Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
My son lives in Fl and was falsely accused by his cheating wife of domestic violence and got an order of protection. He has since lost his job, his home, and whatever else she wants. The State Attorney supported his ex and never gave him a chance to defend himself. This is ongoing. The Courts need to allow the husbands (many falsely accused) some justice against lying wives who are looking for a greener pasture. -
Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
My son lives in Fl and was falsely accused by his cheating wife of domestic violence and got an order of protection. He has since lost his job, his home, and whatever else she wants. The State Attorney supported his ex and never gave him a chance to defend himself. This is ongoing. The Courts need to allow the husbands (many falsely accused) some justice against lying wives who are looking for a greener pasture.REPORT COMMENTS
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Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Valley Springs, CA writes:
In a few words I'm the victim of a narcissistic sociopathic emotional abuser of 5+ years, jus had my court date to respond to her "alleged actions".... wasn't allowed to speak per my attorney cause she was basically scared said our reply to her order says what we want we would be repetitive if I got up on the stand. Needless to say she now has a 5 year order based on COMPLETE LIES !!!!!!!!!!!!! If there is ANYWAY I CAN HELP THIS REALLY BE CONSIDERED AND LOOKED AT AND HEARD PLEASE CONTACT ME VIA EMAIL (subject : ITS NOT OVER YET) P.S. DADDY JJ MISSES YOU AIDEN !! :(REPORT COMMENTS
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Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Greensburg, PA writes:
I just recently went through the PFA process with my EX girlfriend. I caught her cheating with someone and told her to leave the apartment and stay with him if she was going to do that. She left (no violence occurred no threats) I go to bed, go to work, get home, and then get a knock on the door from the police with a PFA Full! Of false accusations! I grabbed essentials and left calmly. Days go by and she contacts my mother telling her she's going to drop the PFA. We talked and planned a date with each other , I get to thinking and told her the next day that it's probably not a good idea we meet up and rekindle the relationship. She get mad and hangs up the phone. Goes to the cops and said I harassed her. (Simply contacting the other person mutually got me cuffed up and thrown in jail for 24 hr being treated like a woman beater) PFA was dropped but an agreement was made for no contact. She got the place and alot of the things that I had bought. Mind you this all began over her cheating ON ME! And I have to pay thousands of dollars to take care of this awful situation, lost days of work, got evicted,payed for a place that I wasn't even allowed to stay at. I believe that I could peruse a case against her based off of the false accusations, but am too exhausted at this point. And I know she doesn't have any money. And her daughter (who was awesome and we got along great!) Is caught in the middle of all of this! I know ow there is going to be a psychological affect unfortunately. I just what to get out of this situation. And Move Forward with my life!REPORT COMMENTS
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Apr 14th, 2016Someone from Fort Worth, TX signed.
Apr 14th, 2016Someone from Derry, NH writes:
My daughter was fed false accusations against me he entire life. THIS MUST STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 14th, 2016Someone from Kenner, LA writes:
So for the comment from and I'll be a psycho who also abuses the system and is possibly one of those women who have gotten away with it in Caryville, TN, you're comments aren't welcome on our page ! I'm a woman and will tell you that women like you abuse the system for something as simple as a broken heart . Soon as your man doesn't want you it's time to cry domestic violence. But you women you don't stop there you also make sure the kids are right in the middle. What is wrong with you? If you can honestly say women do not abuse the system and falsely accuse Men of violence , you have to be one of those women. The laws need to be changed. If you were not in Tennessee I would have already thought you were my new mans ex , because you sound just like her with your crazy words. She writes the same kind of crap and it is nothing more than a pathetic attempt to defend her own lies!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 14th, 2016Someone from Meridian, TX writes:
My life at age 53 my life is an empty hellish existance after being accused of things which took my precious babies from me. For 3 years my broken heart has Cried out to God as he knows the love stolen from my soul! Oh my Haley and Savannah daddy Will never stop adoring you!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 14th, 2016Someone from Westlake, OH signed.
Apr 14th, 2016Someone from Antioch, CA signed.
Apr 14th, 2016Someone from Collins, IA writes:
A woman scammed people in our Iowa town out of big money via rent scams. One victim created a website to warn others about her and he connected with other victims from other states. In retaliation, this woman went to domestic violence groups in different states (using different names) over the following 5 years, told them that she and the landlord had been domestic partners for 10 years (totally untrue, he'd been married for some 25 and she was just a prospective tenant) and that he abused her, raped her, stalked her, etc. He was served with 5 restraining orders (all vacated) and had to go to court and hire a lawyer to clear his name. (Judge ordered the accuser to reimburse his expenses, never happened.) Why did she do this? For retaliation, as mentioned, but also to "live" as a professional victim. As a fake victim, she was given food, clothing, shelter, counseling, hugs and understanding. When she was pressured by her supporters to find a job and get on with her life, she'd say that she "saw" her "attacker" and the blind dopes supporting her would send her to a different "safe house". This woman victimized people financially, and she also duped people at D.V. centers who were all too happy to believe her, with no proof required. Despite false R.O.'s, she never served jail time, and is still doing this. The "system" makes it possible.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 14th, 2016Someone from Owensboro, KY writes:
This happened to me and my newborn was took by the father. I was breastfeeding and couldn't continue because he took her.. it was a true lifetime movie. Was the worst 5 days of my entire life not knowing were my baby was.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 13th, 2016Someone from Newberry, FL writes:
I will be going to court on the 26th of April, this has and is a nightmare, I also am charged or at least thru allegations trying to.I have not seen my little angel for a year (4yrs old).I'm 50 my only daughter being taken,my heart aches each and every day,the polygraph came back no (deception), physco sexual evaluation came back normal, each time DCF would tell me that you take the test and pass you can see your daughter. Yet there is still emptiness here.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 13th, 2016Someone from Monterey, CA writes:
It is a injustice to see this happen to innocent men, there has to he a fair trail when it comes to this. Women have and will use the system to their advantage and when evidence is proven that they have, these women should be punished by fines and/or community service for using and wasting the police and court system to their own revenge.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 13th, 2016Someone from Coeur D Alene, ID writes:
My life is being destroyed by false allegations. At least my faith in Jesus Christ has grown stronger regardless of these false accusations.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 12th, 2016Someone from Caryville, TN writes:
It is women who have the table flipped on them and get arrested for nothing. Historically men have sent women to the hospital and controlled their lives. That's why these laws were put in place. Now there is a new epidemic of the woman falsely accusing the man. I hardly think so. Man have historically been abusers and continue to be throughout the world. You don't hear of women in 3rd world countries doing any false accusations. No, they get tortured and murdered by their husbands. Suddenly, American women are different? If you don't want to be "falsely accused," then don't lay a hand on your wife. Be a gentleman. Don't make her do all the work and heavy lifting in the relationship. If she has some humanity, cries or raises her voice in self defense because she can't take it anymore, that is not abuse. That's humanity. Here's the means test. If you are doing something to your partner that you wouldn't do to a man much larger and stronger than yourself, you are a coward and abuser. KEEP THESE LAWS ON THE BOOKS!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Port Charlotte, FL writes:
My 3 children are the true victims in this selfish act by my ex wife. My oldest is 13 yr old non biological daughter I raised since 2 yrs old, and now kept from me since Feb 2012. DV orders are abused by the People who use them, a vindictive tool slandering the accused party when the the accused is usually innocent. they are a means to fuel divorce courts, law enforcrment, courts ,counselors, and child services, and organizations like C.A.R.E.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Waldoboro, ME signed.
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Apr 11th, 2016Someone from Cape Coral, FL writes:
Anyone that has a problem with you, file a false DV injuction against you..sad place to be if your the respondent.. ENOUGHREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Winfield, MO writes:
My son is being falsely accused of abuse. This is unbelievable that people get away with this and ruin peoples lives.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Bridgeport, CT writes:
I was a victim of this act, my ex wife whom is mentally disturbed accused me if DV. The next week i had cops show up to my house and i was arrested. We are currently going through a divorce. I am only 28 and now have a court date looming against me in hopes my public defender can get those tapes from my local stop and shop proving my innocence. Something needs to change and fast this is wrong for men that are innocent.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Socorro, NM writes:
People who cry wolf when it comes to abuse need to face a consequence for wasting public resources.The citizens of the state of New Mexico paid for the following: state police, county police, city police, (on numerous occasions), 7th judicial court, CYFD, Safe House, El Puente (for abused women), and Presbyterian Hospital. All allegations from child abuse, spousal abuse, to all evaluations she had done to her children and ex husband were proven false or unfounded of wrong doing. Each year 25,000 false reports are filed in our state, bogging down the system and costing tax payers a lot of money. I think of the donors who fund programs for abused women only to be used as a means by those who seek revenge against an ex spouse. There really needs to be severe consequences so people will think twice before they lie to police and authorities in regards to false allegations of abuse.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
Everyone... Please call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC at (202) 224-5225 Tell them to do their JOB! It is now guilty, until proven innocent.. the OPPOSITE of what our criminal justice system was built on! Please call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington, DC at (202) 224-5225 and DEMAND a Congressional Hearing on false accusations of domestic abuse! Demand that they regard EVERYONE as innocent, until proven guilty in a fair court of law with DUE PROCESS! Hold the false accusers accountable for their LIES! Right now, it is literally guilty, until proven innocent. Please... Everyone.... Call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington, DC (202) 224-5225 or the false accusations will continue. Thanks, One of tens of thousands of falsely accused American citizens.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 11th, 2016Someone from Roseland, LA signed.
Apr 10th, 2016Someone from Tampa, FL writes:
My husband is incarcerated due to this raged ex female. I'm researching the law to find out how to get him released..?? IDK what to do because I work Monday through Fri. Please help and I will call the Senate.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 10th, 2016Someone from Jacksonville, FL signed.
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Apr 10th, 2016Someone from Laconia, NH writes:
My son is currently in jail due to false charges of domestic abuse from a fiancee who is an alcoholic and abuser herself. They have 9mo old twin boys whom she has no business parenting. My son was their protector, opening a DCF case against her due to heavy drinking when she was pregnant. I think she planned this hideous revenge from that point on and now her sons will be raised by a destructive vindictive unbalanced woman. My son will probably take a plea bargain in hopes of saving his job and getting out of jail sooner than later but then he has that on his record when he is in fact the innocent victim. He is guilty in the eyes of the law and has been stripped of everything. He had a home, a family and a good job one month ago, now his life is in complete ruin.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 10th, 2016Someone from Springfield, TN signed.
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Apr 9th, 2016Someone from Southaven, MS writes:
I'm a legal imigrant n I was arrested twice because of my wife at the time false accusation.The first time she did ,is when I found out she is cheating n we argued.They second she did it .I when I threaten to leave her.I each case I clearly told the police,hey I didn't hit anyone ,why am I being arrested?In both cases she left the house before calling the police.I ask the police where is she hit n I need to know the evidence of she getting hurt.It both cases I was later release but was force to do anger management course but yet my wife was lying ,never got hurt or could they prove it in any way.My name and reputation however is damaged.Im even on the Internet as a woman abuser in which I'm totally not and innocent of those accusationsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 9th, 2016Someone from Alexandria, VA writes:
After being a victim of this crime of false domestic violence I know for a fact this is one of the worst laws. My crime: I kicked out my wife who was cheating on me with multiple men, drinking and drugs and didn't pay me a single cent for food or rent. After she was facing homelessness she cut off a piece of her hair and called the police. After grade A police work of assuming everything she said was correct and 0 questions from the police and stealing my keys/car and IDs (which she used to empty my bank account so I couldn't afford a decent attorney or bail) and gave these to my accuser. Just a month prior to this she attempted to kill me by her ex boyfriend. I have no ability to expunge it or fight my case. I was not given a fair trial or a lawyer that cared. My only option was to plead guilty for a less harsh sentence. I figured I could get a job but I was turned down from my last 4 job offers after the background check. My ex-wife sent me a letter proving my innocence years after hahahaha but because I plead guilty she get 0 days in jail and my record stays the same. Great system we have here. I work hard to study and get certifications for IT, just hoping that after the 7 years, my background won't be displayed to my future employers. About the only reason I am not homeless is my parents help me out. Makes me feel so great to be a 32 year old child who wants to work hard and applies to job after job without any hope. I hope feminists see the evil they have caused. I hope that Congress see the errors of the law. It amazes me to no end that this person who accused me of this crime with a false accusation, even after she got married messages me constantly attempting to think I would want to get back with someone who ruined my life. Please fix this terrible law and give men a fair trial or do something so no one has to endure what I had to face for trying to do the right thing.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 9th, 2016Someone from Saint Clair Shores, MI signed.
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Apr 8th, 2016Someone from Plymouth, MA writes:
https://www.somewomenlie.com/ Homeless, Childless, Hopeless, no due process,REPORT COMMENTS
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