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Spouse Bereavement Leave (Initiative to Amend the FMLA)

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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Sabattus, ME writes:
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    As a Suicide Widow myself, I can not imagine going back to work after 3 days, I could barley function at 3months. Shame on those Employers for not allowing the grieving spouse to take the time to grieve and take care of all the paperwork, and get the help they need as well for themselves and children.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Collinsville, AL writes:
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    To grieve takes time. How can you deal with a loss of a spouses life thats also a loss of part of your life........if you have surgery you take about 6 wks or longer....why is there no consideration for death ?
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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    Someone from Hooks, TX writes:
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    I lost my husband 9 months ago due to a heart attack. I am still not my normal self all time. I went back to work in a week but was not good. it takes time!!!
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Mableton, GA writes:
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    I am shocked this isn't already in place.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Ramsey, NJ writes:
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    A death in the family, whether that be a child, spouse, parent, sibling, grandparent, or partner should qualify under the FMLA. Suppose you were raised by grandparents as many children are today, wouldn't that loss be potentially devastating? FMLA must include all family members.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Avon Lake, OH writes:
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    I think it is a crime the way workers are treated! Not giving people time to grieve is maybe the worst crime! Whatever happened to compassion?
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Orlando, FL writes:
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    I am a widow ...it is unconscionable to think one can go back to work like nothing happen.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Oviedo, FL writes:
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    I am also a suicide widow I couldn't imagine having to work three days after my soldier passed away.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Mechanicsville, VA writes:
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    As a widow, I can't even imagine having to return to work in 3 days after the death of my husband. Not only do you need time to plan a funeral, but you need time to grieve, take care of the kids that just lost their father, and try to figure out how your world can ever go on after such a loss!! There is no way 3 days is enough time before returning to work! 3 weeks doesn't even cut it! FMLA needs to include time off due to the death of a spouse!!
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Ottawa, KS writes:
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    NO spouse can even begin to get over the shock, much-less take care of business in this small amount of time for bereavement!!! PLEASE...things became worse after having to go back 5 days after my husband's death...PLUS, we aren't be given a fair chance to have private time, nor, is it fair to our employers to have an emotional person who is grieving at work!!! :(
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Lake Pleasant, NY writes:
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    I lost my wife to ALS in November 2009. Caring for her over the months leading up to her death was hard. Grieving her death was an order of magnitude more difficult.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Huntersville, NC writes:
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    My sister lost her husband when she was 34, and if not for his life insurance policy she wouldn't have been able to take the time she needed to grieve.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
    Someone from Norristown, PA writes:
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    Lost my husband to suicide in April 2011. I was lucky (?) as I had been laid off in January. John fell ill in February. I still can't imagine going back to work, let alone after 3 days. That's horrible.
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  • Aug 22nd, 2013
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