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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Public Comments
Feb 23rd, 2017
Someone from Marion, MA writes:
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subourning perjury with client ,file a complaint against your wifes lesbian attorney board of overseers, and if you feel the judge is favoring her, gender bias, file complaint against him , always file notice of appeal if no money , find a local law school , these kids will help you prepare a viable appeal, also file an IRS. referral report on exwife and her manhating lesbian attorney these attorneys hide a lot of unreported client monies when your wife signs a pains and penalties of perjury challenge it remember guys these little slot machines cost lots of dough oh your kids willgrow up to hate you although your a loving dad parent alienation hum lolots of luck
Feb 23rd, 2017
Someone from Marion, MA writes:
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a restraining order in Massachusetts against a man is like a guaranteed trip to the slammer, these demented females will violate you so be prepared to sue them and always appeal the order,there are some good , tort lawyers, these females that make false bogus reports to police , to violate you , they male a claim that's their right , wenger v aceto mass gl fabre v Walton mass gl they make a claim under mass law slapplaw 23159h I have a right to petition police they assesrt police and da prosecuted him motive doent matter malicious intent does these women , once your cleared off criminal charges now you sue the ***** let her get a taste of mass gen law doent taste good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Feb 23rd, 2017
Someone from Marion, MA writes:
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a restraining order in Massachusetts against a man is like a guaranteed trip to the slammer, these demented females will violate you so be prepared to sue them and always appeal the order,there are some good , tort lawyers, these females that make false bogus reports to police , to violate you , they male a claim that's their right , wenger v aceto mass gl fabre v Walton mass gl they make a claim under mass law slapplaw 23159h I have a right to petition police they assesrt police and da prosecuted him motive doent matter malicious intent does these women , once your cleared off criminal charges now you sue the ***** let her get a taste of mass gen law doent taste good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Feb 22nd, 2017
Someone from Marion, MA writes:
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this case is ongoing they threw this man in jail for petioning the probate court for redress of greivences, the ex wife poisen,s the daughter against the father now he,s suing in superior court. mass appeals case 2015p1711 take a look a what a deranged female, can do now its her turn to face what she,s done
Feb 22nd, 2017
Someone from Marion, MA writes:
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my ex wife assaulted me itried to leave she blocks the door she punches the wall cops come I'm told to leave my house, restraing order time 24hr then renew next day she states to the court when she came home from work her gas lights phone were off ,1992, extend,s order year after year divorce in 94 exp in 97 makes a perminant order, petition to vacate , in 2014 she brings a man hating lesbian attorney , states that sept of 1992 my wife suffered broken jaw broken nose loose teeth, this lawyer said I threw a frozen chicken at her , lets look back in 92, sept last day we were together, talk about fraud on the court, makes a claim working with those injurys simply laughable liar courts don't care if a female lies put many countys away from a psycho ex even leave the state, you can also sue her in your local superior court, torts , judicial abuse, malicious prosecution, breach of divorce decree, do not violate the order, always appeal, any extension,of order, its funny how they define fear , your completely innocent but the judges don't care if your a male, maybe we should try the transgender route, maybe I could gain a open ear , from the judge , remember these womens groups or court advocates are in the court to persuade them to lie correctly, its all a money funding game and were the bait in the cell, seems like the more you fight the order the more they point the finger at you it feels awful. then the divorce that comes makes it worse, there is hope and light at the end of the tunnel. I'm still dealing with this ***** 24 years later hope my tunnel has some light
Feb 22nd, 2017
Someone from Huntington Beach, CA writes:
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It's Unconstitutional when under the Constitution all men are created equal and this law is Unconstitutional This law must be abished so innocent men that are violated while the woman can tell lies and have the man incarnated even if they did nothing but defend themselves from a abusive woman. I know for a fact this has happened and it doesn't matter if the man is permanently disabled as I am. Please this must be stopped please
Feb 20th, 2017
Robert G. from Hollywood, FL writes:
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I was accused of domestic violence in 2015, my wife absconded from the marital home and took my daughter. I had no contact with my daughter from 8/2015 to 12/2015. I had 3 court appointed Psychologists appointed by the courts. All of them came to the conclusion that the mother has a Borderline Personality Disorder i.e is mentally ill, and that my daughter has been alienated. The mother cannot follow any court orders, and has not spoken with my son in 19 months. My daughter and son relationship has also suffered as they no longer speak. After spending well over 100K in legal fees associated, I still have not spent any time with my daughter. There has to be a severe punishment invoked for filing false allegations of domestic violence when there is a minor child involved and any attorney that encourages this behavior should be disbarred by ACAP.
Feb 19th, 2017
Someone from Temecula, CA writes:
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Unfortunately, this is widely common. It needs to be stopped. A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that by calling the police to just seperate or mediate the heated argument will fix the problem. Not without someone going to jail these days despite lack of evidence or even statements from the plaintiff of non physical abuse, at the very last minute. All it takes is for a scorned individual to make a claim and the system/state will do the rest.
Feb 19th, 2017
Wrongfully C. from Fargo, ND writes:
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DV is a scam perpetrated against the people by usurpers in Law and Government. DV is Legal Plunder by criminals with special interests partnering with criminals in Law and Gov't. Domestic Enemies Make, Support, Enforce, and Defend Un-Constitutional Laws. America is the leading jailer in the history of all human civilizations. Despite Innocence, over 95% are forced to plead guilty rather than go to trial. At least 12% of People convicted of 'Serious' crimes are INNOCENT. (Less serious crimes much higher % innocent wrongly convicted.) In the 1990s, a federal inquiry found that DNA testing, then new, was clearing 25% of primary suspects. America is NOT Free. USA Citizens are denied their Constitutional Rights. Some Government & Legal Officials, and many Laws are domestic enemies, traitors, perjures, and in violation to the US Constitution. Domestic Violence industry and laws are a Scam. 1 in 10 falsely accused of child abuse, sexual assault, and domestic violence. Women perpetrate over 70% of interpersonal violence against men. Women murder family members 60%, while men murder family only 20%. Women use weapons in 80% of their assaults, while only 25% for men. 54% of all domestic violence injuries are perpetrated against men. When the police are called on a domestic violence situation, 96% of the time the man is arrested. When someone is seriously injured because of domestic violence, 66% of cases are men. LGBTQ and HIV-affected people of color make up over 50 percent of all intimate-partner violence cases. Study finds a 41% false allegation rate for rape claims. Up to 80% of domestic violence allegations against men are false allegations. Women are 9 times more likely to call the police than men in domestic violence. 1 in 3, mostly men, are falsely arrested for domestic violence nationally. Nearly 1 out of every 2, mostly men, are falsely arrested for domestic violence in N.D. Law Enforcement Officers commit the most violent assault crimes, the most sexual assault crimes, the most fatal excessive force crimes, and police domestic violence is two to four times higher than the general population. Based on an equivalent per 100,000 population: You are 3.5 times more likely to be shot & killed by a Cop than you are from another Citizen. Cops kill Citizens by firearm at a rate of 1,000 times more than citizens kill cops by firearm. https://sites.google.com/site/nodakwc/domestic-violence-scam https://sites.google.com/site/nodakwc/domestic-violence-scam/the-numb-ers
Feb 18th, 2017
Someone from Dyersville, IA writes:
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I am a true victim of Donestic Abuse, permanet injuries...but I will still not stand by and watch another female blatantly lie Underoath accusing an innocent man,because she dislikes him and wants to hurt him!!!
Feb 17th, 2017
Starla J. from Minneapolis, MN writes:
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My brother in laws gf claims false abuse and cops are called and she wasnt hit or hurt or even yelled at! He wants to leave then she threatens police she has even gone so far as to hit herself for false reports and has even claimed fake pregency.
Feb 16th, 2017
Felton C. from Suffolk, VA signed.
Feb 15th, 2017
Someone from Saint Paul, MN signed.
Feb 13th, 2017
Shelia Michelle S. from Auburn, WA signed.
Feb 12th, 2017
Someone from Hobart, IN writes:
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I'm so tired of manipulating women getting away with lying, cheating, and forcing fathers away from their children. Things need to change, start treating fathers equally.
Feb 12th, 2017
Nancy G. from Modesto, CA writes:
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I was falsely accused of domestic violence by my partner who initiated violence against me and attempted to hold me hostage in her house. When I lashed out physically to protect myself and flee, she called the police claiming I was the violent party. She convinced the police, the local women's shelter, the victim's witness program and her primary care doctor that she was a "victim" and that she deserved special treatment while I deserved jail and punishment. Luckily the judge dropped the charges. How disgusting that our system regularly allows for this kind of story telling and false accusations to clog our legal system and ruin the lives of those accused. My partner is severely mentally ill, and yet she was believed over me who clearly stated all the violent and aggresive actions which she had initiated against me, including her taking my phone when i attempted to csll the police. Shameful.
Feb 10th, 2017
Stephen W. from Mechanicsville, VA signed.
Feb 9th, 2017
Justice d. from Arverne, NY writes:
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The man in the mirror: you are in denial and while you may hate me for saying this and you may not want to hear it do yourself a favor and give me a chance and read this to the end if you really want to comprehend; protect yourself , fight against , and ultimately change , or reform the system that is causing you to be the ultimate victim of false complaints . Think about it every message every post that you have read every incident of Falls complaining that you have never heard about all has one single characteristic in common as pertains to the innocent victim of the false complaint: the innocent victim of false complaints always poor and without the means to pay to play the system. They cannot hire proper Council. system and your life being ruined: Woman abusing the system and making false complaints I'm not the problem they are a symptom of the immoral corrupt unethical practices of an entire nation of people, man, greed. The crime of genocide, slavery, that's sex slave trade that continues today, child trafficking, even the sale at the most toxic drunk which destroys not only your liver but has people raping their own children and beating their wives alcohol a poison which is synthesized to its tirisfal and sold with that government seal on it is legal while at the same time weed is illegal: PROFIT! profit, it is what the accountants who see the bottom line the budget director blow out that*****the people who are paid on commission and a lobbyist this is what they call it profit in reality it is all organized crime. Organized crime it is subjecting you to this social abuse and persecution and until you recognize the fact that your greed collectively is driving this engine there was nothing that you can do about it, until you look in the mirror, ook at your neighbors, look at the people you know you love and respect for it is their greed then materialism and yours that is the roots of this and all social ills because off of your pain and suffering the judge gets paid the correction officers get paid the court officers get paid the police who arrested you get paid the the district attorney gets paid the legal aid lawyer for the Falls victim who makes the Falls complaints the victim the alleged victim who is encouraged to lie and Nick perjured statements is also a victim the court clerk a court reporter the stenographer all of the expert Witnesses CPS DSS the social welfare worker domestic violence counselor the domestic violence crime unit personnel and you have no idea how deep this goes and how many people arcade to generate the hundreds if not thousands of documents on each one of you that are now public records for each and every single incident restraining order or temporary restraining order temporary order of protection that is generated from a single false complaint and you want this to stop you want your suffering to stop and put the welfare jobs and means of income of all of these people out of business give it a break Europeans killed off up to a third of their own population during the Protestant Europeans controlled this entire planet under colonialism but greed made the Europeans lose it all and now under the guise of the EU Britain Germany and France has recolonize eastern Europe and until you recognize the nature of your greed you can't begin to comprehend what's going on to you here with false report. Justice for all or for none. Goodday
Feb 9th, 2017
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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Men... Stay AWAY from females... completely! The laws favor women so much, that any of them can ruin your life. All they have to do, is want to. Its that simple. This wouldn't happen, COULDN'T happen, if our LAWS upheld innocent until proven guilty, and PROSECUTED the proven false accusers. F**K you, Congress. MGTOW
Feb 9th, 2017
Tom S. from Salem, NH writes:
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I'm the victim of false DVP. 3 restraining orders, a felony arrest, and multiple false reports to child services. Atkinson NH Sargent's not only abused Thier power of authority but doctored their reports to cover up their abuse of power. My life is ruined now. IDK what to do now because I'm broke, reputation ruined, and my career is ruined. Must be nice to fake being afraid and get full custody while I shell out thousands of dollars just to see my son and keep myself out of prison.
Feb 9th, 2017
Wade M. from Murrells Inlet, SC writes:
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I myself am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence. My ex wife was arrested, luckily the first time two years ago for "False swearing". She received a $50 fine and $185 court cost. Give me a break!!! Then yesterday I successfully defended myself yet again from my ex-wife DVP stating I was, "stalking her on the internet ". Her DVP was denied but did she receive any punishment????? Of course she didin't!!!!
Feb 9th, 2017
Jesus d. from Arverne, NY writes:
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Whatever the majority allowed to happen to the minority whatever crimes you allowed part of the citizenry to be subjected to while you remain silent then becomes the normal accepted practice even when it is crime perpetrated against the majority and there is no one who's going to step in to help you it is all based on money project how do you think you got here and what makes you think that it is not money and racketeering Rico crime that is being committed against you just as you sit by and let this crime be committed against the minority the population just as you allow police brutality and discrimination persecution and prosecution of the few then it becomes the accepted norm and a practice for you what's good for the goose is good for the gander good day
Feb 9th, 2017
clay s. from Canton, NC writes:
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I have been put out of my home .All based on a false accusation I was with this woman for eight years. I live in N C The laws here say that you have no recourse when a woman cries wolf. We bought a house together we put in her name. We are not married so she decided that she was going to put me out . I have spent four years working on this house .ow she has the house its for sell two weeks after having me removed on a domestic. I was going to be added to the deed in two months time. ell i now have learned that N> C. has no common law marriage laws ,if you are not married no matter how long you lived together. You get nothing i mean nothing if your name is not attached. I lost my home my dogs my life my . She has taken everything from me. She claims to be a christian. How about that one. As of to day i still do not have my clothes or tools or my dogs. I do have a lawyer and i am fighting back. I have had to go down to her level. She is a doctor and i am going after her license for the hipaa laws. I am also going to put a lean on the house a construction lean . She cant sell the house without settling the lean . I have had to get in the law books and search for different ways to go after her for taking my life away. I didn't want to go that way but i have no choice. let the games begin. Oh yea its a felony to keep my dogs knowing that i am the legal owner. So if you try some research you might be able to find some recourse. Good luck to all in this fu spot . I will let everyone know the out come .cs
Feb 8th, 2017
Jesus d. from Arverne, NY writes:
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This is just what you deserve you people want to sit around and complain about the Laws of other people's and other countries and how your laws are so Superior and so great. You sit around and watch and listen to all of the lies told about muslims, black men and Latino men not taking care of and spending time with their children and you let this go on for so long Latinos being targeted that now you are being profit from like a commodity your children are being bought and sold to the highest bidder and if you can afford the lawyer you lose and if you don't have the money to pay to play then the free paid legal aid lawyer representing the false accuser and your own children is paid for with your tax dollars will win and you will lose your children this is that democracy and capitalism that you are so proud of good day
Feb 8th, 2017
Jonathan D. from Bensenville, IL writes:
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Hello everyone I was falsely accused Jan 4th 2017 by this woman who i was trying to help her out. She has alcohol fetal syndrome, bi polar, borderline personality. I know all red flags but knowing me im a caring person. She wanted some weed from her friend. We were on our way to go see my friend to cash my check. I told her he has some we can buy. U dont smoke anymore its bad messes up the head. I want to think clearly. Anyways we argued she calls her ex bf the same one she filed a police complaint and having me as a witness. Telling him that i kidnapped her shes all drama. Anyways he calls the police and they call her phone. I told her why is she lying she said because i didnt want to be with her. I was homeless she was helping me out and i really thought this would work but shes crazy. One day in her house she tried to kill herseld with scissors and tried to go through her neck. This all happened in Illinois. She has all my belongings and she threw most of it away i took a guilty plea because i didnt want to stay in jail for something i didnt do. I will try to appeal it. Can someone help me out i feel so bad because im such a nice person with a good heart.
Feb 8th, 2017
Walteau L. from Anchorage, AK writes:
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I to am a victim of false allegations without any charges and kept away from my son. I hope change comes of this!
Feb 7th, 2017
Someone from Canton, MI writes:
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I agree with the above statements and I support the petition which is destroying man's life.How come in the land of freedom there is no freedom for the spouse to explain the details to the law enforcement and how come the law enforcement is doing such a lazy job in arresting someone without proper investigation at the place the incident happened.How come law enforcement just see the tears of the women but not the truth.Is this is what we trained our law enforcement. Is this is how they protect the human lives and if it is than its a shame to humanity and destroying ones life. Women are using the law by putting false allegation to become permanent residents. In coming year every person should start learning law since they born but not the other fields of education. It is totally shame to the law enforcement and courts. Government should not pay a dime to the law enforcement and to the courts for destroying lives of innocent people. It is totally upto a man if he wants to leave a woman. Mr. President I request you to cancel all the domestic violence permanent resident cards which has been issue based on spouse domestic violence else U.S will be the country where people will use laws to destroy U.S.proper investigation must be happened and law enforcement should get punished by doing lazy job and killing innocent people.
Feb 6th, 2017
Someone from Lafayette, IN writes:
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This is a letter I put of on facebook in hopes of helping my son who is now setting in jail We need your HELP If you are truely a friend of Davids I hate to put this out on facebook But feel the need to do so in trying to show this miss justice of one persons lies along with the use of the womens abuse groups to make her false accusations come to light I my self have witnessed the abusive evidence caused by Ashli to David Black eyes Bloody lip and insane scratches down his side and body so severe that an old scar was bleeding Men don't tell as they feel it makes them week to be beaten by a women but what people dont look at is a mans hands are tied He can't or does not fight back because men don't hit women and if they try to just protect them selfs they may hurt the women and still go to jail I am very sure that most of you have witnessed the down word spiral David went on after he was accused like his post showing his depression and suicidal post I can't stand the fact that she has utterly tryed to destroy Davids life and now is trying to have him imprisoned to keep the light of the truth off of her I ask myself over and over how could a person be so cold but I know she is also fighting to keep her children who would have been removed from her for her actions So I need for the lies to come out So I am asking any of Davids friends that have been involved in or seen any of the abuse done to David by Ashli to please step forward and write a letter stating what it was and what happened I am only one person and power is always in numbers So if you have any information at all you can message a letter to me or message me and ill give you my phone number to text and if you don't He can use Prayers so at lest pray that Ashli will be convicted enough by her actions that she will go set it straight Thank you Davids Mother Deana
Feb 6th, 2017
Someone from Little Falls, NJ writes:
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Innocent men need to be protected against women who lie and falsely accuse just to get even with them for wanted to end a relationship. Too many lives are being ruined. My son was accused of domestic violence. She was in a bar fight and was thrown out of the bar, he was a gentlemen and drove her and her friend also in the fight away from the bar so as they would not be arrested. He wanted to drive them home with another man in the car to their homes. He was able to drive the friend home but is girl friend wanted to go to his home. She refused to go home and insisted to stay in his parents home saying she was too drunk. After asking her to leave repeatedly offering her uber rides or having a friend take her home.He told her that she had to go and he never wanted to see her again, "KISS OF DEATH" she became crazy throwing things around his room hitting him in the head with closed fists, my son held her wrists so as her not to hit him or break any more things in his room. Then she than kneed him in the groin several times making him release her wrists. The young man was down stair and hear all the things she was throwing and my son asking her to stop acting crazy and calm down. she final did and agreed to go home. she walked down the stairs only to tell both my son and the friend below that she was sorry for being so crazy and that she was drunk. she then refused to leave the home and told the friend to leave them alone so they could talk. My son agreed to take him home if she also agreed to go home, which she did until the guy was dropped off. She said she would drive her own car home if he would drive her back to our home where her car was parked which he did only to have her tell him if he didn't let her back in the house she would call the police and say that he had hit her. she stayed the night and got up in the morning trying to cuddle with him and he told her no way she was nuts and he never wanted to see her again. she got her keys and left, only to continue to text him to ask if they were done and that he was willing to threw away the 2 years they had been together. He wanted not part of her. She later in the day after talking to the guy that was in our home if he thought that he would call her and was told that no way did my son want to she her then she called the police and took pictures of her marks from the bar fight telling them that he had done it. We have had two witness in court already who have testified about what happen that night. She intern lied on the stand and was caught in the lies. She has not one witness and still my son is going to court. He has lost his job because of the accusations against him. This kind of thing MUST STOP!!! This men need help getting their lives back.
Feb 5th, 2017
Someone from Jackson, MS writes:
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I agree with the statements that are made in this article. My spouse was injured by her former boyfriend and has an ongoing history of back problems. she recently had gastro bypass surgery and now have to take a plethora of vitamins and medication. Medications which include, Hydrocodone (which can be addictive with side affects that renders confusion), Promethazine (side effects include unusual thoughts or behavior) and Citalopram (side effects include agitation, loss of memory, confusion and lack of emotion) just to name a few. She has filed domestic charges against me and I have never even touched my wife in any type of violent manner. I simply don't believe a man should hit a woman. Except she has used excessive profanity to address me and struck me in my facial area to the point where I was forced to contact law enforcement and have then intervene. Court systems have a tendency to take the woman's word over the man even without the facts. Sometimes when they do have the facts they rule against the man just because of his gender the truth of the matter is that 3 and 10 African-American men are abused by women. If there is a female judge on the bench 7 out of ten times they rule against the man, regardless of the facts. This type of injustice need to stop. Fairness and safety for both parties should be considered in most matters. These women are using the law as a weapon of revenge for their failed relationships just to interfere with the man maybe getting a job to better his situation or to have something on his background to ensure he don't have a chance for future jobs.
Feb 5th, 2017
Robert s. from Fresh Meadows, NY writes:
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False accusations should be a crime!
Feb 4th, 2017
Brandon W. from Hubert, NC writes:
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My wife had an affair on me with a man who has 5 drug charges, two assault charges which one of them is for domestic violence against his wife. I found out about the affair, which was the second one I caught her in. We have two children together and where married for 8 years. This was the last straw for me and I told her I wanted a divorce. The children wanted to go with me so we left. A week later I found out I had domestic violence charges so I went to the sheriff's office to turn myself in. Little to my knowledge I would have to spend 48 hours in jail on a "mandatory temporary" hold. During this time my wife AND the real criminal came to my parents home and took the children. Mind you I have no record of any kind and not once has she ever contacted any law agency for the so called "years of abuse" she stated in her testimony. She is now living with the man she had an affair on me with, WITH my 5 year old little girl and 1 her old son. (Could you imagine being a 5 year old daddies girl and one day a strange man and your mother took you away from the place you feel secure and safe.) They now live in a run down trailer with the only vehicle they have is a front seat pickup truck with no license plates. Mind you I filed for emergency custody twice and twice I was denied... I do have a lawyer for both the criminal and custody matter. But what is killing me is I now lost my home, my job and worse of all my children for something I never done. All because she got caught having an affair and knew her marriage was coming to an end. How is this justice? How is this right in anyway? I also know for a fact that the man sells drugs and doesn't work... And he doesn't work either and I am 100% sure she's on drugs as well. I just don't know what to do, I literally worked my*****off for my family for over 8 years and she has never had to work during that entire time. I don't eat, I don't sleep all I do is worry. Sorry for the rant but unfortunately there's very little support out there for the men in my position. I do feel for woman trully in an abusive relationship, myself and my mother put up with it for years from my father before she finally got away so I understand. I never thought in a million years this would happen to me.
Feb 4th, 2017
Someone from Miami, FL signed.
Feb 4th, 2017
Elizabeth D. from Lenox, MA writes:
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As a social work graduate student doing an internship, I was falsely accused by a client of unthinkable acts and a restraining order was filed against me. I was in graduate school, a widow raising two boys, and all I wanted to do was become a social worker. My graduate school, the Domestic Violence agency, as well as the agency where she went for her regular counseling, did not even contact me to discuss the allegations. Furthermore, after the incident, my supervisor requested I do a group because she would not be available. Even though, even though she knew an order of protection was going to be filed and I was under investigated by the State of Massachusetts for abusing a person with a disability. This client has severe mental illnesses and her behavior was classic symptoms of her personality disorder and psychosis. After she accused me of these heinous acts she actually apologized. It is my belief that she was unhappy because she felt abandoned again since I was in the process of leaving the agency. I was finished with my internship and was transferring her to another counselor. Change is difficult, especially given her mental health diagnosis. She has a personality disorder, psychosis and a plethora of other issues such as trauma. I could and would never violate another person. In addition, I was a victim of a gang rape while I was a freshman in college. To be accused of violating another person was beyond my comprehension. As a widow raising my boys alone I returned to graduate school in hopes of making a better life for the three of us. Also, my children were home when she claims we had sex. While in my house fed her, and offered to take her home whenever she wanted too. So, we put movies on and I continued working on my final paper for school. I was due to graduate shortly after she made these allegations which I?m convinced were forced upon her by her therapist at a mental health clinic where she goes for regular therapy. Shortly afterward she filed an emergency restraining that was served to me at my home. I went to court and we were asked to wait until the Judged finish all the other people who were being arraigned so we could be alone since the allegations were horrible. The Judged ruled that I was innocent and demanded the record be sealed. I've been married twice and my second husband passed away, he was the father of my 2 boys. I also have a daughter who is in her mid-20's and lives in New York. She has an amazing job and is quite successful. She is focused and just a wonderfully grounded young lady. In fact, she and the client are close in age, so I believe I could save her, that I would be the one person to make her well. I also have two sons one in middle school and one that just began high school. My sons knew of the women because she would phone the house often. In fact, the kids were home during the time she claims I abused her. The State of Massachusetts investigated and found me innocent, but the local DMH department claimed I was her caretaker because I fed her and brought her home. When they phoned, they requested to come to my house, instead I offered to meet with them, I agreed to be interviewed, but not at my house. We had a brief conversation on the phone. After the conversation, I invited the person to my home, but he stated he had enough to go with. My first practicum was at DCF so I knew I did not have to let them into my home. They claimed my actions were problematic because I brought her home and fed her. She filed an emergency restraining order so I went to court where the Judged ruled that I was innocent and sealed the record. However, something inside of me knew this was not over. I stayed away from the ?city? where she lives and spent most time at home. Just as I was beginning to recover from this traumatic incident I was prepared to go on with my life. But that would change. Throughout the following year, she continued to claim I was abusing her. Then, one day there was a police officer at my door. At first, I thought my Dad passed. But, the officer said someone filed a report with the police. She did not know where I live, but she was familiar with the town since she went to a boarding school for challenged girls in my town. She took a bus to file the report at the police station in my town. The police asked to come into my house to look around. I allowed the officer to look around my house for the crib she claimed I restrained her, made her wear a diaper, among other sick perverted acts. In addition, she claimed I put some sort of electrical device on her breast. The officer looked through my house and left to write his report. He stated I was cooperative and stating he saw nothing. However, the next day I received a notice to appear in court since she filed another restraining order almost a year after the first order. I went to the station and asked for the report. While at the station the Chief of Police said the allegations were bizarre and obviously fabricated. Then he said I should go ahead and get on with my life. The report listed the people that filed this report, one lived in Boston, and the other person was an employee at the Elizabeth Freeman Center. Police said the allegations were clearly insane and I should just get on with my life. When we went to court, I was again found innocent and the file was sealed. The Judge asked the plaintiff how she could sit in a car seat and she was unable to answer the question. Again, I was found innocent and the record was sealed. Working for the Elizabeth Freeman Center in Pittsfield, MA was an enlighten experience. They believe everything women would tell them which harmed several people including myself. Men were always the perpetrator of the abuse and the women were always innocent. I found this to be a disgrace since lives were being destroyed. There are many women who are abusive and this is a difficult scenario for many men. They are often ashamed to admit they are being abused by a female. Sometimes, after the fighting goes on for a long while men become frustrated and react. At this point, the women take on the victim status despite their actions. In addition, I?ve met other women who suffered from going to the Elizabeth Freeman Center. In addition, they have a shelter that is a place where people go and there are women there that continue to see their supposed abusers, drugs are rampant, and rules are not followed. They?ve had several fights among the women where they?ve need to call the police. Children also live at the shelter. This was another reason why I did not take the client to the shelter. Since this incident, I?ve been reluctant to go anywhere, I?m terrified to begin working. I am in major debt due to graduate school, and I have two boys heading to college soon. It?s been a horrific experience and I can?t imagine what it would be like when you're innocent and found guilty. Despite my innocence, I am the victim here and this to me is completely unjust. Not only is this unfair she perjured herself over and over. I find this disgraceful because the court clearly knew she was lying. So, she walks away after destroying my hopes and dreams of becoming a social worker and someone who?s devoted to helping people holistically. The use of drugs at the Mental Health Agency (The Brien Center) are given like candy to children and adults. Although I am not a doctor but I?ve experienced some unfortunate struggles and realize that many of these medications are for short-term use. Of course, there are patients that need them, but there are alternative ways to support clients without giving multiple drugs that are extremely harmful and ultimately the body needs them or you get sick. I share this story because I empathize with all the people who are falsely accused and realize how awful it is to be looked at as if your guilty. It is awful when you know you?ve done nothing and the people making the allegations have no consequence. This is a disgrace since lives are destroyed!
Feb 3rd, 2017
Erik W. from Naperville, IL writes:
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I have been falsely accused of an order of protection three times. All three times were because the relationship was ended. One I wasn't even in the state for! The other two were by the mother of my son who is vindictive that I refused to marry her. She lies and cries crocodile tears and gets an order on me. It is an abuse of the law
Feb 3rd, 2017
Rebecca D. from Naperville, IL writes:
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My husband has been a victim of this in Illinois with his ex girlfriend. He has gotten two on him from her and both were false allegations and he had to suffer the consequences. This needs to be revised and updated to stop the abuse of this law.
Feb 3rd, 2017
Falsely A. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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If I was a female, I would never have to work a day in my life..... Ever! I could literally make a living (a very good one, too), from getting into relationships with men, falsely accusing them of domestic abuse, (if I really want to ruin him, I'll accuse him of rape, sexual assault, or abusing our children), but domestic abuse is much easier, because they don't ask as many questions... they just issue a Protective Order or Restraining Order that gives me possession of his house, then he has to prove that he did NOT abuse me. Once that order is issued, its game over! I'll take whatever I can get from him, then find a new man... men are always ready to help a woman who has been in an "abusive relationship". I might do the same to him, I might not... it just depends on how good he treats me. See the control I have? Ah, its nice to be a female. Thanks Congress!
Feb 2nd, 2017
Someone from Eagle, ID writes:
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My boyfriend has a record because of his ex wife and her family. They concocted a story and twisted the truth. He would never lay a hand on a woman to hurt her. We've been together for awhile now and he has never once acted like we would hurt me. False accusations have destroyed his life along with others who have been falsely accused. It destroys relationships they could have had with their children.
Feb 2nd, 2017
Donna G. from Northvale, NJ signed.
Feb 2nd, 2017
Someone from Grand Bay, AL signed.
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