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Parental Alienation Child Abuse NO MORE. Automatic (50/50) shared joint custody by default in court..

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    Someone from Oglesby, TX writes:
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    It is unfair for one parent to alienate the child from the other parent and other family members. The children suffer and the other parent suffers as well as other family members. This must be stoppepd,.
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    Someone from Pierre, SD writes:
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    Please, please create legislation that will make alienating a child from the only family they have known and love a crime. A child loves more people in their lives then just their mother and father and in my case, I have spent almost 8 years helping to raise my granddaughter, only to have her yanked away on a whim. She is lost and devastated as to why she is no longer allowed to call, see, spend time with the only family she has known and loved. It is horribly emotionally abusive to a child to be ripped away from other loving, involved family members and only allowed to see people that their alienator chooses for them. Children are afraid to speak out for fear of being punished by their alienator and have no one to turn to. The family that they had their entire life, who they felt loved by and safe and secure with are removed from their lives. I feel helpless as my granddaughter's grandmother as I cannot stop what her mother is choosing to do to her because it is not punishable by law but it absolutely needs to be! The emotional abuse suffered is horribly damaging both to a child's family and most especially to the child. Children need and should be granted the basic human right to have their whole, entire family in their lives! Please help us help our children and grandchildren!
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    Someone from Chattanooga, TN writes:
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    Many parents don't have the money for an attorney or a way to prove the parental alienation that is happening to them and their children. Please help them.
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    Someone from Towanda, PA writes:
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    There needs to be severe punishment for Alienating a child from anyone whom lived with & formed a loving relationship with a child. Parental Alienation is Extreme emotional abuse against a child. Emotional abuse is more severe than physical abuse because the psychological pain never goes away. The feeling of loss, separation anxiety of not comprehending why you can't see the other parent is a feeling forever in your heart, even after you've become an adult and comprehend what the situation was. A child loves their mother & father,Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins & Brothers & Sisters. Often times, The Alienating parent not only alienates the opposing parent, but also any family members in connection to that side of a childs family. This country is loosing its family structure & children loose out on family support because of parental alienation. Children can not speak up for themselves & they fear speaking up against the alienating parent for fear of punishment. I am an adult survivor who was once a child alienated from my other parent. The pain of the separation from my other parent is still in my heart. I can not get back what the courts allowed my sole custody parent take from me w/o my consent. Now, as a grandparents, we are being alienated from the child we raised for almost four years. My heart aches for our grandchild because I can see the alienation that their being subjected to, and still I am unable to stop it because it is not a punishable form of Abuse. Parental Alienation needs to be addressed across the board. Children Need their entire Family, not just those whom the alternator chooses.
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    Someone from Southbury, CT writes:
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    CHAPTER 1 DIVORCE IS THE MOST NEGATIVE, DIRTY WORD IN ANY LANGUAGE AND IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE! Divorce, UGH, is one of the ugliest, most negative words; no matter what language you speak. It immediately conjures up negative thoughts, ideas, tears, broken hearts, broken homes and a landslide of financial troubles. But it really does not have to be this way. If people looked at divorce in a positive framework, we would see much less damage, heartache and emotional turmoil. If the courts, families, counselors and agencies took on a more positive attitude toward divorce, it would filter its way throughout the family system. When the institution of marriage was created, people only lived to be at most 35. They were married for not more than 20 years. Today, people live into their 70?s, 80?s and 90?s. This is three times as long and marriages must endure for three times that length as well. And that means marriages must last for nearly 50 years or more, not 15 years. This is a lot to ask of human beings who go through major personal changes every 7 years or so. And it puts a lot of pressure on the two adults to continue to love, honor, cherish and continue to grow together. If we do not grow and learn together in the marriage, then we grow apart. To look at divorce positively, one must first understand that a failed marriage is not about failing in life but about life changes and growing apart. It is about a new stage in their life, much like going from being an infant to a toddler, from a toddler to a pre-juvenile, from a pre-juvenile to juvenile, from juvenile to adolescent, from adolescent to young adult, from young adult to adult and adult to elder. Throughout this entire process we are growing, learning and going through emotional, physical and personal changes. With this theory in mind, unless the couple is growing in the same perspective and direction, it is no wonder that so many marriages end in divorce. But this does not have to be viewed as a negative concept. Like when an infant becomes a toddler and is just learning to walk, or when an adolescent is finally becoming a young adult with new aspirations and responsibilities, people grow through life cycles changes and sometimes grow apart. When this happens this should not be a time of revenge, hatred and anger. Instead, we should be seeing this as a new stage or cycle in our lives. It should be viewed as a new opportunity to do the things we might not have done or thought about when we were married. It is a chance to explore a new self. If we look at divorce as just being another step or stage in our life cycle, then we can view it as just another process in our aging. It should be a time for growth, letting go and going on. It can be a time for us to explore things we dared not do while married. It can be a time to find new partnerships and relationships, which are more compatible with whom we have matured into. And for our children it is a chance to ga
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    Someone from Garland, TX writes:
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    All family court judges, lawyers, family therapists, counselors, parent facilitators, child protective servicers, and the like, should be required, as a matter of their licensure, to have formal training in Parentall Alienation Syndrome
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  • Jan 29th, 2015
    Someone from Reynoldsville, PA writes:
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    I have been the targeted parent for over 4 years now since I decided to divorce my abusive ex-husband. After he fought me for full custody and won for no reason in a corrupt family court system that ignored the facts of the case that proved he would not be the parent to foster the relationship with the other parent & ignored my testimony of abuse during the marriage & after. The judge also denied even hearing my petition of contempt proving their father's outright disregard for a temporary custody order. It has been the fight of my life to remain a part of my 4 children's lives with every other weekend custody along with the constant interference of their father and constant trying to cut me out in every way from planning activities & appointments on my time as well as not keeping me informed of medical issues, etc. The fight never ends and is exhausting. It should be punishable by law & recognized when a parent acts this way. It has to stop. I am watching my children grow up with my hands tied as a "visitor" in their lives, like I am some kind of activity they have to take part in. If you don't have an endless supply of money to keep going to court, you have no way to fight the alienation. Please help!
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    This is an important issue. I've seen -- and lived first-hand -- the effects of this behavior.
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    Someone from Magna, UT writes:
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    Been fighting this for 17 years with my oldest daughter. I have missed a total of 7 years of her life now. Started R.eform U.tah F.amily L.aw as a result, and we have been campaigning and fighting corrupt Utah law, attorneys, GALs and the broken courts ever since! Please join us as a member and watch our videos on Youtube under Rufl Utah updates!
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