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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Jul 17th, 2019
    Brian H. from Castle Rock, CO writes:
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    0 – Number of district attorneys in the United States who routinely prosecute false allegations of domestic violence. 25 – Estimated percentage of divorces in which an allegation of domestic violence is made (1). 32 – Number of states with civil definitions of domestic “violence” that include being afraid, fearful, apprehensive, or experiencing emotional distress (2). 48 – Number of states in which judges awarding child custody are required to consider allegations or findings of domestic violence (3). 50 – Percentage of restraining orders in which physical assault is not even alleged, according to an authoritative Massachusetts study (4). 70 – Percentage of restraining orders that are trivial or false (5). 85 – Percentage of all restraining orders that are issued against men (the remaining 15% are against women) (6). 2000 – Estimated number of taxpayer dollars spent for the issuing, servicing, and adjudicating of one restraining order (7). 2005 – The year in which a restraining order was served on TV personality David Letterman for allegedly beaming televised code words and seductive eye gestures at Colleen Nestler, a woman whom Letterman had never met. 700,000 – Number of persons wrongfully arrested for domestic violence each year (8). 1.5 million – Number of temporary restraining orders issued each year in the United States that are trivial or false (9). 20 billion – Number of dollars that taxpayers spend each year for welfare and public benefit services arising from false allegations of domestic violence that force children into single-parent households (10).
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  • Jul 4th, 2019
    Tyree M. from Sacramento, CA writes:
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    My life is in ruins I have not seen my children for 3 years and I am an not guilty of anything. If I didn’t have to go through this nightmare I don’t even believe it myself...... and my case is going through appeals.....and my nightmare continues and I miss my twins so bad
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  • Jul 4th, 2019
    Tyree M. from Sacramento, CA writes:
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    My life is in ruins I have not seen my children for 3 years and I am an not guilty of anything. If I didn’t have to go through this nightmare I don’t even believe it myself...... and my case is going through appeals.....and my nightmare continues and I miss my twins so bad
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  • Jul 2nd, 2019
    Cory C. from Springfield, MO writes:
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    I'm currently going through this situation. Me and my daughter left our home with nothing and currently live in a domestic violence shelter. I have not contacted her. There are adjoining restraining orders and she has filed to modify mine for contact. I have a witness to the fact she has fabricated evidence using the phone I left behind. me and my daughter have just begun to rebuild a healthy foundation when the charges were applied without any physical evidence. Its a malicious prosecution with no intent of innocence. I have no violent history. However she possesses multiple assault charges, her child died in her custody due to murder in 2015 and she's had 2 children removed from her home. My daughter's 4 and has been to multiple child advocacy meetings where abuse was documented but no charges have been filed. Yet without evidence outside of her testimony I'm facing 5 felony counts of domestic assault. Idk what to do anymore.
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  • Jun 26th, 2019
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    Yeah. A lot of women play that game. See, most protective orders / restraining orders are NOT 2 way! Meaning, a woman can lie to the magistrate to get a protective order issued, have her husband / boyfriend kicked out of his OWN house, and then SHE can call him any time she wants... no problem! But, if the man answers HIS PHONE, HE is now in violation of the order, and is immediately arrested and facing 1 year in jail!! A lot of women do this. The person who petitions for the order, can contact the other person all they want. The petitioner CANNOT be in violation. The subject of the order will go to jail, even if they send a message to the petitioner through another person (3rd party contact). Absolutely ridiculous! I begged my Senator to make Protective Orders a 2 way process (in Virginia), meaning.. if someone gets a protective order issued, NEITHER party can contact the other.. seems obvious right? Wrong! He said it couldn't be done. So, any woman living with a man in America, can lie to the magistrate (with NO RISK for lying whatsoever... they guarantee to NOT prosecute, if they get caught lying), have her man kicked out of his own house... then call him on his cell phone, and if he answers, he is immediately facing 1 year in jail. There are a lot of manipulative people out there... thanks for making it EXTREMELY EASY for them, Congress! UNBELIEVABLE, that this has gone on this long!
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  • Jun 9th, 2019
    Michael W. from Amarillo, TX writes:
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    This exact thing is happening to me. My accuser actually plays a game, telling me she wants to work it out. She initiated the contact but calls police and nothing happens to her. I go to jail cuz i respond. I work out of my home but cant even go back to get my things. Plus everything there is mine. There is no justice is in our legal system. She has done this before and got paid claiming to be a victim.
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  • Jun 2nd, 2019
    danny l. from New York, NY writes:
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  • Jun 1st, 2019
    CHRISTOPHER D. from PORT CRANE, NY signed.
  • May 30th, 2019
    Someone from Somerset, MA writes:
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    Being a weekend father isn’t enough. We are fathers full time. The laws need to be changed or revised in a way that is fair for the children and parents. Fathers shouldn’t be forced to see there child one or two days a week and paying child support for the other days that they are forced to be absent. Equal rights is equal rights. Woman want to be treated equally ? Well so do men. Our children suffer the most.
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  • May 30th, 2019
    Someone from Somerset, MA writes:
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    Being a weekend father isn’t enough. We are fathers full time. The laws need to be changed or revised in a way that is fair for the children and parents. Fathers shouldn’t be forced to see there child one or two days a week and paying child support for the other days that they are forced to be absent. Equal rights is equal rights. Woman want to be treated equally ? Well so do men. Our children suffer the most.
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  • May 29th, 2019
    Hoai L. from Marrero, LA writes:
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    I'm the victim of women lies too. Now I spend alot times and money for private attorney. Please fix the laws. I'm scare now. I'm innocence. She want the green card. That why she sue me. Sorry for broken English. Please help me.
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  • May 25th, 2019
    Brandon P. from Stafford, VA writes:
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    I was wrongfully convicted of domestic violence with bruises they inflicted to themselves
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  • May 15th, 2019
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  • May 14th, 2019
    Adam P. from Bremerton, WA writes:
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    To all the "REAL" victims of domestic violence, stay strong my friend.! the truth will set you free.! "THINK TWICE" before you act on your revengeful thought's. Never plea to anything you didn't do, even if they try to lesson the charge. For example, my ex told the cops I pushed her into a car then shoved her to the ground. I'm 100% innocent but because I went HAM on my bedroom door, my public defender tryied to have me plea to criminal mischief, for smashing my own belongings..!. I took it to the box "KNOWINGLY," in Washington state you can be charged with DV even tho it was just verbal.. pleading out to a lesser charge, means your still guilty, especially if you really didn't do it
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  • May 5th, 2019
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    I wonder how many men have committed suicide, after they were falsely accused, labelled an "abuser", kicked out of their own homes, and had everything stolen from them... all with no trial, and no due process whatsoever? Just ONE simple LIE (with absolutely NO RISK for lying, they guarantee to NOT prosecute the liars), that law enforcement HAS to ACT on, because laws passed by Congress FORCE them to "believe" women, in the name of domestic violence. I know I'm pretty close. **** YOU , CONGRESS! YOU have violated MILLIONS of innocent American citizens most BASIC constitutional rights! 2-3 MILLION of these orders issued EVERY single year = ZERO prosecutions for lying to get one. How many of them were completely innocent, Congress?.... Millions? … NO ONE will EVER know!!… Except for the completely innocent victims, who are forced to suffer in silence, and the women who told ONE EXTREMELY EASY lie.. they literally CAN'T LOSE! Again, **** YOU CONGRESS!! What are you going to do? I have nothing left to lose.
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  • May 2nd, 2019
    Someone from Boca Raton, FL writes:
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    I am a woman who has been falsely accused by my lying, serial cheating ex-boyfriend. Claims I came to his home and never did after I broke up with him. I may not be able to find work now along with other consequences of his false allegations. The laws must be changed. Evidence MUST be provided.
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  • Apr 27th, 2019
    Someone from Waterford, ME writes:
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    CLEAN SLATE ACT , help give this act legs
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  • Apr 26th, 2019
    Someone from Austin, TX writes:
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    In Texas putting innocence men via false accusations is business especially when it comes to false accusations of a step child.. Lots of money for DAs, public defenders, privatized jails. Evidence to support the accused are not allowed by Judges, and long sentences are given out with no substance to the claims. This happens even if the Judge, and prosecutor knows the defendant is innocent... Prisons need to make money, and innocent and incarcerated make model prisoners. The poor suffer..... Family suffers... Innocent men are in prison for life... It is a large shame and a bigger sham.
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  • Apr 24th, 2019
    Someone from Las Vegas, NV writes:
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  • Apr 20th, 2019
    Adam A. from Whitehall, PA writes:
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    It’s amazing how they say you are innocent before proven guilty but often are guilty and have to prove your innocence before anything! I have been through hell and back, lied on, defamed, but refuse to give up! I pray and know God will give me justice! But I also know God helps those who help them self and a close mouth don’t get fed! But something needs to change in this biased he said she said system and Peter needs to stop having to pay for Paul!! TO THE TOP TTT
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  • Apr 19th, 2019
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    If you're truly being abused, and truly scared... LEAVE that location, and the person who is abusing you! LEAVE! Your safety is more important, than material objects! Go to a domestic violence shelter, (that's where the courts should be sending you, anyway). Why do our courts send the "abused", RIGHT BACK to the place, where the "abuse" is allegedly taking place? Makes no sense at all. Unless, its not "safety" they're worried about, but possession of the house, car(s), kid(s), and having "control" and the "upper hand", over the accused? No, it couldn't be, all about money and control... could it?
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  • Apr 19th, 2019
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    Yes! This is happening to women now, too. Of course, it is! That's what happens, when you circumvent the US Constitution ("Innocent, until proven guilty"), and start kicking people out of their OWN homes AND labelling them as "abusers", based on NOTHING but an accusation! A lot of times they even throw them in jail, for going to their OWN house, because they have NO WHERE else to sleep! What? Human beings lie? No way! Men have been getting falsely accused by the MILLIONS, for years now (the government has done a VERY good job, of keeping that hidden, so the innocent men are forced to suffer in SILENCE)... But, now, they've figured out the "game".... Its "whoever gets to the courthouse, first"!! Yes! Literally! Its absolutely that simple, people. If you say abuse happened, then it DID!! If you think you're about to be falsely accused, you better get to the court house, and accuse the OTHER person, first. Yes, its literally that simple. There is NO RISK whatsoever, for lying under oath. There has NEVER been a prosecution for lying to get a protective order / restraining order.. Never, in the history of America. Out of 2-3 million of them issued EVERY year (for about 20-30 years now). Never! Even, if you ADMIT, that you lied under oath (felony perjury), they GUARANTEE to NOT prosecute you! How could our government be so STUPID? So, now, we have the millions of men (2-3 million a year, for about 20-30 years), who have been falsely accused, and had their lives destroyed (as well as, labelled a "domestic abuser")... we ALSO have lots of women being falsely accused now, too... AND, in a lot of cases, the ACTUAL abuser is getting protective orders / restraining orders issued against their ACTUAL VICTIMS!!! Haha! I love it! Keep circumventing the US Constitution, you retards (I'm not PC, don't care about your feelings)!! FACTS, retards... FACTS! NO ONE cared for DECADES, about completely innocent men being falsely accused, but NOW, its happening to the women too... even the ACTUAL abuse victims!!… So, now, they (the feminists within our government, who absolutely despise men - the "VAWA Goddesses"- a gender discriminatory set of laws, from the very beginning- its right in the NAME - violence against WOMEN act), are FINALLY starting to look at how to stop it. What do you NOT understand about "innocent, until PROVEN guilty"? STOP violating innocent American citizens most BASIC constitutional rights... or don't!... Just let the false accusation nation continue, and continue to increase mass incarceration, retards! Pretty soon, the women will be saying, "where's all the men"?.... Well, they're either in jail from a false accusation, or they're staying FAR away from ANY females, so they DON'T get falsely accused. We've seen it way too many times... not worth the risk. Oh wait, the women are already saying things like that. Where you at, Congress? YOU caused this... YOU are going to have to fix it!
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 18th, 2019
    Liana B. from San Bernardino, CA writes:
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    This is not just limited to men it happened to me I am a mother and my sons father did this to me I couldn’t believe that the courts allowed this to happen when he is the violent felon fresh out from serving a ten year armed robbery charge. The justice system took his word for it never asked for evidence and he lied under oath on documents and also altered court orders and served it to me as we are required to do. The order was against me the mother who raised my son while he went to prison alone with no help and if it weren’t for me my son wouldn’t. Know who He is at all but now this and my son he is threatening if my son doesn’t say what he wants him to say but no evidence saying that I am an abuser but I don’t have violence in my record I don’t have not one cps call report nothing at all. I been the one getting his medical needs met enrolling him in schools etc raising him , this is too much I gotta sign we need to do something here it’s getting out of hand HELPPLEASE
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  • Apr 13th, 2019
    Chris B. from Morris, MN writes:
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    Same thing happened to me. Have not spoken to my spouse in over the year. She finally filed for divorce and also filed a restraining order against me claiming all these terrible things happened in the past to her. She claims that she is "fearful". I've been trying to get her out of my life for years but she never wanted to do a divorce before so I completely got her out of my life because she has major mental issues. She has blackmailed me and threatened me countless times before. She has claimed that she will take me to court and have family members lie to make a good case for her. The only reason she is doing it is for money and revenge. Like it will make her look like a victim to support her case for alimony even though we have not been married long enough for that to even apply. These fake reports are a shame to the legal system and unjust. They are truly used as weapons with no consequences to the person making such claims. The law needs to be changed.
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  • Apr 11th, 2019
    Someone from Waterford, ME writes:
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    Collateral Consequences Resource Center
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  • Apr 9th, 2019
    Someone from Terrell, TX writes:
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    Please stop believing these accusers!!! You have to do a REAL thoro investigation. People are using domestic violence as a weapon
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  • Apr 3rd, 2019
    John S. from South Portland, ME writes:
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    I'm currently going through this myself. It's an absolute nightmare! My ex that I was with for three hellish years is manic bipolar and when off her meds (which she usually is) she tends to get extremely angry over virtually nothing and sometimes gets violent. I've tried getting her to leave on several occasions and even told her i'd start the eviction process. Her response was always "Go ahead. That gives me at least a month to make your life a living hell and i'll say whatever I need to, to make sure you never see your son again" so I didn't go through with it out of fear of losing my son. On Nov. 6th last year she got very angry and attacked me. I simply pushed her away so she would stop hitting me. She called the police and told them I beat her. They came and arrested me with absolutely zero evidence that anything happened yet in a separate incident about a year before she attacked me and I ended up with bloody wounds on my face and the police did nothing to her. It's now been five months since this nightmare started and she is still living in my house, which I own, while I've been couch surfing and living in a cheap motel. The worst thing is I haven't seen or spoken to my son since this all started and it's absolutely killing me. I've already had one deposition where I didn't even get to speak to anybody and the DA's offer was two days in jail, two years of probation, counseling and if I so much as sneeze the wrong way I go back to jail for three months. I turned down that offer and now have another deposition in a week from today. After that it goes to a jury trial which my lawyer told me I don't want because the jury pretty much always finds the man guilty in these situations. Basically i'm being screwed over while she enjoys her life. Wish me luck. I'm going to need it.
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  • Apr 1st, 2019
    Someone from Ravenna, OH signed.
  • Apr 1st, 2019
    Someone from Ravenna, OH writes:
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    It seems women are using domestic violence charges as a tool to get complete custody of children. Men need to be protected. Women have total advantage; can simply make a charge later without having to seek medical attention and no visible signs of abuse.
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  • Mar 22nd, 2019
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  • Mar 20th, 2019
    Someone from Duvall, WA writes:
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    I'm very sorry to hear of so many men who have gone through similar things. Last summer my wife stopped the car on a busy street with our 3 kids inside to argue her point about being wreckless with the children's lives. After 6 minutes I opened her car door and took control of the vehicle to move them out of the road. She called the police out of pure anger and I'm charged with assault 4 for touching her arm. Its cost me $6500 in legal fees and 9 months pending trial. Our legal system is broken. Its a sham. They want to remove as many good working men from our labor force so the elites can reign. Our 3 children (all under 6 years) are paying the biggest price!
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  • Mar 16th, 2019
    Someone from Sierra City, CA writes:
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    This also extends to grandparents. I have been accused of domestic violence and the mother of my grandchildren has coached her kids to lie about the time they spent with me. Being falsely accused has taken a toll. The tragedy in all of this is that some people who are violated are not being helped while others are using fake domestic violence claims as a fundraiser. My ex-daughter law refuses to get a job and made fake domestic violence claims to get free housing, food and cash aid.
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  • Mar 14th, 2019
    Someone from Juneau, AK writes:
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    I need direction ... I'm dealing with a wife who has relapsed after 8 years of sobriety . As of yesterday my rights were taken from me due to a false report and a restraining order in place . For the last eight months I've been their only moral support with what they are going through during their mother's week on ... now zilch not even a phone call , what ever happened to innocent till proven guilty ? Looking for some direction ASAP
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  • Mar 7th, 2019
    Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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    America's feminist centric laws, are absolutely destroying the relationships between men and women. Yes, it is that simple.
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