Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Apr 22nd, 2016Someone from Chester, NH signed.
Apr 22nd, 2016Someone from Dallas, TX signed.
Apr 22nd, 2016Someone from Hutto, TX writes:
I tried to calm down a drunk verbally abusive wife, she tripped I grabbed her to safe guard her fall and the state tried to slap a family violence charge on me. lost 15K, did 6 months probation on deffered adjudication for doing the right thing. Thanks *******sApr 22nd, 2016Someone from Springfield, TN writes:
Many men are the victim here, having watched it first hand. What is happening to law abiding men who are not criminals is not ok. I used to be a woman's advocate some of the women use it to hurt or are pressured into it by peers who know nothing about the situation hense now the man is dealing with a criminal situation. Something must be done. Many good men are being ruined. Could be all about money rather than protecting and serving. I know all to well about domestic violence as I have been a victim but I am sickened by what is happening to men these days.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 22nd, 2016Someone from Springfield, TN writes:
Many men are the victim here, having watched it first hand. What is happening to law abiding men who are not criminals is not ok. I used to be a woman's advocate some of the women use it to hurt or are pressured into it by peers who know nothing about the situation hense now the man is dealing with a criminal situation. Something must be done. Many good men are being ruined. Could be all about money rather than protecting and serving. I know all to well about domestic violence as I have been a victim but I am sickened by what is happening to men these days.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Aurora, IN writes:
Something has to be done to change Florida DV laws. They ruin peoples lives and the false accuser gets not even a slap on the hand.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Salem, OR writes:
My husband's ex-wife attacked him, leaving his face and body bruised and battered. He defended himself by holding her wrists away from him. She filed for a restraining order. There wasn't a single mark on her.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Southbridge, MA writes:
First lived with my partner. Reform desperately needed to protect the falsely accused.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Southbridge, MA writes:
Once accused, you have to prove your inocents. YOU prove your case with evidence and the accuser walks away and not accountable for their frabicated Report.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Palm Coast, FL writes:
I have not seen my son and daughter for 203 days, 19 hours, and 42 minutes. I had a stroke, my spouse/caregiver and her mother out of state accused me of being a potential murderer wanting to kidnap the children (6 weeks after a stroke and still learning to balance and walk) to get the $17,000 we had left and take custody of the children. I could have pressed charges for her attacking me at the top of our stairs she admitted to under oath in the January, 4, 2016 hearing but was to concerned about the impact it would have on my son and daughter to have their mother arrested. The injunction process MUST be changed so that accusers must have concrete evidence to support their claims. I was never arrested for anything. My daughter is suffering from anxiety and depression because there is no end in sight to when she may see her father again while her mother and mother-in-law brainwash her into thinking I am a potential violent threat while I have done nothing to violate the injunction since it was handed to me on Sept. 30, 2016. I've had 4 separate judges, none of which has requested a transcript of any of the other hearings. Not one judge has let me address any of the written allegations! I've simply been treated guilty without a full hearing of the allegations. The system is broken.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Grand Rapids, MN writes:
My wife and I had an argument one night and before things got out of hand We decided to spend a couple days apart to calm down and collect our thoughts... The following day I was talking to a friend and mentioned being very depressed and the friend called the police to check on me. When they did a female officer had her gun drawn in my face when I opened the door. They asked if I was going to hurt myself and I said no. They insisted on badgering me further asking where my wife was... And I told them we had an argument the previous day and we decided to take a couple days to calm down. They then went to talk to her... Asked her if she wanted to press charges against me and she said NO... Well they went against her wishes and arrested me and charged me with a 5th deg domestic (a felony) I am awaiting sentencing still but I will have 21 months in prison all but 30 days stayed and 5 years of probation and drug and violence classes. Neither my wife or I want this as it has caused us stress and financial hardship as well as me being banned from the apartment so we have to move as well even though no one was injured and we had already resolved the situation.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Lake Huntington, NY writes:
As a mother, my heart aches to hear your stories. It happened to my son when his gf filed a false report which led to a temporary PFA in PA- 6 months after he ended the relationship. The seriousness of the situation did not sink in at first. Both he and we were in a state of disbelief. A warning to others : it just takes one naive phone call to be charged with contempt of court for violating a PFA (Protection From Abuse) order which easily can lead to a Final PFA, even when never officially charged with DV, as in my son's case. His lawyer told him just to accept the PFA instead of going to trial and " it will go away". Do NOT believe this. I would advise to borrow money from family members, sell a favorite collectible -or sell your car if necessary to hire a criminal lawyer with experience in representing clients falsely accused of domestic abuse. It's true, as others have commented, oftentimes the accuser in these cases have a borderline and/or Narcissistic personality disorder. They do not show gratitude for others, have an inflated sense of self, do not take responsibility for their behavior and blame others, especially those closest to them. Just think about someone who can file a false police report, then go into a courtroom and lie to a judge-without batting an eye. They are out for revenge. Yes, eventually their behavior will catch up to them-yet they can cause so much unnecessary harm and heartache to the very people who once cared for them. Please know you are not alone-and don't give up.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 21st, 2016Someone from Van Nuys, CA signed.
Apr 21st, 2016Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
My life is being ruined right in front of me by a vengeful ex girlfriend who has Borderline Personality Disorder. Even with a good attorney there's nothing I can do about it and it is only getting worse. False allegations and restraining orders are being thrown at me left and right and police show up at my house and arrest me often. Soon I will have no money to bail out and will have to see the judge wearing clothes from jail while in handcuffs. I have all the evidence in the world but it doesn't help one bit and I'm close to just giving up as this kind of life is not worth living.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 20th, 2016Someone from Woodstock, GA signed.
Apr 19th, 2016Someone from Jacksonville, FL writes:
A good friend and co-worker was just arrested and charged with 2 felonies after being warned by his vindictive wife that she would put him in jail and that he could do nothing about it.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 19th, 2016Someone from Solon, OH writes:
Mentally ill women use this as a weapon every chance they get. The laws are being mishandled by courts, law enforcement, and women.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 19th, 2016Someone from Tampa, FL signed.
Apr 19th, 2016Someone from Frederick, MD writes:
My Ex Wife also used this the day after I found out she was having an affair, I was removed from my home, humiliated and battered in court, the order was dismissed but I lost my house, some friends, my dog and all of my money. I never ever threatened her or laid a finger on her. This was used simply because she was found out. It is a totally unfair abuse of the system, I can understand protecting women (and indeed men from violence) but I was immediately thrown from my house with no evidence, then the most dreadful divorce commenced.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 19th, 2016Someone from Cleveland, OH signed.
Apr 18th, 2016Someone from Oxnard, CA signed.
Apr 18th, 2016Someone from Lake Elsinore, CA writes:
I was filled with joy when i stumbled upon this .my brother is a good man who has been sentenced to several years in federal prison all because he chose the wrong woman. Granted, he was no angel he is not perfect but that was his past ever since his miner run in with the law,at the young age of 16 he has been attending work and he has been on a seven year walk in sobriety . I couldnt be more proud of my big brother . Besides his choice of women he almost had everything going for him . If you know of anyone who can help please let me know and keep my big brother shane in your prayers . thankyou.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 18th, 2016Someone from Rochester, NY signed.
Apr 18th, 2016Someone from Berthold, ND writes:
I am a victim of false allegations. My ex wife used the system to get back at me for filing divorce papers and her, and to rip me out of out Daughters life. In the end they were all proven to be false, but by that time it was to late and custody had been set.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 17th, 2016Someone from Gardnerville, NV writes:
CAUGHT WIFE IN SO MANY LIES AND CHEATING. AND HAVE HAD ENOUGH SO I FILLED FOR DIVORCE ONLY MARRIED 11 MONTHS. SHE IS BI-POLAR AND I CAN NOT DEAL WITH IT. SINCE I FILLED SHE NOW HAS ACCUSED ME OF BEATING HER. WELL I NEVER WENT TO JAIL BECAUSE SHE WAS WITNESSED BY SHERIFF SCRATCHING AND MAKING MARKS TO HERSELF. I WENT AND GOT A RESTRAINING ORDER ON HER JUST TO PROTECT MY SELF SO THEN SHE GOT ONE ON ME. I HAVE SINCE BEEN ASKED TO BE AWAY FROM THE HOUSE TILL THIS GETS RESOLVED IN THE MEAN TIME SHE HAS HER NEW BOYFRIEND STAYING IN MY HOUSE THAT I RENT. AND I ALSO GET PAID TO MAINTAIN THE PROPERTY. I AM ALLOWED TO BE ON PROPERTY TO DO MAINTAINCE JUST CAN NOT GO IN HOUSE PER COURT. I GO 1 TIME A WEEK TO WORK ON PROPERTY AND SHE MAKE FALSE ACCUSATIONS THAT I AM BREAKING MY COURT ORDER JUST TO SEE IF SHE CAN GET ME ARRESTED. IM STUCK IN THE MIDDLE OF THE COURT AND A CRAZY PERSON. SHE IS NOT ON THE LEASE WHICH HAS EXPIRED ABOUT TWO MONTHS AGO AND REFUSES TO PAY RENT. I WENT AND POSTED A 5 DAY AND SHE CONTESTED. SO IN A NUT SHELL. SHE IS A LIAR. SHE HAS BEEN CAUGHT CHEATING. SHE HAS MADE FALSE ACCUSATIONS TO THE POLICE SHE REFUSES TO PAY RENT AND YET. THE COURT IS LETTING HER STAY IN THE HOUSE WITH WHILE I AM ON A FRIENDS COUCH.AND THIS IS NOT HER FIRST TIME IN COURT FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS. I JUST FOUND OUT SHE HAS DONE THIS TO ABOUT 5 DIFFERENT MEN. IF I KNEW THAT AT FIRST I WOULD NEVER HAD MARRIED HER.WHERE IS THE JUSTICE IM JUST SO OVERWHELMED BY THE BAD CHOICES SHE HAS MADE AND THE COURT DOES NOTHING ABOUT IT. REALLY!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 17th, 2016Someone from North Port, FL signed.
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Apr 17th, 2016Someone from Pueblo, CO writes:
I got stage 4 chf and i had a massive stroke. These sane two white women , i already had one felony case dismissed, but i know the D.A. know that these women are making false allegations, and false reports they are still pressing charges.I cant take to much more of this. My health is not good, but im a fighter and I'm go keep fighting as long as the lord lets me. Please put an end to these false allegations.Whatever else that they think they can doREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 17th, 2016Someone from Pueblo, CO signed.
Apr 16th, 2016Someone from Concrete, WA signed.
Apr 16th, 2016Someone from Johns Island, SC writes:
This affects both genders. My ex lied and said my son was in imminent danger because I'm on disability yet he was gone 2 years. He lied. After the custody case was filed by him then he purposefully fondled my son in front of me so it would freak me out and cause me to tell court about it. That's how he gained custody because they said I was making it up. But pictures don't lie and neither did my child because it happened again and again.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 16th, 2016Someone from Winder, GA writes:
My son is serving time for this for no reason other than the DA's in this case convinced him to take a plea without understanding that it will affect the rest of his life. This so called victim has a Borderline Personality Disorder of the worse kind and was able to convince the DA's of this County her lies. When she tried to recant her story they threatened her with perjury. She did not even showup in front of the judge. She was so frightened that when they called her. She told them to do whatever they wanted too. They sent him to prison. My family does not know what we can do to turn this uncalled for mess around. Please Help!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 16th, 2016Someone from Burdick, KS signed.
Apr 16th, 2016Someone from Sussex, WI writes:
I am noticing when I explain my story, people dont understand or have any knowledge about narcissistic personality disorder. My ex boyfriend is playing victim and its a huge control thing for him. I am going through this right now. I am the one who was charged with DV when my ex boyfriend was the one who attacked me. I never touched him. I was trying to end our relationship and now I am facing charges. I really hope that one day making false allegations wont be so easy. From my experience, the police seemed lazy and did not investigate properly. I am another innocent person being charged with Domestic Violence.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 15th, 2016Someone from Valley Springs, CA signed.
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Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Sylacauga, AL signed.
Apr 15th, 2016Someone from East Peoria, IL signed.
Apr 15th, 2016Someone from Alachua, FL writes:
My son lives in Fl and was falsely accused by his cheating wife of domestic violence and got an order of protection. He has since lost his job, his home, and whatever else she wants. The State Attorney supported his ex and never gave him a chance to defend himself. This is ongoing. The Courts need to allow the husbands (many falsely accused) some justice against lying wives who are looking for a greener pasture.REPORT COMMENTS
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