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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Dec 18th, 2017
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  • Dec 16th, 2017
    Someone from Lake Jackson, TX writes:
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    My 100 pound heavier and 3 inch taller, mentally ill (under care and treatment) financially abusive Partner lied in a sworn statement to police “stating he felt like I was a threat to the safety of himself and his children.” Never had I even raised my voice to his kids. After 4 years of his irresponsibility I finally got really mad and yelled at him. Neither of us hit one another (though he threatened to one time I got mad before) but I went to jail. As a first responder and former teacher my friends who know me were in shock and could not believe such a thing could happen. With a no contact order I cannot insure he gets help, much less having to deal with this and the insane DV charge experience and the whoopsie of a thumb up bubble text message sent on an older text message by mistake. The courts in WA State need to focus on criminals NOT, manipulators of truth that manage to use DV and WA courts to their advantage. Innocents are being tried as guilty with NO recourse. If transferring for work or military assignment in WA state, men and women need to be made aware that raising ones voice can criminalize you, that is how crazy DV laws are.
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  • Dec 12th, 2017
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    DO NOT communicate with WOMEN... at ALL! NONE! ZERO! Yes! It IS that bad! You're never going to know, if she will, or won't falsely accuse you, until she does it!.. and she can LITERALLY do it, ANY time she wants! 2-3 MILLION protective orders / restraining orders / PFA's / domestic violence injunctions / etc. issued EVERY year.. Its estimated that over 80% of these orders are "completely false or trivial, in nature" (S.A.V.E Services, google it).... yet, ZERO prosecutions for LYING UNDER OATH, to get one! NEVER in America! Its a FELONY in EVERY state, but NEVER prosecuted... EVER! They catch these people in lies ALL THE TIME, and NEVER prosecute them... so, they can go back the next day, or weeks later, and try again with a different Magistrate or Judge... and they DO! ....and I totally agree with the "hero" chip on the shoulder comment... I have seen that exact thing many times. The "super-hero" cop, WANTS it to be a "woman in distress", so he can "save the day". . regardless of what actually happened. DO NOT COMMUNICATE with FEMALES!! AT ALL. Go MGTOW. Eventually, all the women will wonder why NO MEN will even speak to them. Feminists and Congress did this!.... ONLY Congress can fix it. Currently, the ONLY way to protect yourself, is to NOT communicate with women, AT ALL! We live in an EXTREMELY adversarial society, where everyone is "offended" by everything, and looking to sue you, or falsely accuse you, to get money for nothing.... and Congress in ENCOURAGING this! Call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington, D.C. if you want (202) 224-5225 Ask them to restore the burden of PROOF, restore the presumption of INNOCENCE, and PROSECUTE the KNOWN LIARS!!! They ADMIT it.... OFTEN!.. and it ruins people's lives! Its a FELONY!! ****ING PROSECUTE THEM! Senate Judiciary Committee (202) 224-5225
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  • Dec 12th, 2017
    Someone from Massillon, OH writes:
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    It's never going to change. Cops have a "hero" chip on their shoulder always taking a womens side no matter what. I was arrested for multiple charges my ex and her cop boyfreind thought up. Bad thing is I was on camera in a post office when all my fabricated crimes were taking place. Prosecutor in Massillon Ohio named Malinda said to me " doesn't matter if you did it or not, you did SOMETHING at one point and I'm still prosecuting you" of cource finally the charges were dropped after I borrowed a lot of money for a good lawer but nothing was done to my ex for lying. She was so mad after court she tried to have me arrested again as I left and accused me of trying to kill her in the parking lot of the court house. Yes, I was on camera again nowhere near her but had to fight for my freedom again. Of course nothing happened to her again. I could go on about even more things she's done like taking out a life insurance policy on me and trying to have me killed. It goes on and on. you would have to see to beleive the things she pulled and got away with numorous times. She did all this because she was about to lose custody of our children and the social security childrens benifits and have to pay me child support. She is a great actor and convinced ******* police, prosecutors, judges, and everybody else she is a victim and not a psychotic *****. She fooled all of them. If I had to do it all over again I wouldn't have gone the legal and proper way. I now have my concealed carry and I'm military trained and go nowhere without being armed. They will not be successful the next time they try to kill me. And by they, I mean her boyfriend and relatives that beleive her crap. You could make a movie about my experience. This is just a fraction of what she's done over the years. Another bad thing is all it takes is a phone call and the man gets an arrest record weather he did it or not. Nobody reads down further on your backround check when applying for various things and show that the charges were dropped. They just see domestic violence charge and automatically don't approve you. It doesn't pay to do the legal process.
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  • Dec 12th, 2017
    Joni P. from Saint Ann, MO writes:
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    Spiteful ex accused my fiancé of domestic violence. Record shows that there was no evidence or markings noted by the police officer in his report about markings found on the victim. He said, my fiancé the accused attacker had bruises and scratch marks on his body. He simply told the police he was defending himself and had to restrain her. His father later showed up and was involved and my fiancé ended up accused of 2 counts of domestic violence. He served his time and paid his dues for 2 years. A lot of money from lawyers to anger management class fees. Later, she tried to use that past against him when she accused him of child abuse for disciplining their son and our daughter for getting caught throwing rocks at cars. She then has tried to keep their child by enforcing an Order of protection after accusing him of child abuse. The courts have allowed her to do this and therefore, we've not been able to have him unless supervised every other week for one day from 10am - 6pm. Their son has said himself that he's past it all and doesn't want it to be like this and wants to see his dad. The courts are allowing her power over their relationship. They're not allowing the father and son to form any kind of relationship unless it's okay with mother and she doesn't want that. She doesn't want her money supply to run out. She receives $946/month for an 8 year old child. He was paying $1237/month when the first order went through and we had him 3 weekends out of the month and every other week in the summer and worked out Holidays either split or every other year. He doesn't EVER get to claim their child for taxes either. She got him for 12K back child support just because. Even though he had evidence PROVING he has paid her willingly from the time they split up. We live close enough now, less than 30 min away and he still pays $946 for an 8 year old when she has a very nice full time job with benefits and she's had two raises since then. None of it adds up and it's UNFAIR the system is allowing it. Meanwhile, I have a daughter with an ex boyfriend who only has to pay $277/month since we split up. He doesn't want anything to do with her and so my fiance has pretty much been her father and she calls him dad and knows him as dad. He's taking care of 3 child plus 2 adults on his one income. He's being punished for making good money. She should not be getting that much child support for one child. Especially, when she uses the money to buy new things for her or pay off her debts she created.
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  • Dec 12th, 2017
    Joni P. from Saint Ann, MO writes:
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    Spiteful ex accused my fiancé of domestic violence. Record shows that there was no evidence or markings noted by the police officer in his report about markings found on the victim. He said, my fiancé the accused attacker had bruises and scratch marks on his body. He simply told the police he was defending himself and had to restrain her. His father later showed up and was involved and my fiancé ended up accused of 2 counts of domestic violence. He served his time and paid his dues for 2 years. A lot of money from lawyers to anger management class fees. Later, she tried to use that past against him when she accused him of child abuse for disciplining their son and our daughter for getting caught throwing rocks at cars. She then has tried to keep their child by enforcing an Order of protection after accusing him of child abuse. The courts have allowed her to do this and therefore, we've not been able to have him unless supervised every other week for one day from 10am - 6pm. Their son has said himself that he's past it all and doesn't want it to be like this and wants to see his dad. The courts are allowing her power over their relationship. They're not allowing the father and son to form any kind of relationship unless it's okay with mother and she doesn't want that. She doesn't want her money supply to run out. She receives $946/month for an 8 year old child. He was paying $1237/month when the first order went through and we had him 3 weekends out of the month and every other week in the summer and worked out Holidays either split or every other year. He doesn't EVER get to claim their child for taxes either. She got him for 12K back child support just because. Even though he had evidence PROVING he has paid her willingly from the time they split up. We live close enough now, less than 30 min away and he still pays $946 for an 8 year old when she has a very nice full time job with benefits and she's had two raises since then. None of it adds up and it's UNFAIR the system is allowing it. Meanwhile, I have a daughter with an ex boyfriend who only has to pay $277/month since we split up. He doesn't want anything to do with her and so my fiance has pretty much been her father and she calls him dad and knows him as dad. He's taking care of 3 child plus 2 adults on his one income. He's being punished for making good money. She should not be getting that much child support for one child. Especially, when she uses the money to buy new things for her or pay off her debts she created.
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  • Dec 12th, 2017
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/both-parties-fear-damage-in-new-era-of-harassment-politics/ar-BBGC3vi?li=BBmkt5R&ocid=spartandhp Awesome! Now, some of these politicians are being falsely accused of sexual harassment, sexual assault, etc, etc,! Looks like Washington has an absolute mess on their hands. Who's going to be accused of something next? Men losing their careers and having their lives destroyed over an ACCUSATION. No court hearing need... Just an accusation on CNN. This has been happening to men for years, and the lawmakers LET it happen... because they don't have the balls to stand up to the feminists.... and now, those very same*******politicians that have no back bone, are at risk of having their lives ruined too. Which politician will be next? Hint (I'll bet my life it will be a male politician)... ha, ha, ha. Of course, it will! Can a female be accused of sexual harassment? Ha, ha, ha! That's laughable to most people, but guess what? That's the next logical step... we can't discriminate based on sex can we? Or, is that what we're ALREADY doing? Ha, ha, ha! Can you hear the circus music playing in Washington, D.C? This is what happens when you have NO CLEAR DEFINITION of "abuse", "sexual assault", or "sexual harassment". ANYTHING can be construed as "abuse" under todays laws! How far are you going to let it go, Congress? Are you going to let it destroy our entire government? Here is a quote from the late, great Antonin Scalia: "When everything is domestic violence, nothing is. Congress will have to come up with a new word (I cannot imagine what it would be), to denote actual domestic violence." -Antonin Scalia https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/both-parties-fear-damage-in-new-era-of-harassment-politics/ar-BBGC3vi?li=BBmkt5R&ocid=spartandhp https://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/27/us/justices-view-gun-curbs-broadly-in-domestic-violence-cases.html Meanwhile, women do this, and its perfectly ok: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQF-cKFDivk Congress, when will you uphold INNOCENT, until PROVEN GUILTY, in a court of law (not CNN), with due process?
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  • Dec 9th, 2017
    Someone from New Fairfield, CT writes:
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    I'm am being accused of violating a protective order when given permission to enter the home while the person with the order wasn't there and also was arrested 2 when I was the one attacked and had hundreds of dollars stolen from but the police believed the female over me and even have witnesses and still proceeded to detain me and no I may be facing a year in prison due to these violations when they are nothing but false accusations
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  • Dec 8th, 2017
    Brooke C. from Bondurant, IA signed.
  • Dec 7th, 2017
    Someone from Hayward, CA writes:
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    I myself am dealing with the same idiocricies and have had a hard Time Maintaining a relationship but I once Had with our children I do feel that Protection is needed if there is violence that can be proven but when protection is given on a whim it should be a crime we can use all the fancy wording we want but let’s face it a person that’s crazy is crazy and a piece of paper doesn’t stop an idiot from doing idiotic things and this goes both ways when you are abusing the process you do the same sick things and in fact are just as bad as the accused ! Face it the truth is the truth ! When you accuse someone of being violent you don’t antagonize them just because a piece of paper protects you ! I mean seriously if that paper makes you feel so safe then you have real problems within your head a crazy person is crazy and that’s all there is to it ! It would be so much better if people couldn’t cry and whine and why would they cry and wine now if they feared there own safety so bad they would literally go find someone else to disturb instead of try to always make a person look bad ! I mean seriously think before you speak !!!
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  • Dec 7th, 2017
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/12/03/texas-woman-accused-posing-as-boyfriend-sending-threats-to-herself.html http://www.worldwideweirdnews.com/2017/12/woman-posed-boyfriend-sent-threatening-messages-causing-jailed-8-times.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3992932/Woman-created-fake-Facebook-profiles-sent-EIGHT-threatening-messages-frame-ex-boyfriend-jailed-year.html This is happening WAY more than the media wants you to know about!!! Most of the victims of this are locked up right now, and no one knows the truth, except the jailed victim, and their false accuser.
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  • Dec 7th, 2017
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    Burden of PROOF. Give it back. The presumption of INNOCENCE. It needs to be RETURNED... for males AND females.... every. single. citizen. MUST be presumed INNOCENT, until proven guilty of a CRIME, with ACTUAL evidence (an accusation is NOT evidence.. its a starting point for an investigation), and DUE PROCESS. "better to let 99 criminals go free, than lock up 1 innocent person"?... right now, we're doing the exact OPPOSITE!... men and women BOTH are being falsely accused! You idiots just can't see it. Ask any magistrate or Judge... people are CAUGHT in obvious lies, and even admit to lying under oath (trying to get a Protective Order, Restraining Order, etc.), but they are NEVER prosecuted... Its a FELONY! Start prosecuting it, and people will start taking it more seriously. Right now, everyone knows they can falsely accuse anyone, and get a protective order / restraining order / PFA / Domestic violence injunction / etc.. and there is no risk for lying under oath.. Start taking you OWN orders SERIOUSLY!! STOP allowing LIARS and MANIPULATORS free reign, to falsely accuse, with no risk! Its really not that hard. People who are CONVICTED of actual abuse in a court of law, with actual evidence and due process, should absolutely be punished, male or female, equally. STOP this "gender war".. we are ALL EQUALL now... and we should ALL be presumed INNOCENT. PROSECUTE the PROVEN LIARS too!. it goes BOTH ways!
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  • Dec 7th, 2017
    Cheryl M. from Chesnee, SC writes:
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    Fathers deserve the same as mothers .
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  • Dec 6th, 2017
    Ray C. from Union City, CA writes:
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    I'm currently the target of my mother and her sisters who are using false accusations of elder abuse to remove me as trustee of an estate my granparents left me as executor. They removed me from the estate ive been paying for and am living in my trailer, moving from place to place for the past 4 months. Their end game is to have me removed and jailed so that the position will put her sister in charge. They can sell the estate and not have to reimburse me for 14 years of expenses incurred for supporting my mother. Even though I'm aware of the tactic, I'm currently losing my ability to defend myself because my attorney and everyone else thinks I'm crazy for suggesting such a thing.
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  • Dec 5th, 2017
    Phillip O. from Sacramento, CA writes:
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    Don't Judges know by now that women LIE out their teeth!!!! All they have to do is Cry and look sad. They do it because US men don't jump when they say JUMP!!!! So they yell Rape!!!! Cops are so Stupid and Not trained to see that women will Fake it Most of the time and the guy isn't a rapist but a pawn in her sick game to get back at him. They pretend to be scared but they are acting and after it's over they are in Bed with their new LOVER<!!!!!! The FBI have it wrong in all of their reports because they don't want to waste their time in such small potatoes when they can have bigger fish to fry. Women can Fake Mental illness, easy it's part of their Feminist growing up and they go away for 30 days and come out all Bright an Kitten bright in other words SHE's FAKING IT PEOPLE!!!!!! My x was screwing the Cop who threatened her and if she didn't do what he wanted Her son would be taken away and she be thrown in a Mental Hospital for drugs. So she did what he wanted her to do, and I went to Prison for False Allegations of Rape. So I'm going to SUE the FU*KING county and the lawyer who didn't do his Job and find the truth. You see the DA has the JUDGE in his Back pocket and the Government don't care. AN other body in the system.
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  • Dec 5th, 2017
    Linda J. from Pottsville, AR writes:
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    My husband of 14yrs I've known since jr high had me falsely charged. Ended up homeless while he got to drive vehicles, stay in house, sleep in my greatgrandmas bed and keep my dogs from me. He has stolen several of my families things, my things and nobody could do anything. One of my dogs got sick and he refused to take to vet. On 11-26-17 I got a text that said "Al died." A week later he finally told me what he did with his body. Police said they couldn't arrest him. I am still homeless and can't find anywhere that can help. This is WRONG! I ended up with probation, a fine to pay, have to take anger management and lost my guns and gun rights. I have to pay all of that, buy a vehicle get insurance, and find a place to live so I can get my other dogs before something happens to them and start my life over with nothing on a minimum wage job I was lucky enough to find. At my age that is going to be almost impossible to do. I was never asked what happened or allowed to tell my side of the story. The laws are good if abuse is there but the law has allowed everything in and about my life to be destroyed and an innocent wonderful dog lost his life. Somehow this needs to change! There needs to be something out there to help people who are falsely charged and convicted.
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  • Dec 5th, 2017
    Someone from Medford, OR writes:
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    This has happened to almost every man I know at one time or another. Woman calls the police and says whatever she wants, and doesn’t have to prove anything at all. Her word is taken without any burden of proof. This needs to stop! Men can be victims of domestic violence too, and we never see justice for anything done to us. That also needs to be stopped!
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  • Dec 4th, 2017
    Yvonne C. from Los Angeles, CA signed.
  • Dec 4th, 2017
    Yvonne C. from Los Angeles, CA signed.
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    Yvonne C. from Los Angeles, CA signed.
  • Dec 3rd, 2017
    Jose F. from Waldo, WI writes:
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    I have been falsely accused and my children have legally stolen by a a Female Judge, Female GAL and my wife. I have NEVER been in any courtroom before for anything. I never could have thought this would happen in the country I served! This needs to stop. The burden of proof needs to be there EVEN IN CIVIL COURT!
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  • Dec 3rd, 2017
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    If you're a male, and you have nothing, you're a "loser" and no woman wants you..... If you're a man, and you have made any sort of life for yourself, you're a TARGET... and ANY female that you get involved with, can take it ALL! (and trust me, EVERY female knows how EASY it is to ruin you.. all they have to do, is WANT to ruin you. YES, it is that simple!... Get mad about it, and she'll have you locked in a cage! They LOVE it when you get angry, because to the courts, an angry man = violent criminal that needs to be locked up, they can't even fathom, that you might be falsely accused. That's because there is NO BURDEN of PROOF. Congress REMOVED that pesky little detail. The accusation IS the evidence! Congress and feminism did this.. only Congress can fix it. This is one of the reasons why men are committing suicide at an astronomical rate. You are forced to live alone, or take the enormous risk of being locked in jail, because your woman is in a bad mood... she can literally do it ANY time she wants... that is ultimate control! Call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington, DC, (202) 224-5225, because if you think they care about this petition, you're wrong! It doesn't have nearly enough signatures... that's because MOST of the victims of false accusations, are in JAIL or PRISON right now... and trust me, they don't have access to this petition.
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  • Dec 3rd, 2017
    Jason E. from Concord, NH writes:
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    This needs to stop. The burden of proof needs to be there.
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  • Dec 2nd, 2017
    Margaret G. from Wasilla, AK writes:
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    This huge industry called family court needs reform. It's destroying families and hurting our children.
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  • Dec 2nd, 2017
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    Innocent, until proven guilty?... Gone. Due process?... Gone. If a female says that you abused her, in any way whatsoever, and she sticks to her story, you are guilty. End of story! The accusation IS the evidence, and that's all they need. Your life will be destroyed, and you will be alone forever, because you're an "abuser"... What woman wants to be with an "abuser"? None! The false accusers are now in control. "Rape culture", "domestic violence culture", "toxic masculinity", etc. Congress has given the feminists and the false accusers, ALL of the control! This is what happens, when you don't uphold "innocent, until proven guilty." or due process. If you have a home, and you want to keep it... or, if you just want to, NOT be locked in jail, I suggest staying away from females completely... unless and until, our laws change drastically. I know you don't believe me now, and you won't... until it happens to you. ...and then, who's going to know? ...Only you, and your false accuser. You were assumed guilty. See how perfectly that works? Innocent, until proven guilty, completely reversed! Congress and feminism did this.
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  • Dec 1st, 2017
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA signed.
  • Dec 1st, 2017
    Someone from Oklahoma City, OK writes:
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    My step mom lied on me and admitted she did it and that she provoked me to hit her I wasn't doing it cause I'm violence I did it because I was protecting my daughter from getting hit with a brush if anyone is a real parent yall can't tell me you wouldn't put your self in my shoes and she moved me back in after I got out of jail And also she beats on her child And she don't do nothing about it and I have a witness that she does And tried committing suicide in front of her child twice I don't deserved the charges I'm not violent
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  • Dec 1st, 2017
    Kelly N. from Shapleigh, ME writes:
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    My son is being falsely accused of DV as we speak in the state of TX. He also is feeling as if he's being treated as guilty until proven innocent. His estranged wife has a history of mental instability and has even gone so far as to injure herself to make her case. Even her parents say she has a history of lying and false accusations but I am now forced to clean out my retirement account as he nor I have any means otherwise to defend him. This isn't right and not only is he paying for these lies, I am as well. It makes me sick to my stomach that I'll be having to start over financially but more so that he needs to be going through this because he fell in love with someone he trusted but shouldn't have.
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  • Dec 1st, 2017
    Justin D. from Virginia Beach, VA writes:
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    My foreign national wife is falsely claiming domestic violence against me and I recently discovered she can receive a permanent green card for it. Now she is using the domestic violence charge as leverage to receive spousal support in our separation and divorce and there's virtually nothing I can do to stop it.
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  • Nov 27th, 2017
    Kim J. from Bend, OR signed.
  • Nov 25th, 2017
    Someone from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    To Maria T. from Copiague, NY: What happened to you, happens to tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of men (and some women), all over America, EVERY SINGLE YEAR. The men have had it happen to them so many times, that, they have now figured out the ONLY way to stop it: accuse the woman, first! Women have been doing this for DECADES.. now, men are figuring it out too, because it is the ONLY defense... strike first! Now, that women are being falsely accused too, maybe (I doubt it, but maybe) CONGRESS will finally do something about these "clearly un-constitutional" (see: "Crespo vs Crespo" in New Jersey, google it) orders (they only change things, when there are women victims, they couldn't care less about the men). NOW, MAYBE, they will realize that its a SERIOUS problem (and MASSIVE)! It is largely hidden, but it is MASSIVE... It is LITERALLY, "whoever accuses first".... that is the "game" of relationships now.. sad, but true. Over 80% of all Protective Orders / Restraining Orders are completely false, or trivial in nature. How did it get this way? Because CONGRESS decided to start taking legal action (Protective Orders / Restraining Orders / Domestic violence injunctions / PFA's / etc. against innocent people (mostly men), based on NOTHING but an accusation! If ANYONE is EVER abused in ANY way... CALL THE POLICE, IMMEDIATELY!!! TELL them what happened. It is THEIR JOB to INVESTIGATE!! If they find evidence of a CRIME (an accusation, is NOT evidence)... hard, physical evidence.. then charge the person (male or female, we are EQUAL), with the appropriate crime... then give them their day in court (with due process)... they MUST be regarded as INNOCENT, unless and until, they are CONVICTED OF a CRIME, with HARD, PHYSICAL evidence! Its the same problem with all of these sexual assault allegations / sexual harassment allegations in the MEDIA right now... EVERYONE has FORGOTTEN... INNOCENT, until PROVEN guilty of a crime with ACTUAL evidence! The media should not be deciding guilt, the courts should. How many men's (and women's') careers / lives have to be DESTROYED, before Congress starts upholding INNOCENT, until proven guilty in a court of law (with due process)? The people in the media are INNOCENT!!! BY DEFINITION, you ****ing idiots!!! Congress, you have LITERALLY let innocent, until proven guilty, be completely REVERSED! The EXACT opposite is now true. The pendulum has swung way too far! Literally, MILLIONS of innocent American citizens (mostly men, but some women too), kicked out of their OWN homes, EVERY YEAR!... All because police are too lazy to INVESTIGATE these accusations, and Congress just goes with the "whoever accuses the other, first" approach. All of these state laws came from the VAWA program (violence against women act). Also, they catch these people in lies a lot, and NEVER prosecute them... EVER! Even when they ADMIT that they lied. So, there is NO RISK for falsely accusing. 2-3 million of these orders every year, NEVER a prosecution for lying to get one... ZERO!... EVER! Feminism and Congress did this!! Congress needs to fix it. Innocent, until proven guilty COMPLETELY REVERSED!! Destroying America, one family at a time. Falsely accusing gives you all of the control (and possession of the house, custody of any kids, all other belongings / assets)... sad, but true. If someone is truly scared of someone they are living with, shouldn't they leave immediately? ...and go to a domestic violence shelter (where its safer)? Why would you want to stay in that person's house, and kick them out?... they obviously KNOW where you are (and you just made them homeless, from their OWN house)... how can that possibly be safe?
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  • Nov 25th, 2017
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  • Nov 25th, 2017
    Maria T. from Copiague, NY writes:
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    My husband wanted a divorce and I did not. As a result he made a false accusation of Domestic Violence, had me arrested and removed from my home, and moved his girlfriend in immediately. This was a clear abuse of the Domestic Violence process.
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  • Nov 25th, 2017
    Maria T. from Copiague, NY writes:
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    My husband wanted a divorce and I did not. As a result he made a false accusation of Domestic Violence, had me arrested and removed from my home, and moved his girlfriend in immediately. This was a clear abuse of the Domestic Violence process.
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  • Nov 25th, 2017
    Maria T. from Copiague, NY writes:
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    My husband wanted a divorce and I did not. As a result he made a false accusation of Domestic Violence, had me arrested and removed from my home, and moved his girlfriend in immediately. This was a clear abuse of the Domestic Violence process.
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  • Nov 24th, 2017
    Michelle W. from Chesapeake, VA writes:
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    I am so glad I came across this site because my boyfriend is currently facing false domestic assault charges by an ex-girlfriend. I acknowledge the fact that there have been thousands of women murdered, attacked, maimed and terrorized by men who deserve to spend the rest of their lives in prison. The problem I have is when woman make false domestic assault charges and are not held criminally accountable for their actions. These women know that the judicial system is set up in such a way that they can get away with ruining men's lives. We are talking about someone's life, livelihood and freedom!! Something needs to be done for the victims of false domestic assault charges!!!
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  • Nov 24th, 2017
    Michelle W. from Chesapeake, VA writes:
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    I am so glad I came across this site because my boyfriend is currently facing false domestic assault charges by an ex-girlfriend. I acknowledge the fact that there have been thousands of women murdered, attacked, maimed and terrorized by men who deserve to spend the rest of their lives in prison. The problem I have is when woman make false domestic assault charges and are not held criminally accountable for their actions. These women know that the judicial system is set up in such a way that they can get away with ruining men's lives. We are talking about someone's life, livelihood and freedom!! Something needs to be done for the victims of false domestic assault charges!!!
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  • Nov 24th, 2017
    Michelle W. from Chesapeake, VA writes:
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    I am so glad I came across this site because my boyfriend is currently facing false domestic assault charges by an ex-girlfriend. I acknowledge the fact that there have been thousands of women murdered, attacked, maimed and terrorized by men who deserve to spend the rest of their lives in prison. The problem I have is when woman make false domestic assault charges and are not held criminally accountable for their actions. These women know that the judicial system is set up in such a way that they can get away with ruining men's lives. We are talking about someone's life, livelihood and freedom!! Something needs to be done for the victims of false domestic assault charges!!!
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  • Nov 21st, 2017
    Someone from Nyssa, OR writes:
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    I am strongly for men's rights. My husband has had not 1 not 2 but 4 restraining orders against him by ex-wife. Not only has she accused him of DV but also abuse towards their son. We've had 3 different child services cases including 2 detective investigations. All of which have not found my husband to be guilty of anything. None the less she continues to deprive my husband the time with his son and constantly files paperwork against him. (We're running out of money to defend ourselves) not to mention trying to support my two older children and a 4 month old baby of our own. She manipulates my step son into feeling a certain way towards us and goes as far as coaching him to say negative things against us. My husband with proof in his hands was not allowed to defend himself. The orders were simply dismissed because the investigations resulted as unsubstantiated. Never the less we lost time with him. Over and over again. Where is the justice?!
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  • Nov 19th, 2017
    Ariel G. from Taylors, SC signed.