. And the judge is all pised off at me. But I'm not giving up hope because I know that justice will find it's way. Some how and my court appointed attorney has lied to me to take another plea. No way. This needs to be fixed. Thank you all
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  • Jun 14th, 2015
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  • Jun 13th, 2015
    Someone from Zephyrhills, FL writes:
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    I was accused of domestic violence by a neighbor. There was no evidence presented to the court and yet based on her word alone she granted an injunction. Upon completing my paralegal studies degree with honors, I find it very difficult to obtain employment based on what one angry woman had to say. This is very unjust.
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  • Jun 13th, 2015
    Someone from Stevensville, MI writes:
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    False accusers should have harsh consequences.
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  • Jun 12th, 2015
    Someone from Leitchfield, KY writes:
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    Something needs to be done about false accusers of all brands, because it is far to easy to get just about anyone into serious trouble with no effort or no consequence on the part of the false accuser. Either remove anonymity from reports, or bring serious counter charges against false accusers that carry serious penalties. There must be balance as well as protection for legitimate victims of abuse. Our system is no better than a modern day witch hunt, or Spanish inquisition, where false accusers come forward and offer no evidence and ruin peoples lives and reputations. Give the drama queens and trouble makers something to fear the next time they consider harming their neighbor. How can we turn out logic and reason in favor of subjectivism and reason? We live in a age of fantastic technology, yet live in a judicial dark age at the same time. How can we continue in a society such as this without having terrible consequences?
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  • Jun 12th, 2015
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  • Jun 12th, 2015
    Someone from San Diego, CA writes:
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    More than one unsubstantiated allegation results in more than one arrest and detention. A history of such false allegations is not equal to having a history of domestic violence. Understand the distinction to clarify any rebuttal. And yet injunctions depriving us of our freedoms are still mandated for false allegations using a devious process via the corrupt social services (more like the nazi secret service) child protection agency made up of man hating lesbians who have an 'ax to grind' agenda combined with other prejudice and judicial influence based solely upon their employment title.
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  • Jun 12th, 2015
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  • Jun 11th, 2015
    Someone from New York, NY writes:
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    My ex girlfriend broke up with me. When i went to talk to her to specifically get 20k dollars that i had given her over course of six months, she conveniently made up excuse of that she doesn't want to talk to me and this is causing her harassment and she would go to cops if i call her. I didn't follow-up as i knew she had done something similar to her ex-husband. I had initially thought she had been harassed by her ex-husband but now i knew that she realized how to game this system. In order to avoid giving difficult answers and return money, she found convenient way by throwing buzz words like she is getting harassed, stalked, mentally abused.. oh well! i ran away as far as possible from such a scum. But it goes to show that some people have been emboldened by crazy laws so much that they will openly abuse and harass people in their name If US laws don't fix themselves even now, when will they?
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  • Jun 11th, 2015
    Someone from Midlothian, TX writes:
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    I am the victim of False allegation of domestic violence. Which has perverted a family court system, to which now I have had most of my civil and parental rights removed. All for the sake of a divorce to cover up an affair. Apparently this is a too common theme to how divorces are handled these days. If we stop the BS up front, maybe parents can be parents and wouldn't have to drag their kids and families through this stuff.
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  • Jun 11th, 2015
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  • Jun 10th, 2015
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  • Jun 10th, 2015
    Someone from Middle River, MD writes:
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    My brother is being falsely accused, by his now ex girlfriend, of hitting her and breaking her cheekbone. Now anyone that knows my brother knows that he would never hit a woman. He has no history of violence. If anything he defends women who are beaten by men. Anyway, now there is a warrant out for my brother's arrest just because she's a drunk who lunged at my brother and fell into her dresser busting her cheek and she swore he hit her. Funny thing is, if he hit her as hard as she claims and did the damage she claims, he would have busted knuckles. He doesn't have a scratch. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. Too many women take advantage of the system for their own enjoyment and 15 minutes of fame. It's not right.
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  • Jun 10th, 2015
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Washington, DC writes:
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    My ex married me purely for a green card. Cost me my home and life savings which the USA Govt backed. She pejured herself in court. Lied to the police. Abused me both mentally and physically. But she made a fortune from what in most coumtries would be seen as criminal behaviour and seen right through by any other court system in the world except the USA where you need to prove statements in court documents. The fact there was zero evidence of domestic violence didnt matter. In fact the only evidence of that was by them themselves.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Washington, DC writes:
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    My ex married me purely for a green card. Cost me my home and life savings which the USA Govt backed. She pejured herself in court. Lied to the police. Abused me both mentally and physically. But she made a fortune from what in most coumtries would be seen as criminal behaviour and seen right through by any other court system in the world except the USA where you need to prove statements in court documents. The fact there was zero evidence of domestic violence didnt matter. In fact the only evidence of that was by them themselves.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Arlington, VA writes:
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    The police show up to our home and proclaimed someone supposedly was claiming they saw domestic violence take place. They knocked on our door, I opened and ask if I could help them. They stated (about 10 of them) they had received a call of domestic disturbance. My wife was standing next to me and I said here she is; see for yourself she's not been harmed ask her anything you like. They then proceeded to say we are going to enter your home. At this point, I stated "No you're not" that's a violation of my 4th Amdt right. They remained defiant and tone deaf, so I started to close the door and was abruptly pushed through my home to the middle of the living room with 4 police with taser's drawn and yelling as if I was a terrorist or serial killer. I am a 25-year Vet with PTSD and told them to calm down there isn't any resistance or call for yelling. Placing two sets of handcuffs on my hand while another bravado police officer shoving his knew in my back where I was injured from the service. I asked politely to get his knee out of my torn tendon as it is excruciatingly painful. End result, take me to lockup, book me in, see the magistrate and was told to not speak, DV charges were unfounded, but a utility door that's consistently damaged somehow I was charged with vandalism. I've had several calls from Child protective services, forcing to comply with an interview, my wife and daughter have both been interviewed and nothing warranted further action. However, they are still sending my wife victim/witness program information soliciting her to call and speak with them. Almost 50 now half of my life in the military and a wounded warrior and guilty until found guilty is the theme of law enforcement. My questions is where are accusers held responsible for false testimony? I want to know my accuser! Oh, and when I interviewed with the epitome of child protective services guy, I asked, "So if someone calls and states they've witnessed a domestic violence incident, the police will respond automatically and the person making the call isn't to prove it occurred? His answer, "YES". Isaiah 59:14 And judgment is turned away backward, and justice standeth afar off: for truth is fallen in the street, and equity cannot enter.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Goshen, IN writes:
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    I was falsely accused of domestic violence in 2011 by my current wife. We were having a argument over custody of our children as she had recently filed for divorce. I decided to take the children to my parents house when she started to become very vocal. I stated to her that I would return after droping the kids off because they didn't need to over hear our conversation. Her attorney had told that if I left with the kids there wasn't anything legally that could be done to make me return with them for 30 days being we were not under any custody orders. She jumped on my back as I was leaving causing us to fall over an end table. once I was out the door she called the police and fabricated a story that I hit her. There was no witness, nor any evidence beyond her testimony. To further complicated this situation, I was heart broken she had filed for divorce and desperately wanted to keep our family intact. I had never had more than a traffic ticket in my 36 years of life and was bullied and scared of the prosecutors office threats of "felonies and maximum sentences threats"! Not knowing how this charge would effect my life and the lives of my children, I plead guilty to a misdemeanor DV charge , thinking that if I had to put my wife on the stand and accuse her of falsifying a statement of a police officer, this would destroy the hope of staying married. Yes I should have been thinking more clearly about my future when I plead to a crime I was not guilty of, but the reality is a woman lied to a police officer, the prosecutors office pressed charges and I went from a college educated man with a great carrier, to someone who aces interviews and receives many offer that just get rescinded after a background check. I am unemployed and relying on my parents to help take care of my kids. I used my entire 401k before filing bankruptcy. I am currently writing my representative to congress about my experience with the legal system. I am heartbroken for all others that have experienced what I have, and am lifting you all in my prayers!
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Greenland, NH writes:
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    These stories are an outrage, keep voting for liberal democrats and you will get more of the same
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from San Mateo, CA writes:
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    I am a victim of this outrage. On February 4 2015, I was in an argument with my ex and she assaulted me while I was driving her to her grandma's. She punched me several times in the face and grabbed the steering wheel of my car, causing an accident. She then lied about the ordeal causing me to be arrested and charged with domestic violence,kidnapping and reckless driving with great bodily injury. I was forced to take a plea bargain in fear of going to prison for 10 years. I am now serving 3 years probation, I have to pay 60k in restitution to the driver I hit and am being forced to pay over 2k in fees and take a 52week class that costs 3k. I am homeless and am having problems getting a job due to the nature of my charges. I have never been arrested before and have always been a law abiding citizen and a naturally kind and loving person, now I suffer because of a lie a woman who was 51/50 ed for psychological problems made.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Antioch, CA writes:
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    To punish me for filing for a divorce, got me fired, I requested spousal support, judge ordered it, he flled a FALSE TRO the next. False DV are not just filed against men some men do it to WOMEN when they feel they can't control them anymore. Judges to not read exhibits, declarations, the procedure is RUSHED and the moving party is generally considered to be telling the truth even when the evidence is before the court. Look at my case Contra Costa Superior Court, Case No. D15-00029.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Antioch, CA writes:
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    To punish me for filing for a divorce, got me fired, I requested spousal support, judge ordered it, he flled a FALSE TRO the next. False DV are not just filed against men some men do it to WOMEN when they feel they can't control them anymore. Judges to not read exhibits, declarations, the procedure is RUSHED and the moving party is generally considered to be telling the truth even when the evidence is before the court.
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
    Someone from Chicago, IL writes:
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    A woman lied to a police officer in chicago. And i did nothing at All tp her but the officer told me to leave i felt embarrassed since i was a innocent M.an
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  • Jun 9th, 2015
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  • Jun 8th, 2015
    Someone from Waterbury, CT writes:
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    I'm currently going through this now. All word of mouth with no evidence. I've been removed from my home to live on the streets, Now going on 10 months while she has the next man living in my home.
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  • Jun 8th, 2015
    Someone from Schaumburg, IL writes:
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    stop allowing american citizens to be taken advantage of because of an absurd loop hole! false claims are simply accepted as truth...what about due process? what about the victims that these lies leave after these scam-artists successfully bastardize our immigration system? Its horrifying!
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  • Jun 8th, 2015
    Someone from Magnolia, DE signed.