Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jan 11th, 2017Jason M. from Valley Springs, CA writes:
In Dec of 2015 my "ex" pulled the lever. She kicked me out after 5+yrs together. She kept my money, my belongings, 3 weeks prior got me fired from my job with the help of a co-worker who she had been cheating on me with, dumped my cats (that she named after her dead mom) and wouldn't tell me where they were and worst of all didn't let me say goodbye to a boy I loved like a son and raised for 5 out of his 6 years. She withheld and tore me away from everything I loved in the blink of an eye. A month later after countless mind games and torment came to my new residence to supposedly bring me my stuff but decided starting a physical altercation instead was a better idea. After almost hitting me with her car she began to hit me with her fists, something she had a history of doing while we were together and bit my arm (which is a FELONY) and proceeded to call the cops saying I was the agressor. This led to me getting arrested, as well as her, and charges being filed against me. Despite the arresting officer BOTH telling me she had no visible marks, even the intake deputy who looked her over upon getting to jail not finding any marks on her, was able to file a "supplemental report". This report was made after getting released with the help OF HER FEMALE SHERIFF DEPUTY FRIEND and now somehow erased or shielded any report stating she didn't have visible marks. I was never allowed a copy of anything, made 3 seperate reports against her myself, but yet nothing was done. She went ahead and filed a restraining order against me, mind you a month after the altercation. She ended up winning a 5 yr order against me based on lies mainly due to her sheriff friend. The Dept. in my county did nothing to help me, nothing to assist me, nothing but cover up their shady coworker. I now live in a tent with my puppy. I have no job, no money, no vehicle and no home and no justice at all. This false report weighed heavily in court and no disciplinary action was taken at all when I attempted to file my complaint. Of all the things she knew about me from the beginning of our relationship it was the fact I despise men who abuse women... -
Jan 10th, 2017Someone from Redmond, OR writes:
The night of Oct 15th 2016 The WIFE (female) of my friend (male) became aware he had finally reached out for help, speaking to me and a few of his long time friends several times to this night. On this night - Oct 15th 2016 I wintmessed her abuse to both he and his minor son. I had called 911 (non emergency) prior to the night of Oct 15th 2016 in an attempt to receive some sort of assurance that my friend - a man, 6'1" weighing 200 Lbs - an abused man, who has been in panic and very fearful to call 911 OR to try to get help from authorities as he believes men are always arrested esp in the state of Wa. Fearing he would be arrested, because he is a man, his choice out of fear of her further retaliation- the 10 mos of abuse in ehich he shared his hellish life from which he and his minor son has been suffering for more than a year before he talked to me about it. Every day since Jan 2016 we talked on average 4 hours with my concern always for him to get help, call the authorities, etc. His fear caused him to just continue to "de escalate" the situation. On this night of October 15th 2017 Once again his life was in turmoil from her. After he chose to let me witness her abuse Via "face time, I pleaded with him to let me call 911 on his behalf. Once again asking me to let him try and de escalate the situation. Upon his wife hearing me say "i'm going to call 911" she became very irate, threatening me my life, she (his wife) called 911 before I could. I was still on "face time" with him witnessing both visually and audibly her talking with the police dispatch. Because of my previous call, my being out of their state of Wa, the police told her they would arrive to their home in 15 minutes. Her 911 call stated to dispatch "she was being emotionally abused". Rediculous and making a false report My friend (her husband) and 16 yr old son both suffering from her violent abuse at that point for over a year and a half. Because she knew I had witnessed her abuse on "face time" this very night (along with my seeing videos and hearing her rages from our phone conversations knew she had to lie to protect her "bad behavior" knowing she would be arrested. Rather than try to "work" through their problems, chose to go to the police department the very next day and file a abuse report against my friend stating she was the victim- not him. Her 911 call did indeed have officers show up to which both officers agreed my friend was correct in continuing to keep aaay from each other. Instructing HER to leave my friend and their minor son alone. Impressing upon her for the most part, if they were called back "someone would be arrested. Still on the phone with my friend Within 2 minutes after the officers left she began harassing and "menacing" him. Taunting, pushing, kicking and following him inside and outside the house. She was laughing as I listened to her state out loud how she would make sure they believed her NOT him. The wicked laughter along with saying "go ahead call 911 you can't prove anything. I'll make sure you are arrested along with your friend on the phone. "I'll see you both in jail". If you call 911 back they won't believe you - ha ha ha". I pleaded with my friend to call 911 immediantky. His fear of her evil manipulation was and IS a fact. Because of his "abuse syndrome", her being the "abusor" and quite certain she could control him has led to what has been the "worst hellish time of his entire life". Her report provided zero proof of her allegations was file on Oct 19th 2016. It's important to know from that noghtbof Oct 15th 2016 to Oct 1, 2016 she left the residence with the only working vehicle. Leaving him with their 2 children - one being a minor without means and any transportation. Vital point here is minor son was without his dr's prescribed medication in need of and she refused to pick it up as she was celebrating her birthday. She did not return to the home-- staying away saying she was infear. On October 19th 2016 she filed her report with the police dept. A protective order which followed just a few hours later with the police physically removing my friend from the home. Since that ddate with only the clothes on his back, 1 extra pair of pants and a light weigh jacket was ordered he could not be within 500 ft of her, the home or the children. She had taken away everything from him including his ID. My friend has since then been homeless, without contact with his minor son whom he had been taking care of as she was not. Today being Jan 9,2017 the enormous amount of personal loss is tremendous and extremely unjust as she was and us continuing to perjure herself with false accusations. He has pictures of her bloodied attacks to him, videos made of her attacking both he and his minor son. All the evidence proves she has been and continues to abuse them. Their minor son is with hsuffering from her abuse. Her actions since continue to prove her abuse to my friend. Continual perjury, filing false statements to her Attny, forgery along with causing financial devastation, character assasination, much more, and preying upon his mentally challenged mother for own further financial gain. These facts along with the insurmountable health factors my friend is going through brings me to utter disgust that "anyone" can file through our legal system false abuse reports. He is battling everyday to navigate the "road blocks" her Attny continues in building from the daily false accusations of manipulating affidavits. I am exhausted helping him through this nightmare. My priority is to sign your petition for this injustice absolutely needs to stop. The accusations are completely false. Along with being judged gulikty prior to having amy control except hiring legal representation - she continues to lie without stopping. She has to be made accountable for perjury. Causing such horrific damage to him without proving her alligations gives her "the abisor" power and. Ontario whic "abusor's thrive on.REPORT COMMENTS
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Jan 10th, 2017Chad W. from Wichita, KS signed.
Jan 9th, 2017Tari M. from Long Beach, CA writes:
I am in California and my husband moved out and then came over one night and called the police and said I abused him, the police beat me up in my own home as my husband of 24 years sat and watched them beat me up. I was then arrested for 51/50 and taken to a psyco hospital for 3 days. While i was gone my husband was busy getting a restraining order to have me thrown out of my home so he could move back in. He also filed for divorce during this 3 day period. Well I was not allowed to go to my home and I had nowhere to live, he took every penny we had in our accounts and I had not a dime to my name. he somehow managed to get the restraining order good for 1 year and I was not allowed to go to my home, speak to him, email him. The only time i seen him was in court. This is so wrong especially since he moved out and told me I could stay in the house then he files a false restraining order and throws me out in the street with no money after 24 years of marriage. My life has been completely destroyed and it is wrong he should be charged with filing false domestic abuse charges and he should have to suffer for his lies.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 9th, 2017cindi k. from Antelope, CA writes:
I was beaten , drug by my hair across rocks , punched ex broke his hand on my face, an punched an ex got R.O. on me police tell you makes it worse to press charges so now ex setting me up to put me in jail is what 2 of his friends told me. So now i have 3 false orders on me 7 warrants an all lies. 7 witnesses an tons of proof but no way to pay to defend my self. 5 false police reports an witnesses to prove it. How much worse can this be ex was training for UFC fighting. I have survived an he still control's my life your on yur own no help no one listens. Abused an more abuse courts an laws help abusers control the abused even more no one helps they look the other way. lost my home everything. i had my son i had to move him to his dads so he would be safe ex threatened to beat my son if he left a mess. help me i will be in jail or dead. police would not let me press charges. i isolated myself from everything ... i dont go out or date, no friends since 2011 he took my life trust no one. all so he could get a house use women and keep his aids a secret from his new one. He beat her to looking for a young chick to take care of him dying to many steroids. justice where is it ? he gets away with this ..... thank you so much...REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 8th, 2017Someone from Elkview, WV writes:
I too was falsely accused of domestic violence and subsequently an order of mental hygiene was also filed. Within 10 days I was supposed to have a hearing but the magistrate was scheduled for holiday I was put on hold for 30 days. I do not drive so when 2 city police cars 2 county cars and a couple of suv trucks showed up to escort me from my home at 3:00 in the afternoon in front of God and all my neighbors most of whom I've known nearly 20 years, I could have been knocked over with a feather. I have been a stay at home mom, yes I am a women, all 95lbs of me and my husband was 195 lbs career military man who had left me as I recover from cancer treatment. Of course that is not how his petition read. The only true provided information he gave was his name B/D license and social. No questions asked I don't think it was even read. I believe if the signing magistrate had asked him if he was aware of penalties of perjury and the serious nature of the allegation, espeacialy if the are false, he may have given pause, but it was easy to banish me from my home and hopefully lock me up in a facility for God knows how long but the 30 days preventing me from seeing or speaking to my 15 yr old son, or returning to my home was cruel and Inhumane as I have been isolated from family and friends mostly because of my husband and truly had no where to turn in any comfortable sense. He filed twice more and he was not only believed over my word but arrest warrants were published in my name leaving me feeling followed even now. He slandered me to my neighbors at the local grocery and our bank, I had no idea because i had become much like a hermit I was ashamed of our problems not wanting to offer explanation. He then closed aal accounts and opened new ones in only his and his mothers name. Ithe hearings to follow at least found that I was sane and I was no danger but also said that my husband also was no danger to me! After the 6 months of torturous homeless and often hungry with no where to live in a stable manner no stable income I am home again sleeping in the floor with advances made by him frequently. I am judged for returning but I think I would be judged poorly no matter what I do because the petitioner in my case is adamant that he Owns the house and won't pay child support or share one penny with me, which was the whole motivation for all the lies he has told. He has admitted to me he lied on the court record with his smug defiant face and I must cower because I am tired and I want to be with my son. Still I have no idea where to turn for help. So please be aware that there are abusers out there that are the wolf in sheeps clothing and the may present themselves very well mine did and does. The laws MUST CHANGE for every husband AND wife that is the true victim.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 8th, 2017Manette C. from Lancaster, OH writes:
My 28 yr old son is going thru battle of false accusations by the woman he has been with for 10 years. She is a habitual cheater and drug user. Childrens Services gives her a heads up for drug tests so she can get stuff to test clean. We have the phone of my sons, that she had turned on in her name, showing drug deals to her drug addicted mother and others, text to her newest boyfriend (she had move in my sons house after she had him falsely arrested) where they're plotting in instigate him. They want to live in his house together. It's been a month. My son is still paying all house payments and bills, buying groceries for his 3 daughters, along with diapers and other necessities. He only makes $14/hr and is told by the courts " he makes too much money for a public defender ". Legal Aide won't help on criminal charges. He has no extra money from supporting his home, while driving to my city to sleep and shower. Sometimes he sleeps in his car at work to save gas. He barely eats. He's about to plead no contest to get it over with, even tho he's innocent. He has cerebral palsy. He needs help and every lawyer wants atleast $750 down. Innocent men are paying. She's the physical and mental abuser to him and my granddaughters.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 7th, 2017Someone from Elmer City, WA writes:
my ex daughter in law is trying to get my son vilated on his parole by calling his po 5 days in a row and claiming he is traveling to washington from idaho with a travel permit trying to see her their children. this is a lie he has not tried once to see kids and no one has seen the kids since she trew a fit and kept them away from everyone since december 13 th 2016. he does have visitation on record, but he has not sought them out. she is just trying to get him jailed again. i live right up the road and am sick. my son has come to see me with his parole officers permission, but he has not tried to see his kids at all. what can we do? she is being mean and vindicitive. her sister has alot of money and has it out for my son to. please help us.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 6th, 2017James Y. from Fort Lauderdale, FL signed.
Jan 6th, 2017Louis M. from Cove City, NC writes:
I was accused of domestic violence on 2-15-15, I never hit my ex I never even yelled at her. When she returned from Norway on 7-16-14 I didn't even get a hello. At that time she told me she wanted to return to Norway, and if I signed over the rights over to my child I could see him maybe once a year if I bought the plane tickets. If I refused she would charge me with domestic violence. I refused from that date forward I was told 3 to 4 times a week I was going to get arrested for domestic Violence. On 2-15-15 her son was screaming about the food I bought for the family, saying he wanted the money demanding it was returned. I told him that was my money he started walking into me I moved up my arm to block him from walking into me, then he started throwing punches, to beating me with a pot. Right after she told me I attacked her son, she took the pot outside and hid it. I was surprised it was like this was rehearsed. It was dropped in court but since this time she has refused for me to see my child. A child needs both parents. I'm still fighting in court to see my child.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 6th, 2017Someone from Greenwood, IN writes:
I was falsely accused of domestic violence by my wife in the state of Indiana. She has tried to gain sympathy by fabricating a lot of truths, half truths and lies. She has alienated my children from me.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 6th, 2017Veronica G. from Galatia, KS writes:
My brother was unjustly accused of domestic violence love his wife then never happened if you looked at my brother and then looked at his wife you would have seen he could have done so much more damage and she had no bruises nothing to her she would have been in the hospital 4 months years if he would have touched her he was released and unfounded but things went on terribly and he still has a record that was very unjust of domestic violence and now he can't have the things she wants and many more things that happened ditch is it unfair and just against herREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 5th, 2017Someone from Fairmont, MN writes:
Im a woman who has been a domestic victim for 11 years. 2 years ago i was charged with the dv charge. A crime i didnt comit. My husband lied and now admits he lied. Please make a law for us innocent people to reverse our records to being innocent again. This destroyed my life. My dream job was to be in criminal investigations to become a law officer as well. I have haddreams of helping people my entire life. My dreams are shattard. I need peace. I need my life back. I never even touched him . I had the abuse marks. But i paid the price in so many ways.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 5th, 2017Someone from New York, NY writes:
My wife made false accusations against me to the NYPD and they arrested me not only without proof, but with proof the allegations were false. She didn't think I was going to get arrested. She just wanted a record of her alleged "brutal beatings" so she could use them to get citizenship. It wasn't enough that I was helping her get citizenship. she needed a backup plan to prove that she was the victim of domestic violence. The system supports this kind of behavior and they will arrest you will glee. They blindly trust any woman who makes an allegation. I don't hate cops btw I hate the system. Domestic Violence is perpetrated equally amongst men and women. All you have to do is research violence in lesbian relationships and you will see that there is roughly the same level of violence in couples with two female partners. yet incredibly the NYC law makers claim that most women who are arrested for domestic violence didn't do it! Men and Women deserve equal rights for equal crimes. Anyone who makes a false allegation should be vigorously prosecuted and restitution is only fair. We need to end this brutal cycle of lies that is supported by the state and the government using a false narrative.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 4th, 2017Someone from San Francisco, CA writes:
The objective is to create as many criminals as possible...on and increase consumer spending. Male false DV..got one...the children who grow up malnourished with a dangerous and dishonest (probably filthy and can't cook) Female so they become real criminals too!..got another one. The step boyfriend...he's alrEady a Felon...trifecta! Now get out there you addicted to retail consumer Female and spend that money! Every dime so the entire Family can be broke, no futur, and children who grow up to be angry pharma'd out adults. By golly we gunna have more gubment jobs JOhnny!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 3rd, 2017Rebecca D. from Forney, TX signed.
Jan 3rd, 2017Frank R. from Redmond, WA writes:
I have been victim of false allegations, specifically through fraudulent protection orders. Now my lawyer tells me it is virtually impossible to prosecute the perjury my abusers have committed! To this day, I am trying to get justice! I had been abused and then further victimized by my abuser, through administrative violence. Stop false accusations! Read my story on http://realdanniaskini.wordpress.com.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 1st, 2017Lisa LeAnn P. from Nashville, TN writes:
The standard of "innocent until proven guilty" must be the only standard used in every court for justice to be served. Family court should not be an exception. Period.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJan 1st, 2017Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
ALL initial Protective Orders / Restraining Orders are issued "ex-parte'" (ex-parte' means without trial), literally based on NOTHING but an accusation. In many cases, the accused doesn't even know they've been accused of anything! Its done this way, because its considered an "emergency" situation where someone is in "imminent danger". If the person (male or female), is in "imminent danger", shouldn't they be directed from the courthouse, (the one they're currently located in, with armed police officers / deputies), straight to a domestic shelter, where there is security? Why would the magistrate send the person RIGHT BACK to the place where the "abuse" is allegedly taking place, with a piece of paper that says "don't abuse this person anymore"? Its because these people are not in danger.... they're not scared.... they are STEALING money, possessions, and custody of children from the accused, with the help of the courts, and using law enforcement as their "muscle". Multiple studies prove this... look them up. Change the laws, or don't.... I don't really care anymore. I will live the rest of my life COMPLETELY alone, and I will avoid ALL human beings (male or female... no one can be trusted when our laws allow for people to be falsely accused this easily), as much as possible, until I die. If the loneliness gets to be too much, I will commit suicide, like so many other men have done, and do, every day. I just want the US Government to finally ADMIT that THEY are causing this! Our laws are literally set up, to ALLOW this! They even encourage it, in many cases. When it comes to domestic violence, if you are accused, you are guilty! It is literally that simple. You will be forced to prove you did NOT commit the abuse, which is nearly impossible. How do you prove a negative?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 30th, 2016Someone from Folsom, CA writes:
Wow. Great to see I'm not alone. My now ex-wife of 25 yrs had apparently been planning to divorce me for 3 years prior according to my kids. I got hit with a DVTRO at family court, I thought we were going to agree and keep the kids out of it but she dragged them in and served me the same day. It ended up backfiring and they rejected it but to this day she tells everyone the reason for leaving was abuse. Its sad to think I spent my whole life with this person. So shallow. Now i'm 10 years from retirement, living check to check paying alimony until the day i retire, knowing I'l barely be able to afford to live at 70. While my ex only spends on herself.. It's Financial suicide..REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 29th, 2016Someone from Kent, OH writes:
I am experiencing this situation right now and its the most helpless feeling in the world. It started with her beating me up and calling the cops and she was afraid I was going to tell so she said I pushed her. in spite of me having a black eye and scratches on me, they arrested me for DV. SHe later admitted I didn't touch her but it was too late, they convicted me. Since then I took several more beatings from my bi-polar girlfriend and when I finally left her and she was convicted of DV and assault, she went and got a DV civil protection order and has called police twice when seeing me in public and I'm now facing felony charges. I am stunned and at a loss and don't have any idea what to do. I have tons of proof of her abuse, but nobody cares..REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 29th, 2016Someone from Hayward, CA writes:
I myself am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence because I simply filed for a divorce there has been many attempts to have me arrested since the trio was approved and none have been successful also there was never any reports of violence throughout our marriage all of these false accusations have been made after I filed for divorce I am now broke struggling to make it struggling to find a job and struggling to maintain my relationship with m our children this has made me really wonder about our justice system and also wonder how is it that the courts main concern is the safety of the children if they put children with a parent that can't even set an example of being an honest person our system has a huge flaw and kids all over our country are being deprived and raised by parent who can't set an example that is most important when before any person even speaks in court "I promise to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth ". This is sad and these words you just read are true !! ,Sad very sad !!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 29th, 2016Someone from Hayward, CA writes:
I myself am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence because I simply filed for a divorce there has been many attempts to have me arrested since the trio was approved and none have been successful also there was never any reports of violence throughout our marriage all of these false accusations have been made after I filed for divorce I am now broke struggling to make it struggling to find a job and struggling to maintain my relationship with m our children this has made me really wonder about our justice system and also wonder how is it that the courts main concern is the safety of the children if they put children with a parent that can't even set an example of being an honest person our system has a huge flaw and kids all over our country are being deprived and raised by parent who can't set an example that is most important when before any person even speaks in court "I promise to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth ". This is sad and these words you just read are true !! ,Sad very sad !!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 29th, 2016Someone from Hayward, CA writes:
I myself am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence because I simply filed for a divorce there has been many attempts to have me arrested since the trio was approved and none have been successful also there was never any reports of violence throughout our marriage all of these false accusations have been made after I filed for divorce I am now broke struggling to make it struggling to find a job and struggling to maintain my relationship with m our children this has made me really wonder about our justice system and also wonder how is it that the courts main concern is the safety of the children if they put children with a parent that can't even set an example of being an honest person our system has a huge flaw and kids all over our country are being deprived and raised by parent who can't set an example that is most important when before any person even speaks in court "I promise to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth ". This is sad and these words you just read are true !! ,Sad very sad !!!!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 28th, 2016Rena D. from Irving, TX writes:
False accusations leave a lifetime scar. As a female I am ashamed of those who cry wolf and I hurt dearly for those who are abused. Something has to be done.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 28th, 2016Polly J. from Pilot Point, TX writes:
My boyfriend and I are going through DV right now. We were hanging one night I got mad at him and went after him and he had marks on his face. Liquor was in the mixs I black out and started hitting him he tried to sto stop me. He had to hold me down so I would stop coming after him when I came back from being black out he was on top of me I got scared and take off and the cop were called I didn't tell them much about what happens because I was still drunk and confused about what was going on now he is getting trouble for me making a big mistake he has a lawyer and I am trying to help him get out of this bc he did nothing wrong to me I help bc I don't want him to go to jail for what I did to himREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 28th, 2016Paul S. from Appleton, WI writes:
As the victim of years of emotional abuse, I was convinced by medical providers that in order to provide a safe environment for my family, I needed to leave my emotionally abusive wife and provide a safe and stable home for my kids. When I filed separation papers, my ex lashed out with a string of false claims. Due to the strict domestic violence laws in my state, I was arrested multiple times, faced multiple criminal trials, and was financially ruined. After the 4th such accusation, my lawyer finally presented facts that showed my ex had knowingly modified evidence she provided to police and made false statements. The case was dropped but the DA refused to press charges against my ex for the crimes of perjury and providing false testimony to a police officer. The results of my ex wife's previous false accusations placed her in a protected status and the DA was unwilling to prosecute a "victim" despite overwhelming evidence that she had actually committed a crime. She used her falsely obtained status as a victim of domestic abuse to secure custody of our children, multiple special welfare programs designed to help true victims of domestic violence, gain valuable resources from local charitable institutions whose aim is to help women in actual crisis. My children are left in the care of a severely emotionally unstable woman, while I am kept in financial ruin dealing with continual allegations made in civil court which, though repeatedly found to be unsubstantiated, the legal system is unable to dismiss. There is simply no legal means to defend myself from such legal harassment due to the politically and morally charged deception that she is a survivor of any type of actual abuse. She is stealing resources and privileges designed to help the brave women who are actual victims of abuse, and using her ill-gotten status to leverage the legal system into her own institutional weapon for continued and effective emotional abuse, even after I have left the marriage. I cannot begin to express the sense of hopelessness and injustice I live with knowing that I have zero legal protection from this atrociously unstoppable legally protected form of harassment.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 27th, 2016Mary I. from Tres Pinos, CA writes:
I know a young man that is going to court did nothing wrong but because he finally said no to his wife of 2 years in a relationship for 6 and tried to stop her from scrambling with the kids for fourth time. When she does this she only lets them talk to him for 25 seconds we have timed the phone calls. Once a day sometimes twice a day. He stood up for himself , not even touching her but leaving with one of their children and called police to let them know and they said it was a civil matter. Then she called accused him of hitting her and grabbing their daughter , she charged him with domestic violence and now cant see his children till the court date. I was a witness to the incident , via phone he was the one calling for help and we have it on tape. But because she was a woman and said he hit her with no evidence he suffers. They call this justice?????REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 27th, 2016Someone from Ankeny, IA signed.
Dec 27th, 2016Olivia M. from Tucson, AZ signed.
Dec 26th, 2016James R. from Yonkers, NY writes:
I married a immigrant woman she has put domestic violence charges on me in order to petition to get her green card. I am now going through a legal battle to prove my innocence. Something has to be done to stop this dreaded crime. These people are ruthless, destroying innocent people lives they need to be held accountable.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2016from Colorado Springs, CO writes:
Hi iam a good man I took a woman who had a child with another man married her while in the service got out then she went back to here home town and cheated on me and then I get a call from the Department of child services that my child that I've taken care of at 3months till recently not being cared for,so I call her . I let her know why I called and asked her if I could meet her to talk she agrees I go talk and pick my daughter up and take her with me after she agrees then nexts couple hours go by I get a call from her to bring my daughter back fyi there's no child custody order and legal on her birth certificate iam her father. To sum it up I was informed days later that I have a warrant for my arrest I turn myself in and began my trail this next year so I think knowing both side of the situations helps so I think before filling charges they should really get statements and witness from both sides because in my case I knew she would do something like that if I didn't bring anyone that why I had my friend go with but still it's very damaging to the child but me as a father it's more hurtfully because I just wanted to be a father to my child and if she's not being cared for then it's not rightREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 26th, 2016Manisha S. from Plains, PA signed.
Dec 24th, 2016Someone from Greensboro, NC writes:
I am currently being ruined by a vindictive and resentful woman. False allegations of domestic violence. It has cost me my job, my freedom, along with friendships, and my dignity. Stop these women now. Make this a crime.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 23rd, 2016Falsely charged with Domestic Violence T. from King, NC writes:
I had a baby with a woman that is married to another man on a K1 visa and she took our baby away from me and I got a DNA done and got a lawyer to get 50/50 custody. The woman who I got pregnant came from the Philippines. She got so angry I was awarded 50/50 custody that she lied on me and said I commited domestic violence and she had no proof and she took a 50-B on me for 7 days. We had a court date and I couldn't afford a lawyer, but I represented myself well and proved everything she said was a lie. The judge awarded her wish and stuck me with domestic violence and now the 50-B is extended for 1 year. Now I have a bad record over lies and false allegations and I don't know what to do. I know she done it to take custody away from me and to help get her green card faster as well as get child support money to send to her country because she is too lazy to get a job. She doesn't even love her husband. She used him just to bring her to America by marrying him.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 22nd, 2016Someone from New York, NY writes:
Most of the foreign spouse falsify the statements and files Domestic Violence cases just to get the Permanent residence card. Because in the immigration if your are divorced within two year the only way you can get green card is by showing that they were abused and victim of domestic violence. And if you go to court however is first to go to court automatically you get Temp restraining order until hearing. and they use that document to get the green card in immigration. Before giving restrain order of any kind please hear or listen to both sides. Stop the Misuse of the system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelDec 22nd, 2016Someone from East Elmhurst, NY signed.
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Dec 22nd, 2016Someone from Tarrytown, NY writes:
This has to change. The children are the ones who suffer most, without a voice, law guardians are puppets of the system. I have been vindicated and still continue to fight my way out of the unsubstantiated Pit of darkness.REPORT COMMENTS
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